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defectivegembrain · 1 year
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No you cannot fix your entire life at 2am. Go to bed.
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magnetothemagnificent · 11 months
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The world is so hostile to tweens.....
Like we joke about how our schools growing up would ban the latest toy trends, but that reality genuinely horrific when you think about it. Like maybe 1% of the bans were based on safety, but the rest cited reasoning like
-"kids were bartering for collectibles" (kids learning about economics and product value)
-"kids were wearing them and the colors were too flashy" (kids experimenting with self expression and fashion)
-"kids were playing with them during lunch and recess instead of using our rusted safety hazard playground" (kids utilizing their free time to do what helps *them* unwind).
Play areas specifically geared towards children and especially towards teens are constantly being shut down. "Oh kids today are always on their phones!" Maybe because
-there are barely any arcades left and even less arcades that aren't adult-oriented,
-public pools and gyms are underfunded and shut down,
-"no loitering" laws prevent kids and teens from just hanging out,
-movie theatres only play the latest films and ticket prices are only rising,
-parks and playgrounds are either neglected or replaced with gear only directed at toddlers and unsuitable for anyone older
-genuine children's and young teen media is being phased out in favour of media directed only at very small children or older teens and adults.
-suburbs and even cities are becoming more and more hostile to pedestrians, it's just not safe for kids to walk to or ride their bikes to their friends' houses or other play destinations
Children's agency is hardly ever respected. Kids between the ages of 9-13 are either treated as babies or as full-grown adults, with no in-between. When they ask to be given more independence, they are either scoffed at or given more responsibilities than are reasonable for a child their age.
This is even evident in the fashion scene.
Clothing stores and brands like Justice and Gap are either closing or rebranding to either exclusively adult clothing or young children's clothes, with no middle ground for tweens. Tweens have to choose between clothes designed for adults that are too large and/or too mature for their age and bodies, or more clothes they feel are far too childish. For tween girls especially it's either a frilly pinafore dress with pigtails or a woman's size dress with cleavage. No wonder tween girls these days dress like they're older, it's because their other option is little girl clothes and they don't want to feel childish.
And then when tweens go to school, the books they want to read aren't available because they cover "mature" topics (read: oh no two people kissed and they weren't straight or oh no menstruation was mentioned or oh no a religion other than Christianity is depicted), so kids are left with books for way below their reading level. No wonder kids today are struggling with literacy, it's because they can't exercise and expand their reading skills with age-appropriate books. Readers need to be challenged with new words and concepts in order to grow in their skills, only letting tween read Dr. Seuss and nursery rhymes doesn't let them learn.
Discussions about substance use, reproduction, and sexuality aren't taught at an age-appropriate level in school or even by children's parents, so they either grow up ignorant and more vulnerable to abuse, or they seek out information elsewhere that is delivered in a less-than-age-appropriate manner. It shouldn't be a coin-toss between "I didn't know what sex was until I was 18 and in college" or "my first exposure to sex as a tween was through porn" or "I didn't know what sex was so I didn't know I was being sexually abused as a kid."
Tweenhood is already such a volatile and confusing time for kids, their bodies are changing and they're transitioning from elementary to middle to high school. It's hard enough for them in this stage, but it's made worse by how society devalues and fails them.
We talk about the disappearance of teenagehood, and maybe that's gonna happen in the future, but the erasure of tweenhood is happing in real time, and it's having and going to have major consequences for next generation's adults.
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comradekatara · 1 month
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> be zuko
> try desperately to ingratiate yourself within the avatar’s friend group (to no avail, of course, because you have terrible social skills, and previously tried to kill them, also)
> try to fight off the human wmd you previously hired to blow them all up
> fail miserably, because he is indestructible
> watch as sokka effortlessly kills him with a very precise boomerang throw to the brain
> suddenly recall every single time you got hit in the head by his boomerang
> feel immense gratitude for what you had previously dismissed as uncle’s obnoxiously stringent and paranoid over-emphasis on the importance of helmet safety
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stuckinapril · 3 months
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megan thee stallion is the perfect example of unbothered energy. nicki has repeatedly vagueposted about her, gone on unhinged rants about her, gone so far as to mention her dead mother (such a classless low blow), threatened her on live, and has now released the tackiest diss track in history. and what has megan done? literally nothing. she straight up ignored her, aside from that one ig story where she posted herself laughing (which was perfect btw). she is the epitome of “i will not dignify that w a response.” i love it.
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phantasm-echo · 2 months
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Probably my favourite scene from the premiere, she was so based for kicking that droid
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woundthatswallows · 11 months
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excerpt from leonard cohen's 1966 novel beautiful losers, from which buffy sainte marie adapted into her phenomenal song god is alive, magic is afoot 
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gamebunny-advance · 8 months
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Some skrunkly Oatchis from the official Pikmin comic.
Bonus mamuta bugging out their eyes 'cus i think it's funny but I don't feel like posting it by itself.
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cupcakeshakesnake · 9 months
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As far as society is concerned, you are a chimpanzee.
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rewild · 2 months
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Hey babe, let’s get coffee at the combo Dunkin- urgent-care!
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felassan · 2 months
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r/dragonage (Reddit) post titled "Jeff Grubb: Dragon Age: Dreadwolf scheduled to release in late 2024." Post text: "Dreadwolf to be shown this summer and planned release later this year, Bioware is internally confident on the release date. Anything could change of course." Source: [link] Clip: [link] "Credit to: u/IcePopsicleDragon for posting this in r/GamingLeaksAndRumours."
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In episode 339 of Game Mess Decides, Jeff Grubb had the following to say on Dragon Age: Dreadwolf's possible/rumored release window [transcript]:
Question from chat: “Hi Jeff and Mike, when will Dragon Age 4 be shown and released?” Jeff: “Yeah, I mean, I expect it will probably pop up this summer. I don’t know when it’ll be shown is the real answer, that’s the, let’s get that out, I don’t know when it will be shown. I assume it will be shown sometime this summer. Could happen at any time though. It will be released this year [2024], last I heard. That is, and they’re pretty confident about that, doesn’t mean it’s a guarantee, could slip, but right now, internally, they expect to release it later this year, which is why I took it in Fantasy Critic”.
[source (timestamp 35 mins 20 secs), clipped version]
(there were no more mentions of Dragon Age or BioWare during the episode)
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felsicveins · 2 months
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In order to sober his alcoholic ass up for a coherent conversation JD tosses Julien in the tub and turns the shower on cold.
The water washes the colored hairspray out of his hair, revealing the faded gray underneath.
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Really wearing the "sad wet dog" look
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scarefox · 4 months
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Here have some scientific elaboration for the people who still are in denial that Babe is bottoming. And not Charlie possibly riding him.
(I heard some folks didn't want to believe Babe is a bottom since ep1. I also saw such comments for a different drama where people were in denial for the same stupid reasons) 🤷‍♂️
Or maybe I just love that they very subtly show Babes leg position. Very minimal but they show it.
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Thanks for coming to my TED talk
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ohno-the-sun · 1 month
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Some Luca au Moons for the new chapter here!
Really rough animation still practicing, not really canon just trying out how the transition looks
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bowserwife · 2 months
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My girlfriend and I talk about Straight Edge as a political philosophy a lot, bc she's a former straight edge kid who broke a little while after we started dating. It just doesn't feel very internally consistent as a code. Obviously there's no consensus among Edgers on these things (that's what they call themselves, right?), but straight edge starts to fall apart when you examine how it feels about ibuprofen, caffeine, and zoloft.
The category of "drug" is socially constructed, even if you get specific and say "psychoactive drug" or something. I have heard of very few straight edge people who disavow coffee, and I've personally known several who take antidepressants. But there's nothing that ontologically separates antidepressants from weed or alcohol, so if you're straight edge and ok with the former than you're only doing so on the basis of the authority of medical institutions, social norms, etc. That doesn't sound very punk to me!
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quartergremlin · 1 month
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i didnt really have a reason for drawing this but its kind of cute so.
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Leo: Soooooooo?
Yuichi: Hm?
L: Your folks? they're out, right?
Y: Yeah, why?
L: I'm asking if you want to make out.
Y: Oh! Yeah!! Can we?
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khytal · 4 months
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incredible
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