#very different

[cecenyss]

the Real mystery of death note is that Light somehow convinced the fandom that he is the socially competent one and L is the recluse with no social skills. Light thought it was realistic to respond to the emo freak at his college who said he was a world famous detective after hunching over like a gremlin taking his shoes off in public and sitting like a frog was "if you're telling the truth i respect you greatly." L frequently performs social tests on people close to him to see what they'll say with the goal of studying their responses and picked up a call from his friend in a potentially volatile situation by flawlessly imitating a douchebag friend who parties too much while likely never having been to a bar in his life. they are not the same.

#death note #dn #l lawliet #light yagami #matsuda and L ARE friends and i will die on this hill #okay but the truth is they are both SO out of touch from society #the difference is that #light has been sheltered by every person he ever encountered being blinded by his intelligence and good looks #and doesn't have a clue how normal people interact with each other #and L has spent years studying human beings like specimens in a lab specifically for the purpose of figuring out how normal people interact #L can imitate Light can dazzle #very different

[sockeyedsalmom]

They weren’t roommates, one’s just spying on the other

Ps this isn’t FNAF fan art, I know people get these confused but this is actually a spoof fan game made by DirectDoggo/DogMan, called Dayshift at Freddy’s

the orange fellow is called Jack Kennedy and has nothing to do with Henry Miller, they are separate entities in this game

#my art #digital art #magma studio #DSAF #Dave Miller #jack kennedy #dayshift at freddy's #Video game #fan art #DaveSport #Dsaf Jack #The tangerine #to his aubergine #They wanna smash each other so bad #But they have different ideas of smash #Very different #Fan game

[andreawritesit]

Luffy: "I wanna fly!"

Shanks: lifts him up and swings him around

Zoro: "I wanna fly!"

Mihawk, sipping wine: "Fly yourself."

#parenting skills are DIFFERENT #Very different #luffy #zoro #shanks #mihawk #one piece

[ccatskies]

this is my take on the initial episodes of queen of tears: so, um. hyunwoo’s reaction to haein dying. a lot of people were immediately put off by it and dropped the drama, calling him an asshole. i wouldn’t say the reaction wasn’t a little uncomfortable to watch as a viewer, but that’s only the case if you’ve never put yourself in the shoes of someone suffering immensely from a dysfunctional relationship.

the lack of overt affection was destroying him because his wife is so closed off and would rather care for him in a way that is impossible to be acknowledged by him, she humiliated him in front of his employees and he had to respond w “yes, ma’am” despite not agreeing w her bc she’s his boss, she didn’t stand up for him vocally when her family was berating him to no end, plus the family made him do their household chores against his will. he had to walk on eggshells around them, especially his wife.

it was so bad that there were multiple scenes where his hands were clenched together, trembling. he went to therapy and got strong anxiety meds prescribed in return. this abysmal marriage was crippling him emotionally and mentally (it’s safe to say haein put him through emotional abuse, even if she didn’t intend to affect him that way)

his initial plan was to divorce haein because he couldn’t take it any longer, even if it meant his multimillionaire father-in-law was going to stab him in the back (figure of speech). in fact, he preferred being stabbed over having to face the vengeance of the hong family.

the “window fantasy” isn’t fictional. there are multiple women, unwillingly dependent on their narcissistic husbands (not only bc they can’t go anywhere since their working opportunities have been sabotaged but also bc a bad rep will follow them if they leave or don’t yield to their husbands; tldr: there are consequences to leaving), that have wanted to be widowed at some point bc they couldn’t bear the trauma of the marriage. growing up in a south asian society, i know a thing or two about being stuck in traumatic marriages and the only way being out is if your partner somehow dies.

no one would invalidate an abuse victim if they wanted their abuser to die. so, are these women any different just bc they agreed to the marriage when their partner swore to carry out their commitment? only to find out none of their needs are being met and they’re stuck? are they not being abused?

so, people, to an extent, DO justify it when women want their toxic husbands to die because of terrible life situations.

now, back to QoT. i saw someone on twitter say that if the roles were reversed i.e if haein was the one who was wishing for hyunwoo to die, they’d be okay with it bc “yess go get revenge on your toxic husband and free yourself girl” bc misogyny is a systematic thing. it’s not easy to escape abusive husbands in our society especially when they hold power over their partner.

so, for the opposite to happen i.e the husband wanting his wife to die just looks “bad.”

however, queen of tears is a show where it is blatantly obvious that the gender roles are reversed. something that even my younger brother pointed out seamlessly. the hong “queens” family think they’re progressive for making their sons-in-law do their chores for them (something they did not sign up for). this is how many daughters-in-law are treated in modern society. the only reason “misandry” feels more real in the show, in terms of the hong family, is bc the women of this family certainly hold more power over the sons-in-law because of CLASS. haein is a multimillionaire’s daughter while hyunwoo is a villager’s son. they could easily take revenge on his family in irreparable ways. class distinction exists, power exists, abuse exists.

with all that in mind, hyunwoo might as well have been going through the “widow fantasy” where if he left his wife willingly, he’d have to suffer and if he chose to stay, he’d still need to suffer. the only way out was haein not being in his life anymore without him having to do anything.

it sounds cruel but it’s obvious he was pushed to the edge. he wanted to escape the trauma and it should also be noted that by then, he was completely out of love with haein (he told his therapist that he despised his wife the most). how much can you sympathize w someone you can’t even look at without feeling small?

so, in that period, he must’ve went through an overwhelming amount of emotions while he was on survival mode, not allowing him to think straight, or even consider what he had w haein in the past bc much of that was long gone. furthermore, i don’t think he would’ve been that obsessed w the will revision if yanggi didn’t motivate him to think that way, with the intentions of getting compensation for their poor excuse of a marriage.

so yeah, i wouldn’t say he was being a good husband to her initially. but rather, he was being selfish… by looking out for himself for once. he’s always had to clean up the hong family’s mess, looking after their reputation, never getting peace of his own.

then again, it takes two to tango and the marriage failed bc of both hyunwoo and haein’s lack of efforts. but i would say it was more complicated for hyunwoo bc haein always kept him guessing (and she was indecisive as well; the wedding anniversary issue) and he’s grown up in a pretty communicative family, so not taking his partner’s words at face value isn’t something he’s used to. he felt the most unloved.

so, personally, it was hard for me to sympathize with haein until a few more episodes into the show (this is coming from someone who relates to haein a lot, kind of opened up room for a lot of self reflection). she was a bad wife to the point her partner wanted to die. can’t say if the feeling was mutual on her part. haein herself admitted that she was a terrible partner, understanding why he did what he did, despite it being heartbreaking.

another thing i’ve noticed people say is that hyunwoo was pretending to be the good guy and hiding behind his “kind” actions but you could tell his actions became more genuine and he started to catch feelings again, albeit he was in denial at the beginning. when the divorce agreement papers leaked, he told her the honest truth without coming up w excuses, acknowledging that this whole ordeal hurt haein more than it hurt him. he didn’t take advantage of her memory loss (the rain scene w the cat “aeong”) to cut himself some slack and to make sure haein wouldn’t immediately be plotting against him.

he wasn’t hiding behind his actions or claiming to be a good guy. he was owning up.

he started to care, felt guilty (hotel scene in germany) and realized why and how their relationship failed, worked towards making it better. i think he would’ve been honest and told haein abt the divorce himself anyway but learning about it from her mother kind of broke the trust haein had on him.

anyway, i never thought i’d be on tumblr defending a man who was happy at the news of his wife dying but here we are.

#pls i think its more nuanced than what ppl make it out to be #no u shouldn’t be happy that someone u loved once is dying #but if it’s someone who emotionally depleted you i’d lowkey understand #if the show dived more into the abusive patterns of the hong family and how he had to be on the receiving end the reactions would’ve been #very different #queen of tears #kim soo hyun #baek hyun woo #kim ji won #hong hae in

[ssomepersonn]

pathetic little wyrm man

#hollow knight #hollow knight fanart #the pale king #the hollow knight #ngl hes so fun to draw but also he sucks so hard to draw #people lean very hard into freaky bug mouth but i think he is a Worm and not an Insect #very different #i have yet to properly draw the white lady but enjoy her brief cameo #the cake mantis was an in joke that was requested to be drawn #DOSA is such a good sound to make #anyways have this fucking little worm thing #my art #q #also i just noticed i miswrote this my pk has 4 arms and 12 legs #i meant 6 pairs of hindlegs 😔

[cryptidbait]

KDHDKDKDK

I’m still alive you guys

I promise

I’ve just been working on other stuff

But have this doodle of meme from Twitter :))

#my art #cryptidbait #fanart #video games #sonic #knuckles the echidna #shang tsung #mk #mortal kombat 1 #comfort character #ugh yeah #very different #lmao #fandom #mk1 #meme #twitter meme

[buttertrait]

oc evolution tag

thank you @druidberries @ezra-trait @flovoid and anyone else who’s tagged me in this and i missed it (i know a few people have) and i apologise for it taking so long i was kinda scared to post these because my old sim style is very different

okay so, from left to right -> oldest to newest

unfortunately i don’t have the defaults i used on the very first version of elvene so she didn’t look exactly like this but yeah.

when i first made her she had literally none of the things i associate with elvene now. i think i just saw people making their dnd characters and i was like hm i wanna make my dnd character and literally just made the most basic character ever 😭

the second one was when i was first starting to develop my sim style, i decided i wanted to remake her to align more with the story i had for her in my head and honestly i used this version up until recently, however i decided she was too different from the rest of my sims and decided to update her! this is the version i’m sure most people will also recognise

and the third version is ofc the version you guys all know and love now! i think honestly she’s my favourite of the three and that might be because she’s in my current sim style, but i do feel like she just looks the most like elvene. like she looks exactly how i pictured her to look and honestly i just love her so much i could just spin her around in cas all day

i’m not going to tag anyone because i’m sure everyone has already done this by now and i’m extremely late to the party but yeah!

#i’m so nervous posting this bc my old sims were defo #very different #idk #sim: elvene sharp #tag game #butter’s thoughts

[barley-hopkins]

WIP for an art piece that is part of another art piece. Any suggestions on how to make it more stained glass window like? 

#grian #watcher grian #evosmp #evo #hermitcraft #last life #double life #mcyt #stained glass window style art was difficult. #very different #barley’s art tag

[oceanwithouthermoon]

just added a fucking disney descendants song to my saiki kusuo playlist and i cant tell if this is my highest or lowest

#(its my lowest) #to clarify again this is NOT a playlist of songs he would listen to #its a playlist of songs that remind me of him #very different #saiki k #tdlosk #the disastrous life of saiki k. #saiki kusuo #kusuo saiki #meows post

[bloodstainsonthefloor]

mikey way and mikeyway are two completely different things

#very different #in a way i cannot explain #mikey way #mikeyway #mcr #mikey’s stuff

[cosmic-walkers]

Is it me or do I notice a chunk of Wolf Hall fans tend to not like Anne Boleyn. I think a lot of it has to do with how she was portrayed in both the show and the books...

I like her, a lot...but i notice a lot of people don't.

#i have a meta somewhere i wanna write #about how anne in wolfhall was explitictly written to be unlikable #and yes i know i spelled explicitly wrong i am on a time crunch #but she was written that way in contrast to jane seymour being written 'good' per se #very different #noble and innocent #and i kinda don't like that #whereas in the tudors #both anne and jane were on equal ground when it came to the way the narrative treated them and they were rivals #albeit for a short time #this is more me saying i don't like when anne is made out to be more evil and jane is made out to be more sweet #and in general i thnk it does a great disservice to both women #because jane is very much a player too #but back to it #wolf hall fans at least imo dont like her #and tha tkinda hurt my feelings T-T #wolf hall #anne boleyn #i also liked the complexity in she and thomas's relationship #and how idk unlike the fans at least in the show #he kinda felt bad for her T-T

[sleepless-crows]

the night we met was NOT the tannery it was uhm AHEM ahem AHEM ahem

#something else #very different #uhm #how do wesper fans feel #grishaverse #six of crows #soc #jesper fahey #wylan van eck #wesper #shadow and bone #watchingsabs2* #sab spoilers #shadow and bone spoilers

[mobiused]

actually i think it says a lot about you that you refused to publish my ask where i listed all the shit ctd did wrong. like the car crash. Do u not want ppl to know whats up or…?

And I'll delete this one too!

#wait dammit #re; car crash #if it doesnt impact the schedules and all the girls said that they were not injured why does it need reporting? #only clogs up articles about lsmbl when theyre already a nugu #very different #from a car crash that caused events to be cancelled and the company covering up injuries like bbc

[hoperays-song]

Sibling Differences

Johnny: You know what true strength is?

Johnny: Forgiving someone who isn’t even sorry.

Nooshy: ...Not to be dramatic but I would literally rather die. 

#sing 2 #sing johnny #sing nooshy #they are very different people #very different #johnny is an absolute sweetheart and rarely holds a grudge #nooshy is still holding a grudge from kindergarten #johnny and nooshy are 100% siblings

[indie-queer-movie-tournament]

*Please don't vote for either movie unless you have seen both.

#movies #polls #don't confuse crash and crush #very different #both submitted to this tournament! #my computer is Suffering so good god this took way longer to get these drafted than it should have #thank god they're done #fingers crossed it's done acting up

[animezinglife]

Every time I see you reblog something about Lucien, I keep picturing Astarion from BG3 😂

Oh no! I can assure you they are two very different characters in every way (minus the immortal part and the tragic backstory). 😂

Nope. I'm talking about the sharp-tongued redheaded Fae out of a romantasy series, not a vampire!

#answered #this made me laugh out loud! #NOOOOOHOHO #very different #also feel free to blacklist ''acotar'' if you want all that gone #think a version of Legolas specifically created for women