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[aspecpplarebeautiful]

Hello, I'm the anon from this post - https://www.tumblr.com/aspecpplarebeautiful/740559491770286080/i-wonder-if-any-other-aspec-has-the-same-thoughts?source=share - and since then I have been thinking about my experiences and trying to better understand them.

So I have a new question lol - for my aspecs out there, do any of you feel attraction to masculine/masculinity and feminine/femininity? For me that attraction falls under aesthetic, romantic, and alterous. Because (which is why using bi or pan still feels clunky for me) my attraction towards the people I liked...I guess I don't like putting any label that has a specific definition that doesn't allow for nuance. So I guess fluid and or queer fits best - it allows nuance and I need that space because my experiences aside from asexual do not fit well into concrete definitions.

I'm rambling and bouncing off ideas with yall who are reading.

For my high school crush who was my non hetero awakening - I liked how cute she was, how her voice sounded, liked looking at her aesthetic wise as it pleased me how her face was organized lol. And this actually wasn't the first time I felt attraction to a person who IDs as a girl; I always forget because at the time I wasn't aware it was a crush, a celebrity crush but a crush nonetheless - I was 12 so very unaware of anything lgbtq. The actress was Phoebe Tonkin from H20 Just Add Water, a mermaid show, and Tonkin in 2007 - 2011 had me locked in. I watched YouTube slide shows of her model photoshoots - looking back it was a clear crush, anything with her in it I was watching. (I have also been a lifelong mermaid fan since age 3 so that also probably helped.) It was the same thing, she was INSANELY cute, perfect cheeks, perfect smile, gorgeous doe eyes, sweet lips etc. I should have mentioned her in my original anon but I must have suppressed those feelings because I truly do forget about them. Oh and as I am writing, I just remembered loving to look at the Olivia Hussey in her version Romeo and Juliet too...and currently a few girls in my life I'm around that I've noticed. I must still be subconsciously suppressing these feelings.... But all of that is also how I felt about the boys I liked, past and present. Basically the soft look the cute boys - pretty, scraggly, alt, dorky boy - also had me sprung. In the past, Dylan O Brian, boy crushes from school...currently right now my newest celeb crush is a voice actor named Kaiji Tang and his voice is my kryptonite and he aint bad to look at either. But again, soft face, sweet smile etc. So yes I definitely have a favorite look and, yes, giggly daydreams about them have/has happened too. Thinking about it more, all those attributes fall under femininity/feminine - so now I'm thinking am I just attracted to feminine traits specifically cute - ya know? But then I do love me a beard, not just a mustache, (Tang has one) which I do see as a masculine thing so I also like masculine/masculinity but it seems like I lean more toward feminine. That route can be found in men and women.

Again, I hope I made some form of sense.

Yeah, it's definitely possible for attraction to be based more on feminity/masculinity than the actual gender of the person. There are some microlabels around that if you're interested in that (finic for example means someone who is on the multisexual spectrum but has a preference for people who are more feminine in nature).

But yeah, I'll throw this out to followers, can anyone relate or have their own thoughts or experiences they want to share?

[aromantic-diaries]

Hi ,

Do u have any aro positivity posts that I can read? Been feeling down and left out cuz of being aromantic . Kinda sucks rn and just want to feel better. Been reading loveless again but it's being too much too cuz on my 11th re read

Alrighty I'm gonna go fetch some positivity posts from my blog for ya

Here

Here

Here

Here

These are some pretty nice ones I think. Also I recommend reading through some posts by @aspecpplarebeautiful @arohumor @shmaroace @aaa-battery-not-rechargeable and @romance-evil-aro (among the many wonderful aro blogs on here, you might even find some other similar blogs through them) and checking out the aro positivity tag

We may just be a handful of loners scattered accross the world but the aro community on tumblr is a really pleasant and welcoming space and I hope you'll find some comfort. I sure have

#anon #mail time

[queer-queries]

hello all! welcome to my queer advice blog!

this is my blog where i will do my best to give any advice on queer-related topics to those who need some! i know there are plenty of blogs like this already, but i wanted to make my own because i know that if i had had someone to ask these questions to when i was struggling, it would’ve saved me so much pain, so i want the chance to be for someone the person that i wish i’d had! below is some basic information about me and this blog!

about me-

- my name is reign and my pronouns are she/her

- i am a queer/genderqueer aroace sapphic bi lesbian

- i am autistic and have ADHD, OCD, depression, and NPD

- i am not a minor, but i am not really an adult either. i don’t pretend to be some queer expert, especially since i’m young, but i still have some knowledge and advice and want to put that to good use.

- i love music, writing, poetry, songwriting, queer theory, and queer studies

- i am a staunch inclusionist when it comes to the queer community. i think policing queer terms is the antithesis of queer solidarity and does literally no good. sometimes lesbians are bisexual and/or guys. sometimes trans women use he/him pronouns. sometimes your gender is related to flowers. get over it. i will not tolerate exclusionism on my page.

about this blog-

- you can ask for advice on anything queer-related

- you can vent about negative experiences or share positive experiences

- you can ask respectful questions about queer topics/identities you don’t understand

- i will post about queer validation, queer solidarity, and queer joy

- i will occasionally share my own experiences

- i will not give medical advice (so if you need medical advice in terms of transition, i highly recommend the blogs @genderpunks and @transgenderteensurvivalguide )

boundaries-

- do not use they/them pronouns on me

- do not send me discourse. i will delete it.

- do not interact with me if you are bigoted in any way.

- if you are a queer exclusionist but you still need advice on something, you can send an ask and i will still answer you because all queer people deserve kindness in their questioning. but if you bring your exclusionism into it or try to invalidate me or others, your ask will not be answered.

that’s pretty much it for now! could i get a boost? @justlgbtthings @genderpunks @transgenderteensurvivalguide @trans-mom @stopcannibalizingourown @genderkoolaid @wearequeer-andwearehere @makingqueerhistory @1000lesbians @soft-sapphic-love @kenochoric @neopronouns @sapphicspoonie @sapphic-sprite @intersexfairy @queerasfact @queercutlureis @our-queer-experience @aspecpplarebeautiful @genderqueerpositivity @aroace-people-are-lgtbq @aro-culture-is @aroaceconfessions @transenbyconfessions 

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[of-asgaard]

Eu postei 1.608 vezes em 2022

163 posts criados (10%)

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Eu marquei 577 posts meus em 2022

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#i hate it when the writer ignores loki's redemption arc

Meus principais posts em 2022:

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Adorable!

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Thanks for that Lee Garbett!

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Yes Marvel, keep pampering Loki fans! Haha

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Loki being loki 😂

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[transmasc-wizard]

🫠

I laughed audibly when I read that you were aro. I'm aro and I've never met another aro before!

oh there r like a billion of us on this site

those that come to mind that i think are bigger in the community (? maybe my perception is warped but i think so) include gay-otlc sonicaro genderkoolaid local-aro-cryptid scaryaro aro-who-reads aspecpplarebeautiful aroplatonic and shmaroace!

also several of my mutuals are aro or arospec too

#asks #riley-phoenix

[minus19]

Omg thank you so much @aspecpplarebeautiful for reblogging my ace dragon and getting it to over 100 notes that’s crazy >< my first post to reach that much!!

[aiizaph]

Sometimes I think I am on the aro spec and just haven't found myself yet but I feel like I am too allo to fit there too. It's like I'm stuck in the middle and Valentine's is such a confusing time for me. The "Nope. I define my love." images you reblogged were so profound to me I think I need to close tumblr and do some soul searching, thank you

Uhm… Oh my god you’re welcome???? /pos

I- I’ve never really changed someone’s life in such a positive way before and I hope you find where on the spectrum you are! If you don't mind, I have a few things I'd like to share with you that I hope will be able to help!

Queerplatonic feelings can be quite confusing and can be easily mistaken for romantic and/or platonic ones. I, recently, have found out that the type of queerplatonic relationship that I want to be in is very close to what allos might consider to be a “romantic relationship”. I want to be close and intimate with my partner by doing things such as cuddling and kissing. But it’s not romantic. The type of relationship you are in is defined by the people in it, not by the actions they take within it.

The queerplatonic label was made to be ambiguous on purpose-- to bend the platonic/romantic binary that truly limits how vast and beautiful relationships can be. Which means, queerplatonic relationships can look like anything! (Technically the former binary ones can look like anything as well but, oh well). Queerplatonic relationships can include any number of romantic or platonic actions such as kissing, cuddling, dating, or even having sex. Again, it's all up to the people in the relationship to define what they are comfortable with!

Attraction that isn't romantic is CONSTANTLY undermined by allos and they fail to recognize that attraction that isn't romantic can be STRONG AS HELL. I'm excited to one day find my queerplatonic boyfriend and just the thought of finding him gets my heart to beat a little bit. Not too crazy but definitely noticeable. I get this with platonic squishes too. I get happy to see them and I get so so excited whenever they say something. I understand how I mistook the feelings for romantic ones back in the day, but now I know that just because my love isn't romantic doesn't mean that it isn't strong as hell. Romantic love is not the pinnacle of human love/attraction. Literally any other type of attraction can be just as strong if not even more!

There are many different labels for all different types of love and at some times I feel as though they’re redundant because love is so vast and unique between individuals that I feel as though they can’t be categorized. I feel as though each relationship with each person is it’s own unquantifiable thing. But to each their own, I suppose.

I like using relationship labels as it helps me identify to me and other people how I feel about them and how I think we'll interact with each other because of it. Though, I can completely understand why someone would want to reject relationship labels altogether since they can often be confusing and unspecific.

I want to end this post by saying that no matter where you find yourself on the spectrum, that you are still aromantic! Whether you're demi-romantic, greyromantic, aegoromantic, aromanticflux, literally any aro-spec label you are still aromantic! It's a spectrum for a reason, and there is no "right way" to be aromantic. The aromantic experience is not something that can be wholly defined in one post because of how unique it truly is. Everyone's experience is different and I find that so fucking awsome and beautiful.

I want to recommend checking out the blog @aspecpplarebeautiful as it played a HUGE role in helping me accept my aromanticism, and I hope it can help you too.

If you have any questions, anon, PLEASE don't hesitate to ask. I know I probably missed some things and I know that this is a lot of information to take in so if you need clarification on anything I am here to help.

Take care, anon. Godspeed.

#aro #aromantic #actually aromantic #long post

[aspecpplarebeautiful]

Hi again, I'm the anon from https://www.tumblr.com/aspecpplarebeautiful/741527180145803264/hello-im-the-anon-from-this-post?source=share and I wanted to say thank you for mentioning finsexual because after going on a deep dive and looking into it these last couple of days, the meaning fits my experiences, the romantic counterpart of course! And I really do feel comfortable with its meaning, like it fits me like a soft pair of new gloves lol.

I knew about the term gynosexual from a long time ago but it didn't resonate with me from what I had read about. People have said finsexual and gynosexual are similar to each other (I see them as separate imo, finsexual to me is more about femininity which doesn't belong to a gender while gynosexual seems to have a heavier relation to female/gender). I also relate to minromantic too. Ive decided to not claim the micro labels for myself (I have one micro label and thats plenty for me) and will just explain about femininity and masculinity but I am very happy they exist. Now it now feels concrete and not something I decided to overthink about. I'm attracted to femininity and masculinity leaning more toward the former. I understand myself much better and no longer have to wonder about it, going back and forth again and again. Its a relief off my shoulders. So thanks again :)

I'm so glad my answer was helpful, Anon! And congrats on figuring out your labels in a way that works for you. This is also one of the reasons why I will always defend microlabels, even in cases where people choose not to use them, sometimes just their existence can still be helpful for people.

All the best!

[pridemandalas]

I posted 83 times in 2022

24 posts created (29%)

59 posts reblogged (71%)

Blogs I reblogged the most:

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aspecpplarebeautiful

I tagged 82 of my posts in 2022

Only 1% of my posts had no tags

#pride mandalas - 45 posts

#not mine - 42 posts

#trypophobia tw - 29 posts

#aromantic - 16 posts

#trans - 15 posts

#not pride mandalas - 14 posts

#self-reblog - 13 posts

#lgbt - 13 posts

#lgbtq - 12 posts

#asexual - 12 posts

Longest Tag: 39 characters

#i have a society 6 and take commissions

My Top Posts in 2022:

#5

Aroallo and Transmasc mandala for anon

18 notes - Posted April 12, 2022

#4

Idemromantic mandala

25 notes - Posted May 2, 2022

#3

Heartless Aromantic (flag design by @arokill )

44 notes - Posted March 29, 2022

#2

See the full post

73 notes - Posted November 21, 2022

My #1 post of 2022

[ID: A digital drawing of a shield with a symmetrical design. The shield is adorned with yellow roses, green plants, arrows, snakes, and frogs. In the center are the words “Aro Pride” in cursive written in green. The shield is various shades if gray and black. The background is a dark gray. End ID]

HAPPY AROMANTIC AWARENESS WEEK FROM YOUR LOCAL ALLOACE. Here is a shield to protect you from amatonormativity.

I originally planned this for Aro Wrath Day (Valentines day) but decided Aro Week would be better.

300 notes - Posted February 20, 2022

Get your Tumblr 2022 Year in Review →

#tumblr2022 #year in review #my 2022 tumblr year in review #your tumblr year in review #pride mandalas #long post #apologies to those tagged in the post. i tried to edit it so it didn't tag you but not sure it worked

[shmaroace]

hey! i want to start a list of aspec blogs that are really just kinda great

@aroaceconfessions (confess everything u want anonymously!)

@aspecpplarebeautiful (aspec positivity/confessions/advice/memes)

@dopeasexualmemes (join for the memes, stay for the cat)

all known aspec culture is blogs: (advice, memes, jokes, fun shit)

@ace-culture-is

@aro-culture-is

@aspec-culture-is

@demi-culture-is

@demiromantic-culture-is

@romo-aro-culture-is

@aroacecultureis

@greyromantic-culture-is

anyway my world is kinda niche! feel free to add any other important blogs in the aspec tumblr world :)

#tw: swearing #please add onto this! #eventually ill reblog a longer list #if there is one #ALSO feel free to send asks or dm me blogs #in case u don't want to share on ur blog #i will make a rb of any asks/dms/subs/etc. #if i get any #people don't actually like interacting with my posts that much tbh #but i guess i haven't made anything like this before #aro #aromantic #arospec #ace #asexual #acespec #aroace #aspec

[of-asgaard]

And today begins the Asexual Week! 💜

so I made this drawing :)

In October, in addition to celebrating our week we will also have Halloween this month so I made drawings related to Halloween with the colors of the Asexual flag!!

A great week for us!!

I couldn't wait for this day to come! Haha

We asexuals are amazing! 💜

@aspecpplarebeautiful ♡

#asexual #asexual visibility #asexual flag #asexuality #asexual week #i am asexual #Asexual visibility week #asexual pride #i love being asexual #🖤💜 #asexual fanart #asexual drawing #asexual art #asexual aromantic #asexual artist #24/10/2021 #24/10/2021💜 #ace #halloween fanart #halloween art #halloween

[gnc-culture-is]

hey there!

thanks for answering my ask from before...

a question poppewd up in my mind as i was reading your answer....

is asexuality and agender and aromanctic lifelong...like feelings never arise for them?

thank you again<33

~myeong li~

See- That’s a slightly tricky question. Asexuality, aromantic, and agender can be lifelong. Attraction to anyone may never arise, or occur only rarely. A sense of having a gender might never happen, or that sense might be a distinct lack of a gender.

The funny thing is, though, that it’s possible for these to occur later in life. Maybe it’s that people only recognize them later in life, or maybe they legitimately just. Begin to occur later in life.

Of course, it’s possible for someone to identify as aro, ace, or agender, and realize those labels no longer apply, just as it’s possible for someone to always, always be, aromantic or asexual, or agender.

@aspecpplarebeautiful may have some more answers for you, my answers come from a place of being aroace and my experiences in the trans and aroace communities.

Thanks for asking!

- mod rob

#mod Rob #skipping the queue for this one #gnc advice

[mommabird1772]

Anonymous asked a question:

god, you really are so spoiled. boo hoo, you can't go through the asexual spongebob tag. and yet you use the word queer like it hasn't been used against you. man, is this what you think oppression is? (also the creator of spongebob didn't confirm him as ace, he made a joke about how he's "somewhat asexual" as a reference to spongebob budding and regenerating via asexual reproduction). you really are just homophobic. and transphobic to boot. yeehaw. now get the word queer out of yoru mouth.

Shout-out to my first anon hate for agreeing with @friendlyneighborhoodheretic 's posts! (If you don't count the anon who vehemently argued that Jared was "a sexual behemoth", not a puppy 🙄)

Me liking the fact that the SpongeBob creator said he was Asexual was *AGES* ago, dude. And, if people have the freedom to view their favorite characters as their sexual orientations, I'm allowed to view my characters as A-spec. For many people, especially teens and newly discovered Queers, seeing their comfort characters as canonically (or headcannon, IT DOESN'T MATTER) their orientation gives them proof that it's not wrong to be gay, you don't have to choose one gender over the other if you're bi, you're not confused if you want to transition, you're not broken if you're a-spec. Transgender and Asexual characters are really hard to find in media representation, because there's discourse not only among the cishet population, but also within the Queer community. Our very identities are constantly being questioned as to whether we're "LGBT enough" or "we're not just faking it for attention". Excuse us for getting excited when we finally do get representation.

Each of us has to go on our own journey to discover who we really are, and if along the way we take comfort in what we see that reminds us to express ourselves freely, who cares if the character is canonically that identity? Many people can view a character as having a certain gender or sexual orientation, and guess what? They can all be right. The community I'm part of now exists in harmony because we headcannon multiple identities and scenarios for our character. He can be a unhinged, bloodfreak he/they King and Queen of Hell power couple, or a Trans Femme witch living in a cottage with her Genderfluid partner and their toddler son. No one's idea is a bad idea here. We all love Sammy and we all want the best for him, so no one cares the exact label he has. That's how it should be among every fandom.

Also, next time you want to dish out hate, don't be a fucking coward. Come at me and see what happens. I have plenty of mutuals that have my back.

Also, to be clear:

https://www.theage.com.au/entertainment/spongebob-is-asexual-says-creator-20050129-gdzgke.html

@friendlyneighborhoodheretic @thegracefulq @fae-and-night @stuckysdaughter @softyshibu @moostiel

@i-ate-your-kneecaps @rxxliet @kkshowtunes @ask-fi @micho-p @jazzforthecaptain @rewrite-the-story @bean-witch @thequeenofsastiel @demiromantic-daily @aspecpplarebeautiful @respect-aspec @ptamomsam

#anon hate #Bird mom attacks #Ace discourse #exclusionist #Trans discourse #mentions of SpongeBob #mentions of Sam Winchester #it's called fanfiction for a reason #go touch some grass #fandom #I will never apologise for who I am

[aro-ace-artemis]

Acespec and Arospec pride snails and slugs ! Inspired by an ask I saw @aspecpplarebeautiful get !

[Image ID: two images on a transparent background. The first has five sea slugs, all curved around each other and floating, in the colors of the frayromantic, lithromantic, quoiromantic, aroflux, and aromantic pride flag colors. The second has five snails, all floating around each other, in the gray-ace, aceflux, aroace, reciprosexual, and asexual pride flag colors. On both images, the characters have a thin white border around them. End ID]

#artemis' arrows #judecopeart #pride art #aromantic pride #asexual pride #frayro posi #lithro posi #quoiro posi #aroflux posi #ace posi #gray ace posi #aceflux posi #aroace posi #reciprosexual posi #aro posi #sea slugs #snails #aro positivity #ace positivity #arospec posi #acespec posi

[and-stir-the-stars]

hey i dont know who to ask but am i asexual if i don't want sex itself but i still don't mind having intimacy with an s/o such as kissing/hugging and sleeping together? or am i gray ace? someone told me i was demisexual but i don't think

Hi anon!

If you're looking for blogs to learn more about asexuality and/or aromanticism, I'd recommend @raavenb2619 and @aspecpplarebeautiful

I think an important thing to keep in mind as one questions their sexuality is that sexuality is about the things you do or do not feel, not about the things you do.

An important reason for the distinction above is that the meaning of a gesture is assigned by the people involved in that gesture. For example, some people might see actions like kissing or hand-holding as inherently sexual and/or romantic acts, while others might not. So an outsider might witness people kissing or sleeping in a bed together and assume that must mean the people are sexually intimate, but for the people actually kissing/sleeping/whatever, they might not view the action as sexual whatsoever. So, to pull those threads together: "intimacy" is not the same thing as "sexual." If actions that typically get associated with sex by societal standards make you happy and aren't necessarily sexual by your standards, you might be ace!

And I say "might be" because, in the end, only you know yourself well enough to be able to identify how you do or do not feel. I and others like me can give you guidance (and are more than happy to! Never be afraid to seek out help with this kind of thing!), but can't always give you exact answers; we can give you the puzzle pieces of information you might need, but in the end, it's up to you to decide whether the pieces fit right.

That being said: if I'm honest, what you described doesn't quite sound like demisexuality to me. Demisexuality is when a person feels sexual attraction only after forming a close emotional bond with another person; if you've formed a close bond with a s/o and do not experience sexual attraction toward them, and if you don't identify with the label or definition, then demisexual might not be the label for you.

Gray asexual might be a label worth checking into. Gray ace is an umbrella term meant to encompass a wide range of experiences: from people who experience sexual attraction rarely, to those who experience sexual attraction only under certain circumstances, to those who don't have a firm understanding of what sexual attraction is to them or even of what sexual attraction itself is. The term gray asexual is so vague in part because it's there for those who don't want to be weighed down by a rigid definition of their sexuality, or those who can't quite pin down what that definition might be for them yet. Inside this broad gray asexual umbrella, there's a lot of different microlabels you might find are worth checking out.

All in all, my final piece of advice is: don't be afraid to identify as ace then find out that label doesn't fit you after all. For a good while, I didn't let myself identify with the aromantic community even after I questioned whether I was aromantic; I did this because I felt like, if I tried identifying as aro then realized I was wrong, I would "taint" the aromantic community or "undermine" just how hard aros had fought to be seen as a valid and respectable identity. Now I know just how ridiculous that line of thought was. First of all, it's perfectly okay-- and even natural-- for your understanding of your sexuality (or romantic orientation) to shift, change, and become more clear over time; it's not something you have to be afraid of, and finding out something new about yourself doesn't erase the person you thought you were out of existence. You're not going to upset anyone if you try out a label and later realize it doesn't fit you. And if you find the label does fit you, then I think you'll be glad you didn't restrict yourself on unfounded fears.

#asexual #ace #asexuality #hope this helps!! #very proud of you for reaching out <3 #i'd tell you god's name if you asked #lgbt #lgbtq #queer

[aggravatedaroallo-forpositivity]

Let's go ahead and do a new thingy, since I think everyone could use some more positivity during this quarantine. I'm calling it urbbr! Under represented blogs being represented! Not as catchy as uribr, and probably won't be done as much, but here we are because I can't name.

Most of these are going to be specifically for aros, because that is most of what I know, but they'll be split off into categories and stoof so not going to be super disorganized.

Aroallos (Positivity specifically for aroallos) -

@aro-allo-positivity (Amazing blog, super positivity for aroallos, active)

@the-quiver-of-aros (Awesome blog, good positivity for non-sam aros, aroallos and just all aros in general, I think active)

Aros (Just in general, not specifically for aroaces/aroallos)-

@aro-spec-positivity (Awesome Positivity posts, I think active?)

@befriend-an-aro-suggestions (Nice to look through and follow, fairly active)

@aggressivelyarospec (Does aro movies Monday and aro tunes Thursday, good sources and good blog to follow, active)

@aromantic-pride (Good aro pride blog, fairly active)

@annoyed-arospecs-for-positvity (Awesome blog for arospecs and aros in general, fairly active)

@acerbic-aro-for-positivity (Amazing aro blog, fairly active)

@arounited (Good aro blog, I'm not sure how active)

Aroace (General positivity for specifically aroaces)-

@annoyed-aroace-for-positivity (Good positivity posts, not very active)

@anaroaceplace (Good blog, not sure how active)

@antagonizedaroaceforpositivity (Amazing blog, fairly active)

Ace (Positivity specifically for aces)-

@anguished-asexual-for-positivity (Good blog, not sure how active)

@angry-asexual-for-positivity (Amazing blog positivity for aces, fairly active)

@theacevengers (Awesome blog, fairly active)

Aro and Ace (Specifically for aros, aces, aroaces, aroallos, non-sam aros and non-sam aces)-

@aspecpplarebeautiful (AMAZING blog, active)

@rogue-aces-with-maces (Very awesome blog, active)

@raavenb2619 (Very good blog, makes awesome memes)

Aro/Acespec (General positivity for certain aro/acespec identities)

@mid-community (Amazing blog for newly coined term, aromid, acemid, amid, a little active)

@official-quoisexual (Amazing blog for quoisexuals, fairly active)

@feral-frayromantic4positivity (Amazing blog for not just frayromantics but frays in general, active)

@depressed-demi-for-positivity (Good blog for demis, I'm not sure how active)

@disgruntleddemiro-for-positivity (Amazing blog specifically for demiromantics, I'm not sure how active)

@gravelymadgrayspecforpositivity (AMAZING blog for grayspecs, active)

Oriented AroAces (General Positivity for oriented AroAces)-

@outraged-oriented-for-positivity (AMAZING blog for oriented AroAces, active)

@ornery-oriented-for-positivity (Also amazing blog, fairly active)

So! That concludes my first urbbr! (Still isn't catchy, I'll find a new name) This one was (obviously) specifically for aspecs, acespecs and arospecs, I would do more but this was getting pretty long already, and it's getting pretty late as well and I would like to get this up tonight. I'll do another one tomorrow with more blogs that aren't just aspec! But here's the first edition! Hopefully you guys liked it and this gave you some more positivity? But yea, these blogs are all pretty awesome and you should definitely go follow them!

#aromantic #arospec #arospec positivity #aro #aromantic positivity #asexual #acespec positivity #ace #asexual positivity #oriented aroace #aroallo #aroace #non sam aro #non sam ace #fraysexual #frayromantic #quoisexual #this was much longer than i wanted it to be #masterlist #urbbr #i definitely need a better name #any suggestions? #eh ill figure it out #no one looked this deep into the tags anyways #whoops #special blog spotlight