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ferretwhomst · 10 months

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gravity falls queer headcanons, just for funsies <3

i'm gonna put these under a readmore actually because Wow There Is A Lot More Shit Than I Expected. gaze upon my based ass gender and sexuality takes at yer own risk /j

Dipper i think the general consensus in the gf fandom is that he's transmasc. and as a trans guy i LOVE this hc!!!! but i Also love to see dipper portrayed as other trans identities. like... tgirl dipper is also a favorite of mine, she holds a very special place in my heart. nby or genderfluid dipper even!!! i could go on, but bottom line is he is whatever i want him to be at any given time <3 as for his sexuality? probably some flavor of acespec but he's personally unlabeled, previously questioning but i figure he eventually decided it's not worth his time trying to find a label that fits. he definitely likes people of all genders though

Mabel mabel is ABSOLUTELY the sorta person to aggressively hoard gender labels and pronouns like a crow collecting shiny things. crunch has ALL the gender and ALL the pronoun. in fact, sometimes it makes him kinda sad when someone who knows bee goes by all pronouns exclusively uses "she" for fluff (not that this happens often!!! a quick glare from the grunks and the offender is put in their place lol). she lovessss femininity and actively embraces it all the time but it's not ONLY a girl- xey id as an autigender xenocollector girlboy and also as pan and nebularomantic!!!! boom probably knits their flags into all cake's sweaters too >:D

Ford previously identified as a binary trans man, but after spending three decades in another dimension and interacting with different species with other perceptions of gender, they now id as transmasc nonbinary. he doesn't mind he/him or they/them but he also likes neopronouns! (better believe ford has neos in languages you've never even heard of!!!) especially space-themed or science-themed ones. him and mabel definitely get along over using neos btw. also rift is demiromantic, demisexual and gay :) he was overjoyed when they found out about the ace/aro spectrum- because for a long time they felt like the fact that they only seldom felt attraction meant something was wrong with sol.

Stan trans nonbinary man who isn't picky with labels. while him and ford are both transmasc and nonbinary, he has a VERY different experience with it than his brother- he's very much a man, except she also likes to be a woman sometimes just for fun. stan probably spent a lot of time in his youth trying to be hypermasculine so he could pass better and fit in but now he Doesn't Care and just has fun confusing people by being a grumpy old guy who's also a lady sometimes. prefers he/him but genuinely doesn't care if people use other pronouns for her. also my man is bisexual as FUCK, mostly equal attraction to all genders but plays up his love for women a lot becausee... growing up during the 60s will do that to you i think.

BONUS ROUNDDDDDDDDDDD

Soos unlabeled sexuality, genderfluid and/or nonbinary with left bro in the words of one wise anon on tumblr dot com. uses he/him but other pronouns are fine too

Wendy abrosexual transmasc tomboy with no desire to medically transition. likes to present as masculine but only sometimes. gets along with stan over gender fuckery! uses she/he

Pacifica transfem lesbian, mainly uses she/they until mabel introduces her to jewel neopronouns and ruby immediately steals them

Fiddleford greyromantic, bi and polyamorous binary trans man! like wendy, he's never cared much for the idea of medically transitioning. uses he/it but doesn't mind other pronouns

Bill aromantic, asexual and agender babey. uses any/all pronouns, though people usually default to he/him, which she doesn't really mind either!

#probably gonna use these from now on whenever i post abt these guys #ferret rambles #gravity falls #dipper pines #mabel pines #ford pines #stan pines #soos ramirez #wendy corduroy #pacifica northwest #fiddleford mcgucket #bill cipher

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lawtistic · 1 year

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death note hcs

i just want to post crap so here u go

light - if a gay couple were to talk to him i generally think he wouldnt mind but once he realized hes a homosexual hed lose his balls and cry over the bathroom sink. he also uses he/him and if you use anything else for him he’ll politely correct you (hes insulting you in his head)

L - queer icon. he’s never thought about his identity at all and is very casual about it, and if you ask him he’ll probably just shrug or say something way over complicated. he’s also he/him but if you used anything else on him he wouldnt say anything, he doesnt really care.

misa - misa is a CHAOTIC bisexual and she’s very open about it. (i love the lesbian misa hc as well i just prefer this one) she uses she/her but is pretty okay with she/they as well :)

near - aroace !! i love aroace near (however i may be biased being aroace myself) and i think hed be fine using any pronouns

mello - pan !! i can see arguments for him being gay as well, but i personally see him as generally not caring for the gender of whoever he’s in a relationship with. mello uses any pronouns also

matt - ah, another chaotic bisexual! he/they matt is the justice lights searching for in that one song

matsuda - i have a lot of ideas for him, and cant settle on one. i do really like aroace matsuda, but can see arguments for literally anything else as well, so i’ll settle for queer or unlabeled matsuda. he/him and will laugh it off if you use anything different

takada - HEAVY omnisexual who generally doesnt talk about it, but will tell you if asked. strictly uses she/her and if you use anything else she’ll shoot a very icy look at you and clear her throat.

mikami - unlabeled king who is most definitely on the aroace spectrum (but i dont see him going all the way) he/him but doesnt mind anything else

naomi - straight, probably. but if someone argued she’d be anything else, i could see that as well. love her tho! naomi also uses she/her, but, despite being a cishet, would misora massacre homophobes

beyond birthday - i absolutely did not forget this absolute embodiment of pansexual chaos he is an icon and will never be forgotten, thank u. uses mirror pronouns

i was going to add the ace labels to light and L but realized if you told me you hc any of these people as ace id probably agree with you

also i didnt add shinigami into this because they are otherworldly and would probably would find labels inconvenient. i see shinigami as being able to develop feelings for anyone, however its extremely rare they do so and it isnt limited to a specific gender

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aroconfusion · 3 years

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my thoughts on ace kaz as an ace:

obviously this is just my personal opinion and i am in no way an expert or anything like that but here we go-

asexuality is a spectrum. some ace’s do experience occasional sexual attraction, some never do, some only do to ppl they have a connection with. there are also some people who are are ace due to trauma and that’s valid. there are 2 identities like that, caedsexual or requiresexual (Requies- : little to no romantic/sexual attraction due to trauma, possibly caused by bad past experiences with the type of attraction, or mental/emotional exhaustion

Caed- : used to feel romantic/sexual attraction, but doesn’t anymore due to trauma, definitions from screemcat on tumblr)

there is also the fact that being ace is about how or if you experience sexual attraction, its abt attraction and not action. so the experience of the asexual spectrum is very large and diverse and it’s not a one size fits all type of thing.

from what read in the books kaz i do not see kaz as asexual. he and inej want to do physically intimate things together but they don’t bc of their respective trauma but they are working together and healing to get to a point where they can. he has the attraction but not the action (imo)

i think it’s important to think abt why you hc kaz as ace before you do so. if you just think he’s ace bc he and inej don’t kiss then maybe go back and read his monologues abt the slope of her neck. if you do so bc you are ace and there is no good ace rep and kaz is cool af and you are projecting your sexuality into him then that’s another thing. i don’t think kaz is ace, did we read the same books?

okay that’s all srry this is just a long ramble that doesn’t make much sense srry i wrote most of it at 2 am, obviously i can’t stop anyone from headcannoning kaz as ace i just thought i’d add my 2 cents

#six of crows series #soc #kaz brekker #kanej #crooked kingdom #ck #okay that’s all #hope i didn’t offend anyone #idk of ppl are even still talking abt this #ace #not sure folks #pls tell me if i missed something obvious or said something wrong

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shouta-aizawow · 4 years

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1) Hope u are ok, i will let you this one here. Bakugou coming out as asexual-aromanitc, and having to explain to everyone what is it. (And if you want angst, people not believing him, that he's not grown enough to know, all that bullshit) Sorry is a little bit of proyection.

I’m doing well, thank you!!! And dw, I project HARDCORE and I also LOVE aroace Katsuki so it’s all good!! (i’m actually gonna project a bit in this one lol)

OKAY!!!

When the other kids were busy talking about crushes and who they were dating, Katsuki was focused on becoming a hero.

He had no time for romance, especially that sappy type he always sees on tv.

No, Katsuki was gonna become the greatest hero, and he would do that alone.

He never thought much of it. It didn’t seem unusual to him that he never had an interest in anyone else, that he couldn’t join in on conversations where the topic was romantic love or sexual attraction.

In fact, he felt smug when all the other extras were held down by girlfriends and boyfriends and datemates while he was forging on ahead. Seeing the confusion and awe on their faces when he told them that he had never been attracted to anyone was enough to erase the slight embarrassment he felt at not being able to relate to them.

Katsuki was invincible, unaffected by the curse that is romantic and sexual attraction, and he needs to let everybody know it.

(A few years later, at the tender age of 13, Katsuki finds he isn’t a superior being, he’s just aroace...

Well... okay then.)

He is aroace and still unaffected by the curse that is romantic and sexual attraction!

He didn’t really have friends to share his epiphany with, and the extras that followed him around were too dense to know what he was talking about to care. Besides, they’d probably just hear that he wasn’t attracted to girls and throw a fit.

Anyway, it’s not like he really wants to share this. No, this information is for Katsuki and Katsuki only.

But when he gets into UA, starts building a, admittedly reluctant at first, relationship with his classmates, the desire to tell them something he’s kept locked away grows.

It all comes to a head one night at the dorms. It’s a rare night of him hanging out in the common room with most of his other classmates.

Katsuki doesn’t know how the conversation steers this way, but the topic is now crushes. Some people are coming out, some people are just observing. Katsuki is becoming bored, and just as he gets up to leave, he’s noticed and asked, “Who do you have a crush on?”

He’s tempted to ignore the question, but surrounded by this open group of people that showed their support whenever someone revealed themself to be gay or bisexual or pan, he has the urge to let them know this part of him as well.

So he replies. “I don’t have one.”

“So who did you have a crush on?”

“Never had one either, Earjacks.”

Everyone becomes interested now.

Jirou looks skeptical, “It’s not weak to have a crush, yknow. If you don’t wanna tell us, fine, but to lie—”

“I ain’t lying, I’m aroace.”

There’s silent confusion, and Katsuki’s heartbeat thunders in his chest.

Someone asks what that is and, huffing, Katsuki tells them, “It means I don’t experience romantic, aro, or sexual, ace, attraction.”

They ignore his muttered “dumbasses” in favor of questioning him with a “You don’t, or you haven’t?”

“I just said I don’t. What are you on about?”

Kaminari then decides to speak up. “Dude, just give it time! You don’t know who you’re gonna meet that’ll knock you right off those stubborn feet of yours.” And he punctuates it with a wink.

Katsuki is getting annoyed.

“Okay, whatever. If that happens, that happens, but right now, it hasn’t. Therefore, I’m choosing the label aroace.”

Momo, with a finger on her chin and a contemplative expression on her face decides to voice, “But aren’t you acting a little hasty, Bakugou-kun? You shouldn’t use such a definitive label when you’re so young.”

Some people are voicing their agreement, and Katsuki feels like screaming, but he’s too busy being frozen in shock, looking at Momo with with the most incredulous look he could muster.

“What the actual fuck? How is me calling myself aroace any more ‘definitive’ than y’all calling yourself gay?” He can’t help the crack in his voice as he continues, “I’m genuinely confused.”

Before they could reply, Katsuki asks his own question with the most deadpan look he could offer:

“Do you ever wanna date a cat?”

There are exclamations of “No” and looks of bewilderment, but Katsuki continues, crossing his arms.

“Well I don’t think you should act so certain. I mean, maybe you haven’t met the right cat, yet.”

They’re telling him that that’s different, shouldn’t be used as an argument.

But then Kirishima perks up, and Katsuki feels dread consume him.

“Love, or don’t love I guess, who you... don’t... love, bro!”

And Katsuki feels hope bloom in his chest.

Only to have it crushed with his best friend’s next words.

“But we’re just trying to help you! We don’t want you to feel like you’re moving too fa—“

“Not only did I not ask for any help, but how is any of this helping me?!” Katsuki throws his arms in the air. “I came out to you guys, something we’ve been doing all evening, and you have the audacity to tell me I’m wrong?!”

He’s pacing now.

“Why the hell are you acting like I’m signing a death wish with my identity! You guys are the biggest fucking hypocrites, holy hell.”

Katsuki shakes his head and storms off, unwilling to be in that toxic situation any longer.

The next few days are met with guilt-ridden eyes from his classmates and the cold shoulder from him.

They don’t try to approach him, and for that, Katsuki is grateful, because he doesn’t know what he’d do if the people that rejected who he is tried to act like they did nothing wrong.

Yeah, maybe they weren’t being malicious, maybe it was just ignorance, but Katsuki is by no means obligated to forgive nor teach them. Until they pull their heads out of their asses and realize there’s a plus after LGBTQ for a reason, he’s perfectly fine with the distance.

OKAY SO TWO ENDINGS

1) The class that was there does their research and apologizes and are forgiven and whatnot (happy ending)

2) The class doesn’t do their research and just assumes that Katsuki doesn’t want to have sex or kiss anyone. They apologize, but the relationship is still tense with their ignorant comments and jokes. Katsuki is still hurt, especially when they start dating each other or other students, and he’s left to be the only one that values a strong friendship over romance. He feels left behind. (Angsty ending)

OR WAIT!!! ANOTHER ENDING!!!

3) The class doesn’t apologize or do their research, because they think Katsuki was making a big deal out of nothing. After those few weeks of the silent treatment, they try to approach him and act like everything is great.

Katsuki is angry and hurt, but eventually he finds comfort and very close friendships with Todoroki, Tokoyami, Shinsou, and Shoji. Not all of them are aroace, but they’re on the spectrum for one or both (bittersweet ending)

IM DONE!!! This honestly didn’t go the way I was thinking it would go, but I ain’t upset so it’s all good.

So ofc I projected with the being annoyed when people act like my sexuality isn’t a real thing (which is lots of ppl online and the classmates I told when they asked)

Also, that part about telling people that you’ve never had a crush and being smug when they’re like :0? Yeah, I used to do that until I was 13 when my older sib was like “yeah, you’re aroace” and I was like :0 “i saw that term in one fanfiction years back but i genuinely didn’t think abt it when i looked up to see what ‘ace’ meant but it fits perfectly”

So anyway, my sib also told me that what I was is Agender (which I knew abt but thought “that’s not me,,, right?” wrong) and I realized when they asked me if they could tell their friend my gender identity. I was confused like sure?? and then they said i was agender and their friend asked for my pronouns and i said i didn’t care

like,, i thought i was nb, but i wasn’t sure exactly what “type”(?) idk, but after that, i looked at the definition for agender that i didn’t understand before and was like :0 yep that’s me

ANYWAY YOU PROBABLY DIDNT WANT ALL OF THAT PERSONAL MUMBO JUMBO BUT THIS HC RELATES TO ME A LOT SO

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS 💖💗💕💞💝

#wow! asks!#bnha #boku no hero academia #mha #my hero academia #bakugou katsuki #bakugo katsuki #bakugou #aroace #aromantism #asexual #tw aphobia #but it’s due to ignorance #bakugou headcanons #bnha headcanons

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arodrwho · 6 years

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on a more personal & even less popular note tho i gotta say. it does sometimes make me a bit sad to see hcs of the dr who that toss all that coding out the window, bc like. dr who is one of the only characters i’ve got who’s shown to be like me (even if only explicitly stated as such a couple of times), and it feels like that’s being ignored? and on my more spiteful days like that’s being stolen. like, “fuck you, no, the doctor isn’t alloro. that loser is aro and i will fight u over this”

and like i try not to give into those spiteful thoughts bc they’re rude & unnecessary as all fuckin hell, and any kinda queer romo dr who would be awesome, and i’m fully aware that other ppl’s hcs are just as important to them as mine are to me & etc. etc.

but they’re still, like. there. lurking. and so i have to keep poking them w/sticks

and being sad as i do bc it’s not like i have any right to actually complain, bc it’s not like the dr who’s asexuality is explicitly confirmed anywhere but in the novels, and their aromanticism’s been all-but erased in recent years, so it makes sense that folks see other queer identities in them, it really does

and being sad x2 bc it feels like it’s. like. like another reason i can’t complain is bc other queer identities are so much more important to see on the screen AND if i say anything at all about feeling ignored or erased then i have to explain that this is bc my interp is imo the actual canon one and if i do that then i’m being a dick and erasing & invalidating other ppl’s interps and that’s super not cool or fair & also then all i’m doing is potentially making other ppl feel how i already feel & what good does that do? none. so i can’t complain

and also also, if i did. i worry i’d be seen as just another whiny cishet who won’t let Actual lgbt folks have fun & see themselves in characters that’re important to them, & then i’m homophobic in addition to an asshole, & also proof that aces are assholes & shouldn’t be in the community bc we don’t Understand

(and like nevermind that i’m neither cis nor actually heteroromantic, bc when has that ever mattered to an exclusionist) (also aroaces are functionally straight anyway, or so i heard at one point) (bc if ur not sga then u have to be straight bc those are the only 2 options. bc THAT’S not a weird binary way of thinking reminiscent of cishet culture at all. nope)

but despite this sometimes i still want desperately to be a selfish ass and complain, and sometimes i want desperately to think that i’m not a selfish ass and i have a right to go “dr who’s queercoding is somewhat ambiguous, this is true, but also so so much of it points towards their being a nonbinary ace who’s at least somewhere on the aro spectrum, and in several incarnations heavily implied to be solidly outright 100% aromantic, full stop, and it’s a little hurtful when people don’t acknowledge this, the same way it’d be hurtful if someone looked at clara and said she was aroace instead of bi bc ‘there’s only a few lines that outright acknowledge her bisexuality and there was also that time she had to make up a boyfriend which an aroace might do’ or sth like that, it feels like the same thing” and sometimes i want to talk about how i used to hc steve rogers as maybe aroace, but then everyone hopped on board the bi train so i did too, in large part bc i felt bad doing otherwise, like i'd be taking him from bi folks if i didn’t, like that’d be unfair, and imo it totally would, so even if i wasn’t solidly on board the bi steve train (which i am, bc a] hell yeah & b] in the years since it’s come to vibe more than the other interp anyway), i’d still say he’s bi bc i don’t wanna be a dick

anyway in conclusion i have. many thoughts and feelings about this most of which i sit on most of the time in order to not, as i previously said, be a fuckin asshole. and i will now go back to sitting on them*

#ace discourse tw

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