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[headphonesthoughts]

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[blackgirlslivingwell]

Confessions of Childfree Black Women

While the decision to have children is a personal one, women who voluntarily decide not to have children still face a lot of questioning and judgment from society. There's this assumption that all women want to be mothers, that a woman's life isn't complete unless she has kids. In today's video, we're going to take a look at a few confessions from childfree Black women that are from various social media sources.

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[chichimodele]

When we talk IT GIRL, Tracee Ellis-Ross is who we’re talking about 💋

- Childfree

- Marriage free

- Cosmopolitan lady

- Rich auntie

#childfree #childfree women #tracee ellis ross #cosmopolitan woman #marriage free women #rich auntie #rich aunty #muse #it girl

[niuniente]

Mom’s acquaintance: Do you have grandchildren? Mom: No and not going to have any. My daughters will not have children, they have said so. Mom’s acquaintance: My daughter said the same! Like “Mom, never expect any kids from me!” and now she’s got two kids :) So your daughters will change their minds, too, just wait for it :) My sister and I:

#childfree by choice #childfree #funniest is that we're both too old to have kids anymore #there's a VERY TINY chance for a natural pregnancy would it be a desire #so if we wanted kids we both have fought for it 10 years ago #but sure I guess I still don't know myself but an unknown woman does :)

[bklynmusicnerd]

Jared is starting to resent his mother running the game and Cirie is not picking up on that because she thinks it should be obvious to him that she's playing for him as much as she's playing for herself. The Blue thing might be the final straw for him.

He's weak-willed, resentful, loose-lipped, and casually misogynistic to boot. If Cory wants to eventually take out Cirie before she takes him out, Jared (the Fredo of the season) will be his pathway to doing that. Yes, Cory is too comfortable rn, but he's got options because Jared is a huge blindspot for Cirie.

#bb25 #jared doesn't respect women and he hates taking orders from them #even if the woman in question is his whole ass reality comp vet mother #cory can use that sadly #this is so godfather part 2 but cirie won't take him out like michael took out fredo #and that might be her downfall #team childfree is going up because look at this mess

[mapsofinnerspace]

CHILDFREE

People always assume that children and marriage are a packaged deal. Someone who doesn’t want children may still want marriage and vice versa. But it actually depends on the person.

As “weird” as it sounds, I want a committed relationship and maybe marriage for my future, without the need of kids. However, it seems like when I find a guy who is also child free, he also doesn’t want emotional commitment nor marriage.

I’ve noticed that most child free men are also marriage free and even commitment free. They’re usually fuck boys in disguise, who hide behind a mask of politeness and neatness, but just want to fuck around for the rest of their lives with no kids and no actual emotional commitment at all, let alone marriage.

It seems committed men who don’t want kids are REALLY hard to find.

#childfree #no children #fuck boy #fuckboys #deep thinking #this is depressing #intj things #intj thoughts #my thoughts #intj life #intj female #thoughts #single woman #intj woman #feminism #commitment

[melimata613]

As a woman who is 30 years old, I’d like to say I think I know a thing or two about myself. I’ve had the “ability to get pregnant “ for 2 decades now and going on my 3rd. I remember vividly when I got my first menstrual cycle my mother was almost a little too happy about it. She went on and on about now being able to create a life and carry inside. For as long as I can remember have never had any want or desire to take care of children or to have my own. I remember saying to her that I did not want to be a “young woman” and did not want to be “able to make a child.” I was 10 at the time and she had just laughed at what I said. And for many years after that, she continued to scoff and roll her eyes at the thought of me not wanting to be a mother.

Growing up I did not like hanging out with children my age. I always wanted to be with the adults. I have never looked at a mother and thought gee I want that. Nothing about motherhood interests me. Not getting pregnant. The act of childbirth. Taking care of the said child. Or dealing with school functions, recitals, games, and or anything to do with child events.

I do not wish any ill or pain to any children. I get mad when I hear or see mistreatment. But do I wish to step into the role to fix it, no.

I grew up with parents that I do not believe should have had children. They were young and children themselves at the time. My mom was pregnant at 18 and again at 19 and again at 21. That always seemed nuts to me.

I remember being forced against my will to take care of my cousins growing up. Did not appreciate. I understand that adults need time but I am not your resident babysitter especially when I was 16 or so when that shit would happen.

Growing up in LV I would always see large families of unruly children and it always upset me. The lack of supervision of the kids I truly did not understand. I know that kids are still learning but as an adult and their parent you should be teaching them right from wrong. Right? Your child should not be screaming at the top of their lungs because you didn’t want to buy them a stupid toy. Your child is not supposed to be climbing up strangers and asking for what they are eating. Don’t you touch them stranger danger???

Kids are gross to me. They shit on themselves. They throw up on themselves. They piss on themselves. They always get dirty no matter what. They smell. I don’t understand why they are always sticky. It is just not for me.

I do not have the patience nor do I want to gain the patience. I feel for kids the way someone might feel about animals. Some people are not pet-friendly people. Which I get. I am not too crazy about dogs. I prefer dogs over kids. And I prefer cats over dogs.

Just a rant. I got to the point where I am tired of acting like I can just suffer in silence with children around when I can’t. They are too loud for my comfort. Top hyper and active for my comfort. Hate when I catch one just staring at me. Like no. I can not.

I can choose to avoid them as much as possible and that is what I want to do. No offense to any parents. I just feel indifferent to every child.

Now that I have explored social media and just the internet I know that I am not alone. I am a child-free woman who does not like children. Just because I have ovaries and a fucking vagina does not mean I automatically love children and want to step into a role to take care of them and love them.

Plenty of people become parents that should not be. Plenty of people wish to be one but can’t. Life is shitty sometimes. I doubt my thoughts of children will change since I am 30 and it has never floundered but who knows.

I am done faking a smile when your annoying child annoys me. Will I be mean to them no but I will walk away and not engage. I think my patience is at negative at this point in my life.

#childfree #woman #a rant #chicago

[swagging-back-to]

elderly childfree women are always the funniest people on the planet.

#by elderly i just mean over 60 #aka old enough to have gone through the period where you were required to get a husband and inevitably have children #and yet they did not. #one of my science teachers was like a 60yo woman with a husband and yet she was childfree #the funnest teacher ive had. was great. #i learned sooo much from her. #and hot take all the 18yos with kids are the most boring people

[everrgrreeen]

not to get too existential on main or anything but like. maybe there isn’t someone for everyone, romantically speaking. maybe some of us are just meant to be alone. because just the thought of having to date people, having to open up/alter your home and your life for someone else in the name of romantic partnership seems so exhausting to me, especially after trying for so long and constantly being let down in one way or another. i have gotten to the point in life where i am SO happy being alone. do i sometimes crave intimacy like any other human being? sure. but my peace doesn’t feel worth sacrificing to maybe find someone i can tolerate most of the time.

#much to think about #and for the record I feel like I may fall somewhere on the ace spectrum so sex isn’t really even an issue for me #like I could go the rest of my life without having sex with someone and it really wouldn’t bother me #also as an otherwise heterosexual cisgender woman my prospects on men are just… Not Great #also I should mention I am not aromantic #I am very much romantic actually #but I just feel like I’ll be alone forever because I refuse to settle #and I also refuse to use dating apps and that is unfortunately where most people my age range in their late 20s/early 30s meet people #and I think they are dumb and I don’t want to do that #plus I am vehemently childfree so there goes a lot of men lol but ones I wouldn’t be interested in anyways

[michellezagenda]

i love moms. not in the perverted pornsick way but in the way that i’m grateful for some moms and their existence. I love how women can be so nurturing and ready to give up everything just for another little being. I love working with moms and how they’ll work just to provide for their child they love so dearly. I love how some moms make a big deal out of their babies birthdays or how some moms collect loads and loads of photos of their kids over the years… makes me smile. Not all moms are great but i’m talking about the idea of moms & how it is so comforting & peaceful. No father could ever match a mothers love even if he loves his kids so so so so so much it still couldn’t compare. i love moms <3

#i love moms #radblr #women #childfree #god is a woman

[oh-dear-so-queer]

The idea that a single woman might think of herself as the equal to a man was derided by the late nineteenth-century radical thinker and poet Edward Carpenter, who said in 1897 that spinster feminists were 'out of line . . . Such women do not altogether represent their sex; some are rather mannish in temperament; some are "homogenic", that is inclined to attachments to their own sex rather than the opposite sex; such women are ultra-rationalising and brain-cultured; to many, children are more or less a bore; to others, man's sex-passion is a mere impertinence, which they do not understand, and whose place they consequently misjudge.'

"Normal Women: 900 Years of Making History" - Philippa Gregory

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[unhinged-diaries]

I fuckin hate this world bro. The only reason I’m actively participating is bc I was brought here without my conscious consent and I can’t live my entire life in survival mode. This place is filled with evil people who get away with doing horrible things to others. Religion is my only form of escape and I pray that there’s an afterlife frl bc I simply cannot deal with living otherwise. I pray that I get to watch evil ppl suffer like a movie or something equally as satisfying.

At the end of the day I’m comforted by the fact that I’m never bringing children into this world. Specifically a daughter. Idk how ppl do it but maybe it’s their coping mechanism. Sounds selfish if you ask me but hey.

#childfree by choice #muslim #hate it here #hate being a woman

[judgementkazukun]

whatever happens in infinite wealth i really don't care all i know for sure is kiryu in america = kiryu's costco awakening

#never been more into my bf than when he was like #'maybe we should get a costco membership when we move' #like i didn't pose the idea 2 months ago when our offer got accepted but glad he's on board #between that and our plans to open a home depot credit card #i am about to find kiryu so much more relatable #in my middle aged Dad™️ era #as a late 20s childfree woman lmfaooo #ooc #delete later //

[poppy5991]

Me when I find out Sapphire Sandalo is childfree:

#love when a woman I already think is cool turns out to be childfree #yessss Queen

[babybluebanshee]

Strive to be the kind of person and live your life in a way that would infuriate "Classically" Abigail Shapiro-Roth.

#daily life with blue #i just watched tara mooknee's new video about her #and she's somehow even more insufferable than the first time i heard about her #it makes me want to be a childfree working sometimes-woman even harder than i already was #just to piss her off #if classically abby has one hater it is me #classically abby #childfree #reproductive rights #pro choice #reproductive rights are human rights

[li1ydelrey]

to be honest

i always see i don't want kids. the reasons are obvious, the childbirth and everything after is traumatic (at least for me) and i couldn't deal with all of it. i'm struggling with my body image rn and i don't want to imagine what it would be like after the birth. also, i don't want to lose my identity.

but the biggest reason, i've only told one person is weird ig

i'd be so hearbroken if my child would be bullied or they were the bully. i couldn't deal with that. children are cruel these days, and i can't imagine my child crying or being sad, because someone was mean to them. what's worse, if i didn't do a good job rising a child. i'd cry and i think i'd hate my child if they were a bully. idk it's so fucked up

#childfree #opinion #woman #bullying #depression core