#introvert moments

[introvert-moments]

Introvert Moment #121

Hanging out with autistic friends is the best. You can ask them about their special interests and they’ll give you the coolest, fun fact filled monologue ever

#introvert thoughts #introvert #introvert moments #introvert things #introvert humor #introvert love #intj #intj stuff #intj humor #intj things #intp #intp humor #intp things #intp personality #intp aesthetic #infj #infj memes #infj love #infj thoughts #infj feelings #infp #infpmemes #infp feelings #infp love #infp thoughts #autism #I don’t care how niche it is tell me about it please

[srta-htinha]

Eu queria muito estar perto de uma pessoa quando ela tem uma explosão de criatividade. Deve ser lindo observá-la no momento em que a criatividade a surpreende. Ela deve sorrir com a ideia que lhe atinge, seus olhos perdidos devem brilhar de boa ansiedade e emoção, deve dar um sorriso luminoso que clareia as mais escuras noites sem luar, sua mente grita para que ela faça logo, o quanto antes. E ela faz. Ela precisa fazer. Sabe que não pode deixar para depois, porque mesmo que a ideia fique, a emoção calorosa do momento torna tudo tão mágico, que não permite esperar. Seu corpo trabalha numa sintonia impecável com a mente, os sentimentos negativos não existem, por segundos, ou se tiver sorte, minutos, ela deve esquecer o seu redor. Esquece-se até de si. Tudo o que importa é aquele frágil e efêmero momento criativo.

Deve ser, realmente, lindo ver uma pessoa assim. Deve ser lindo o sorriso bobo que fica em seu rosto, quando consegue aproveitar seu momento e perceber que aquilo era o que ela precisava e sentir a recompensa. Ela sabe que a dúvida do "poderia ser melhor" sempre irá lhe perturbar, mas não se aflige. Porque naquele momento, ela estava em paz.

#dark academism #dark academia #dark aesthetic #dark academia aesthetic #light academia #light acadamia aesthetic #romantic academia #criatividade #creativity #introvert moments #introvert thoughts #introversão

[inkskinned]

he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.

except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?

at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.

except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.

about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.

he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.

#i used to think it was romantic too and then i was like. now i see it as a HUGE red flag #writeblr #it is also almost EXCLUSIVELY said by immature ppl who think this is normal #fyi even if u think it's funny and ur like 'im an introvert it's just TRUE' like. you need therapy (ily tho) #healed introversion is just ''i would prefer to be by myself'' not ''i hate every person'' ... hate is not normal. that is not healthy #im sorry. i know it feels accurate. but if you're walking around with that kind of rage.... #1. you're making a LOT of assumptions about every single person u have ever met. which is often unfair and unkind #and also usually involves judging people based on their worst moments or little mistakes #2. you are being unfair to the person who is ur ''exception'' #3. there is a VAST difference between ''ur my favorite person'' and ''the ONLY person i like.'' #idk i think this is just a personal bias thing tbh #im sure there are people who have this experience normally #but i have YET to find a man who thinks like this and ISNT absolute DOGSHIT. although tbh.... like. im sure he exists #when u hit like 30 some of the things that were once kind of hot now just sound fucking exhausting. like ''im in a band'' #edit in the tags: i used to kind of be like this too. but the thing is that like. my life became so much more peaceful #once i started believing that people are generally good. like yes i am mad at the world at large #but it's just.... a very hard way to live. you're not a bad person or wrong for the ways other people hurt you and taught you to be angry. #but that anger will continue to hurt YOU. it will punish YOU. it will prevent YOU from making new deep connections. it will protect you yes #but it will also cause MASSIVE blowback. bc if you lose the One Person... your life will fall apart. i know this personally. #i really recommend just trying to be... cautiously optimistic instead. like. yes #people can be horrible and cruel and there are some communities (incels for example) that aren't worth that optimism #but i think like... most people will hold a door for you . most people want to help you find your wallet . #i hope one day you are able to find peace. i hope that rage eventually smooths over. i know how hard it is PERSONALLY #and i know what must have happened to you. and im deeply deeply sorry we share the same wound. #but i promise - sometimes we all need someone else to help us carry the weight. eventually the rage has to die so that we can let help in #i had to spend years biting at outstretched hands. i still often do. im still very wary . and my heart breaks that you flinch too. #here's the thing: i don't blame you. but we were both acting out of fear and pain. .... not out of healthy behavior. and ... change #was needed. i needed change too. rage was useful for a while. then it just left me isolated and bitter. i had to (with effort) #choose to let that rage go. and let people in . VERY SLOWLY THO LOL

[blueteller]

Cale In Lockdown Be Like:

Raon: Human, you must stop getting hurt all the time, or- or...! Cale: Or...? Raon: ...or we will lock you up in your room! With 3 meals a day! Cale: *eyes shining* You mean I wouldn't have to go outside? Choi Han: Cale-nim, no....

#tcf #trash of the count's family #lcf #lout of the count’s family #cale henituse #cale #tcf cale #tcf humor #humor #tcf hilarious moments #incorrect tcf #incorrect quotes #this really did happen tho lol #as an introvert i can't say i do not relate but like #cale sweetie that really isn't the point here

[jeynearrynofthevale]

Connor McDavid might be a tragic figure with a shit on of pathos but I do unironically get annoyed when people suggest he hates playing hockey or is always miserable. Like, if you watch that man on the ice, he clearly loves it. In his documentary, the moment he starts skating again after severely injuring his knee, he’s immediately so much happier and so much better able to deal with the world. Maybe he doesn’t love everything that comes with being a hockey player, especially the media, but he loves playing hockey. And if you watch him around his team, he clearly loves them too.

#Connor McDavid #hockey #cmd #97 #do I constantly post sad and extremely poignant Connor McDavid moments? #yes #but I am doing it on a deeper level with more understanding of him #he’s often sad yes #but he’s also just an introvert #with a lazy eye #it’s not his fault #he’s also happy a lot #but people have selection bias #and only see the things that get the most notes #which tend to be sad posts #oilers #edmonton oilers

[moredifferentthanusual]

Thinking bout one fans story of their dan and phil meet and greet where they wanted to get their bi flag signed but asked if they could also sign their ticket because they couldn't show their parents the flag. Thinking bout how they said Dan was particularly sweet and as he handed them their ticket he said "One day." Thinking bout how Dan wasn't out to his family yet at the time

#just thinking #dan and phil #danisnotonfire #daniel howell #sorry for being parasocial about dan and phil in 2023 do you still think im hot #tatinof #maybe? #or could be #interactive introverts #i honestly dont remember #but im pretty sure it was a tour #he mentioned how nice it was seeing how gay his audience was #moments like that are so something in hindsight

[andisupreme]

I know this goes against the Customer Service Canon but after three years of mostly being at home alone due to unemployment, I actually feel like it's been doing me some good being in my new customer service role where I have to be nice to people and act out being in a good mood. You know that rule about how faking a smile still releases the happy hormones? Feels kind of like that.

Like don't get me wrong, I'm still an introvert by nature so I'm exhausted when I get home. And I still get fussed at by angry patients sometimes, I still get rude people. It's not a walk in the park. But even when I wasn't working, I still ran into assholes everywhere that could ruin my day. Meanwhile being in a job where I have to interact with people and be helpful no matter what has led to me having a lot more positive interactions in a day than I've had in years. I get people expressing gratitude to me. I get to actually feel like I'm making a difference in someone's day and that I'm needed. Really feeling the pack animal dopamine that I've been deficient in for years that just isn't possible to get through the internet.

#I regret to inform the introvert hermit site that human interaction has been good for my mental health after all #devastating news #I still don't think this role in particular is my forever job because it's so hectic all day #literally nonstop Go Go Go the moment our practice opens #and that leaves me really drained #but overall I can tell there's a marked improvement from having interaction forced upon me

[zhivchik]

#the spirealm #huang junjie #xia zhiguang #there's why i want police au #and at the moment the one about a bold (literally and figuratively) monk (because xzg)) and an introverted dragon

[yonpote]

i mean, im a barbie-

[Video transcript:

Phil voice-over: Are we puppets that are just controlled by the audience?

Dan voice-over: (crosstalk) Are we just two Ken dolls-

Phil: Ken dolls...

Dan: -that people should get angry about- I mean, I'm a Barbie-

Phil: I was an emo Ken.

Dan: -If people don't- if we don't do what they want?

/End of transcript.]

#dan and phil #interactive introverts #there was a gaming channel moment similar to this i wanted to clip #where theyre double denim and dans like #im britney spears youre justin #myclips #phangender

[introvert-moments]

Introvert Moment #111

Please stop trying to hang out with me more than once a week, I’m not that fun. I won’t have enough new life lore for you between that time and the previous time to fill a whole hangout

#introvert #introvertmoments #intj #intj meme #intj humor #intj problems #infp #infp struggles #infpmemes #infj memes #infj #infj thing #intjmemes #introvert thoughts #introvert stuff #introvertproblems #introvert life #incorrect mbti #introverted #introvert moments #introverts

[srta-htinha]

Tem vez que meus pensamentos são tão altos, que me pergunto se, por um acaso, não acabei por verbalizá-los.

#pensador #thinker #thinking #introvert #introvertido #introversão #introvert moments #intp #introvert thoughts #introvert things #vida de introvertido #pensamentos

[suenitos]

and if the droncerts have a pre show playlist and heat waves is on there and it plays just before dream and or george are set to go on stage. what then

#like fuckign dnp interactive introverts welcome to the black parade moment i will fucking LAUGH. or was it toxic i cant remember #save.txt

[purringfayestudio]

I don’t know if you’re at all interested in discussing your recent post about your stop motion being tagged as body horror (if not, please feel free to ignore this, that’s totally fine!) but I can see where people are coming from. Even if it’s in fabric form, you are essentially showing a body being turned inside out, which could be upsetting to some. I agree that a body horror tag might be a bit of an extreme take on it, but I understand the feeling, and I can understand wanting to warn others who might be triggered by that sort of thing. Of course, if the tag makes you uncomfortable, that’s totally okay too! If making body horror wasn’t your intention, it makes sense that you may not want to see your art labeled that way. I think there really is no right answer, but I just thought it was an interesting thing to consider. Hopefully this isn’t offensive or a bother, I certainly didn’t mean it that way!

Oh I understand where people are coming from, I just personally think they're mistaken in their connection between a plushie and the grotesque images you'll find in the real body horror genre, and that they are disconnected from the ethical issues surrounding the term which make it inappropriate to reduce its definition to a very normal plushie-making process.

"Essentially showing a body being turned inside-out" It's a plushie, and an unfinished, undefined, fabric bundle in a rough animal shape at that point. At what point do we define a "body"? Do people feel the same when an artist starts a 2D drawing with a sketch of the underlying skeleton? Or when a sculptor morphs the clay between their hands? They're going to be "bodies" once finished, after all. Is it body horror when we eat animal-shaped cookies? Are people truly psychologically disturbed by these things so much that what feels like dozens of people have "warned" others in my tags? Or is it just that weird little feeling you get when you see something unexpected?

What people feel when they encounter something is valid, but how we define it matters. If people want to invent a new tag that better describes the distress people feel at anthropomorphizing or identifying with non-living objects, or the weird feeling at seeing something unexpected, that would be appropriate. Plenty of people have mentioned that part making them feel weird and that's not upsetting at all to me. "Body horror" just isn't it.

That being said I probably won't show it again, because it's distressing when you put in so much work to show a full process only for people to dump triggering things into your tags every time it comes around.

#I know this site is full of anthropomorphizing people but y'all #disconnect from the internet for a moment and go connect with human beings #yes even you ultra introverts - trust me I am one

[nycto-rotting]

dan and phil r wild with the content theyre giving us rn wdym both dnpgames AND dnpcrafts r alive and well in 2024??? next thing u know we’ll have a pinof 11

#not my usual ramble topic #weird kid moment #wdym ure a theater kid AND a phan #dan and phil #dnp #dnpgames #this is about dnp #dan howell #phil lester #pinof #dnp crafts #pinof 11 truther #how about a joint tour next aha #pls have a tour i didnt get to go to interactive introverts #phan #phandom #dapg #dapgames

[moonage-nightterrors]

i love being oblivious to everything. everyone else has drama and shit going down and i’m just in the corner vibing

#i’m actually so gullible tho it’s like my fatal personality flaw #it’s probably the autism #that i may or may not have #it’s unconfirmed at the moment #autism #actually autistic #vibing #oblivious #drama #lgbtq #idk how tags work #aroace #that prob also has something to do with it #aromantism #aromantic #asexual #introvert

[doctor-who-war-doctor]

Bazeema

#we LOVE Bazeema in this house #thats it thats all the tags #she's great tho I wish I had her ability to sneak away like that #like fr her and Bruce Wayne are somehow related #introverts deserve sanctuary 😭😭 preach girl #wish movie #wish disney #wish #disney #disney wish spoilers #gifs #bazeema #bazeema wish #spoilers #the teens wish #simon and safi are going to take longer to post I need to make more gifs for them #safis kind of hard cause he doesnt really have any moments by himself except when he sneezes 3: #but ill make it work #also dw Asha will get her own post too but the other teens need more love on here #ALSO pls no one get mad about the 5th gif I think its very funny and makes sense that its in here