#disability selfship

[peachships]

Y'know, I don't think I've seen positivity posts for mobility aid users, so I'm gonna make one!

Your loves don't see you as any different if you use a mobility aid, ambulatory or otherwise. It's an extension of you, and they love every part of you. Your aids help you, and they value that and cherish you!

#I'm an ambulatory cane user #and I used to get self-conscious about using it #i love my canes and i love my babes #i feel like they'd help me pick out new canes in fun patterns #disability selfship #selfship positivity #I'm too lazy to use tags #peachy thoughts

[orchidshroomgardenselfships]

For my selfshippers who happy stim: Fun fact, your f/o LOVES seeing it! Knowing you’re happy makes their heart soar, and seeing you happy stim, whether you’re excited, or happy, makes them so happy too!! They love you so dearly and wouldn’t trade you for anything.

*Proship DNI*

#orchid's flowerbed #selfship #selfshipping #adhd selfship #autistic selfship #selfship positivity #neurodivergent selfship #neurodivergent selfship positivity #Disabled selfship positivity #Selfship imagines #selfship imagines #Dni proship #Proship dni

[canineluvz]

i love you disabled self shippers. i love you self shippers going through a flare up. i love you self shippers with chronic pain. i love you self shippers with brain fog. i love yo self shippers who get dizzy when they stand up. i love you self shippers who use mobility aids. i love you self shippers who cant get a diagnosis. i love you self shippers with mental disabilities. i love you self shippers who are getting worse, and dont know what to do. i love you self shippers who cant go to a doctor. i love you disabled self shippers.

#♡ canineluvz positivity #self ship #selfship #self shipping #self ship positivity #disabled self shipper #disabled self ship #proship selfship #proship friendly #proselfship

[thesufferbug]

Hey, disabled selfshippers. Remember that your F/O loves you, that they care about you and your needs.

They would never do something to overwork or cross your boundaries. They would treasure any kind of time with you, whether it would be on a bad or a good day. They would love to help you around, to give you a hand at something if you ever needed it.

Anything you make them, they would treasure, any kind of time, any affection, anything really you have the energy to give them, they aren't going to be upset if your needs get harder to manage, if you need more time to yourself, or more help. they're going to be by your side, as long as they need to.

#self ship #selfship #self shipping #selfshipper #f/o community #f/o imagine #selfshipping #f/o #romantic f/o #romantic fictional other #romantic selfship #platonic f/o #platonic fictional other #platonic selfship #disabled selfshipper #disabled #queerplatonic selfship #queerplatonic fictional other #queerplatonic f/o #familial selfship #familial fictional other #familial f/o #f/o imagines #f/o positivity

[jasontoddssuper]

Free Percy Jackson,Jason Todd and Hobie Brown from the Swiftie boyfriend allegations

Edit:Hp/Marauder's Era fans liking is Wild.You're literally Switfies in book nerd form

#no because i was in percy's selfship tag and i was literally chanting 'please no new switfie posts please no new switfie posts' #and wouldn't you FUCKIN' know it THERE was one.LEAVE HIM ALONE HE'D LITERALLY BEAT HER ASS HE'S CANONICALLY POOR AND DISABLED #and jason?????he screams mcr and green day and the metal genre and if he liked indie girl shit it would be actual ones not wannabes #i don't need to say anything about hobie but i don't even selfship with him romantically(that's my baby brother and son figure) #but i'm constantly slapped in the face with him.percy is punk-coded hobie is the embodiment of black punk youth and jason is a whole slashe #why would they listen to the goddess of white privilige.gimme literally one reason i quadruple dog dare you #percy jackson #jason todd #hobie brown #anti taylor swift #pjo #hoo #batfam #ditf #lost days #utrh #rhato #teen titans:damian edition #dead sidekicks force #new ember days #lego batman/superman:family matters #spiderverse #atsv #btsv #spiderman #black percy #latino percy #afrolatino jason supremacy #letters from summer #x reader

[catras-witchy-girlfriend]

For my disabled selfshippers, whether that be mentally or physically, your f/o loves you.

Even on your bad days.

Even when you're in so much pain all you want to do is scream and cry.

Even when you forget important things, or make mistakes.

Even when you keep them up all night with your night terrors, or wake them up to help you with your meds because you can't get it yourself.

Even when you can't get yourself out of bed and sleep for most of the day.

They love you when you talk too loud and when you can't talk at all.

They love you when you infodump about random things they don't have a clue about.

They love you when you're stimming really badly, or screaming uncontrollably, and when you're trashing around from a seizure or meltdown.

They love you, even when you hate yourself. Even when you can't see why they love you, they still do.

You don't have to be perfect for them to love you, you don't have to be good, you don't even have to be okay!

They don't love you only for your good days, they love you for you. And you is messy, you is weak, you is scared, and you is angry, and they love that about you!

You're not their burden.

You're not someone they're forced to babysit.

You're not a headache.

You're their heart.

You're who loves them the most.

You're the best thing that's ever happened to them.

You love them, even if no one else does, you love them. You see the good in them. You see them for what they are, and they aren't perfect.

The same fear that you have, that you're too much or too little for them? They have it too.

They worry they're not enough for you too.

But they believe in your love for them. They believe you when you tell them how much you love them. So please, for their sake, believe them when they tell you they love you, because even if they've never told the truth before, how much they love you could never be a lie.

#catras witchy girlfriend #comfort character #romantic f/o #self shipping #f/o #nd selfship #disabled selfship #nurodivergent selfship #nurodivergent!reader #autistic selfship #selfship imagines #f/o x s/i #f/o x you #f/o x reader #f/o imagines #f/o imagine #comfort imagine #imagine your fictional other #imagine your f/o

[puppyparkmoving]

Autistic selfshippers u are amazing and your f/o adores you and they love hearing you infodump and seeing how happy your special interests make you. They love your collections and passions. They love your stims and expressions. The way you talk and the way you are. They love you completely and entirely. You are perfect to them not in spite of your autism and symptoms but just entirely and unconditionally!

#allistics if u fucking touch this like omg sooo me but i have depression; adhd; anything not autism.... i will fucking come to your house #and kill you in your sleep #happy disability pride month my autistic beloveds #self shipping community #self shipping #self ship #self ship imagines #selfship community #selfshipping community

[fo-userboxes]

This user's F/O are disabled/ headcanons their F/Os disabled!

No need to credit, but appreciated. Asks & requests always open.

#f/o #f/o community #fictional other #selfship community #self shipping #self ship #selfshipping #selfship #selfship userboxes #selfship userbox #userbox #userboxes #disability #disabilities #disability pride

[transandrophobia-truther-turtle]

Marginalized people, especially queer women and transmasculine and nonbinary people, are the main targets of anti-shippers' harassment. By design.

You're less likely to be able to affect a rich abled cis white male showrunner, but you can easily run a poor disabled transmasc fanfiction writer of color off the Internet.

And their goal isn't genuine change - it's just the feeling of righteous power you can get from bullying others. They've made that obvious by their refusal to listen to experts on the subjects of fiction and psychology.

#proship safe #proship #pro ship #proshipping #pro shipping #proshipper #pro shipper #proship positivity #pro shippers #pro fic #profic #pro fiction #anti anti #proselfship #proship please interact #proshippers #proship selfship #selfproship #original #disclaimer that i'm sure i'm forgetting a relevant axis of oppression - i almost forgot dis/ability despite being disabled myself

[v0latileromantic]

okey dokey this is the first art i’ve doodled where i let my self insert be in a wheelchair like me irl… i am very confident about this and not self conscious at all!

#i’m actually super happy with these doodles!! #and penguin is perfect for it because he’s so short he’d be the same height as me sitting #ok to rb #selfship art #tag: art #tag: top hat #self shipping #selfship community #fictional other community #disabled selfship #disabled selfshipper

[punkeropercyjackson]

I found a Toh couple dressup game but wasn't interested in making anything romantic so i made Hunter and my self-insert Verano instead because i'm familial selfship trash!!!

1st is post their episode but still in season 2(their ep is called 'Little Pink Riding Hood and The Hunter')and 2nd is post series/from the epilogue but more importantly post and from when Hunter and or should i say Diana started her transition💛💙💗

#wafflecake #< familial selfship tag #verano azul #hunter noceda-deamonne #transfem hunter #diana noceda-deamonne #autistic hunter #hunter is disabled #grimwalker mom #the dragon of summer #toh #toh spoilers #real self shipping hours #transmasc/transfem solidarity #punk hunter #💌 #picrew #summerposting

[orchidshroomgardenselfships]

For my selfshippers who struggle with executive dysfunction, and adhd paralysis, your f/o sees you. They see you’re trying, and they’re proud of you. They don’t think you’re lazy, and when you complete a task you have to do, no matter how small, they’re proud of you. They’re right there by your side, cheering you on every step of the way.

*Proship Dni*

#orchid's flowerbed #orch talks #selfshipping #selfship #selfship positivity #disabled self shipper #Autistic selfship #adhd selfship #Neurodivergent selfship #selfship imagines #Selfship imagines #Dni proship #Proship dni

[canineluvz]

your f/o’s would support you in getting mobility aids, and other things to help your disability (like compression sleeve or braces)

#thinking about my f/o’s helping me pick out crutches #:3 #♡ canineluvz positivity #self ship #self shipping #selfship #self ship positivity #f/o #fictional other #f/o positivity #disabled self shipper #proship friendly #proship selfship #proselfship

[thesufferbug]

Just laying in silence with your F/O, in their arms as you drift off under a nice blanket. That's what I wish rn, so badly. Just sleep.

#self ship #selfship #self shipping #selfshipper #selfshipping #f/o #f/o imagines #i'm fucking tired and in pain rn #flair ups #disabled

[shirogane-oushirou]

Out-of-Control

* . ⊹ a villain!ren moodboard

💜 🩷 💜 🩷 🧬 🩷 💜 🩷 💜 * . ⊹ div

so like... there's this guy infected with a hivemind organism... smile... twirls hair twirls hair...

so much of v!ren's aesthetic is just Villains Hot... this was all doc!ren initially, when i first dreamed him up almost a year ago, but the dream had a couple of "plot holes" that i wanted to fix. and before i knew it, i had a complete story with Themes and Motifs in place of "hehe supernatural eye glow hehe evil laughter hehe weird creature goo" :( so obviously i had to bring it all back as an AU and silence the part of me that needs everything to make total sense. 👏🏻✨

he's also VERY much my exploration of some of the symptoms of my various illnesses. he was even a parasitologist in the original dream, and i thought that was a little too on-the-nose so i changed it KJSNDFKJN ;;;

#i talk broadly about being disabled but i don't think i've mentioned specifics here? i'm not SHY about it. i just don't bring it up. #and the tags of this post isn't the place to do that LMAO but we do definitely share a lot of symptoms even if the cause is different! #for ref wrt his symptoms: some friends and i joke that i have hina.mizawa syndrome. and v!ren's issues are very similar to mine. so! #📌 [ my posts. ] #🫧 [ 046 moodboards. ] #🧃 [ who is in control. ] #selfship #self ship #selfshipping #self shipping #blood - #mind control -

[spoonie-selfships]

if you have periods where you go mute or cant move or respond in any way , your f/o will never get mad at you for it. they know its not something you choose to do , they know you're not ignoring them either nor will they pressure you to answer they'll let you do things at your own pace , whatever that pace may be

and out of these moments , maybe they work with you to try and figure out the best ways to communicate whether that be through communication cards , sign language , letter boards , pencil and paper , text , or more simple methods like blinking or moving a finger or some other part of your body

they want you to feel safe and unpressured with them because they love All of you , not just the parts that are "convenient" for others

they love , accept , and embrace these parts of you because they make up who you are

#- 🐱 #spoonie selfships #f/o #f/o community #selfshipping #self ship #selfship #imagine your f/o #f/o imagine #f/o imagines #actually disabled #disability #disabled #selective mutism #autism #actually autistic