#aromantics are valid and welcome here

[beautifuldead]

i was in early high school when I first denoted myself as asexual. while I had not experienced sex, I knew I was fairly eh about it; I didn't experience that form of desire towards people. Even if it was an experience I wanted to have, it was never anything about any particular person, but rather just wanting to experience something in general.

The landscape of tumblr at this time was rather ace positive. Asexuality was a well-known label, and a celebrated aspect of queerness. There were light-hearted jokes about the LGBTQ+ community about swingsets (straight people swing one way, gays swing another, bi swing both direction, pan swing violently everywhere, and ace people don't swing at all) that always made me smile.

And then everything collapsed, and the idea that "ace people aren't queer because they don't experience the same oppression" became uncomfortably loud. Everyone had a take, and a lot of people started to en masse make fun of and exclude ace people.

The basis, whether openly or not, was the idea of being "straight passing", that we could be perceived by heteronormative society as compliant and participant, when in fact we are not.

I cannot stress enough that I was there, and I remember it all. I had to delete my previous tumblr account entirely because I made a post supporting asexuality and celebrating it, and I got a wave of hate—to the point that when I changed my URL, someone made a new blog with my previous one to make fun of me.

I remember losing friends because of this phenomenon. I had people I trusted, appreciated, relied on, and that trust was broken because they believed I was undeserving of community with other queer people because, from their perspective, I wasn't oppressed the same way.

It doesn't matter that we were mistreated in ways that were largely similar to other homosexual people, through peer pressure and people trying to "make us straight" or seeing our asexuality as a challenge the same way they might see a lesbian as fixable. It doesn't matter that many asexuals had their committed romantic relationships fall apart because they couldn't please their partners. It doesn't matter that many people still joke about asexuals being plants as a means to demean us.

Because even if none of that actual mistreatment and disrespect happened, asexuals were oppressed by our own fucking community. We were mistreated, disrespected, attacked, and silenced by our queer peers simply because we didn't fuck.

Exclusionists believed we weren't queer enough because we weren't oppressed for being asexuality, so they oppressed us themselves and forced so many of us back into the closet.

It's an impressive level of hypocrisy, that we are mistreated by those who should stand in solidarity with us because they don't get it. Because they think it's weird, or it's a phase, or it's not having found the right person, exactly how they claim to have been mistreated. These people used us as a punching bag to reflect their own grief and trauma upon, to feel big and strong where the rest of the world made them feel small.

And instead, we could have stood together.

Our community online cannibalized itself from the inside out for some twisted game of pain olympics, providing value to only those they deemed worthy, reflecting the way our community as a whole had been treated for decades.

I want to make clear that this happened because of people that decided they needed to be valued on the terms of heteronormative society. This happened because of a need for external validation and acceptance from the people that hate us. I said it years ago, and I'll say it again:

The people who hate us don't care if we're gay, bi, pan, ace, or something else. They care that we're different from them, and they will hate us indiscriminately.

It's this ideology that fed into biphobia, panphobia, truscum/transmedicalism, and eventually terfism. It's this ideology that we have to conform in our nonconformity that has caused this rift.

This community has spent the better part of a decade cannibalizing itself, severing itself, dividing itself, and making it all the more simple for our oppressors to devour us.

Because we're not queer unless we experience same sex attraction. Because we're not queer if we experience opposite sex attraction. Because we're not trans unless we conform to heteronormative gender stereotypes. Because we're not trans at all.

And the last step is that we're not queer at all. Because we were divided and conquered by ourselves.

I will not mince words: this will not happen again. I will not be traumatized back into the closet again. I will not watch as a community built from the ground up for the express purpose of solidarity and supporting the divergent is torn apart by the very people that it exists to support.

Within the last couple years, I determined I am aromantic as well. But because of this experience, despite my perceived solidity in ace/aro validity, I wasn't sure if I should come out, or if I was correct. I hesitated, closeted by those masquerading as a part of my community, made to question in the back of my mind that my feelings were incorrect, a phase, a problem.

Even if I were to be aromantic and not asexual, or asexual and not aromantic, I am still queer.

And now history repeats itself, and a new wave of self-proclaimed judges of queer validity try to take this away from us, and a new wave of asexuals and aromantics are at risk of feeling this same struggle.

It is with no respect, and seething rage, that I say this: anyone who repeats the past is not welcome here. Anyone who seeks to divide our community again is not welcome here.

If you come here to this website to spew hatred and vile at the members of your own community, you are not welcome on this website. You will not repeat the past without consequence again.

If you believe in any such way that queerness requires some amount of conformity beyond not being cishet, you are not welcome here.

In short, and with absolute hatred:

Aphobes, get the fuck off my website. We will not do this again.

#asexuals are valid and welcome here #aromantics are valid and welcome here #asexuality #aromantic #the keeper speaks #rant

[aromantic-diaries]

Sorry not sorry but if you don't support aroallos you don't really support aros whatsoever

#aromantic #aro #only accepting aromanticism as a valid identity when it's paired with asexuality is not acceptance #aroallos are welcome here you guys are rad 🤙

[agere-tomhiddleston-imagines]

Man I've been seeing a lotta discourse lately and I've gotta say if you're asexual, aromantic, allosexual, aroace, aspec or anything that falls under the asexual and/or aromantic umbrella you're so valid and welcome here <33

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #arospec #allosexual #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtqia+ #lgbtq community #lgbtqia community

[our-arospec-experience]

Welcome to our-arospec-experience!

this is a share your experience blog for arospec people. Well meaning allos are welcome to ask questions.

All arospec people are welcome!

some brief definitions (these are not all the aspec identities):

aromantic: experiencing little or no romantic attraction to anyone; not having romantic feelings.

Abroromantic / aro flux: someone who fluctuates between experiencing romantic attraction and not experiencing it, and/or experiencing romantic attraction to different strengths.

Akoiromantic/lithromantic: a person who experiences romantic attraction but has no desire or need to have their feelings reciprocated. Sometimes an akoiromantic person’s attraction may fade if a romantic relationship is established.

Alloromantic/zedromantic: someone who does experience romantic attraction. An alloromantic person may be allosexual as well, but not necessarily.

Cupioromantic: someone who does not experience romantic attraction but has a desire to be in a romantic relationship.

Demi(a)romantic: someone who only experiences romantic attraction after establishing a strong emotional connection to someone.

Frayromantic: someone who experiences romantic attraction, but this attraction fades after getting to know the object of attraction.

Grey-(a)romantic: someone who sometimes, occasionally, or rarely experiences romantic attraction. The attraction they experience may be weak, or it might be infrequent. Also used as an umbrella term for all romantic orientations that fall between alloromantic and aromantic.

Quoiromantic/WTF-romantic: someone who finds romantic attraction confusing, or cannot differentiate between platonic and romantic attraction, or is unsure of whether they experience romantic attraction.

These are not all of the arospec identities. No matter what you are, you are valid, and welcome here.

(https://www.oulgbtq.org/acearo-spectrum-definitions.html)

Tags to look out for:

our arospec experience, arospec experience, arospec ask

aphobia may be discussed, but will be tagged. please let me know if anything else needs to be tagged.

for any questions relating to allos, I recommend @askanallo.

mod uses she/her.

please keep asks relatively sfw, swearing always allowed.

I am not a professional.

Hate will not be tolerated.

:D share your experience!

@our-queer-experience, @our-aroace-experience, @our-queerplatonic-experience, @aromantic-diaries @aroace-confessions @aroaceconfessions

#aromantic #aro #arospec #our arospec experience

[theinfernalsanctuary]

You do not need to be sexually active to be a theistic Satanist.

You are no less a theistic Satanist if you are Asexual.

You can still wait for marriage if that feels right for you.

One of the biggest tenets we have is autonomy, and that includes bodily autonomy. You do not have to do anything that you do not want to do, and that includes anything of a sexual nature. By forcing the idea that Lord Satan is fixated on the idea of people having sex you are alienating an entire group of people who are entirely welcome here just as much as anyone else. Not to mention the fact that there are two kings of Hell appointed by Lord Satan that specialize in love and sex that no one who sexualizes our religion seems to talk about. Go figure that they haven't done their research.

To my Asexual, Aromantic, Demisexual, all other members of the LGBTQIA+ community, and my straight friends who just don't want to have sex for whatever reason or just haven't gotten laid in a while (or at all, nothing wrong with staying a virgin for as long as you want, do what makes you comfy). You are valid. You are still a Satanist. Satan is not mad at you for not being sexually active or for being monogamous for that matter. Stay happy, stay healthy, and most importantly, stay safe.

May Lord Satan's light guide you even in the darkest of times.

Ave Satanas!

#hail satan #satanism #theistic satanism #satan #satanic #theistic luciferianism #the infernal gospel #ave satanas #the infernal circle #the satanic philosopher

[aspecduality]

This very first Aromantic Visibility day as well as this and every future pride month: alloromantic people (non aromantic/arospec people) please please please don't just say "aros you all are valid and welcomed here!"

That is only the first of many steps but too often that's all I see done for aros. (For aces it's slowly changing to be a bit more) but a lot of people still think the A in LGBTQIA+ only stands for asexual (or worse, they think it stands for Ally, when it actually stands for Asexual, Aromantic, and Agender).

Saying we're valid isn't enough. You need to listen to us, both about the struggles and joys that we face and not assert that you know our experiences, lives, and feelings better than us.

Our experiences are not the same of course. They will be very different, varried, and you may not "get" them all. But the same can be said for our other human kin. You need not be able to personally relate to us to listen well and support us in both joy and sorrow.

To be happy for us and celebrate when something happens in our lives that is positive. To not treat getting a pet as us being sad and lonely and trying to make up for a lack of a romantic partner, to see us getting a place for ourselves to willingly and happily live alone and celebrate us being able to decorate it just how we'd like and get alone time when we want it. To not see someone single and try and push us into dating or someone else to date us when we don't want to because you, personally would be sad without experiencing romance.

Listen and help us fight the causes of our suffering and discrimination. When we say something systematic is harming us don't just say how the solution to affordable housing and better tax benefits would be to just get a significant other/get married, help us change how we as a society operate. Listen to us feeling invisible, unrepresented, and alone due to how society shoves down our throats that not feeling love makes you an evil monster and how you must find someone you love in order to be happy and feel whole. Help us get more information, knowledge, and understanding about aromanticism out into the world to help current aros not feel so unsupported and estranged or even unsafe around the LGBTQIA+ community as well as aid questioning folk who may be aro realize sooner that unlike how everything in society tells us, there is nothing wrong or broken about them and there is a whole life full of wonderful things and cool experiences waiting for them.

[Please DO NOT tag this post or refer to it as Asexual or derail the post to be about asexuality (or anything else). Aros and aces have a lot of experiences in common but this post is being made on Aromantic Visibility day and is meant to be about Aromantics specifically.

Of course, intersectionality is ok, such as being AroAce and how these subjects tie into each other and people's experiences with Atomanticism tied into other aspects of their lives]

#aromantic visibility day #aromantic #actually aromantic #lgbtqia+ #queer #my posts

[aspecpplarebeautiful]

Hi there! How are you doing? I have some questions, well, a rant *plus* some questions.

I feel... safer with allo allies than I do with aro/ace communities (online). Does that make me aphobic/bad? I don't go by labels because for me, they're not necessary. If I *were* to label myself based purely on definitions, I would be aroace, specifically, demiromantic asexual. I used to go by this a while back.

I don't fit the stereotype of being aroace at all. I'll talk about the aromantic side. Unlike most arospecs i've seen online, I LOVE Valentine's day! I LOVE shipping! I LOVE consuming romance fiction. I LOVE romance et cetera et cetera and yet I don't experience it like allos do. I need a strong bond with someone in order to fall in love and it takes me really, really, long to do so. But once it happens, my love is not 'weak'. It makes me pass really well as allo because of this, but it makes a lot of people in the aro community mad because I'm 'stealing' a label to 'feel special'. I was always told I was not aroace, that I couldn't be aroace by definition. That I was alloromantic asexual pretending to be on the arospec. That I was too scared to be 'basic'.

On that topic, and I think this is unintentional, but... why is nobody batting an eye when an aro or an ace person shames an allo or calls them weird or basic? Because they're doing exactly what allo aphobes are doing to them. I had this conversation with a friend and he said, 'that doesn't happen, allo people don't get shamed especially by aspec people', yet, I keep seeing things like 'I fucking hate allos so much' and 'To all my aces, we're not like allos, we're better' or something along those lines.

Whenever I enter an aspec online space, I'm made to feel like an intruder because, as I said, my experiences are very similar to the allo experience EXCEPT for the fact that I don't feel romantic attraction unless a strong bond has been formed. I'm not saying the aroace community is bad in any way, don't get my wrong, I'm saying that there is a massive gatekeeping problem going around and so much bubbling hatred and separation, and I don't understand any of it. In a prefect world, I'd happily identify as aroace, but I feel ashamed to do so now.

The gatekeeping... the infighting, I don't want to hate the online community of which I'm supposed to belong but this... this isn't right. The allo allies don't do things like this. They don't make me feel insecure about myself. And yes, while I don't experience romance like an allo would, I feel safe around them. I need to ask, have you seen this too? Have you experienced this? Is this truly all in my head? What do you think?

I apologize for the vent or if I seem aphobic, I just really need answers and I'm tired of the constant hatred... How are you? Did you drink enough water? Did you sleep well today? Did you eat? Again, I'm so sorry if I made you uncomfortable with this!

Vents are totally welcome, Anon. Don't worry.

I'm really sorry you ran into gatekeeping, Anon. I feel like that's something that's really been on the rise especially over the last couple of years. It's a real issue and it causes a lot of harm. This should go without saying, but demiromantic people are aro, and have just as much right to be here as anyone else on the aro spectrum.

I do think at least part of the problem is social media in general and how things are set up these days. We don't have community spaces as much anymore, in particular we've lost moderated spaces where gatekeepers can be properly dealt with. And there's very little curation or organization. Things are chaotic and fragmented, and one person's experience and what kind of posts they say see may vary wildly from someone else's. There's also a competing needs issue, where one aro may need to vent about romance, another may need their romantic side validated and there's no way to organize so each can find the space they each need.

If finding aro spaces/blogs that are more accepting is important to you, Anon (and it's OK both if it is or isn't), my big advice would be seek out demiromantic blogs and posters specifically. There's some very good ones around and they'll be posting about aro things that are relevant to you, and even more importantly won't be gatekeeping demi identities.

For more aro-general blogs, there are ones out there that are also inclusive and anti-gatekeeping, but it may take a bit of work to find them. Be very liberal with your unfollow and block buttons. If someone is gatekeeping block on sight, but also if they're not posting the type of aro content that you need or want to see, you're allowed to organize things so you don't see their posts. Sometimes unfollowing is enough, but blocking also doesn't necessarily mean the other person has done anything wrong, it's just a tool to make sure you're not seeing a blog you don't want to see.

For the shaming allos question, I do think it's a complex topic. For me it depends on context. I definitely do not believe in any kind of ace/aro superiority, being ace and/or aro, or being allo are both neutral. Nobody's smarter or more moral or more pure or anything like that. But sometimes people say things as a vent in the moment and are reacting to a difficult situation they've been in. So for example someone may say 'allos suck' but it comes from a place where they've been very badly treated by allos for being ace or aro but they're referring more to the societal systems that are in place that privilege allo people and make life more difficult for ace/aro people, they don't actually believe being allo makes someone a bad person. (It can be hard to tell what's going on just from a post, again it's OK to unfollow and block, especially if it's just not what you personally need to see in the moment).

Personally I don't come across a lot of this type of stuff, but this is what I mean about things being fragmented, the blogs I follow just aren't posting about the infighting or gatekeeping and I don't happen to see it in the tags when I go in there. But I do hear about it second hand, and it seems like it's a problem on other social media sites I'm not on as well.

I'm sorry you've had a hard time, Anon. But I am glad you've found people you can be comfortable with and be yourself around. That's really important too. And thanks for the reminder that I really should drink more water today.

Hopefully at least some of this is helpful, but if you have more questions or want to discuss anything in more detail, feel free to send in another ask.

All the best!

#aspec antagonism #vent post

[vidavalor]

Hello! Thank you for visiting. Armchairs and blankets and snacks are over there. *points* Stuff about my blog is here. Please read. Thank you. :)

Hi there! Below please find some stuff about the content of my blog under the cut. As always, message me if you have any questions or comments.

Content Info:

-I don't have an age rating on my blog as we all mature at different rates but I'd say some of the stuff is more adult than others. There is cursing and frequent discussions of sex. High school age or above should be fine here.

-Infrequently, a post may discuss characters who have a history of domestic and/or sexual abuse. All of these posts will contain individual trigger warnings so you will know before you read them and can make the choice as to whether or not that is something you would like to read.

-I don't TW posts for religious trauma in general because I write a lot about it but if the abuse veers into anything related to physical or sexual violence, anti-Semitism, racism, or any type of queer-phobia or anything of any of those types of horrible natures, I will add a TW for it at the top of the post.

-This is queer-friendly space, as is a lot of Tumblr, thankfully. If you are a jerk to me or to anyone engaging with me here, you will be blocked and, depending on the situation, likely reported. In the words of David Lynch as Gordon Cole in Twin Peaks:

-I write a lot about Good Omens and much of what I write about is centered around analysis pertaining to Crowley & Aziraphale's relationship. I welcome all interpretations of it and can see many different ones, personally. I believe that engaging with art means being open-minded and curious about how others see things. It does not mean demanding that your way is "the right" way and I don't expect everyone to agree with me. I say this because Good Omens has a sizable fanbase that identifies as asexual and/or aromantic for some people of that community, the idea of Crowley & Aziraphale as a sexual and/or romantic pairing is not appealing. My point is that if that is you, how you see this show is valid, too. We may disagree on some details on this one particular show but believe you me, we do not disagree about how much there needs to be more representation of asexual and aromantic life in the arts. I have your back on that and if you would like to share something with me that is related to Good Omens or anything else, really, but are hesitant to do so because you see that I write a lot about a different kind of interpretation of Crowley & Aziraphale, please do not hesitate! I love seeing everyone's ideas and creative works. You all are so inspiring. :)

-Feel free to say hi or throw something into my Ask inbox thingamajig. I live for messages. Please be sure to include your pronouns if it's not already readily visible on your blog so I know how to properly address you. She/her for me, please.

Thank you for reading & I hope you're having a great day. :)

[aromagicburst]

Hey so I just joined Tumblr

And there's apparently some aphobic poll going around about cishet aromantic men

Thing is, I'm a cishet aromantic man

All I've seen since coming on here is post after post about how I'm valid and aphobes should shut up and it's been amazing

So thanks gang for making me feel welcome

#aromantic

[transgenderlesbianflag]

Welcome to The Public Domain Transgender Lesbian Flag Project Blog

Hey, glad you could make it! Welcome to The Public Domain Transgender Lesbian Flag Project. Here, you will find all there is to know about the flag of every transgender lesbian that wants it.

Introduction: Why a flag for trans lesbians?

Simply put, some of us want a symbol that combines who we are with who we love. Some of us want specific visibility for this particular experience. Other communities, such as the aroace (aromantic asexual) community have dual identity flags, and some of us, people that are both transgender and lesbian, want a single symbol to represent that as an additional option.

Design: What should it look like?

For a flag to be usable and recognizable, it needs to keep certain things in mind. It needs to be simple, any symbols should have meaning, there should not be excessive colors or lettering, and it should be either distinctive or related.

First is simplicity. We want the flag to be able to be used everywhere, easily reproducible, and easy to manufacture, so it's going to have the common 3:5 Aspect Ratio. Next are the symbols, which in our case are the stripes. We think that what is commonly known as the "sunset lesbian flag" is one of the better flags out there and there's a 5 stripe variant of it, just like Monica Helms' trans flag. The only symbols on these are colors, so we will make our own colors by using these as a base (more on that in a bit) to represent both who we are and who we love. Since we want to keep things simple, we are going to keep it at 5 stripes. Finally, we are going to relate it to those 2 flags in 2 ways: we're going to make every stripe a different color like the sunset flag, but we are also going to for an arrangement that mimics the bars of the trans flag.

Colors: Putting analogous palettes to use.

When it was time to pick our colors, we went line by line to find analogous colors as a starting point. It's a good way to start, and ensure we are embracing both flags, but it ends up with something like this...

Issues arise including 3 colors that blend in too much with each other, even when separated, not being totally web friendly with some readers and extension, and some shades that are harder to acquire for those making flags at home. With some thoughtful tweaking though, we can solve things by moving from this

to this

and achieve much better separation.

We now have 5, bold, beautiful colors. When arranged to mimic the trans flag, it looks familiar from a distance, yet as one gets closer, one can appreciate the complement of all 5 colors, embracing some of the best qualities of the sunset flag.

The official RGB colors are as follows:

Grape: #6f2da8

Coral: #f88379

White: #ffffff

Tangerine: #ff9966

Iris: #5a4fcf

Meaning: Something to think about.

This is a public domain project and it belongs to everyone. Every transgender lesbian has had a different journey, different challenges, and different experiences, so the greater meaning of the design is one of embracing our identity as transgender lesbians, embracing who we are and who we love, regardless of where we are on our journey in life.

That being said, here is one interpretation, the interpretation of the blog keeper, no more or less valid than yours.

Grape: Femininity, and our ability embrace as much or as little as we want of it, on our own terms.

Coral: Independence, confidence, and non-conformity. Nobody gets to tell us who we are, and we are strong and can stand on our own when we choose to.

White: Love in all of its wonderful ways. Love for ourselves, for being who we are. Love for our partners, and the experiences we share.

Tangerine: The community we hold dear through chosen family and sisterhood.

Iris: The journeys we have taken and the journeys yet to come, whether it be concerning our gender or otherwise.

Public Domain: This is our flag.

This flag belongs to you. Unlike some other pride flags, there are no royalties, no limits to its use, and no requirement to give anyone credit for the work.

We at The Public Domain Transgender Lesbian Flag Project release this flag irrevocably to the public domain!

If you consider yourself to be a person who is transgender and a lesbian and want to use it, this is your flag; there shall be no gatekeeping here!

#lesbian pride #sapphic #wlw #lgbt #trans pride #lgbt pride #queer pride #lesbian #pride flag #public domain #translesbianflag #transbianflag #gay #lgbtq community #lgbtqia+ #lgbtq #transgender #trans lesbian #transbian #transfemme #transbian flag #trans lesbian flag

[casinonightzoneact1]

i've just been reminded that there's people that think that asexuals and aromantics aren't welcome in the queer community, so i want to make it very clear: Asexuals and Aromantics are welcome and wanted here, regardless of gender identity or orientation. I support you and you are a valid member of the queer community.

#as ive said before. being aspec is honestly a more queer part of my identity than being gay or trans is. #ok to rb #also uhh yes ive been talking about being queer a lot recently and yes im aware #mostly bc of the reproductive rights bs (bodily autonomy is irremovable from the queer experience) #ace #aro #acearo #asexual #aromantic #pride

[popcornfromhell]

Asexual and aromantic peaple are valid

I die on this hill

If ur aromantic or asexual ur welcome to shelter here like come on in hello👋

#asexual #aromantic #i never knew how much peaple in the lgbtq+ went for eachothers throats and it makes me sad #burntcorn #this point still stands even tho my pronouns changed

[aromantic-diaries]

just a little question but uhm. Is it valid or something that my aromaticity is mainly due to the fact that relationships as a whole overwhelm me extremely, and the commitment in romantic relationships feels too much to handle? I don't want to date anyone because I don't know how it will mentally impact me if it makes sense

Hey, I'm not here to tell ya what you can and can't call yourself. If you don't want to be in a romantic relationship for whatever reason and the aromantic experience resonates with you then that's all you need. You're welcome here

#anon #mail time

[mommabird1772]

Happy Witchcore Samantha Wednesday!

For those of you who are new here, this orginally stemmed from my obsession with Sam Winchester and Sastiel in the Supernatural fandom, and in an attempt to provide Sam a better life, I created an AU with a transgender MtF witchcore Samantha, a genderfluid cottagecore beekeeper/gardener Castiel, and non-binary toddler Jack Kline.

New audiences call for a slight change in direction, and while Samantha, Cas, Jack, and I are still available to answer questions about the family, Witchcore Samantha Wednesdays will now be focusing on making moodboards that fit the cottagecore and witchcore vibe. Suggestions and prompts are always welcome, just shoot me an ask or a DM!

Today's moodboard is a special one centered around Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week! ASAW is usually celebrated the week after Valentine's Day, and includes everyone who identifies as Aromantic or on the Aromantic spectrum. Aromantic people experience little to no romantic attraction towards others, although some may wish to still participate in romantic activities or relationships. Aro spec people are super valid in the LGBTQIA community! I've included some basic information and aromantic memes, but you are encouraged to do your own research if you'd like to learn more. Happy ASAW, everybody!

I am extremely serious about needing suggestions in order to continue providing quality content, whether it be anonymous one word prompts, or elaborate collaborative pieces sent through asks

As with the rest of my moodboards, none of these pictures are my own, and I claim no credit for any art or design used, only for the concept created

Tagging: @cordellwinchesterwalker @willgrahamscat @fandom-hoarder @twobrothersoneheart @oh-no-its-danger-gays @flynn-thebin @winchesterestrogen @pirate-captain-kaira @stemroses @the-gray-ghosty @fangirlxwritesx67 @fae-and-night @cowboyincest @hexlorde @regnumveritatis @stuckysdaughter @wendibird @zwahkmuchoney @magpie-wings @sirrsnakesssss @r3animat0r

(My DMs aren't working rn, so please send me an ask to be added/removed from the taglist)

#arospec #aromantic spectrum awareness week #asaw 2023 #aro week #aromantic #aro positivity #aro #aroallo #non sam aro #aromantic memes #aromantic moodboard #witchcore samantha wednesday #queerplatonic #queer #qpp positivity #queer platonic partner #queer platonic relationship #qpr pride #qpr positivity #amatonormativity #actually arospec #actually aromantic #aspec #open to requests #I make moodboards #Cottagecore and witchcore

[our-arospec-experience]

Welcome to our-arospec-experience!

this is a share your experience blog for arospec people. Well meaning allos are welcome to ask questions (actually anyone go to town asking questions because mod loves researching).

All arospec people are welcome!

A list of some arospec identities can be found here. Let me know if I should add any/I have made a mistake :)

No matter what you are, you are valid, and welcome here.

Tags to look out for:

our arospec experience, arospec experience, arospec ask

aphobia may be discussed, but will be tagged, as will romance, love, crushes, etc. please let me know if anything else needs to be tagged (or I forget).

for any questions relating to allos, I recommend @askanallo.

mod uses she/her/he/him

please keep asks relatively sfw, swearing always allowed.

I am not a professional.

Hate will not be tolerated.

:D share your experience!

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⋆ ★INTRODUCTION POST. . .

My name is VOID. . \18 years of age\. I am aromantic asexual agender and use They/Them pronouns. If you haven't noticed from the theme of this intro, I am highly comforted by technology related stuff. :] This is my nonsexual Vore/Tummy/Stuffing Sideblog. I don't view any of the following as sexual, but completely understand how they can be seen and enjoyed as such. Plus, all of the content this account pertains to is considered fetish content, regardless of the sexual or nonsexual view the person posting has on it. As is such, my content is 18+. Minors are not allowed on this account. This is a safety precaution, as I myself have once been a minor negatively impacted by being in communities like this unknowingly. Minors should be free to explore their interests outside of potential predatory circles, and should also adhere to the comforts and boundaries of adults within those circles. Vore is somewhat of a coping mechanism. I feel comfortable uploading scenarios to my hard-drive. Expect many reblogs and babbles. If you recognize my art. DO NOT EXPOSE THIS BLOG TO PEOPLE. I SEPARATE THIS BLOG FROM MAIN FOR A REASON. THINGS UPLOADED TO MY SOFTWARE. . ♡ Soft Vore (I DO NOT DO HARD VORE.)/Protective Vore/Comfort Vore - General Vore Thoughts ♡ G/T - Same Size ♡ Fearplay - Willing and Unwilling/Hesitant ♡ Tummies - Nonsexual Stuffing Content ♡ OC Rambles - Requests ♡ Fandom Rambles - Art of my OCs/OC Vore Babbles (if you recognize my OCs no you do not no you do not no you-) ♡ Reblogs! MAIN TAGS. . . #S0ft V0re, #404R4mblez #v0re #tw vore #extreme cuddling #safe vore #4040CZ #404WR1TING #VOIDHOTMAIL #VOIDREBLOG SO SORRY IF YOU ENDED UP LOST HERE. FILE NOT FOUND.. ? ? THINGS I DO NOT WRITE FOR/DO NOT POST. ♡ I do not do feral vore, sorry. All of my predator characters/characters I write for are vaguely humanoid in nature. - NO NSFW CONTENT (If I accidentally like something/reblog with NSFW undertones, it is not an invitation. I am very bad at reading sexual tone.) ♡ Minors as preds (No?? No. Never.) - IRL PEOPLE. (NO.) REQUESTS OPEN. INBOX NOW!

BEFORE INSTALLING ?? ♡ POSTING SCHEDULE NOT FOUND - If you're not a vore oriented blog, you are welcomed to interact. Experimentation is a valid part of the human experience, so I have heard. ♡ I do NOT like being seen as Predator/Prey. Vore is purely fictional for me, do not make any remarks about me being either or being edible or anything of that nature. - I am autistic with BPD. Tone is a very tough ground for me. Sorry if I misunderstand. ERROR. ACCESS DENIED. HARD DNI - ♡ IRL Fetish Blogs - Pedo/MAPs ♡ Loli/Shotacons - Transphobes/Homophobes/Anti-LGBTQ+/TERFs ♡Proshippers - Ageless Blogs ♡ Basically, be a decent human being and I'll be happy!

#soft vore #safe vore #sfw vore #extreme cuddling #vore talk #v.ore #v0re #endosoma #i am short circuiting over intro writing i might have forgotten stuff