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allastoredeer · 1 month

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Hello, don't mind me, I just need to vent for a second.

First off, I just wanna say, as an aroace person on the ace-spectrum, feel free to ship Alastor all you want. Ship him with anyone. Have fun with it. Sex repulsed. Non-sex repulsed. Grey-ace. Demisexual. Pure unadulterated smut. Whatever, have at it. I love that shit.

Just please do it without infantilizing ace-aro people.

The amount of art, fics, and takes I've come across that's so patronizing to Alastor and his sexuality. Thing's like Alastor venting to Rosie about his feelings for a character with the caption "Alastor feeling love for the first time." Or Alastor wanting to have sex with a character and having feelings about that, and someone commenting "That's called a boner, sweetheart. That means you like them 🤭"

Like??? Like do ya'll not see how patronizing that sounds? Being ace-aro doesn't mean you don't know your own body. It doesn't mean you don't understand the functions of your body.

It doesn't mean you've never experienced intense emotions. It doesn't mean you've never experienced love before.

And, look, I know these are meant to be jokes. I know. People are joking. I laughed at the first few I came across, too. It's not meant to be harmful or condescending; no one means it that way. But there's been so much with such...bad takes recently, and I don't know about any other ace-spec people (I don't speak for all ace-specs. Hell, there are probably other ace-spec's who don't mind, enjoy it, or are making content like it themselves. I just speak for myself) but GOD it's getting uncomfortable.

Alastor is in his late 30's-early 40's in human years. That is the established age range we have for him. Do you really think that he'd go that long without ever experiencing "love?" He went through puberty just like everyone else, do you think he doesn't understand his own body???

Being asexual, or sex-repulsed, or touch-repulsed doesn't mean you automatically don't explore these parts of yourself. It doesn't mean he's never, once in his life, touched his own dick, or pussy, or whatever genitalia you're giving him. He can still very well be a "virgin" (which in and of itself is a social construct) while also knowing his body and confidently handling any "sexual needs" he has.

Do you really think he doesn't know what a boner is? That in all the years he's been alive and dead (on Earth and in Hell), he wouldn't have experienced these things once? (And you know what? Maybe he hasn't! Perhaps there are ace's out there like that! But you're telling me he doesn't KNOW what that is??? Really???)

Ah, no, it's all because he just hasn't found the right person yet, right? It's not until Lucifer/Angel Dust/Vox, whoever found him, and they gave him these feelings, and oh no, poor Bambi is feeling twitterpated and horny for the first time, isn't that romantic!

Honestly, not really. It just sounds like the same, stupid shit ace-aro people hear from family, friends, and acquaintances about their sexuality. You know, the tried and true: "Oh, you just haven't found the right person yet. You'll want all that eventually, you'll see😊"

Do you not see how frustrating that is?

Look, I am all down for Alastor exploring parts of himself. I want him to navigate different relationships, feel them out, figure out what kind of relationship he wants and what he's okay and not okay with doing. But there are ways to do that without treating him like a little UwU silly baby boy who doesn't know his own body, or his own emotions, or his own relationships with other characters. Like he needs someone to teach him about himself.

How about instead, he finds someone he feels comfortable exploring these elements with? Instead of them "teaching" him how to fuck, or masturbate, or whatever the hell you want to call it, they're giving him the room and safe-space to explore it at his own pace??!!

It comes across as someone who isn't on the ace-spectrum "teaching" an ace-spec character about their own sexuality which puts such a gross taste in my mouth. Or, at least, that's how it comes across to me.

And the thing is, I know people aren't going to stop. I know they're going to keep infantilizing Alastor and his aro-ace identity, and I wasn't originally going to make this post, because you can't control what people do in fandom.

So this is mostly just a post to say: HEY! Hello! Ace-aro person here! I hope you all are having fun and I love that you're exploring Alastor's asexual/aromantic identity! Especially those who may not be in the ace-spectrum themselves, as you're learning about us and our experiences! That's awesome! Can we just do that while also treating Alastor like the adult he is? Can we do that without being infantilizing and patronizing about his sexual identity? Please?"

That's all I really wanted to say. I just needed to get this off my chest instead of letting it fester. This isn't an attack on anyone, this is just the perspective of an Alastor multi-shipper who loves exploring his relationships with other characters (sexually and non-sexually) and deep-diving into the dynamics of the show.

Thanks for reading.

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solarbiohazard · 2 months

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Thing I drew for my bf ( @yippetbh ) for Valentines Day!!

#i love him #siigh #lethan #leon s kennedy #ethan winters #resident evil #my art #art #solarbiohazard

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moominpopzz · 2 months

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Take.. some doodle pages cause I’m upset I havnt been able to post art in a bit :(

Some of these will be becoming full pieces but as of now.. no :P

#jrwi #jrwi art #jrwi the suckening #jrwi fated #but it’s my weird human au that no one else knows ab #jrwi pd #jrwi doodles #siigh #when will my hands let me draw full pieces again #you can also see our little freak persona in the 2nd picture #man I can’t draw fucking hands #if you see anything wrong with the hands nuh uh #also a good few of the designs on these pages aren’t fully done #like the human au and Mrs Winters #bleh #moomins gallery<3

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soriastrider · 3 months

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guess who is once again adding thousands of words to what was supposed to be a finished chapter...

but, i think i'm finally almost done editing, so hopefully i shall be posting a new portal au chapter in the next few days :) it's nice to be messing around with the portal boys again, i missed them

also i'm almost done with alien au chapter 11, so the next step will be editing and posting c10. which is a 9.2k+ word monster as of now. wish me luck lol

#aaah i hate editing long chapters...#it takes forever #at least in part because i am an anxious mess and i reread things a million times before posting them lol #siigh #anyway #i am happy to have writing time again :)

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slothinginorbit · 2 months

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Ah yes, Cloud Strife

One of the most mentally stable video game character

Truly mental health goals

Also sephiroth is definitely not using his vulnerability and manipulating him, not at all

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This fandom really loves to downplay clouds mental issues. Even without the OG context it is extremely clear cloud is having issues in remake. And that just escalates in rebirth.

P.s. I don't know what this person was even answering to but claiming cloud is mentally fine is one of the most idiotic ff7 takes.

#this is just so silly #imagine claiming cloud strife is mentally fine #as if his failing mental health hasn't been in the core of the plot #i don't know what game these people played but it is not the same as the one i did #like look at the whole gongaga reactor sequence #that boy is very far from being okay #and people around him is very aware #siigh #anyways does this count as spoilers?#hmm I'll tag just in case #ff7 rebirth spoilers #also #justice for cloud strife #please... how can people misunderstand blatantly obvious things

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snom-pixelates · 2 years

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doodle page i cleaned up and turned into a comic page!

#awesamdude #c!dream #dream smp #i might make more #they're fun to do!#also helps get my mind off of writing #i wrote most of chapter 2 for the obsidian walls sequal #i'm still struggling #wanted it out by the end of summer but that's clearly not gonna happen #siigh #ah oh well. it's a slow moving project but at least it's moving at all?#it's been tough because the family is in the middle of moving #i do promise i'm working on it though!#snom's rambles #snom's art

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theyhitthepentagon · 2 months

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i had to work through almost 2 years of internalized queer exclusionism from being on twitter all the time just to accept my identity and i still am afraid to talk about it anywhere without being vague. lately ive made friends who are comfortable talking about their identities in the discord server im in and ive enjoyed talking about it with them in there but we always eventually end up getting shut down by mods because people start arguing with us or being disrespectful. its so upsetting to constantly be shut down abt my identity because people turned it into a discourse topic

#my truth #might delete later #siigh #it sucks being a straight lesbian because everybody has to have a say in your identity #and if you fight back its queer discourse and nobody likes you anymore #can i defend myself or talk about the infighting that effects me without people taking it as discourse. please #nothing happened other than someone being kinda rude earlier it just got me thinking is all

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crimfckeyt · 2 years

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#crimfckeyt #yea i felt like drawing the silly orbs again #kirby #kirby nintendo #kirby dedede #kirby fanart #marx kirby #kirby super star #bandana waddle dee #king dedede #metadede #meta knight #kirby meta knight #siigh #kirby elfilin

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alex-just-vibing · 6 months

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i could make a kunizai ask blog for funsies.... but i can already tell -2 people would actually interact w it lmaoo

#my stuff #like w my cr blog they got like two asks then we forgot ab them #but then my omori blogs all got a good amount of attention #and now toya just hit 100 followers and recently hit 1k posts #so i know ask blog interaction really depends on the fandom #but also ik doing it w kunizai would decrease the already small amount of interaction considering it. isnt s/kk #siigh

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morievna · 9 months

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Tiny bit of Chuuya in latest interview

Ohhhh👀

I kinda wonder if that's just about Chuuya being badass vampire or something more... idk

But still it would be nice to get plot twist- for me Chuuya being simply controlled with no agency is a bit boring direction. It would feel too repetive if skk and sskk will have the same type of reunion with trying to bring back Chuuya/Aku to previous self.

I hope it would turn out that Chuuya is conscious and has own agenda- that he agreed to become vampire for some reason. For me it is just sus how his eyes and face are hidden a lot in art.... like there are vampire-like during combat and ambiguous in rest of scenes. It makes me wonder if there is some meaning to it🌟 we will see^^

Whole interview with Asagiri is here

#bsd #bsd thoughts #bsd theories #I just miss Chuuya #Asagiri plss give him more substancial role #Siigh #chuuya nakahara #bsd chuuya

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cometship · 1 month

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i ask someone what to draw. they tell me what to draw. i ignore and draw south park. the cycle will never end,

#south park #siigh #someone save me #it'll never end #artists on tumblr

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spotify-kids-real · 2 months

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I miss the among us community,,,,

#:(#among us #siigh