Life is never too busy to enjoy a special hug from your kitty! 😻😻😻 . . #cathug #catselfies #bff❤️ #ilovemycat #catfamily🐾 #pawprintsonmyheart #adoptdontshop #specialneedscats #catsarelife #catlife #catmama https://www.instagram.com/p/CloThNhLD1i/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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My Simba❤️😺 #catphoto #catlover #catsofinstagram #catloversclub #cattrends #cat #cathug #catreelstagram #love #loveyou #loveislove #kittycat #kittenlove #kittenoftheday #kittenlovers #kittensofinstagram #kittygram #kittens #likeforlikes #simba #mymeoww #meow #meowfeature (at Mumbai, Maharashtra) https://www.instagram.com/p/CgbPofLNefm/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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hi! regarding your social queues post
i feel like i'm experiencing a thing that's a bit similar to what you are dealing with down to the "I'm not autistic but this shit isn't neurotypical" thoughts (and if not, I'm really sorry for an impromptu vent just ignore all of this please and have a kitty ฅ/ᐠ•ﻌ•ᐟ\ฅ)
several of my prev psychologists link it to general anxiety and social awkwardness and yeah, that sounds reasonable, but what bothers me is that idk how to improve
i tend to overthink everything I say to the point where, even though I know what a normal response should look like I can't convince myself that what I said/wrote is articulated in a way that doesn't sound dumb/conveys literally the opposite of what I'm trying to deliver. answering a message after days of silence, which actively worsens my relationships, while I fear that answering with a 'stupid' message would be even worse or agonising over a comment I'm trying to leave on someone's work because, well, I think it's neat and cool and I want the artist/author to know it, but when I start typing my words look wrong and not genuine is a constant thing and I'm tired
and yeah, the worst is comforting people. my friend feels terrible, I can clearly see that and my heart is breaking for them, but I can never find a good thing th say. irl you at least can physically be there((maybe)) but online it's a nightmare
I was always told that words should come from the heart and I never got a feeling that was the case for me which just. i dunno what to do with this
hi hello! no, you're good, I have my ask box open for a reason and that includes venting n stuff like that, i don't mind at all!
yeah this is exactly what i'm talking about... like i have no problem picking up on things between the lines... but i always take too long to respond and by the time i think of something i am either too nervous or the window has passed. in my case, I know its because i have a "slower processing speed" than other people, which i've had since I was little, it's easier to think when i can type on a screen and be able to check if im making sense, but i don't do verbal stuff very well.
i've been in therapy as well, a long time ago, and i've been told i might be on the autism spectrum, and/or have add, but i'm pretty resistant to getting a formal diagnosis or even self diagnosing for some reason.
i think for me, and i don't know if this will help for you, i want to 1) get rid of the... mental block? filter? that my thoughts have to get through before I say something... because sometimes i come up with the thought, but don't say anything due to nerves. that'll help me get more thoughts out there and 2) get more practice with people... which is hard! i tried out both improv and drama club in high school because this is an issue i've been working on for a long time... it didn't really work, but i've learned that there are a lot of... scripts! that i can just use in a pinch. even if its just like, small talk and stuff, or if i don't have anything, i just turn the question on the other person and just listen!
i've been trying to make peace with the fact that i will probably never be as good of a talker as other people, but you and me brother we are probably just meant to be listeners... and nothing wrong with that... there IS stuff we can do to get better at talking, which i encourage. but don't get down out of reason for being quiet.
SORRY that got really long despite me not having alot of good advice but im struggling with it with you, good luck with finding something that works.. if u want to talk u are always welcome here, i enjoyed reading your ask!
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Bestie Katie, you're so pretty 😍 see you in vc later 😘- Bestie Ness
❤️❤️❤️
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A universal beauty secret (feeling good about yourself is obvious) The sea air. We are kidding 😸but I look better than in the city where I live so this is a rule that works. I see myself, you see me better and I also see you more beautiful. Do you agree?
cathugs & heavy metal music 🤘🏿or what you hear. Be nice
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-boops your nose- send this to ten blogs you think are lovely and deserve a boop on the nose. 🖤~booooop~<^_^>
Awww I'm melting 😭😭 you're so kind!!
Here take a cathug for you!!!
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cathug! you've been hugged by a cat [and you are also a cat]
:’) Thank you maple
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𝑷𝒖𝒓𝒓𝒇𝒆𝒄𝒕 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒚 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆.....♥️ #catphoto #catlover #catsofinstagram #cattrends #catloversclub #catvideo #cathug #kittycat #kittenlove #kittenoftheday #kittygram #kittensofinstagram #kittens #kitty #photooftheday #picoftheday #purr #purrfect #instagood (at India Mumbai) https://www.instagram.com/p/CfY0HulNSe2/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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Too much love and affection it's never unnecessary 😻 too much kisses and hugs are never enough either, especially in the cold times 😽 #cathug #cathugs #stayhomesavelives❤️ #stayhomeclub #stayhomebesafe #stayhomecat #quarantinecat #quarantinecatsofinstagram #quarantine2020❤️ #aesteticcat #fluffypaws #dragonli #lihuamao #catphoto #catdiary #catlifestyle #lihuamaocat #狸花猫 #猫 #bestcatsclub #bestcat #gato #meow #igmeows #catstory #gatosdelmundo #gatosendogato #котешкиживот #котешкиистории #котешкиработи (at 太湖~蘇州) https://www.instagram.com/p/CUZfDHwrjad/?utm_medium=tumblr
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Mi quinto tattoo, lo amo, siempre quise tener un recuerdo de mi bb, mi peludo que marcó mi corazón con sus ronroneos 🐾
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