What would it be like to be spock,s mate/ other half ?
This goes for a Non-Vulcan, gender-neutral reader
Words: 841
Warnings: none
First off, Spock would cherish and love you very much – in his own way.
So at fist it would take you some time to being able to read him and find out what his love language and way of showing his caring for you is.
Maybe that first phase can be frustrating because it feels like he’s still rather distant. Tho he’d actually need some time to get used to the whole situation and know how to deal with it.
But once you figured him out, so much he did earlier in the relationship would make sense. And of course anything else he does in the future.
It would take him some time too to get to know and fully trust you before he will tell you about what he thinks (and feels if he does have a feeling for once)
He will almost never say ‘I love you’ but use other words like ‘I cherish you’ or ‘You mean very much to me’ or ‘I must admit that I am feeling a sense of happiness I cannot and do not wish to suppress if I think about you having decided to be my mate’.
Which, if you consider him being Vulcan, is something very sweet to say.
He will always remember anything you told him and not forget any birthdays, anniversaries etc. and will also be able to gift you something that you maybe just mentioned in passing.
He’s not the most touchy person – especially in the beginning – and will not often initiate physical contact with you. Or at least ask first like if you’d like a hug when you’re not feeling well.
Which doesn’t mean he doesn’t like physical contact – it's just something he’s not used to and after a while he will even enjoy it when you just hug him. (But of course you respect his boundaries if he sets any and will also try to hold back some touches so you’re not constantly touching him)
If you don’t work on the same ship as he does, your relationship often becomes long-distance, consisting mainly of regular calls.
Which also means that moments he’s back with you are something to be cherished and enjoyed, making you try to spend as much time together as you can.
He’d make it clear that he also has a responsibility to the crew and the ship. Meaning his work usually comes first.
Then again, if he feels like your life is in danger he might even make a rash and not so logical decision sometimes.
Your little quirks would amuse him to no end and he’d find them super cute but he’d never admit it.
But if you mention them being silly, he will correct you, saying they’re a part of you and that he loves you as a person and you wouldn’t be you without your quirks, meaning he doesn’t want you without them.
You totally could have long talks with him and sometimes the biggest challenge is that they don’t turn into a monologue of him where he’s talking and talking about a topic. (eg something scientific or one of their adventures they’ve been on)
Of course you would introduce your families to each other and Amanda loves you from second one, treating you like a second child
Sarek is of course more reserved about it all and he might seem scary at the beginning but with time you learn to read him too and that he means very well and is fond of you as well.
Spock would teach you a lot about Vulcan and it’s culture while you try to show him things from your world and make him more open to them. And it’s much fun to see him try and struggle with some things (take Inline skating as a basic example)
Jealousy would totally not be a thing. Because you know that if someone flirts with him it would be illogical if he paid attention to it (and might not even notice what they’re doing). And he trusts you too and knows that there is nothing he has to worry about if people try to flirt with you.
However, there sometimes is the thought within him that he fears you could leave him for ‘someone better’, who is from your own race and would be able to show their love for you more openly.
Meaning that then it’s up to you to comfort and reassure him that he’s the only person in the whole galaxy you want.
It gets better once you get married because of the mating bond that would be done then.
The wedding would be mixed, part Vulcan, part from your world. And it most likely would come to be when he’s experiencing Pon-Farr.
But he has informed you about it and even proposed so he’d know that if it happens to him you will be willing to take him as your husband (or wouldn’t feel forced to just do it to save his life) and that it isn’t all totally surprising to you.
Thank you so much for your ask and sorry this took a while.
(also I really hope I got it right and this was about what you wanted xD)
186 notes
·
View notes
heyy! can u do reader straddling rafe on his bed while just playing w him like annoying him but deep down he thinks it’s cute ☺️
-🫧anon
thinking of this w gamer!Rafe <3
˚𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒✧˚.🎀༘⋆
just thinking about him trying to act all annoyed but he can’t help but think about how cute you look. sitting all pretty on his lap, little skirt riding up just enough to let him catch a glimpse of the white lacy panties he bought you last week <33
rolling his eyes with a smile plastered on his face as he tries to wrestle you off so he can regain proper control of his character in the game.
“baby, c’mon you’re making me lose here.” he laughs ever so slightly, trying to wriggle around enough to make you roll off.
“don’t careee!” you singsong, holding your ground. you decide to meddle even more, and so you roll your hips slightly against his.
he lets out a half annoyed groan “you’re really tryin’ here aren’t you sweetie,” he’s still doing his best to look past you and salvage his game. smashing the buttons on his controller a bit more aggressively than he genuinely needs to. “gonna get yourself bent over my lap if you’re not careful.”
˚𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒✧˚.🎀༘⋆
478 notes
·
View notes