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thepersonalquotes · 1 year
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Big deal. Death always went with the territory. See you in Disneyland.
Richard Ramirez
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Reason to Live #9183
  Dealing with daunting things one step at a time. – Guest Submission
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How to love someone with anxiety
Someone with anxiety is inclined to assume everyone is going to leave. So much so, sometimes they might be the ones to ruin a relationship.
Truth is, they battle something they can’t control and there is a sense of insecurity within themselves when it comes to relationships.
First of all, remember they’re worth fighting for.
It might be hard sometimes; there might be stupid fights of scenarios they’ve created in their own head. But more than anything, they’re worth fighting for, if you can fight with them through this, it’ll come back to you ten folds.
The phrase ‘It’s okay’ can never be used enough.
It’s two words. Two words that stop every thought running through their head. And honestly, you can never say it enough. So just say it, all the time, and seriously MEAN IT.
Sometimes you just have to listen.
They’re going to play out these situations in their mind and jump from point A to point B, sometimes you’re not even going to know how they got there; best thing you can do is let them go off on their tangent even if there’s no solution.
Don’t tell them ‘you’re overreacting’.
To you, it might seem irrational. But to them whatever they open up to you about, it’s something that actually keeps them up at night. So just take it as best you can.
They probably won’t sleep through the night.
Whether it takes them a while to fall asleep or stay asleep, you’ll be woken up by them at 3 am as they lay there wide awake. Just hold them close and the comfort in your presence might be enough to get them back to sleep.
Remember it’s not that they don’t trust you.
They’re scared. You say it’s an ex and in their mind they jump to cheating. You say it’s a friend and in their mind it’s someone trying to break you two up. It’s not you and your relationship that isn’t trusted, it’s every worse case scenario automatically playing out in their head, and they hate themselves for it.
Answering texts timely does help more than you know.
You’ve probably noticed they answer embarrassingly fast and they know not everyone is like them but it helps when people understand it. It helps when you say ‘I can’t talk now this is why I’ll text you later’. Silence kills anyone with anxiety. It creates problems in their mind that aren’t even there. It ends in apologies that aren’t even needed. And it adds a layer of stress to their life they wish they could control.
Don’t be mad if they send a double text.
You might turn your phone on to four texts. If you can, remember it’s not that they’re trying to be annoying. They care. They care too much and they know it makes them look bad.
Accept their apologies even if you don’t understand.
Whether it’s a night out gone wrong, a triple text, saying or doing the wrong thing, they’re so observant. They’ll pick up on slightest shift in you and before you even realize u might be upset and they’ll apologize.
Help when you can but know when you can’t.
They would rather have ten meltdowns, biting off more than they can chew and they will never admit they can’t handle something. They’ll always say yes and never turn anyone away, in those moments where it seems like they are going to fall apart and break just hold them. Help them if you can but know they’re inclined to not ask for help. They’re used to dealing with things on their own.
Once trust is gained they’ll love you unbelievably hard.
If there is something someone with anxiety is really good at it’s love. If there’s something they’re strong in, it’s their ability to show you how much they adore and appreciate you. It might take them a while to trust you but once they do their capacity to love you will fill you in ways you didn’t know you were empty or even missing something.
Maybe this makes sense for anyone who is dating or wants to start dating someone with anxiety. And always remember: Love breaks all barriers.
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jasab · 6 months
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weeblmaodotcom · 9 months
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[Digimon Tamers/Digimon Frontier] You're not dealing with average knight anymore, Lucemon. I am the Royal Knight, Dukemon! , Meme by Weeblmao.com
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il0vey0urm0th3r · 3 months
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yeah i understand you lavigne, nobody’s ever home
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whimstria · 5 months
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emery is growing up!!
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quotationsworld · 2 years
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I am tired of being a person. Not just tired of being the person I was, but any person at all. I like watching people, but I don’t like talking to them, dealing with them, pleasing them, or offending them. I am tired.
— Susan Sontag, I, etcetera
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9ofspades · 10 months
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I’m so confused…
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castawaycurls · 2 years
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If I lay here, if I just lay here… would you lie with me & just forget the world? - chasing cars // snow patrol
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bishopforeman · 1 year
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d-i-x-i-t · 1 year
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Got the cards in my hand, I hate dealing.
Mac Miller
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hadassahspath · 2 years
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Something new I'm trying...
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I can always sense someone's hurt and pain. Sometimes words are limited based on the social environment and privacy is necessary. I want to make myself available for anyone, at anytime, and no matter what time it is because I realize that life's circumstances can be a serious inconvenience to being able to ask for the help that we really want...or sometimes we just need a listening ear.
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i’ve been drinking
and i guess i should stop
but it’s the closest rush
i can get to
how you feel
and it’s not a problem
but i don’t know how
to deal with
missing you
i can do better
i guess it’s just not
right now
— “dealing” a poem about the long process of healing
orangerosesinhospital
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mandycantdecide · 2 months
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characters have to be a little bit awful in ways that you cant defend. its good for the ecosystem. your honor he did do that. He did in fact do that
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