#romo aro culture is

[demiromantic-culture-is]

demiromo culture is not realising you have a connection with someone and subsequent romantic feeling for them until you wake up at 2am 6 months in with an 'oh damn...' moment

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#demiromantic culture is #demiromantic culture #demiro culture is #demiro culture #romoaro culture #romoaro culture is #romo aro culture #romo aro culture is

[romo-aro-culture-is]

Romo aro culture is "I want to be in. A romantic relationship but also,,,, I don't????????"

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#romo aro culture #romo aro culture is #romoaro culture #romoaro culture is

[aro-culture-is]

Ace culture is hearing about how the Bee Movie is about a human and a bee being in a relationship, and wondering if that is just people just romanticizing the male and female leads (as people do,) or if there is actual legitimacy to what they’re saying (because it does not sound like they are joking.)

(I’m also not going to rewatch the bee movie to find out because what if what they say is true? I don’t want to know.)

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#baconandgrits #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #y'know #i've seen it before and more than once but it's been a hot minute #and i don't think it was ever really like... actually romo #but there are a few characters - portrayed as bad - who do say it is in a derogatory way #(the honey industry lawyer and uhhh whatever her OG boyfriend's name was. ken?) #but i think portraying it as anything romo was treated as a smear thing by the lawyer and as a weird jealousy thing from the boyfriend

[flittermousemoth]

Something I just posted on Reddit

#aromantic #lol #funny because it's true #haha #aro #aroace #aro culture is #No romo #frayromantic #cupioromantic #cupiosexual #lithromantic #aegosexual #aro memes #aroace memes #lolz #💚🤍🖤

[apostateseraphim]

the urge to use "baby" but not in the romantic sense, instead in the "this person is small and cute and i woud rather die then let something hurt them, also sometimes i want to punt them into the sun"

@tisdonuts <3

#aro positivity #asexual #ace #ace culture #aroace #aro pride #asexuel #asexual memes #aspec #ace discourse #aromantic #aromantism #aro #acearo #aroallo #loveless aro #arospec #gay #no romo #aromantic character #aromantic representation #aromantic flag #aromantic problems #aromantic positivity #aromanticism #asexuality #ace day #acespec #ace pride #aphobia

[demiro-allosexual-culture-is]

Demiro allosexual culture is being in a soft romo rlshp w ur aroace partner and having the best most positive rlshp defined on ur own terms

Also not being able to decide btwn aro grayro and demiro lol (but 100% bisexual 😎)

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#arospec #aro #aromantic #soft romo #demiromantic #soft romo relationship #demiromantic allosexual culture is #demiro allosexual culture is #bisexual #arospec bisexual #asks #demiro #demi #alloarospec #alloaro #aroace #<- tagged bc identity of the partner this person mentions #Also I almost completely forgot soft romo is a thing omg.. #wondering if I and my romantic partners would also want that label lol #romo aro #greyro #grayro #grayromantic #aspec #aromantic spectrum #aro bi #first ask !!

[aroace-cat-lady]

When i say im sex ambivalent i mean i think horny ppl in fiction is the funniest shit i have ever seen.

When I say im romo ambivalent i mean romance in fiction and in other ppl's life is an abstract concept that i can be happy (or even passionate) about if I care enough for the person/character.

But as soon as it is any near at my direction, im running the fuck out of the country, changing my name to Rosmelda Buenavista and pretending that it never happened.

Just for the record.

#sex ambivalent #romo ambivalent #aroacespec #actually aroace #aroace memes #aroace positivity #aroace pride #aroace #aro ace #asexual aromantic #aromantic asexual #aspec culture #aroace thoughts #aroace things #aroace stuff #aroace spectrum

[aro-absol]

Hello!

47 and 53 for the aromantic ask game, if you don't mind!

Thank you!

Hello :) Thank you for the ask!

47. What are your favorite aromantic symbols?

I think aro rings are great! And I absolutely love that we "own" the color green because I think it's very cool of us to see a color and go "Hey that's what my flag looks like! That is me!" Arrows are a cool symbol, too but unfortunately, that pun only works in English so as someone who doesn't use English in their daily irl life, I don't connect them to the aro label as much. Griffins used to be a more well-known aro symbol than they are now but I think they're nice.

53. What is the best part about being aro? 

I think for me it's the freedom that comes with the realization that all the relationships in your life are fully customizable and most of them optional. All the rules are made up. Growing up, society always tells you, "romantic relationships are x and friendships are y" and then, as you realize you're aro you start to understand that romantic relationships can also be y or xy and friendships can also be x or xy and then you start to realize that there's also z and a and b and so on. You and the people you're in the relationship with can determine what this relationship looks like and what you want to call it. You can kiss and cuddle with your friends. You can be best friends with your roommate. You can be in a qpr with someone and only see them every other week. You can have sex regularly with an acquaintance. You can never kiss or hold hands or have sex with your romantic partner. You can call someone your best friend even if you rarely meet them and just have them as your emergency contact. You can cohabitate with someone and don't put a label on it at all. All the rules are made up. As long as it works for you and the corresponding people, it's all good. At the same time, you don't have to have any of those relationships at all. You don't have to date. You don't have to be in a qpr or be partnered otherwise. You don't have to have close friends. You don't have to have friends at all. You can have your social needs met by chatting with your coworkers or being in a hobby group. Whatever works for you. That is a realization that being aro and deconstructing amatonormativity have brought me and I wouldn't want miss it. Even if I do relationships by society's rules, I now know that I don't have to and that I can change them anytime I want (with the consent of the people involved, of course). That is a very good part of being aro.

(I hope that makes sense. I just had this random thought and just had to type it out.)

Here's the ask game

#thanks for the ask this was fun #also please feel free to send me asks for that game y'all #aromantic #aro #ask game #asks #aro ask game (romo aro culture is #things I wrote in one sitting without proofreading

[foreskinsword]

Blorbo headcannon monday

Wednesday Addams is on the aromantic spectrum.

There, I've said it.

She:

- is clearly romance repulsed (grossed out by her parent's behavior)

- never expressed affection towards ANYONE apart from one kiss with Tyler (most likely demiromantic?)

- doesn't understand dating /sending signals and the like, literally says she doesn't need that in life

- clearly also on the autism spectrum (kinda ties in with the previous point -not understanding social cues etc)

I was really worried that the writers would force her into a relationship showing that aromanticism needs to be "fixed" but she clearly doesn't want to be in a romantic relationship with anyone, instead having very strong platonic relationships like with Enid, and she STAYS that way.

And I just feel very happy, even though this is just a headcannon. It's good to have a character to relate to.

Anyone else? Or am I just crazy

#wednesday #wednesday addams #aromantic #aromantism #aro #headcannon #blorbo #no romo #autistic wednesday addams #aspergers #aspie stuff #aspec culture #aromantic spectrum

[romance-repulsed-culture-is]

Romance-repulsed aro culture is enjoying a good drama till the main couple start falling in love with each other, and physically feeling sick if we force ourselves read/watch further

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#romance repulsed culture is #romance repulsed #romance repulsed aro #culture is #romo repulsed #romo repulsed culture #romance repulsed aro culture is

[belinhagamer999]

Special post today!

Happy Independence Day Brazil 🇧🇷

Arobrpunk

A punk/subculture identity for the inclusion is f Brazilian aromantic individuals on the society mainly in Brazil.

We fight against amatonormality, offensive jokes about single people or begin single, hyperromantized media, the bias of begin aromantic in the society, people that want force us to be alloromantic, we clarify that we are humans just like everyone else, we want to have freedom to talk about non romantic things. And the progress of knowledge of what is aromantic. Aromantic teens to be comfortable in the school environment. Campaigning to include aromance and making it look good in the LGBTQIA’s community.

Colors

Blue: hyperromantized media

Yellow: no amatonormality

Banana or vanilla: treated equally as humans and accepted

Green: fight against the bias of begin aromantic

Circle: punk symbol green color for aro people

Lozenge: from Brazil flag

Not a description of the flag ↓

Answering things you might be curious of

Why fight against hyperromantized media?

Because some of us romance repulsed and other aros feel disgusted by some romantic scenes. It’s very common here to see a lot of people trying to date online but rarely someone wants really a friendship.

Why trying to fight against people that want us to be alloromantic?

Some people here in Brazil don’t accept that we’re or want to be single, laugh at our face. Or try to make us be in a romantic relationship you can see this a lot at online games, that people ask your WhatsApp number to date you even if you don’t want to.

Why trying to include aromanticity on LGBTQIA’s community?

It’s necessary to say that not every LGBTQIA’s people is aro romantic. Lucky the community doesn’t say bad things about aro people, but we can make the term become more popular here in Brazil.

#aromanitc #aromance #aro memes #demiromantic #aro flag #loveless aro #romo aro #cupioromantic #coining #ace culture #aro culture is #mogai blog #mogai post #aro #aroace #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #aromantic positivity #reblog #lgbtqia wiki #arospec #asexual aromantic #Arobrpunk #arromantico #aromantism #aphobia

[romo-aro-culture-is]

Bellusromantic culture is being extremely flirty, and not realizing the other person is taking it seriously...

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#bellusromantic #bellusromantic culture #bellusromantic culture is #romo aro culture is #romo aro culture #romoaro culture #romoaro culture is

[aro-culture-is]

Aro-culture is trying to understand why society created the most ridiculous rituals and signs for romance and not finding a single answer/or that makes sense.

(No seriously, all the explanations I find are dumb. Send help)

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#aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod axel #honestly all i got for u is that romance is a socially described category of emotion #and social categories are notoriously full of all sorts of cultural biases and assumptions and history that got lost to common knowledge #not to mention the human tendencies to create lil rituals that sometimes become big (ie knock on wood / slug bug) #so u end up with like. 'yeah u gotta not directly tell ppl that ur in romo with them immediately because...' #culturally it signals like. moving too fast or it's seen as embarrassing or you gotta do xyz things first #my sister advised me as a teen that in her experience and opinion - delivered like the words of a sage - if someone is bad at kissing #then they are bad at sex #(me [a kissing repulsed aro person who enjoys sex]: uhhh) #and honestly like. especially when viewed from the outside those things are fuckin wild #like... my mom came from a tiny backwoods type of place in [redacted] #and when i moved to [redacted] and one of the biggest cities in my state (though tbh not that big actually lol) #it caused all sorts of fun. she thinks it's exceptionally rude that not every single person on the street smiles and says hi #if there's not a crowd #she also gets really upset that service workers are less likely to make small talk #and both of those come from City Etiquette being more about like... not taking up ppl's time and attention and that being respectful #like smiling and saying hi to every stranger on the street is... honestly gonna be seen as a Huge Danger thing #and service workers do not have the *time* at most locations to chat with you - especially if it's busy - and it's seen as disrespectful to #both the workers and the people in line behind you to insist on it #but from her POV with Country Etiquette #this is equivalent to like. getting slapped in the face and told that you are specifically mad at her #and she gets legit anxious about it in a very 'this means i fucked up' way

[tertiary-culture-archive]

aemotional romo aro culture is your interest in romance and romantic relationships coming from sensual/tactile actions and your desire for such in a romantic context :).

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#tertiary attraction culture #tertiary attraction #aemotional #romo aro #aro #oh nice!

[aro-yearning-culture-is]

aro yearning culture is trying to write the romance you yearn for but failing.

YES

#also this isn't like. SUPER related #but the major lack of qpr fanfics makes me sad #there are some tho! so that's cool #but not enough >:( #aro yearning culture is #romo aro #romance favourable #romance neutral

[demiro-allosexual-culture-is]

Demiromantic non-ace arospec culture is wishing we were more represented in the demiromantic community instead of demiromantics being assumed to be demisexual or asexual

#alloaro #aroallo #alloarospec #arospec #dia aro #romo aro #demiro #demiromantic #aro #aromantic #demiromantic allosexual #allosexual demiromantic #non ace demiromantic #non ace aro #demiromantic non ace aro culture is #demiromantic allosexual culture is #demi #aspec #demispec