#this must not be healthy

[chapal-patate-chaparu]

Alastor, again

#give this man therapy #this must not be healthy #digital art #hazbin art #hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel fanart #the vees #drawings #art #fanart hazbin hotel #hazbin vees #hazbin the vees #hazbin hotel vees #vox hazbin #vox hazbin hotel #hazbin vox #hazbin hotel vox #velvette hazbin #velvette fanart #hazbin hotel velvette #hazbin velvette #velvette #vox #alastor #alastor the radio demon #alastor hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel alastor

[utilitycaster]

I respect that post about "found family" being misused as a term because people overlay nuclear family structures but actually I rarely see that. It is far more frequent to see people trying to force speedrun a group of loosely connected characters into a lifelong bond so they can call it found family, OR getting mad that a genuinely tight-knit group still has their own separate lives outside just each other and don't all live in one big house. Found family can be great but sometimes characters are just friends or not even that, and that doesn't mean the story is any worse for it. And even if they are a found family that does not mean they will always get along nor constantly be within ten feet of each other until the end of time.

#starting to think the people fixating real hard on found family do so bc they do not have an understanding of healthy family dynamics #and so it turns into found family means never being angry or having to say you're sorry #(or more accurately found family means everyone must apologize to Guy I Project On but they never need to apologize for anything) #queue

[annabelle--cane]

say it with me everybody: personal health is completely immaterial to morality, including mental health. leading a mentally unhealthy lifestyle (or what you perceive as a mentally unhealthy lifestyle) does not a bad person make. no one has to socialize, exercise, have healthy coping mechanisms, or lead (what you perceive as) a fulfilling life with fulfilling hobbies in the same way that no one has to go to the doctor to get a broken bone reset. both of those types of management of personal health are likely to be beneficial to the individual, but they are in no way moral requirements or debts owed to society. they do not actually say anything about a person's principles, personality, or actions towards others. additionally, people know themselves and their own situations better than you do. maybe a person judges that the physical and financial toll of going to the doctor outweigh the benefit of getting their bone reset, maybe a person just does not have the capacity to develop healthy coping mechanisms at this point in their life, and yes, maybe a person feels like they are totally fulfilled by "media based" hobbies alone and would feel no difference in their life if they picked up a loom. just like. let people be sick without accusing them of being representative of the lazy, degenerated state of modern society.

#marina marvels at life #there's a way people on here have been talking about ai/tiktok/movies/anti intellectualism/media hobbies/self care that all jives together #that just. really icks me out. #sometimes it comes through pretty transparently with people claiming that you must have regular sex to be a healthy/good person #or conversely that people are more sex crazed now than they've ever been and it's destroying literacy or whatever #or that cheating at school is scandalously immoral and only 'soft brained' bad people would do it #or that collectivism means you have to dress the right way and feel the right way and talk the right way #because your actions affect Others and you might upset someone or give off bad messages if you wear a crop top or are too sad #but a lot of the time it's just this strange plausibly-deniable tone I keep encountering that crept up some time in like 2021 I think #like. am I going crazy here or has anyone else been feeling this?

[emderperq]

i realized i hadnt drawn these two silly lovers yet and I think thats a crime

if anyone hasnt watched Nerdy Prudes Must Die I very much recommend it!! It’s a musical posted on youtube by Starkid and its apart of the Hatchetfield trilogy (aka a masterpiece of musicals)

#im still obsessed with them btw #in a totally healthy way #nerdy prudes must die #nerdy prudes must die fanart #npmd #npmd fanart #lautski #starkid #starkid musicals #hatchetfield #art #digital art #artist #digital artist #fanart #IF I LOOOVED YOU YOU WOULD KNOW IT

[vaguely-concerned]

there are a lot of daddy issues to go around on DS9 in general, but odo, bashir and garak are really in their own special little fucked up 'what am I but wrought in my father's image' club

#star trek #star trek ds9 #ds9 #odo #julian bashir #elim garak #(I personally think we should put their dads in a cage match and let them kill each other. tain would probably win #but we could just shoot him after he claimed that victory. I Would Like To See It) #the triumvirate of bad dads to karmically oppose the sheer power of good dad vibes benjamin sisko has #specifically dads who Cannot and Will Not allow the healthy individuation of their sons into whole separate people #apart from what their father's hands have shaped them into #where that is one of the first things sisko accepts and realizes he must allow jake to do right at the early seasons #the bad dad club boys seem more specifically forcibly held in place to serve as mirrors for their fathers #and have to find ways to break away from that in more or less graceful ways; breaking off more or less important parts of themselves #to do so #dr mora seems to have a 'oh fuck.' moment where he sort of realizes what he's done #but the sympathy that gains him from me is hm. neglible lmao at least tain is basically fully just a monster #what's your excuse mora #I haven't met bashir's dad properly yet but I've seen enough to suspect I'm not going to be very charitably inclined towards him either

[yoon-dowoon]

a jimin a day keeps the doctor away (1/???)

#jiminedit #btsedit #park jimin #dailybts #btsgif #annietrack #userbangtan #bts #bangtan #jiminday #my gifs #since he's not here to tell us not to catch a cold we must resort to seeing his face over & over to keep us healthy #btw this doesn't mean I'll upload daily #ideally I'd love to do it but realistically I know I won't be able to #aISH I miss him so much #loml #I love lee mujin's show and this episode is chef's kiss #mujin not being immune to the jimin effect and being a giggly mess #he's just like us

[hadesoftheladies]

sure you need to exercise and sleep and eat well. but gyns, you really, really, really need to de-stress as much as possible. if that means deleting your social media, or regulating/restricting it severely, or cutting off idk how many other toxic relationships you need to get on that. you need to find or build a healthy community. that is an integral part of your health.

it is toxic to your body to be bombarded by horrifying news each morning you log onto your phone. it is toxic to your body to be in constant hypervigilance. it is toxic to your body to be hyper-aware of all the awful things that are happening or could happen. your brain should not be in constant hypervigilance.

if you want to do activism, it needs to become less reactive and more strategic. meaning, no replying to ugly comments. read a feminist book instead, donate to feminist organizations instead. you don't have to stay in radfem IG, twitter, tumblr, reddit or whatever to continue being feminist. yes, perhaps these are the only places you can access feminist community where you're at right now, but even then, you've got to get in control of it.

cut off the males in your life that leech your energy, whether mental or otherwise. stop negotiating about it. it doesn't have to be a dramatic bridge-burning. you could just disengage. (this applies to your mother or any other codependent relationship) remain friendly without being a friend. even toxic female friendships. if your negative friendships outweigh your positive ones, you have serious house cleaning to do. because those are affecting your health.

put more energy into making positive connections (they do not have to be deep or dedicated, just positive) with the women around you. the woman who works at the pharmacy, or the plumber, idk. just foster positive attitudes with the people around you.

and de-stress, de-stress, de-stress. practice mindfulness, keep a clean gut, sleep better. this is your life we're talking about.

#radblr #women keep neglecting this aspect of their health which is relationships #you aboslutely must have healthy relationships to live a healthy life #feminism #radfem #this is all advice i'm taking as well #i'm not totally there #but you just need one little step in the right direction every day

[markscherz]

Okay two things.

First of all, um, excuse me, but why did 2000 of you decide to follow me in the last week??? I hope you know the consequences of your actions (frogs)

And secondly, who exactly at tumblr dot com put a 'click for frogs' button at the top of tumblr, that turns into a playable keyboard of croaking frogs when you click it‽ I wish to send them a gift basket.

#so like overnight I apparently cracked 10000 followers on tumblr #which is entirely ludicrous #and I have no idea which post it is that has brought you all here #like I feel someone famous must have reblogged something #but I do not know who or what or when #but you are all very welcome #hello #here we serve memes and hot takes with a side of science sauce #and a healthy dollop of frogs on top #and also we try to play Hallelujah on a frog keyboard #because we have been given that power by the gods of tumblr dot com #personal #about me

[notanerdyprude]

michie but frenemies. michie but after waylon place (provided max doesnt die) they have a rivalry. max calls him shit-lips and richie fires back with “jager-bitch”. richie helps max study and calls him a fucking idiot the whole time. then they kiss.

#michie #max jagerman #richie lipschitz #jagerschitz #npmd #nerdy prudes must die #michie as is canon is toxic and not healthy #michie in my head is absolutely delightful

[justarandombrit]

Grace doodle I did a while ago

#i love her so much its not healthy #grace chasity #nerdy prudes must die #dirty dudes must die #grace chastity #starkid #team starkid #starkid productions #starkid fanart

[crowleycorvid]

I can't believe the message of crystallized was that Lloyd needed to stop suppressing his anger and instead learn to let it out and let it go and channel it in healthy and productive ways instead of the unhealthy ways it'd previously shown itself in. I can't believe that was the message and he beat the overlord's ass in oni form as a symbol of how using your anger to your advantage instead of letting it hurt the ones you love and yourself is important. I can't believe that's what happened guys. Right guys

#I understand what the were going for. But man was what we actually got as a central theme. Bad. #“All anger is bad and Lloyd should find other ways to cope" SUCKS #Idk. He's allowed to be angry. And he really made no progress in handling it in a healthy way #They just went “no there must be another way!!” and that sucks idk. #Does this make sense #ninjago #lego ninjago #rant #lloyd garmadon

[bayesiandragon]

Everything else notwithstanding, I firmly think that SJ's rage towards YQY - regardless of how you feel about the degree to which he acted out towards him - was reasonable given that he believes (with justification given the little info he has) that his one childhood friend, who knew very well the vicious abuse he was experiencing, just fucked off to live the good life he found and left him to suffer. Like completely separate from anything else, I don't see how hating someone who to your knowledge abandoned you to die, even if they're sorry/guilty once they saw you survived, is wrongheaded or misguided. I honestly saw their whole relationship as emblematic of the prominent themes of miscommunication in SVSSS, on YQY's side due to a mixture of feeling like he's sparing the other party and his own trauma. A direct parallel (and later a foil) to SY and LBH at the abyss.

#sure things would have probably gone better if shen jiu was able to find forgiveness earlier for qi-ge's apparent betrayal #which we can easily say as omniscient readers with perfect information #but I really don't think that “you MUST forgive terrible betrayal/abuse to find happiness" is what the intended conclusion is..... #bingqiu was very lucky in that SY's ultimate display of continued love via his sacrifice was followed by a resurrection honestly #it's just rough that poor YQY almost certainly thought that saying that he did care and tried wouldn't mean anything #that it's just the failure to succeed that mattered #when at least IMO it would have meant much - it was the crux of the problem for SJ #SJ textually didn't hate YQY for failing when he thought he was dead or lost #but after seeing him strong and healthy at the sect - refusing to explain just apologizing when questioned - he saw willful abandonment #svsss

[bumblingbabooshka]

B'Elanna, Neelix, Tuvok and Chakotay needed to star in an episode where they just talked about their different beliefs and approaches to spirituality/religion. Paired off and all together. I need to gain more insight. I need characterization and I need it to be messy.

#B'Elanna's difficulty with Klingon myths and religion (especially due to her internalized racism) #Chakotay's current strong belief in his own spirituality despite his initial complete rejection of it (and how B'Elanna seems to admire #and have talked with Chakotay about it extensively in the past given how many specifics she's aware of) #Neelix's belief in an afterlife being the only thing that comforted him after his entire family was killed - the knowledge that he would be #able to reunite with them again and that knowledge being ripped away from him #Does he still believe? Are there other aspects of his previous spiritual beliefs that are thrown into question? #Just because it isn't 'real' does it make it unimportant? How do we even know whether or not it's 'real'? #He died and doesn't remember reaching that tree and seeing his family - does that mean it didn't happen? #Tuvok's line in 'Innocence' about how he's begun to have doubts about whether or not a katra exists and what happens after someone dies #and his firm ties to Vulcan spirituality and ritual #ALL SO INTERESTING!!!!!!!! #star trek voyager #I don't think it'd be a calm or healthy conversation either - they're not therapists and I don't think anyone but Chakotay #would be particularly careful with his words #and before you say Tuvok's a Vulcan so he would be let me remind you that Tuvok told B'Elanna to her face that he thought Klingons #were basically savages - he is INDELICATE to say the least #Neelix is careful with his words bc he's a people pleaser for survival but also he has a tendency to bother people and be overly pushy #and I think he'd do a lot of research and be the one leading the conversation/the reason they get on the topic and continue on it #B'Elanna wouldn't want to talk about it. She wants to talk about it the least. But she must!!!! Bc the episode demands it!! #st voy

[ramestice]

Rodent Brainrot

I NEEDED TO WRITE THIS DOWN BEFORE MY BRAIN EXPLODED OMG,,,

Okay so Dead Plate Canon Divergence AU—probably OOC because there's no murder involved— Vincent does not turn Manon into a gourmet meal, he just tells her he's not interested and they part ways. The rest of the game goes on normally; Vincent is still obsessively fixated on Rody while Rody's hung up over Manon. And GET THIS,,,Manon eventually calls Rody back after he keeps insistently calling her every night, and straight up tells him to stop. She tells him to please focus on himself for once, and to stop trying to contact her. She doesn't want to get back together again, she's seriously exhausted by how self-destructive he is. The phone call ends and,,,Rody starts coughing. He spits out the strange lump in his throat and there, in his palm, sits a yellow carnation.

This is where everything falls apart. So he decides that, hey, maybe quitting such a well-paying job after a week just for the sake of winning back his ex was NOT a good idea. So he stays. He sneaks in bundles of yellow whenever he has to take out the trash in his shifts, fixes up his apartment, and he tries to be,,,better. But still holding onto the hope that one day Manon will come back. He ignores the way the mere thought of her makes his lungs feel heavier.

And all the while? Vincent is right there, still uncomfortably observing his every move. But one day, he invites him over to his place. No dinner party to cater, just two cups of tea. Rody remarks at how surprising it is to see his boss drinking anything that isn't red wine or black coffee, but then Vincent says he made the blend himself. Curious, he tries a sip and,,,it's incredible. A light, floral feel and then a citrus-y aftertaste—Vincent did say he liked lemons. He's never been a fan of tea, but there's just something so sincere about it that soothes all of his worries. When was the last time he just sat down with someone, a mug warming both his hands and heart? No worries about how he's acting, what next big thing he must attempt to keep the affection of those around him—of her. So he looks at Vincent and tells him,

"It tastes like love."

#dead plate #dead plate vince #dead plate rody #vincent x rody #rody lamoree #vincent charbonneau #dead plate rodent #and then they make out /hj #btw Vince used yellow carnations and daffodils in his tea/tisane ;) #okay if you must know: Vincent also has Hanahaki and yes the blend is a mix of his and Rody's flowers because he's a creep like that lmao #i'm just deluding myself into believing this because there is literally no way for them to be healthy in canon 😭

[ikram1909]

Gavi on his story ❤️❤️

#he's starting to show parts of his recovery we cheered!!!! #also can you believe this is the boy people were calling fat simply because he has healthy cheeks? #it's actually impressive how well defined his body still is despite not being able to work out much #he must be following a really strict diet my poor baby ☹️ #pablo gavi #baby waby #fc barcelona

[merakiui]

it’s been some time, but i’m thinking about the apocalypse au again……. i’ve written about the gender inequality and the bride/husband selections and expectations shouldered in order to restore the population! but i also need to write more about the overblot virus itself and what it does to those who are infected. >:) because a certain few (compound leaders) may just be infected hehehe. <3

#meraki mumbles #body horror here we come!!!!! #the blot making it near-impossible for zuzu to hide his tako features so the spell is just slowly wearing off #and he can’t do anything about it #until eventually he’s unable to keep up a human form #and the blot is just eating him from the inside >_< #and soon you won’t be able to recognize him #and his mind is so muddled and one-track but maybe you’re the only one he faintly remembers so he’s just always calling out to you #and it’s horrifying because that’s no longer your azul #at least not the healthy and safe azul you know… #WAAAAA OTL OTL i must write about it for each compound leader asap!!!!!!!