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I need the alloromantic queers to learn that amatonormativity will not help them.
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the-delta-quadrant · 1 month
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erasure is violence.
bi erasure is violence.
nonbinary erasure is violence.
aro erasure is violence.
trans male erasure is violence.
intersex erasure is violence.
lesbian erasure is violence.
ace erasure is violence.
erasure doesn't mean we're spared from violence. it means that violence is happening to us in the dark, with no one looking, no one listening, often not even the people you'd think would care.
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rjalker · 8 days
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absolutely absurd that people in 2024 are demanding that posts about being aroace not be tagged with aromatic or asexual. And we're supposed to pretend that this is a progressive stance to have.
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degengxrl · 3 months
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if your stance is "x oppression isnt real but im working hard to make it real"
youre in the wrong
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inhumanliquid · 8 days
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"Asexuals are cool" okay puritan
Piss on the poor
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atertiary-culture-is · 7 months
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Atertiary culture is being tired of people acting like tertiary/nonrose relationships such as friendship and family are mandatory, even if they acknowledge that romance and sex are not mandatory.
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saffigon · 1 year
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someone in my acquaintance group has admitted to not respecting my (and the other aro folks) identities as valid. and on top of that, viewed me and my aro partner's relationship as invalid if it was romantic but valid when it's unlabeled. I'm so ready to go feral.
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lepiosprites · 1 year
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Hiveswap indigo blood icons! Free to use if not on my DNI!
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freischutz999 · 11 months
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Amisia erdehn owned by hussie
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Yes, yes, you love Murderbot. You think Murderbot is so funny and relatable. You'd die for Murderbot. We know.
But do you actually use Murderbot's it/its pronouns? Do you actually respect the fact that it's an everything-repulsed aroace and is solitaremit touch-averse, and the fact that it represents real people who are these things?
Or do you just "love" the "relatable" version of Murderbot that exists in your head, where you've cut out and replaced everything that makes it who it is as a character with things you can personally relate to, even though the whole theme of the series is that you need to respect people even when you can't relate to them?
Do you think "representation matters" only when you're the one being represented?
Do you think it magically becomes okay to erase canon Queer identities and disabilities as long as you're not the one being represented?
Do you actually love the character of Murderbot, who is explicitly everything-repulsed aroace, nonbinary and uses it/its pronouns exclusively, and is soltaremit touch-averse?
Or do you just love the OC you've slapped its name onto that exists in your head?
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Does anyone else remember when it was commonplace for exclusionists to claim that aromantics and asexuals are sexual abusers?
They would claim that (usually cishet men) aromantics would: have casual sex without romantic feelings, meaning that aromatic people would not care about their bedfellows and that aromantic people just use alloromantics (usually women) for sex, thus leaving a long line of victims.
They think casual sex is evil and that if someone is aro, then they must be having casual sex.
For asexuals, their reasoning was that: asexuals would never have sex, asexuals could only date allosexuals, and allosexuals would want sex. Therefore, they reasoned that asexual would abuse their romantic partners by denying them sex.
Exclusions were using rapist logic to claim that asexuals are sexual abusers.
And these people are still here with the same ideas, they have just gotten quieter.
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the-delta-quadrant · 19 days
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"oppression isn't about identity but about perception"
ok person who clearly only spent like 5 minutes learning about oppression. i guess i just made up every time i have been oppressed specifically about my identity. yes, the complete erasure of nonbinarity, asexuality and bisexuality is totally not about identity. sure mate. ace, bi+ and enby erasure are totally not real. neither are ace, bi+ and nonbinary oppression as a whole apparently, since we're so erased that it's impossible to be perceived as any of those things without actually identifying yourself that way.
like, even oppression that isn't solely based on identity like the above isn't only based on perception either. we're getting into cis passing privilege territory with that logic, and, nope.
but sure, person who thinks all kinds of oppression are a monolith and work the same way, tell me more about my own oppression.
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rjalker · 10 months
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[ID: White impact font against a black background that reads in all caps, "If minorities criticizing fandom bigotry ruins your fun more than the bigotry itself, you're a bigot, and you should feel bad!". End ID.]
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degengxrl · 3 months
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”I'd argue that it's an identity for antisexual. Sure, there must also be some people with low sex drive/no need for intimacy who now feel more empowered to adopt the label.”
“demisexual isnt that just normal”
“asexuals are just incels who cant get a gf”
“Asexuals are, without exception, pxdophiles who are scared to engage with their sexual desires.”
“you're not asexual, you're on antidepressants.”
“being aroace is a mental disability"
allos™️ stop talking abt aspec identities challenge omfg
pt: allos™️ stop talking abt aspec identities challenge omfg end/pt.
stfu
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entropy-sea-system · 1 year
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Aphobia/amisia means bigotry against any part of the aspec, not just against aces. The word for that specifically is acephobia/acemisia.
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kujiua-kun · 7 months
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