#and they are punished

[mortaljortlebortles]

I want peace, for us all to just live!!

I just felt the need to say the LGBTQIA+ community don’t demand attention and create identities to be special or because we are ill. 

I wouldn’t say I understand the concepts of gender nor does my sexual identity find me in a neat box. And I personally speaking for myself don’t think those labels make me special nor do I feel the need for a box. But I am proud to say I am a Biromantic Lesbian who is Agender. Or to use any of my many labels. Not because I think we are better or more cool but because I belong in this world and by using a label, one that people who don’t hate you and thinks of you as a person use rather than those who discriminate against me. We are discriminated against even though we are people for something beyond our control and in our nature and joining forces makes us strong, able to find safety and feel we deserve human rights. 

It connects me to a history of people who fought for rights too and who were also discriminated against.

Trans people do exist, I don’t live a binary trans life but I know that their identity is valid, because even if genders a construct the majority of the world enjoy their labels, hate being told they are the opposite of those binary genders. I know kids who almost lost their lives because they couldn’t be affirmed. Binary trans kids have brains more similar to those of the opposite sex often and they want things and act in a way society doesn’t allow. Some people want the body or gendered words or clothes of the opposite gender and that makes them a woman or a man if that is who they live as(or intend to live as if they could). If cis people are one thing or the other, trans people can be to. Especially if you argue that gender isn’t real there is only sex. Trans people don’t change their sex but their gender- and that is what counts because sex isn’t binary anyway and we work with gender and perceived sex. There are variations in everything. If you feel like a woman and you commit to being a woman and it makes you distressed not to be treated as a woman then you are a woman. 

If you don’t hurt others, which trans people will do at the same rate as cis people because people can be evil, and you respect others feelings about their own gender. Why would it matter!!

Bathrooms can and are invaded by cis men and women who wish the opposite gender harm, it  is awful but true. Prosecute and imprison in the case of assault and abuse. Perform justice correctly and trans people using the bathroom provides no legal issue.

i recommend mini toilets with a washbasin and a door and roof on a corridor that anybody can use -but I am not blaming you for fearing and you may have a better idea. 

I love you and everybody.

I believe in love and kindness.

 I don’t want to be treated badly because I hate my name because it doesn’t suit me and i don’t care about pronouns- that is just who i feel and how I am. I don’t want my friends to be assaulted and beaten up, potentially killed. And I don’t want cis people or straight people to live in fear. We are people and we mean you know harm. We all know fear and suffering but we want to be your friends and support you as much as any of your other friends

I hope you know your suffering is not your fault, all you have to do is breathe in and out and try your best and I think you deserve love and respect. 

#radfems #transgender #transphobia #trans rights #we can all keep our opinions and barbs to ourselves #and live together #but right now we all need labels still #labels #i don't think we are different #we all have the same blood and atoms that millions of us and animals have had #but pls lets all chose kindness #can we not all have our own gender and people we like to hug #or kiss #or have sex with #hate each other for being mean about our outsides #just have different personality that clash #no shame or hate but smiles and tears #asexuals are valid #and they are punished #everybody has a role #and everybody is somebody to someone #agender #lesbian #bisexual #nonbinary #pansexual #polysexual #love is love #respect each others bodies #asexuality

[spamton]

i accidentally napped and had a dream (nightmare?) where a new update for stardew valley released where everything was the same except on a random day in year 3 Evelyn would just straight up die. There was a whole cutscene that started in her house where she collapsed, and then transitioned over to the hospital where Harvey gave George and Alex the worst news of their lives. However, they got to speak to her where she said something along the lines of "Yoba will protect me, and I am sure he will let me watch over you."

Alex and George would not talk to the player for more than a few words for a full season after this event. George would spend most of his time in the bedroom, so if you had less than 2 hearts with him, you could barely ever speak to him.

And Alex... oh my god, poor Alex. If you were married to him during this event, he just stayed in bed all day. Otherwise, if single, he would just stand on the beach most of the time, staring off into the ocean. If you tried to interact with him, it would just say "Alex is grieving... Better leave him be."

There was also other NPC dialogue like mayor Lewis saying "I haven't seen the community in this state of mourning since your grandfather passed..."

there was also a glitch where you could make Evelyn live forever and there were entire guides for the "immortal Evelyn glitch" that got patched out in the next update. If you tried to perform the glitch after the patch, mr. Qi would tell you that "hey, it happens to all of us. We can't prevent it, and neither can you, no matter how hard you try."

#stardew valley #sdv #death tw #grandparent death tw #family death tw #I DIDNT MEAN TO DOZE OFF AND YOBA PUNISHED ME IN THE WORST WAY POSSIBLE

[ashstfu]

someone said we had more fun in childhood because we didnt have any past memories to linger on and it has stuck with me ever since

#memory is punishment. #03 #🪀

[sunshowermess]

LOOK AT THIS! His mouth is stitched shut with magic! I am like 90% sure he literally Cannot talk about his deal or disappearance even if he wanted to!

#alastor #hazbin hotel #hazbin alastor #hazbin hotel spoilers #hazbin ep 7 #spoilers #it's possible can't stop smiling too! #like it's a mocking sort of punishment

[homoqueerjewhobbit]

Wow, this "gender free" fashion brand sure doesn't have any AMAB models.

#If you can't put someone with a beard in one of your skirts you have failed as a queer brand #My punishment for dkbefafely clicking on an ad #OK I did find exactly one in the infographic about their big and tall coveralls #But they weren't in the actual product listings for the products. #Fashion #Queer fashion #Nonbinary #Women and femmes #Genderqueer #And I do mean AMAB. I didn't see any trans women either #post o' mine

[dostoevskyordoesntshe]

#dostoevsky #crime and punishment #raskolnikov

[challengingdesires]

#big bootie #spank me daddy #punish me

[sepublic]

#My rebellious actions free me far more than any punishment of yours can restrict #snake #snakes #meme #memes

[amaditalks]

One of the most important things to unpack and unlearn when you’re part of a white supremacy saturated society (i.e. the global north) and especially if you were raised in an intensified form of it (evangelicism, right wing politics, explicit racism) is the urge to punish and take revenge.

It manifests in our lives all the time and it is inherently destructive. It makes relationships and interactions adversarial for no good reason. It undermines cooperation and good civic order. It worsens some types of crime. It creates trauma, especially in children.

Imagine approaching unexpected or unacceptable behavior from a perspective of "how can this be stopped, and prevented" instead of "you’re going to regret this!”

Imagine dealing with a problem or conflict from the perspective of “how can this be solved in a way that is just and restorative” instead of “the people who caused this are going to pay.”

How much would that change you? How much would that have changed for you?

#the urge to punish #the urge for revenge

[damazcuz]

"I could fix him" well DON'T, I'm trying to breed a new generation of trembling pursedog freakboys and I need his cringefail loser genes.

#im turning reblogs off for the first and only time ever cuz people are posting hasbin hotel guys on it. 🧍‍♂️ have some decorum. #now EVERYONE is being punished by this post being unrebloggable.... #sad! #well actions have consequences! 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥

[lookatlavender]

did you know that if i’m being a brat you can just hold my hips down and finger me super aggressively and itll fix my attitude just like that!

#can’t brat if i can’t talk! #trans nsft #queer nsft #ftm nsft #t4t nsft #nb nsft #femboy nsft #mlm nsft #mlnb nsft #nblnb nsft #wlw nsft #wlnb nsft #bd/sm brat #bd/sm punishment #bd/sm dynamic

[cardinalvalentino]

ok im really curious do you guys have books you consider your "white whale"? as in books you keep telling yourself oh yeah i really want to read that, but you keep not reading it?

#mine are definitely the magic mountain; crime and punishment; moby dick and ulysses #rb with yours if you want :) #and yes the use of ''white whale'' was intentional considering i keep not fucking reading moby dick #10.txt

[blueboyluca]

“When I first heard it, from a dog trainer who knew her behavioral science, it was a stunning moment. I remember where I was standing, what block of Brooklyn’s streets. It was like holding a piece of polished obsidian in the hand, feeling its weight and irreducibility. And its fathomless blackness. Punishment is reinforcing to the punisher. Of course. It fit the science, and it also fit the hidden memories stored in a deeply buried, rusty lockbox inside me. The people who walked down the street arbitrarily compressing their dogs’ tracheas, to which the poor beasts could only submit in uncomprehending misery; the parents who slapped their crying toddlers for the crime of being tired or hungry: These were not aberrantly malevolent villains. They were not doing what they did because they thought it was right, or even because it worked very well. They were simply caught in the same feedback loop in which all behavior is made. Their spasms of delivering small torments relieved their frustration and gave the impression of momentum toward a solution. Most potently, it immediately stopped the behavior. No matter that the effect probably won’t last: the reinforcer—the silence or the cessation of the annoyance—was exquisitely timed. Now. Boy does that feel good.”

— Melissa Holbrook Pierson, The Secret History of Kindness (2015)

#dog books #this chapter was very sad reading #when you become aware of punishment #and its use and its prevalence #it's hard not to despair #again this is why positive reinforcement feels like absolution #maybe now my eyes are open I can make up for what I did #what I did because it's what everyone does #because it's more acceptable to punish than to do anything else #I've been having so many thoughts about punishment and society and justice #this book was very validating #another great validating moment in my jumbled thoughts #was listening to the You're Wrong About episode on justice #with Amanda Knox #it helped to ease the despair a little

[odinsblog]

The Israeli army is just shooting anyone they think is Palestinian, much the same way that Israel is indiscriminately bombing all of Gaza, including the “safe zones” where they have directed noncombatant civilians to go right before they bomb them anyway. It’s war crimes, plain and simple.

#politics #palestine #gaza #israel #war crimes #genocide #ilhan omar #collective punishment #ceasefire #ceasefire now #settler violence #settler colonialism #never again #never again to anyone #bds #boycott divest sanction #israel is an apartheid state #hamas ≠ palestine #benjamin netanyahu is a war criminal

[babygirlbondage]

answers to "its too much"

i know (apologetically)

i know (condescendingly)

its supposed to

you can take more

this is how you learn

good sluts take it

stop complaining

i don't care

i didn't ask

your pleasure is irrelevant

you shouldn't have done *insert mistake*

focus on pleasing me instead

you're not supposed to like it

don't talk back

you look so cute like this

you're mine and i decide what you do

its your punishment for *insert mistake*

shut up

good

you're supposed to be focused on my pleasure

get used to it

you can take it cant you?

you asked for it

beg for it to stop then

you look prettier overstimulated

you'll stop when i tell you to

*gagging them so they're quiet*

your only purpose is to be a fuck toy for me so don't complain

you know you like it

aww but you look so cute like this

stop lying

it cant be that bad if you're still talking

did i ask?

#cnc overstim #overstim kink #overstim nsft #bd/sm punishment #nsft punishment #bd/sm dom #bd/sm community #bd/sm sadist #sadomasochists #bd/sm masochist #bd/sm dynamic #degrading k1nk #degrade kink #degrade and humiliate me #cnc free use #rough cnc #soft cnc #cnc toy #cnc k!nk #overstim #t4t dom #dom/sub #domposting #r@p3b4it #r@pe k!nk #r@pe fantasy #r@petoy #domme mommy #domme/sub #babygirlbondage

[spiderversegf]

one important thing that Must be understood about interpersonal relationships is that you have to stop interacting with people who love you like they’re one slip-up away from leaving you. you have to trust that the ppl you love mean what they say. you have to believe that when they say “this hurt my feelings,” that they’re also saying, “can you please love me this other way next time?” and you have to wrap your head around the fact that even if you don’t understand Why someone loves you, you can accept that that they do. true, honest, & open love does not function like hp in a video game !!!!!!

#🍜 #wish i could remember this more. trying to rmr that when ppl are honest w ways they are hurt it’s bc they love me enough to be honest ab it #i am not perfect. but i can do my best to love people well and to apologize when i mess up #i do not have to punish myself! i can apologize and do better in the future #the love i feel increases when people tell me how to love them. the love i feel increases when people tell me how to love them. the love i- #sueñito tag #🦠