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fucktoyfelix · 2 days

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Choking Safety

I've been seeing some kind of scare-mongering type posts going around about choking during sex, so I wanted to address how to approach choking in a safe way. Choking is not a 0 risk activity, but it is also not so dangerous that you will just randomly die either. Anyone who does martial arts will confirm that thousands of teenagers are being successfully trained to choke each other safely (for self defense) every day! There's no reason you can't learn to do it too.

First you should be familiar with some basic anatomy of the neck and throat:

The carotid veins on both sides of the neck and the trachea/windpipe in the center are the most important things to be aware of. If you want to enjoy the psychological element of having someone's hands around your neck with relatively little risk, you can do "choking" play that avoids putting any pressure on those arteries or the trachea. As with all choking play, safety is highest when both parties are fully sober. I'm not actually sure if there are people out there who are into having the windpipe or trachea blocked. This tends to hurt like fuck and cause an autonomic choking response. You'll know if you went too far center because generally the bottom will be like "WTH". I don't know if there is a way to do this play safely or not as I don't have experience with it. It probably carries some risk of the trachea collapsing which would be a hospital trip for sure. Most choking play is done with the intention of cutting off the blood supply to the brain by applying pressure to both the left and right carotid arteries. This type of choking is not really "breath play" because of the way it works (though many people refer to it that way.) This creates a pleasant light headed feeling, but is also where the higher risk comes in. It often doesn't take long for a person to lose consciousness once these arteries are blocked, often less than 10 seconds. Sometimes getting completely choked out is the goal, sometimes not. Either way, the top has to pay very very careful attention to every aspect of their bottom's body language. Once you realize that a person has lost consciousness, the choking must stop immediately. Because of this: the most dangerous way to do this kind of play is alone. (hence all the auto-erotic asphyxiation deaths you hear about) It goes without saying that intoxication also dramatically increases the risks. It's not recommended to lose consciousness this way on a regular basis. It's just not good for your brain to repeatedly go through, especially in rapid succession. Generally, the more time spaced out between this type of play: the better. Though some people may have medical conditions that make the risk higher, as long as you stop choking when you reach the desired headspace, this play is approachable. Anyone who's REALLY into the idea but feels unsure or scared, I highly recommend taking a few martial arts classes. MMA guys do this to each other all the time! For sports! The key is just stopping at the right time. There are two main ways to go about blocking the carotid arteries. The main one used in martial arts and self defense is the rear naked choke.

This type of choke is incredible effective at choking someone out quickly and easily. The forearm and the bicep are squeezing each artery until the desired effect is achieved. The risk here is how quickly it works in combination with not being able to have a visual on your bottom's facial response. When someone loses consciousness they will go limp and begin twitching somewhat. This is normal, and you should stop immediately if you notice those signs. The more common method of choking play during sex is what looks more like typical choking. Facing your partner, using both hands.

You want to find the arteries with both hands, and use the meat at the base of your thumbs to apply gradually increasing pressure upwards towards your partner's head. You can keep the thumbs tucked to avoid accidental pressure on the windpipe. (Though this is not required so long as you remember not to apply pressure to the windpipe.) This type of play has a few safety benefits. First, you can see your partner's face so it's more obvious when you can see they've hit a headspace that is desirable. Additionally, it's just a little more difficult to find the arteries and push up on them correctly. If your goal is to get a little light headed without losing consciousness, this is more easily accomplished with this type of choke. However, losing consciousness is still a risk and both partners being fully alert will ensure the lowest risk environment. I know choking play is incredibly popular, even 'vanilla' people participate in this type of play on a regular basis without really knowing the technical details. Most of them don't get seriously hurt...but knowing what you're actually doing with risky play is a base component of risk aware consensual kink. Anyway I hope people find this helpful! Happy choking!!

#choking #kink positive #sex positive

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yet-down-sound · 14 hours

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#cities #thomas the tank engine #morrissey #choking #processing #chantel jeffries #new simblr #lofi #daniel craig #given #textbooks

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drisk-female-wrestling · 3 days

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Grind out that submission....

#female wrestling #ring wrestling #girl fight #women wrestling #choking #submission #wrestling

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whumperofworlds · 2 days

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Whumpee had been in their cell for only a day when the cell door opened. They glanced up, and upon seeing a familiar face, they smiled.

Caretaker. It had been months since they saw their closest friend. They had an argument before Caretaker stormed out and disappeared without a trace. And now they were back, and here to rescue Whumpee.

"Caretaker!" Whumpee cried as Caretaker approached, a stoic expression on their face. "Oh thank God, I was so worried when you disappeared! I--"

Caretaker's hands gripped around Whumpee's throat, before lifting them up, choking the poor Whumpee. Whumpee coughed and gagged, tears beginning to form in their eyes.

"This is your fault," Caretaker growled. "You caused me to leave. You caused me to get kidnapped myself. But thanks to Whumper, I am now free, and get my revenge!"

"C-Caretaker..." Whumpee choked out. Was the fight that bad? Had Whumpee seriously hurt them that much? "I-I didn't mean to--"

"Shut up!" Caretaker screamed, slamming Whumpee's head on the wall. "Whumper has been a better friend than you ever were. Know that you caused this, you caused your own suffering."

"B-but..." Whumpee whimpered, their vision spotty and growing darker. Caretaker's eyes were wild, their eye color completely different than their usual hue. Why... why were they acting like this? "I-I looked for you! Every day! I was so worried, I-I--"

Caretaker slammed their head against the wall again, before releasing their hold. Whumpee curled up on the stony floor, whimpering. "Whumper and I will decide on what to do to you tomorrow. Hope you're prepared." They said, before leaving and closing the cell door behind them.

Whumpee coughed and gagged, the tears finally falling down their face as the realization hit. Because of the things they said... because of that one damned fight... Caretaker hated them that much now.

"C-Caretaker..." Whumpee whimpered, their hand reaching out to the cell door. "Come back, please... I... I just wanted to say I'm sorry... I just wanted you back home..."

#plot twist: caretaker was brainwashed #or is a doppelganger #whump #whump prompt #kidnapping #captivity #parting words regret #crying #choking #brainwashed

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incognitopolls · 15 days

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We ask your questions so you don’t have to! Submit your questions to have them posted anonymously as polls.

#polls #incognito polls #anonymous #tumblr polls #tumblr users #questions #polls about sex #submitted dec 13 #nsft #choking

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fanfrelon · 3 months

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Ian Bradley

#ian bradley #hot #homoerotic #butt #nudity #pit #pubz #choking #ianbradleyedit #hotstuffedit #gaystuffedit #buttstuffedit #2401 #1k

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strawberry-crocodile · 6 months

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Weak, foolish: Lapis Lazuli is unsympathetic because uhhh if I went through all that I would simply have a healthy trauma response

Rational, wise: Lapis Lazuli is unsympathetic because if 6'6'' roided out masochistic tgirl with mommy issues and an S-tier eyeliner game got down on her knees and told me she was addicted to my cock I would grab her throat and never let go

#blogodile #nsft #steven universe #choking

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scubaby · 6 months

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hannah k homage since of course

#fionna and cake #marceline #princess bubblegum #princesses doing princess thangs #artists on tumblr #art #choking

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one-time-i-dreamt · 5 months

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I was the security guard in Five Nights at Freddy's but I choked to death on a tortilla chip before any of the animatronics started moving.

#dream #security guard #five nights at freddy's #fnaf #game #gaming #death tw #choking #tortilla chip #food #animatronics #animatronic

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daily-kinks1 · 4 months

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If she can talk when you’re choking her, you’re not choking her hard enough

#breathplay #choke play #choking #abuse k1nk #rough cnc #rough daddy #rough kink #roughfuck #rou

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piss-friendly · 3 months

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Having to pee while you're in the shower with a partner.

They start rubbing their hard dick against your thigh, slipping a hand between your legs, and you want to tell them to stop so you can go pee first, but you're too embarrassed. You decide you'll just have to hold it.

Your partner lifting up one of your legs and fingering you, pressing on your bladder without knowing it. It makes your desperation worse, but it feels so good.

They rub the head of their cock against your hole and you're already so wet. They slip it inside and the pressure is almost too much, and your moans of desperation mingle with pleasure as you claw at their back and try to hold on.

You're getting close to bursting, so you try to let out just a little bit at a time. Maybe they won't notice because of the water. But the moment you let a small spurt out, it's almost impossible to stop with their dick pumping in and out of you.

You manage to clamp down, but your need is even worse now. You keep letting out little desperate squirts, but it's not enough for relief, and harder to stop yourself every time.

Suddenly your partner stops and looks up at you. "Are you pissing right now?"

You're horrified, you don't know what to say, but you're still clenching around their cock, aware of all the liquid about to burst out of you.

To your shock, your partner grips you around the throat and fucks you harder. You moan, giving yourself over to the feeling. You don't even let go, it's just impossible to clench those muscles anymore, and you let out a torrent of piss all over them while they continue to fuck you to orgasm.

#omorashi #piss kink #bladder desperation #bladder holding #full bladder #holding pee #pee holding #bladder torture #rough kink #choking #pee kink

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lastwordsofadyingstar · 1 year

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I'm craving super rough anal right now. I want someone's entire body weight pinning me down, one hand wrapped around my wrists and another around my throat. I want to be completely helpless and at their mercy as they buck their hips into me, completely stretching my tight little hole out while I can't do anything but let out choked gasps and cry into the pillow, till they decide I've had enough and cum deep inside me. Leaving me a gaping cum filled mess.

#cnc free use #@nal #forcedsex #@nal only #4nal only #an4l training #an4l #bd/sm slave #cnc cw #rough cnc #choking #masochistic #masochist sub #nsft concept

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randomhotnessss · 2 years

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