#Gl anon!!!!

[joestarkisser]

hi, sorry if this is weird or if im bothering you, i was just wondering if you have any advice. ive been having trouble connecting to real people for a long time and i feel like its partially due to mentally comparing with my f/o and concluding that no irl people could ever make me feel the way my f/o’s do so its just not worth it. but i also feel really lonely sometimes and im not sure what to do. i kind of wish i was interested in real people and felt like interacting with them was meaningful but a lot of the time it just feels like a chore and i dont like that. i also sometimes get really sad thinking about my f/o because of the fact they arent actually real and i can never actually be with them and would have to either settle for a real person or just be alone. do you ever deal with anything like that? sorry again im not involved with this community i just lurk and idk who to talk to about this you can just ignore this if you want

Hey anon! Sorry for answering this late!

Personally no, I don't deal with this myself. I'm pretty strictly ficto beyond friends and therefore don't worry about things like this often at all. But I can at least try and help a bit!

I think maybe it has to do with idealization. The hardest part is realizing no one is gonna be as perfect as your F/O is IRL, and having such standards can be tough to manage with reality. If you're looking to meet people with romantic intent, try to accept that no one will be 100% like your F/O, and instead approach IRL dating with a more open notebook so to speak. Think of it similar to when you were first getting into the media your F/O belongs to, while you were still learning about your F/O and falling in love with them. In a similar sense, you can learn about a new person and fall in love with them as well!

If you're not actively searching for a relationship, or just looking to make more friends, try not stressing it! I find personally that the best connections with people come from naturally building up to friendship with them via interactions in art sharing servers, on video games, etc! Just try doing something like playing a multiplayer game and the like, without intent to make friends, just to enjoy yourself.. and you may find yourself with connections faster than you think!

Also, it may also be neurodivergency or trauma or both at play here. If possible, try and discuss these feelings with a professional, and see if the cause of this is more clear and manageable for you!

Sorry if this didn't help much, anon. I'm not the best to go to for this, but I hope it helped a little! Good luck!

#a small inquiry #Anon #Gl anon!!!!

[kisses4choso]

hii!! I had a question: how did you start with your writing blog? and how did you eventually blow up and gain a follower base? ♡

hiiiii! hope you're doing well!!! i'm really happy to answer that for you, but it may be a long answer... so i'm sorry if i go over board!

i started off around quarantine, but my notes never really went above the 500 mark. i had maybe 100 followers then? all that stuff has been deleted bc i looked back and cringed 😭

anyway! i began to write things for characters i had a better understanding of or with prompts i was more comfortable with

(ex: writing exclusively for JJK or not writing nsfw)

TIP: it's a lot more comfortable for me to write on random blurbs of energy, and it may be that way for you too!

i still have no idea how my op post blew up??? i thought it was kinda ass when i posted it but so many people loved it so i'm really happy ><

there's not really a step by step plan that i can provide you, but it really comes down to quality over quantity i think! i used to spam post basically, but now that i sit down and put even a little more thought into what i post, it seems to get more positive feedback :)

all that to say, if you're thinking of starting your own blog, don't be afraid! post, delete, archive, and reblog to your heart's desire.

this is all really for fun, and i think you'll enjoy it more when you realize it's just a silly hobby instead of focusing on follower count, notes, second guessing your posts, etc.

ngl this was definitely a hard question bc i don't really consider my blog to be big or well-known (since i delete everything sorry)

and i sadly don't get many 1 on 1 interactions w followers :(

i got scared bc i replied to a really cute one piece post and the author replied sum like "OMG ITS YOU??? I LOVE UR WORK" and i was like howdotheyknowme????????? but it felt so nice ngl

n e way... thank u sm for your question, always feel free to dm me or leave another one if you have anything else on your mind. i hope u have lots of fun and good luck 🤞

#gl anon!!!! #anon ask #such a nice ask thank u #ummm more to come in the future? maybe #lucky anon

[paradiseyuri]

Created by : ☆奏☆ Respective credits to the creator ⓟⒶⓇⒶⒹⒾⓈⒺ♡ⓎⓊⓇⒾ

#Yuri #BanG Dream! It's MyGO!!!!! #Bang Dream! #Anon Chihaya #Soyo Nagasaki #Anon x Soyo #Girls Love #GL #so cute! #Art by #奏 #@Kanade_3344 #please support the artist in twitter!

[rosycheekies]

I Love Amy by 언니

#(back in my i love amy era. this was abt the time it got reccommended to me. kissing that anon in the lips fr ) #i love amy #unun #unun_666 #나는 에이미를 사랑해 #언니 #pink manga #manga #pink #pinkcore #yuri manga #yuri #manga cap #gl manga #gl

[imaimaxine]

They're all very cute~!!

#anime #yuri #yuri anime #band anime #bang dream girls band party #bandori #bang dream #mygo #chihaya anon #anon chihaya #taki shiina #shiina taki #nagasaki soyo #soyo nagasaki #takamatsu tomori #tomori takamatsu #bandori mygo #music anime #band girls #gl anime #bang dream mygo #spoilers

[the-npd-culture-is]

Questioning NPD culture is am i really a narcissist or just finding cheap execuses to my bad habits? Am i too nice to be a narcissist? Does my superiority comes from narcissism or i am just a really egocentrical person? Did i ever had a narc crash or narc high? Did my possible narcissism even affect my life or am attention seeking? Questions i'll never have the answer

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#fun fact anon. i just learned the terms narc high narc crash and narc supply like a week ago lmao #but on hindsight they do make sense with my experiences #just use the label as long as it fits pal #and if it ends up not fitting anymore you can drop it #no big deal #i did so with a few labels until was fully sure which fit me #gl anon #npd #npd culture #npd culture is #questioning npd culture is #narcissistic personality disorder #actually narcissistic #narcissism #narcissist #narcissistic #npd safe #actually npd #cluster b #cluster b safe #actually cluster b #cluster b personality disorder #anon #ask #asks

[jinxed-galaxies]

Posting as a non-reblog because I think maybe it made it so the post doesn't show up in the tag 😭

J!Hetch kinda black box warrior coded so I made this

Lyrics are pulled directly from the song

#how to fail at ship jumping au #ship jumping posting #the anon with five names #genloss #genloss au #generationloss #generation loss #gl hetch

[princessranboo]

*Holds the tiny hero like hamburger*

theyre not sure how to feel about that

#6art #genloss ranboo #ranboo #ranboo fanart #generation loss #genloss #gl ranboo #tiny hero #this ask made me giggle ty anon

[glsneeg-enthusiast]

do you still have that guide (?) you made on how to draw sneeg ?

this ??

#this was mostly for gl who wears a hat constantly so idk how well the hair parts may help with q #assuming this is. charliie. whos drawing q and is stuck in anon hell.

[daily-rgbtrio]

For day 100 maybe something with slimecicle’s 100 days video? Or revisit something from genloss? Idk, I think something you find fun or self indulgent is fine!

day 135

been a minute since gen lossed on this account

#rgbtrio #genloss spoilers #gl!ranboo #gl!charlie #gl!sneegsnag #generation loss #genloss #anon i would like to apologize for bein so ridiculously late

[t4tails]

RWBY Crossed over with DC???????????????????????????

yeah. everyone got anime-fied and if what ive been told is correct it spends a lot of its time establishing rwby characters as more powerful lmfao

#og post #ask #anon #i have yet to watch it myself #i have Thoughts on the designs though. bruce is waaaay too young and clark looks too much like connor #i cant tell what gl thats supposed to be. if its hal thats really really funny why did they make him so little #edit: ITS JESSICA. ID HAVE NEVER GUESSED

[deadeery]

Hopefully you don’t mind me asking! But I absolutely love how you do anatomy AAHWG!! DO YOU HAVE ANY TIPS ON DOING IT? :’)

oh boy i dont know how helpful i can be bc i genuinely didnt have a guide on how i do anatomy i just. observed lots and improved slowly BUT heres a free anatomy reference site i think is neat!

tons of photo refs and you can sort by age, gender, weight, race etc. plus additional refs for hands and objects/environments

hopefully this is helpful! otherwise my very minimal tips i can give is to practice shapes and proportions in your anatomy. gotta learn the rules before u can break them, if ur leaning for stylized

it can get boring doing studies constantly tho so i like to just draw my favs and oc as the references, makes it more fun ehe

screenshot redraws can help too!

#answered #gl and have fun anon most important rule #hope this suffices as an answer

[twstwonderlandstuff]

Can I please get period headcannons for Mallues? I’m on mine and it’s terrible :(

update: an anon reminded me that not only females can get periods, so! it's gender neutral reader tw: periods, blood I'm not sure if you're asking for platonic/romantic headcannons, so I'll make it platonic, nonnie! requests are closed!

🍉malleus draconia 🍉

first and foremost, he will ask. he'll ask what you need, and deliver to the best of his abilities. this includes...

he'll ask for someone to give you a massage, as he worries he might be too harsh on you and make it worse, and he'll make damn sure that it's a good massage.

he's attentive. he'll ask about your day, what happened, so on and so forth. he, out of everyone, knows how it feels to be left out, so the TLC he gives you is a guaranteed 10/10.

space. he'll give you space if need be. perhaps entirely out of ramshackle, perhaps he'll be outside ramshackle, looking at gargoyles.

he'll ask for a heating pad, and make sure that the temperature's right.

overall, he's a good friend that will take care of you through the tough days.

#twisted wonderland #twst #twst wonderland #malleus draconia #malleus draconia x reader #twisted wonderland x reader #twst x reader #malleus x reader #gl to all those who has periods that hurt #i'm lucky that mines don;t #but i hope ur periods don't hurt as much anon! #sugar rush #gender neutral reader #gn! reader #gn reader

[paradiseyuri]

Created by : ☆ひらこ大将軍☆ Respective credits to the creator ⓟⒶⓇⒶⒹⒾⓈⒺ♡ⓎⓊⓇⒾ

#Yuri #BanG Dream! It's MyGO!!!!! #BanG Dream! #Soyo Nagasaki #Anon Chihaya #Girls Love #GL #so cute! #百合 #Art by #ひらこ大将軍 #@hirako_shougun #please support the artist in twitter!

[ruthlesslistener]

Pick up tiny pk by the scruff and gently deposit him in a garbage disposal then flip the switch.

thats a great way to break your garbage disposal

#wyrms have armoured plates that can withstand great crushing power and piercing so gl with that #and if my garbage disposal whines at a plastic disposable cup accidentally falling in then it sure as fuck aint shredding him #hollow knight #pale king #anon #reply

[the-npd-culture-is]

NPD culture is "Ah cool strangers are talking to me randomly because they can recognize my greatness and want to indulge in my amazing energy" while also being like "Please stop fucking talking to me can't you see I'm busy and really don't want to fucking be here?"

But you have to be polite.. so you're trying to slowly push your shopping cart away while talking.

-Mayhem

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#hehehe felt. #wait this was in a grocery store?even worse. GL </3 #anon #ask #asks #mayhem #npd culture is #npd #npd safe #actually narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #actually npd #narcissism #narcissistic #narcissist #actually cluster b #cluster b safe #cluster b #cluster b personality disorder