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#aroace posi
fceriestcrdst · 2 years
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it's pride month & i'm rapidly realizing I'm aro-ace.....because I don't want romantic partnership at-fucking-all. i just want a platonic partnership that's more emotionally intimate than a normal friendship, yanno?? & then sex is just.....not...my...vibe....i...hate it.....like do I write/read about it /yes/ but that doesn't make me any less ace.
i would /never/ want to do that & kissing feels so gross & is so weird???? like do not??? do that??????? & talking about sex outside of fictional characters/self-shipping makes me want to crawl into a hole & die.
i think this is also why I don't find a lot of things most people find hot---hot. I'm just not interested & I've been thinking about this since maybe 2020 onward.
i can be aro-ace & bi/pan & still be valid. i can be these things & poly & still be valid----it's just taken me a long time because aro/ace is shunned during pride month. well, it's shunned always because y'all are too afraid to admit that people can love & want to be loved in ways that aren't romantic or sexual.
anyways....happy pride from your local transmasc nonbinary who has just gone 'oh......oh fuck....' about his sexuality yet again.
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selineram3421 · 11 months
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Head Canons for Outlaw Alastor?
*weird happy noises like a squeaky toy* Yes
Headcanons for Outlaw Alastor
I forgot to ask for more details so I'm just going to do what I can.
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I feel like Outlaw Alastor would only be slightly different.
He's still a gentleman but he flirts a bit.
He would have fans in every universe.
His friend Rosie is like a gang leader and she has her Posies(Like the nursery rhyme) Or the women in her gang would be named after poisonous flowers.
No one messes with Rosie. Not even the law enforcement.
Mimzy would run a saloon and helps hide him out from time to time.
Back to Alastor
I feel like he would be more like an anti-hero? Or something similar. Stealing from the rich and taking down/killing crooked sheriffs. Maybe a bit more.
But corrupt rich assholes don't like that and put a bounty on him.
So he's on the run most of the time, but he does have his out little hideout somewhere. (Haven't thought of what it looks like yet. But its gotta be nice and kinda fancy with the some of the loot he kept for himself.)
Maybe its like a cave somewhere in the canyons, not a mine like Striker's but it does have some glowing green crystals/emeralds on the ceiling or some clusters on the walls of the cave.
Or it could be in a wooded area, a place that isn't too close or too far from towns or cities. Like a hidden cabin in the woods with a secret bunker underground with tunnels for an easy escape just in case.
Now his horse.
Art from this post. Artist is @kalico-of-doom
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I think if he didn't have a place near his hideout for them to rest, he'd have to leave them at a stable.
But it has to be taken care of by someone he trusts that won't rat him out.
If this was an x Reader there's a few roles that the reader can play.
Stable hand that Alastor trusts, or they could work at a resturaunt as a cook/saloon as a bar tender. Maybe an outlaw as well, or a traveling psychic, and there's a lot more.
I'll probably put the rest down later.
Maybe Husk is seen around that bar if the reader is a bartender.
Alastor does flirt with the reader (mostly to get a lower price for his drink or something) but it doesn't work.
"Nice try handsome."
"You think I'm handsome?"
Reader does know how to use a range of weapons. No matter what role they play. (Maybe some specific ones depending on some.)
At some point the two end up being friends (maybe more later) and the reader helps him hide out or points the bounty hunters/law enforcement in the wrong direction.
Alastor is still ace/aroace/maybe demi. Depends I guess? Around the same range.
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That's all for right now but I really enjoyed this.
~Seline, the person.
@ducky-died-inside @willowaudreykeyes @bisexualboba @c4rved-pumpk1n @stolas-thebirb @scary-noodlesblog @naelys-the-aster @+?
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boinails · 1 year
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Downloaded two dating apps since fetlife hasn't been doing it for me as far as meeting chill non-pushy folks; Turn Up and iris. I don't expect much, the premises of them is the main reason I'm there, but who knows maybe a polyamorous sex-posi aroace can thrive on one of them!
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baradyke · 2 years
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My sister is aroace and says shit like "even if I can't think of any reasons why sex posi ace ppl would want to fuck, I still think whatever reasons they have r velid uwu" and it's so baffling to me that she can't understand that wanting to have sex is sexual attraction, and if u don't wanna have sex then u shouldn't. She's like " some ppl define ace differently and I personally never want to go out w anyone but some ppl do!" Like, they're not ace then. She also insists qprs r revolutionary lmao
it's so fucking strange to me how people don't realize that asexuality is the only sexuality that everyone decided can just be different for everybody like hun that isn't how sexuality works. like i can't just say i'm gonna go occasionally fuck men but dw i'm still a lesbian bcus i say so and everyone who invalidates me is just uneducated!! LIKE THIS IS HOW Y'ALL SOUND.
like literally if ur gonna make microidentities (for things that are literally just common preferences but that's another conversation) at least stop pretending like ur still asexual
also lmao qprs are such a funny concept like ok so having a best friend of the same gender makes u queer now? makes sense
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Characters that I belive are aroace (I don’t care about what their authors say, they are aroace for me):
Nico di Angelo (PJO)
All of the Hunters of Artemis (PJO)
Reyna Avila Ramirez Arellano (PJO)
Rachel Elizabeth Dare (PJO)
The Ghost (TCP)
Manon Blackbeak(?) (TOG)
Luna Lovegood (Harry Potter)
Johanna Mason (Hunger Games)
Haymitch Abernathy (Hunger Games)
Effie Trinket (Hunger Games)
Lucien Vanserra (ACOTAR)
Elain Archeron (ACOTAR)
Chaol Westfall (TOG)
Dorian Havilliard (TOG)
Newt (TMR)
Brenda (TMR)
Tam Song (KOTLC)
Biana Vacker (KOTLC)
Elysian <- I don’t even know her but I think she gives off a strong aroace vibe (KOTLC)
Lady Gisela <- she’s married but she only married him because he’s the strongest empath (KOTLC)
Pauline Fossil (Ballet Shoes)
Petrova Fossil (Ballet Shoes)
Posy Fossil (Ballet Shoes)
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aro-ace-artemis · 4 years
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Acespec and Arospec pride snails and slugs ! Inspired by an ask I saw @aspecpplarebeautiful get !
[Image ID: two images on a transparent background. The first has five sea slugs, all curved around each other and floating, in the colors of the frayromantic, lithromantic, quoiromantic, aroflux, and aromantic pride flag colors. The second has five snails, all floating around each other, in the gray-ace, aceflux, aroace, reciprosexual, and asexual pride flag colors. On both images, the characters have a thin white border around them. End ID]
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nekomimipropaganda · 5 years
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Everyone hop aboard the Aspec Positivity Train we ain’t gettin’ off this one for a while
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aspecwlw · 6 years
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🌹🌹💜💚🌹🌹
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thewanderingace · 2 years
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I was listening to Disney music while scrolling your ace posi posts from earlier and it reminded me of a head canon I haven't seen in a while, but do you consider Elsa from Frozen to be ace/aro? Some people think she's an ace lesbian, which I don't mind either but definitely ace spec even if Disney won't have the guts to confirm it
Yes!!! I 100% headcanon Elsa to be both aro and ace and that is a hill I will die on. I was so worried they were gonna give her a romance in the second film and damn I was so happy when that didn't happen! I understand why people want her to be an ace lesbian but I personally don't think she holds any interest or attraction for any gender at all. She's my aroace queen.
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posi-pan · 3 years
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Hey, I already asked something here a few days ago, I hope we're allowed more than one ask lmao. 1rst, how do you feel about bi/pan/omni/poly/ect aroaces talking about issues and problems within these communites? (Ex: I used to think I was pan oriented, and strongly disagreed with changing the pan flag, but I never knew if it was my place to talk about it). Also, what are mspec lesbians/gays? I've seen so much discourse about it but I never learned what it means
hi! you can send as many messages and ask as many questions as you want!
if someone identifies with a label, then they have every right to discuss and voice an opinion on things relevant to that label/community. so mspec oriented aroaces are very much part of mspec communities, and their perspectives and opinions and experiences are important and only make these communities richer.
and i'm gonna direct you to this post that explains mspec lesbians/gays: https://posi-pan.tumblr.com/post/641517055716294656/okay-so-i-tried-to-search-your-blog-before-asking
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the-acid-pear · 3 years
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I adore the aroace icon Posy Florian 🥺
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Can I get some gray positivity? I tried explaining that I like the label ‘gray aroace lesbian’ but she seemed very confused and asked “so are you lesbian? Or ace?” I’m just hhh So yeah can we get some gray asexual positivity up in here? 😔👊
oh hell yeah ill get working on some positivity for u right away! n im sorry people were less than understanding about ur label. grey aroace lesbians are a super important part of the ace, aro, AND lesbian communities and i hope u can meet some people who are more affirming of who you are.
you’re a lesbian AND you’re acespec and that’s a wonderful thing! expect a gray posi post soon, and hang in there!
-mod ep1phany
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aro-ace-artemis · 4 years
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oh ! in case anyone wanted to see my icon and banner in all their glory, here they are !! The artemis at the top is from Fantasia : D !! If anybody wants an edit of their own let me know, I love to make them : ) !
[Image Description: Two edits of Artemis. The first image is Artemis from Disney’s Fantasia’s “Pastoral Symphony.” She stands with a bow drawn, arrow pointing right, a deer at her side. Behind her are the aromantic and asexual flags. The second image is a bust of an Artemis statue, facing right and pulling an arrow from a sheath behind her shoulder. Behind her is the aroace flag, and it is space textured. End description]
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nekomimipropaganda · 5 years
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For all your aro, ace, & aroace needs
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aro-ace-artemis · 4 years
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Ace and aroace pride edits ! First two were for my friend @aceiinspacee (there were 3 more but im not as proud of those) and last two were for me. They’re free to use with credit !
I like to make edits so you’re always free to request icons or banners ! You may need to link to flags that are more obscure though. This is open to more than just acespec and arospec edits, too !
[Image ID: four square pride edit icons. the first is official art of Joker from Persona 5; he is looking right at the camera and has a black and white color scheme except for his red eyes and glove. Behind him is the asexual flag, but with a red tint to match his color scheme. The second image is Sakura Futaba from Persona 5; she is looking down at the camera and holds her vr headset above her head with a grin. Behind her is the aroace flag. The third image is the G-Man from Half-Life: Alyx; he looks directly at the camera with a slight smirk. Behind him is the aroace flag. The fourth image is Ivysaur from pokemon; it is a game sprite from the generation 2 games, edited with his modern color scheme. He looks ready to battle, and faces left. Behind him is the aroace flag, but with pixel highlights. End ID]
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nekomimipropaganda · 5 years
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Y’all seem to jump on the idea of it being ok not having a romantic/sexual relationship until someone’s an adult/in college/EVER until someone says they’re Aro/Ace then all of a sudden y’all start acting like sex and romance are pivotal human experiences everyone SHOULD and MUST have (ESPECIALLY if they’re a minor, which is....gross)
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