#but that’s a me problem

[willowcrowned]

i love tumblr tags. where else can i share an endless deluge of deeply stupid opinions while being sure that it will only reach an audience of people who agree with me

#i of course think all my opinions are deliciously smart and sexy #but that’s a me problem #tunglr #tumblr

[nottspocket]

Hehehe drawing a silly little comic full of silly little characters

#it’s absurdly rewarding #nott be quiet #it’s been a long ass time since I actually drafted a comic properly and planned to go through with it #funnily enough it’s literally just an excuse to draw my comfort character in little outfits #an excuse I admittedly don’t need lmao #but that’s a me problem

[wanderingnork]

Thoughts on Hereditary: first and foremost that was a very good movie, I definitely had a good time watching it! Pacing and timing were *chef’s kiss,* plot was tight, there was really good lighting, the miniatures and effects were absolutely wonderful, acting was spot-on across the board.

Aaaaaand I still think it’s overhyped. As much of a visual and spooky treat as that was, I…didn’t see anything quite as revolutionary as a lot of people said I would? There wasn’t a lot that was unique to Hereditary. I had seen it before. The death of a child sending a parent spiraling into vengeful supernatural madness, a family fracturing under the weight of grief, a demon-worshipping cult, violence with disturbing sound effects, primal screaming. These are all things I’ve heard particularly praised about the movie. All of it was executed beautifully here and, except for the grief support group and heavy-handed tragedy lesson, I thoroughly enjoyed every second. I would happily watch it again!

But it wasn’t new. Pumpkinhead gives us a grieving father who turns to the supernatural for a twisted comfort. The Babadook did “grief is the real monster” four years before Hereditary and included a psychologically tormented mother with a complex relationship to her son, too. Throw a dart and you’ll hit a demon-worshipping cult and the same thing for violence with icky sounds. The desperate screams at the end of Saw are going to live rent-free in my head far longer than I’ll remember the plot of this movie.

Hereditary brought all those things together, but…yeah. I didn’t come out of this saying that my life is forever changed or that Ari Aster is a genius. He did a damn good job with this, the cast and crew put on a spectacle that I agree will endure as a classic. End of the day, though, if I really feel like I need to watch a movie about a family struggling with complicated dynamics, the pitfalls of growing up, and demons…I’ll probably watch The Exorcist again.

#nork rants #the horror tag #also there could have been significantly less fire. #hated that. #but that’s a me problem #…tbh it’s also probably a me problem #that i can rattle off *that* many movies off the top of my head #that fit a similar bill to things in hereditary

[milf-propaganda]

umm should i watch hannibal yes or no??

#i always get to s2 and never finish #but that’s a me problem #not a show problem #so i’ll start at s2 #finish the show then watch s1

[spookyboywhump]

My mom used to make these homemade chocolate bars, and she would just throw anything she wanted in there- peanut butter, pretzel pieces, mini marshmallows, various nuts and candies, raisins, cranberries, coconut flakes, literally whatever she thought would be good. She stopped making them after I got violently sick from eating a batch of the cranberry ones. Still don’t know why that happened, I love cranberries and have never had a problem with them since. Those bars were good, but it was kinda weird getting a different texture every time Mom made them. You just never knew what was going to be in there.

I know people like those things but the idea of not knowing what texture I’m going to get scares me-

#but that’s a me problem #I also have rules on certain textures and flavors #some of them when mixed I simply cannot eat #anonymous

[aroacedavestrider]

people will hear you talk about struggling with mental illness and say “you can do anything if you just put your mind to it”. brother what part of the body does the mental illness happen in. what do you think is the problem

#neurodivergent #adhd #autism #executive dysfunction #shoutout to my dad lmao. mr ‘just outthink it!’ #fuck! dude i never thought of that #waiiiit wait youre telling me all i have to do to overcome the Problems is put my mind to it #ok lemme consult the mind rq #im back. the mind is what has the Problems #my post #dave speaks

[transgayhawkeyepierce]

Everyone reblog with your most unemployable traits

#mine are theif #and I tend to talk people into seeking better jobs so I take like at least one person with me when I go #reblog bait #trans #problems with authority

[variksel]

i hate you ai art i hate you "unalive" i hate you youtube premium i hate you twitter 8$ checkmark i hate you nfts i hate you therapy app advertisements i hate you non-chronological timelines i hate you instagram reels i hate you subtle tiktok filters that cant be turned off i hate you family bloggers i hate you ads on true crime episodes i hate you facebook i hate you vr glasses on chickens i hate you dystopian social media

#sorry but genuinely sometimes i feel like we live in a fucking dystopia #i get ads of chat bots designed to look like cute girls who will listen to your problems and it. god #its so unbelievably strange in some indescribable way #how am i supposed to explain that the word unalive makes me want to tear my hair out #vent #rant #idk

[stuckinapril]

#FUCKING ME #It’s actually a problem like I’ve become sm more avoidant than I used to be

[gibbearish]

love when ppl defend the aggressive monetization of the internet with "what, do you just expect it to be free and them not make a profit???" like. yeah that would be really nice actually i would love that:)! thanks for asking

#yes i want things to be free like ??? that is not a weird desire #'but but it costs money to keep up' ok and? how is that my problem #the government has plenty of murder dollars they could reallocate a few to make internet services universal if they wanted #also these companies were perfectly capable of supporting themselves before the internet got drowned with ads so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ #edit: muting notifs on this post bc new additions have kind of petered out #so no one feel bad about adding something someone else has said‚ it is not bothering me im just trying to keep my #notifs page cleanish lol #also since i saw some people are being redirected to read my tags: firstly hiiiiii this is a special secret message for you:3 #secondly i have learned since making this that the reason they were able to support themselves previously was because #of investors bankrolling everything #and theyre now finally realizing that theyre never going to actually make a profit and arent as willing to invest #however thats just a minor correction and doesnt change my overall point #once again. so many murder dollars #so thats why im just adding it here in the tags rather than making an actual correction #anyways . love yall 💕 #origibberish #bigger gibbers

[komodocloud]

do you guys ever feel like an outcast even in a group full of outcasts. like i'm autistic and even in groups full of neurodivergent people i'm still excluded sometimes. i don't understand why

#vent post #actually autistic #autism #is it just me #i don't understand what the problem is #am i just weird #neurodivergent #being autistic

[just-french-me-up]

this is a PSA for fic writers who haven't updated in a while :

there are fics out there I'm subscribed to that have gone double digit months without updating.

rest assured the moment those babies catapult an AO3 email my way i'm dropping from the face of the earth to sink my teeth into them

i'll wait, and so will your readers

#writing #writing nightmare #writeblr #writers #writer's problems #writing problems #fanfiction #fanfic #fanfic writers #this is a psa from me to me honestly #cause I have not abandoned my child #my brain is just suffering from my workload #mine

[greelin]

when you put a load of laundry in

#posts that scare you if you have problems. like me

[greykolla-art]

⚠️Please don’t touch the sexy deer, it’s not flirting with you. ⚠️

I’ve got a thing for Vox being a fuckboi who keeps thinking their tension is gonna lead to hate sex. 😂

#grey art #hazbin hotel fanart #hazbin hotel #radiostatic #one sided radiostatic #complicated relationships yummy! #alastor #vox #hazbin vox #hazbin alastor #it’s also fun to see these scenes with an ace character #I have had a guy say that exact line to me #I felt absolutely nothing #😂 #ace problems #✌️

[pinklavenderdoll]

#female rage #devine feminine #female hysteria #female experience #female insanity #the feminine urge #femcore #female manipulator #girlblog #girlblogging #coquette #girl interrupted #cinnamon girl #coquette girl #girlblogger #girl blogger #girlhood #lana del rey #girl problems #manic pixie dream girl #girlcore #dream girl #this is what makes us girls #literally me #victoria secret #pretty when you cry #sylvia plath #just girly posts #just girly things #girlrotting

[july-19th-club]

seriously have been thinking about this all night long. call me autistic but the fact that 90% of workplaces the point is not to get your work done and then be done doing it but to instead perform an elaborate social dance in which you find something to do even when you're done doing everything you need to do in order to show your fellow workers that you, too, are Working . because you are at Work . disgusting why cant we all agree that if there is no work immediately to be done. we just dont do anything

#i personally like to not be doing things constantly at all times. it stresses me out #i know there are ppl who thrive on cosntant activity #but me i like to chill out. #and the problem then becomes that i only ACTIVELY remember to do work and Find More Work To Do when im stressed #at the thought that others might want to see me working #if im ever relaxed i just dont look for stuff to do #catch 22 of modern work culture which permeates even ostensibly noncapitalist structures like public libraries #for instance: will it really kill anybody if the books get shelved by me now after a very busy day? #or shelved tomorrow morning by. well probably me since i'll be the one at the desk #not in the slightest #but it was work that wasnt being immediately done by me. therefore it was incorrect behavior #that i failed to identify because my instinct is to relax when not immediately presented with a Situation #this got me labeled as 'having no initiative' by my dad from a very early age #and even as an adult i still feel like im a child with no initiative