#qpr culture is

[qpr-culture-is]

QPR culture is wanting to ask a friend if they want to be in a QPR with me but feeling scared as to what their reaction might be, especially since they have a boyfriend (however, they are polyamourous!!)

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#qpr culture is #queer platonic love #queer platonic attraction #queer platonic partner #queer platonic relationship #qpr

[glitchedcosmos]

I am obsessed with the idea of two characters growing into love instead of falling in love, like they wouldn’t instantly love each-other, they would learn with time how much they deeply mean to one another, on all their good and bad days they would choose to love the other , learn new things they like to do together, live their lives and wanting the other by their side always,they’d grow into a live they made all by themselves. growing into a sense of love that isn’t exactly romantic , but a love they made together, a bond that they wouldn’t break for the world

#I’m horrifically lonely can you tell lol #I’m also obsessed with shit #looking at you sonadow #sonic the hedgehog #shadow the hedgehog #qpr #qpr sonadow #queerplatonic things #aroace #asexual #aromantic #qpr positivity #qpr culture is

[zinzabee]

Old art but its still funny and I forgot to post it here, so.

Based on real interactions between me and my husband (we are both on the aromantic spectrum, and so are these two)

#rottmnt raphael #rottmnt raph #rottmnt oc #tmnt 2018 #rise of the tmnt #sharron tatopoulos #traditional #doodles #baxter hamato #in case anyone is wondering: Raph is greyromantic and Ronnie is demiromantic #queerplatonic relationship #queerplatonic partner #queerplatonic #qpr positivity #qpr #qpr culture is #cannon x oc #cannonxoc #dinomight duo

[everythingsbetterunderthestars]

I love queer platonic relationships. Like yes I’m in love with these people. No I don’t want to kiss them. Yes we go on dates. No we’re not in love like that. Yes I have partners. Yes I’m single. Yes I want to live my whole life with them. Yes I would be happy if they fell in love and wanted to be in a romantic relationship with someone else. Yes I also want that for myself. Yes I would still consider them to be the loves of my life. Because they are. I love them. But not like that. But not like that either. I know you don’t get it. You don’t have to. I just love them.

#queer platonic relationship #queer platonic partner #queer platonic #qpr #qpr pride #qpr culture is

[rose-reveries]

Waking up every day with you in a small cozy house, where we have a silly old orange cat that lounges around in the sunlight. We don’t feel the need to talk every day but the silence is comfortable and filled with love and admiration. I see a frog on the way to work and take a picture just for you so you can see it later. I make us a meal for dinner that reminds me of our memories together and we share it over a bottle of wine. We take walks in the park across the street everyday holding hands for the next 60 years. I love you so much, my dear and just want to be your platonic partner in life

#aromantic #aroace #aro #asexual #ace #qpp #qpr culture is #qpr #qpr concepts #queerplatonic #queer platonic partner #queer platonic relationship #one day in the future

[nayadefenix]

OK, let's go, many ask me what a QPRs relationship is, so my translator is difficult (google) I'll summarize it here in one sentence: Let's go to a relationship that is outside the vision of cisheteronorthativeness to a relationship of let's explore beyond the limits of friendship traditional romance and sexuality. That's what a QPR relationship is like, they live as if they were a couple, but without kissing (if the couple agrees) like we're going to live together, we're going to watch movies hugging each other, and we're going to have a pet, we're going to go out together, we're going to do everything together, without romantic or sexual intention, generally aromantic and asexual people live in this relationship.

SCP 076 and SCP 2396 are not a ship in the fancanon they live in a relationship QPRs in Brazil are not as talked about as they are in Europe and the USA, obviously if you want to add something you can add I'm new to this.

Below there is a link to a film that explains this relationship and on the amino where I am, many followers asked to put this relationship in the fancanon.

In STEVE UNIVERSO this relationship is discussed QPRS and lapis and peridot, peridot is confirmed as aromantic, another drawing that shows this relationship (my theory) and Sharko and Marina (Zig and sharko), so if you have any doubts and just look for me, send me on ask .

filmes and videos qpr:

#qpr #qpr pride #qpr culture is #zig and sharko #marina #sharko #steven universe #lapidot #lapis lazuli #peridot #asexuality #aromanitc #fan canon #scp 076 #brart #hollyhollynigthmare #scp 2396 #scp au #aromantic #aromanticism #Youtube

[bodyunderconstruction]

QPR

Alr I just wanna explain how my qpr works bc there are no set definitions! And representation is a good thing.

For starters, she’s an asexual lesbian and I’m a trans man with a fluid/unlabed sexuality and we’ve been in a QPR for a year

I see the relationship as in between romantic and platonic and she sees it as platonic with deeper feelings, and it’s ok that we feel differently bc we’ve discussed this and we’re comfy with each other and their feelings!

We both would give each other the world, live and die for each other. We trust each other with everything and we’re never awkward but I’m always nervous! And we support each other and communicate about whatever we feel and we have little dates and she just makes so happy:)

we want to stay in contact our whole lives even while the other has a relationship, we want to continue growing together and seeing just how much more beautiful we can become together and apart. She is going to live long distance soon and we’re still going to talk and tell each other all the little things, like the sunset, who gave me gender envy, a hot girl she saw, queer representation!

we are so committed and in love and happy, we don’t want to live together just do stuff together and lean on eachother for support! And we have already grown so much together, she’s seen me pre-transition, deep dissociation and depression fazes, and I’ve seen her through depression fazes, sexuality crisis, getting her pets and more.

we exist and we’re happy and we’re together

#qpr positivity #queer platonic relationship #original post #qpr pride #qpr culture is #queer platonic partner #queerplatonic #qpr concepts #queer platonic love #queer platonic pride #queer platonic attraction #Qpr pride #qpp positivity #i love my qpp #my qpp #qpp #It’s messy and beautiful and mine

[rowanberryprinxe]

“mfs be like…” but mf stands for 1) my friend 2) my favourite (in a court sense) (gay)

#royalty kink #qpr culture is

[dragons1re]

Taking my QPP to the family dinner

#hello yes #this is my friend #my associate #my husband of 12-40 years #we debate philosophy #we kiss on the lips but not like that #we’re currently holding hands #that’s my girlfriend and we discuss theoretical physics #my beautiful boyfriend who understands the 4th dimension #qpp positivity #qpr positivity #qpr pride #theoretical physics #qpr culture is #sire’sramblings

[relaxxattack]

every time someone calls moirallegience just an alien qpr i wilt a lil like YEAH thats more or less the CLOSEST human thing but its also Literally Not That. like a qpr is fundanmentally not romantic and thats not even going into moirails whole Actual Purpose of calming ppl down. its just. aughhhhh pisses me off i see the confusion but, as aformentioned, aughhhhh

OH MY GOD THIS HAS BEEN BOTHERING ME TOO.... but i don't want to get petty at the people in my notes always saying "moirails are QPRs!" because in some ways that is the closest human thing so it's hard to be mad...

i think there's definitely some overlap in some ways. but NOT because moirallegiance and qprs are the same at all really, but INSTEAD because both relationships have unconventional boundaries defined by the people within them.

you know... like every relationship.

like the only reason the two have overlap is because they are both partnerships that emotionally care for each other but can choose to not bang (which is true for any romance anyway, even if it's considered abnormal). they're both just romances* that are unconventional to human norms, which makes people view them as the same thing when they're not.

i think the REAL issue here is that humans insist on using human words to understand things that are just, fundamentally, alien. can't we just appreciate alien romance for being... alien romance?

no, it's not platonic, it's romantic. it's just romantic in a way you aren't quite wired to understand, is all.

*in generalization, most QPRs are not romantic, because they are made up of aroaces who are life partners in a non-romantic way. however i want to disagree with you that none of them are romantic, because that is up to the partners in question.

#quadrants #homestuck #moirallegiance #BEEN THINKING ABOUT THIS FOR SO LONG OMG THANK YOU FOR THE ASK #its just i USED to think they were the same #and then recently i kept getting pissy when people said they were the same so i was like. okay let's unpack this #what's the overlap here and what's the differences? #and really people THINK theyre the same because they think theyre both like. 'im gonna platonically marry my friend!' ^w^ #(which is obviously not actually what either of them are like. lol) #when REALLY what they have in common is 'hey you're a person i want to have a committed partnership. but potentially not sex or tradition' #and it's not really fair to compare them because they come from totally different places and have totally different standards #QPR was created as an ALTERNATIVE to allonorms. its about saying 'hey lets make up our own rules. my life partner can be platonic if i want #whereas moirallegiance IS a norm and its not counter any culture. it's just 'trolls have biological romantic feelings/needs in This way.' #idk idk how to explain it any further because ive spent a fucking hour on this post and i have a massive headache so feel free to ask me-- #more specific questions if the shit i said here doesnt make any sense (；￣ー￣).. #<- wow haha the troll fictive autism really jumped out with this post huh. whoops #hsmeta #long post #op

[qpr-culture-is]

qpr culture is this:

(not quite sure if I should tag them on this or not seeing I got the photo off Pinterest)

#qpr culture is #i have no idea how to do the alt id for people who are unable to see the imagine but if anyone does pls do so if you dont mind #qpr #queer platonic relationship #queerplatonic #queer platonic partner #queer platonic attraction #queer platonic love #qpr positivity #qpp yearning

[glitchedcosmos]

Because no one asked and I can never be normal about anything ever , I present a list of things that reside in platonic relationships because they are very important. So buckle up y’all

- dancing in the kitchen at any time of day, not always slow dancing but sometimes breaking it down together like it’s nothing

- unexpected visits , going over to the others place just for a hug or to see them after a hard day

- surprise gifts , something the other saw and thought they’d love the shit outta it

- looking after the other when they’re sick , keeping pain meds around incase they get a headache or something

- physical touch is a very special love language , cuddling , hand holding , intertwining fingers just to feel their hand , running hand through fur, hair, quils you name it, holding eachother just because it calms them. Leaning on eachother just because

- looking at the sky together, watching meteor showers, sunsets , sunrises, the stars, the clouds watching the world together in silence just alone together

- going on dates just because they wanna, going to a movie, a drive, buying flowers, you name it, just because they vibe down well

- knowing each other so well it’s a second language, knowing how to comfort and reassure the other, knowing how deep in their own head they can get, supporting each other , loving the other just the way they are and saying it to their face as many times as they need.

- talking about their dreams, being there for their nightmares, comfort after waking up in a panic,fear, and loving the dreams they have.

#just spitballing here #feel free to add more and more #looking at you sonadow #qpr culture is #qpr #queerplatonic #aromantic #asexual #ace spec #qpr pride #qpr things #qpr sonadow #qpr concepts

[aroace-cat-lady]

Amatonormativity is OUT queerplatonic relationships are IN

#aroace positivity #aspec positivity #amatonormativity #queer platonic #queer platonic love #queerplatonic relationship #queerplatonic #qpr positivity #aspec culture #aromantic culture #ace culture #actually aroace #aroace pride #aroacespec #oriented aroace #ace aro #aroace thoughts #aroace stuff #aroace story #aroace #aro ace #juliet's mind throws up stories™️

[everythingsbetterunderthestars]

I just really love this little dude

#this was my genuine reaction to my queer platonic partner texting me #like #he’s literally the best #my absolute favourite human #I love him #queer platonic partner #qpr culture is

[iintervallum]

and i kiss her again

edit: the finished version is here!

#cr spoilers #wip #laudna x imogen #imodna #southern gothic #my art #critical role #i'm super behind on c3 but i still think that making this is important #spoiler culture isn't real because i'm defo going to still be hyped when i finally encounter this episode #edit: i'm interested more in the ship now that they're together since it raises some interesting possibilites #since what was holding each other back i feel in the past was this unspoken SOMETHING like imogen was not saying what she truly felt #and now that its finally brought out into the open maybe other things can be brought out too! like maybe for once they can actually disagre #or not be so attached to each other since they now know for sure that the other loves them in the way they love them #essentially the security of a defined realtionship helps them more in the long run if you get me #as much as i love undefined and messy relationships #they can be very very tricky #like qpr work so well because the parties involved define it as such #it cannot work with ambiguity #i'm still holding onto the idea of them being qpp as well as laudna being some form of aspec #though i do acknowledge that thinking your unlovable is different from the inability to feel romantic/sexual attraction #those two can still...exist together #case in point me #i thought for a long time that no one would like me and still struggle with that #but i myself in addition to that find romantic feelings comes after an emotional connection(demiromantic) #so yeah i still view laudna as someone on the aspec spectrum for that reason #but i'm open to people reasoning it as other things too! #like sure i view them as bi4bi but lesbian headcanons are valid as well #just don't be a dick about it and say that its “impossible for them to be into men or masc-presenting people” #we can just have differing opinons maybe #phew i really did a long vent in the tags so sorry about that LMAO

[clarablightt]

during my nightly calls with my queerplatonic girlfriend, i’ve been reading I’m in Love with the Villainess to her! it’s so fun and it’s such a nice activity to do together when we’re so far apart!

#qpr culture is reading yuri isekai light novels together #our reading time is so fun i love her so very much #i hope she enjoys as much as i do! #also its the light novel not the manga #the manga would be harder to do haha #i’m in love with the villainess #im in love with the villainess #iltv #watashi no oshi wa akuyaku reijou #wataoshi #queerplatonic #qpr #sapphic qpr #our aroace adventure #♡ #clara says stuff