Hi if it's okay can I please ask for a yandere Poseidon or Buddha (your choice) with a quiet darling that wears Jirai Kai fashion because of their abandonment issues
And because it's cute
Can it be where the darling dresses them up by either painting their nails or putting Clips or ribbons in their hair
Darling: can I paint your nails/ put ribbons or Clips in your hair
𝐘𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐁𝐮𝐝𝐝𝐡𝐚 𝐱 𝐅𝐞𝐦 𝐉𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐢 𝐊𝐞𝐢 𝐃𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠
TW: Yandere , Toxic Behavior , Mentions of trauma
じらいけい - Jirai Kei is a jfashion style which is deemed controversial due to it being associated with self destructive behavior such as self harm, heavy drinking , and prostitution
ੈ♡˳! Thank you for requesting this ! I LOVE jirai kei fashion a lot and starting to save up for a liz lisa dress
𝐁𝐮𝐝𝐝𝐡𝐚
-Buddha understands the reason why you dress in this style
-It's a coping mechanism for you
-He likes your dark and cute style , he loves seeing the bows in your hair , the pretty earrings dangling from your ear ,and the pretty colors on your nails
-In fact he doesn't mind that you paint his nails or put clips in his hair like my melody ones or kuromi themed ones with you putting them to the side of his bangs
-If it makes you happy then he'll be happy too as your his darling
-And if any of the gods make fun of the ribbons, clips , or nails that you painted he'll just tell them to Shaddup
-For the outfits sometimes he'll pick them out like from many different brands such as Liz Lisa , Dear My L♡ve , MA*RS , Ank Rouge , and HoneyCinnamon
-Buddha would also buy accessories , clothes , and shoes for you since it can be pricey unless you buy them secondhand after all he would want his darling to be happy
-And if anyone makes fun of you , there gonna see the light for the last time
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I am new to jirai kei, but I just wanted to know some tips and other things I should be educated on in the subculture 🩷 I just don't want to come off as ignorant because Im new 🫶 so do you have any tips or things I should know? ♡
hii!! sorry for taking too long to answer, i wanted to do this post as informative as possible!!
massive tw: harmful behavior, s*x work, mentions of self-h*rm.
i will talk about the differences, the stereotypes and the reason behind them, having the "jirai kei" as a main subject. if you want to know more about the girlykei style you can ask me anything!! like brand recommendations, tips on buying from japan, makeup, girlykei must haves, etc.
please keep in mind that:
• jirai kei (lifestyle) and dark girly kei (style that jirai girls use) are two separated things and you can be jirai without using the style and you can use girlykei without identifying as jirai.
• the western vision of jirai is totally wrong. jirai kei in Japan isn't a style at all; jirai kei is a lifestyle that is seen as "unhealthy".
jirai kei came from “地雷系”. translates to “landmine-type”, not the literal meaning as “landmine”, is a japanese slang for "trigger" "red flag" “地雷を踏んだ”, meaning “i stepped on a landmine”. in reference to a person, a “landmine” is someone that’s so easily triggered over minor things that they keep exploding on others with abusive behavior, so you need to be as careful as if you were walking around a minefield.
this meaning has been around for about a decade, primarily used in dating advice articles about how to recognise “red flags” in a partner.
"but it isn't a style?"
in those dating stereotypes, even the most arbitrary traits were considered red flags and wearing dark alternative fashion is already enough to have someone considered a potential landmine, the style in question is called dark girly kei. (style used by many jirai kei girls)
around 2020, jirai kei didn’t have any associations with any particular fashions or interests, but when a popular japanese makeup vlogger started a “psycho girlfriend” dress-up challenge and called the final look a landmine-type cosplay. she contributed to the stereotype that the landmine-types were often fans of dark girly fashion, every influencer was getting in on the trend, and cosplaying as a landmine-type psycho girlfriend, generally also tagging with “yandere”, then a lot of influencers did the challenge and lots of girlykei brands started to use the "jirai kei" terminology to sell more.
"why would someone call themselves jirai knowing that it means "psycho woman" in other words?? wouldn't it be romanticizing?"
there's a lot of people who call themselves jirai kei knowing about the difference of jirai & girlykei because of their mental conditions, i myself use jirai kei to not feel bad about my mental state and to connect to other people who struggle the same as me, in my opinion even if they stopped calling themselves jirai they wouldn't stop their unhealthy behavior, they're not mentally ill because of jirai, they're jirai because of their mental illness. the spaces for real mentally fucked people in the internet are few, these people that are called "psycho bitches" exist and they shouldn't feel bad about being like this, they are the people who most struggle with all of it and it's their business if they want to call themselves it. telling people to not use the jirai kei term will not stop them to engage on harmful behavior, at the end those people are still mentally ill and have more problems than the terminology they use. might be thinking the "jirai antis" are some sort of saviors or something like that, if you really want to help those people don't blame it in the community and style they've found themselves.
all jirais don't have the same behavior even if all of them have a fucked mental state, some of them might be posting self-harm for validation, some are obsessed with their s/o, some doing sex work for attention, some of us has violent thoughts and bpd, some of us are just neurodivergent, or have depression, etc, is a form of venting/expression, and venting ≠ encouraging someone.
some info:
• the term hadn't changed its meaning, japan doesn't reclaim words.
• the association of girly kei with harmful behavior is maybe related to "toyoko kaiwai" (トー横キッズ) who's around Kabukicho, many of the members have been wearing various dark j-fashion styles before the "psycho girlfriend dress-up challenge" became a trend. they're credited as the reason for why those styles are associated with the landmine stereotype to begin with. they're been connected to under*ge pr*stitution, dr*g ab*se, public self-h*rm, murd*r and theft.
they are around age 9-24, (firstly known as toyoko kids, but like, there's a lot of adults in this) they're often privileged children who were convinced to get away from home by bad influences. and many members have died or been hospitalized as a result. for more info search the Japanese spelling on any japanese news site, or their signature hashtag on social media (#/toho横界隈).
the association of jirai with this gang is their former leader “Howl”, who died by suicide while waiting in custody for a trial, convinced minors to run away from home in order to “work” for him and dress in a way he finds attractive (dark girlykei).
all these minors he "convinced" are victims, you can use the style without agreeing with this behavior and be jirai without agreeing with this, they're all manipulated children and it isn't their fault.
sorry for it being too long, and if you want sources lmk!! thanks for asking <3
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