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transmasc culture is looking at a masc lesbian and getting gender envy and then realising it's not a guy and just dying a little bit inside

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Does anyone know what flag this is? Genuine question, I've just never seen it before. I looked everywhere, but I couldn’t find an actual definition.

#lgbt #lgbt+ #lgbtq #lgbtq+ #lgbtqa #lgbtqa+ #queer #pride #queer pride #lgbtqa+ pride #pride flag

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please show some fucking love to gay trans men and mascs for fucks sake. the queer community isn't just sapphics and women and femmes, there are men and mascs and butches and like just....please show us some love too

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Fuck personality tests. Who comes to your mind when I say "Michael"

#michael from the magnus archives #will not specify which one

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"LGBTQA+ is one of the most accepting communities, you're not being targeted by other queer people!! 😤​😡​"

Aight, time for the list of things related to my queer identity I've been yelled at for by other LGBTQA+ people (for context: I am an oriented aroace, trans, queer, and polyamorous dude):

・Being a trans man.

・Identifying as queer/calling myself queer.

・Saying that gay And mlm are two different things, just like wlw and lesbian are two different things

・Saying that trans women are women.

・Being attracted to men.

・Not being attracted to women and people on the genderqueer/nonbinary spectrum.

・Being oriented aroace.

・Not being monogamous.

・Talking about genuinely loving men.

・Being aspec and having npd (quote the girl who yelled at me for that: "your npd made you aroace, you're just to selfish to commit to genuine love lol.").

・Not being lesbian.

・Not being pan.

・Saying that I support mspec gays/lesbians because it’s not my place to judge other people’s identities just because I may not fully understand them.

・Saying mspec, the multi spectrum, or multiromantic/multisexual (to include ply, pan, omni, bi, neptunic, uranic, and every other pluralian sexuality) instead of just bi.

・Saying that nonbinary people can present themselves as masculine, androgynous, neutral, or feminine as they want, and still be nonbinary.

・Literally just. wearing green eyeshadow????? (quote the person who yelled at me for that: “t hat's a lesbian color, bro, you're literally appropriating lesbian culture by that.")

・Presenting masculine.

・Using he/him pronouns.

・Referring to the D-Slur as tThe D-Slur (y'all want me to say a slur I can't reclaim?????).

・Saying that the og polyamory flag (the blue-red-black one with the yellow pi symbol in the middle) looks neat.

・Not using any of the new polyamory flags because I prefer the blue-red-black + pi symbol one.

・Asking if there’s a word for nonbinary people who are exclusively/only attracted to other nonbinary people.

・Hating non-men who fetishize achillean relationships.

・Being specifically Half-Asian and queer.

・Writing books about exclusively queer men/non-women, mostly to cope with trauma stuff (apparently if your writing doesn't consist of a trillion sapphics, two gay fathers that get three seconds of screentime, and the occasionally non-human nonbinary person, it's automatically bad writing???? Okay damn. Sorry for focusing on my own experiences, I guess?).

・Not necessarily wanting to get married or have a romantic/sexual relationship.

・Shipping two characters in a queerplatonic way instead of a sexual/romantic one.

・Headcanoning a popular fandom character as aroace.

・Mentioning aroallo people.

・Saying that straight asexuals and straights aromantics are LGBTQA+ since that's what the A stands for.

・Not being T4T (I just wanna love men in peace fuck off with your "but cis men are horrible!! 🥺🤢😱 Limit yourself to trans men because I said so!! 😤🤬🤬"-Bullshit).

・Using someone’s neopronouns.

・Supporting xenogender people.

・Headcanoning a canonically lesbian character as trans female.

・Saying that I want more representation of achillean, aroace, trans, and asexual men in media.

・Asking asking someone who knew I used he/him pronouns to not refer to me with they/them (like, girlie, that’s called misgendering).

・Mentioning that women can be aroallo.

・Saying that people who don’t label their genders/sexualities can be LGBTQA+ too.

・Saying that two pan women I know in reallife dating each other aren’t lesbians because... they’re both pan?

・Mentioning that queer men should always be welcome in queer spaces.

・Saying that amab nonbinary folks can be lesbian.

・Wanting to go on T.

・Jokingly referring to my tiddies and my pussy as boys.

And last but not least,

・Saying "people", "y'all", "esteemed guests", or "everyone present" instead of "ladies and gentlemen".

I dunno, homie, I actually do feel a little targeted here.

#queer #lgbt #lgbt+ #lgbtq #lgbtq+ #lgbtqa #lgbtqa+ #gay #lesbian #mlm #wlw #achillean #sapphic #nonbinary #nblnb #aspec #aroace #aromantic #asexual #oriented aroace #acespec #arospec #mspec #pluralian #bi #ply #pan #omni #queerphobia #homophobia

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Favorite Kinds of Platonic Relationships:

Mentor/Student or Apprentice dynamics

Kids having a "crush" on an older person in that innocent "I want to be like you" way (100% platonic, I just think it's cute when kids idolize teenagers and adults like that)

True BFFs for life. Think Rhett and Link, Bill and Ted, Danny and Arin, or Finn and Jake.

"It's Complicated"

Unexpected Friendships, like the popular girl and the nerd who go on cryptid-hunting adventures together

Brothers who were mean to each other as kids but would now die for each other (or the opposite for angst scenarios)

Girlboss/Lesbian and her emotional support Himbo

Possession scenario where the main character is possessed by some supernatural force but instead of being scary it's just like,, a roomate who lives in your head. Like Yami Yugi

Platonic Creature x Human relationships

"Do you want me to kill that guy for you? 'Cause I will absolutely kill that guy for you."

Disgruntled man reluctantly becomes father and it turns out he's the best dad ever

Platonic Dudebros or Brothers who are just,, total himbos.

Actually healthy Sisterly relationships. Like Luisa and Mirabel from Encanto

Character A has a so-called "crush" on Character B but it turns out that they're better off as friends and this isn't treated like a bad thing. Bonus points if the only reason for the crush is that Character B was the first person to genuinely support Character A so they thought it must be love. Think Eowyn and Aragorn from LOTR

Any time a Character adopts another character. Like Eda the Owl Lady and Luz in The Owl House

Relationships between Older and Younger family members. Like an Uncle with his nephews or a Grandpa and the granddaughter that takes after him. Think Bruno and Mirabel from Encanto

A person's love for their work (if you think this isn't a real dynamic or relationship you're wrong)

Childhood Friends who grow apart but reconnect.

Friends who are clearly Neurodiverse and feed off each other's hyperfixations

"You're the only person in the world I can relate to"

The one who infodumps and the only who loves listening

"I'm so gay for you, but like, in a platonic way"

Protective Parental Figures (that's the good shit)

Literally spends their entire lives together but it's not in a romantic way. Maybe even includes Platonic Marriage

Estranged relative or friend being accepted back into people's lives (cough Bruno cough)

Friend Groups

An older person encouraging a younger person to pursue their dreams, whether that dream is just like theirs or completely the opposite

I hope this makes people realize how cool and unique platonic relationships can be. If you use these in your writing/art I'm kissing you on the mouth right now (platonically lol)

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reblog this post to make an arophobe bang their elbow on the sharp edge of metal shelf

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Just saw this shit so I made a helpful graphic <3

Under your own logic the sunset lesbian flag is a recolor of a recolor of a recolor of a flag made by and for gay men so maybe shut the fuck up 💖💕 You're welcome!

(also, as you can see, there are many flags with a 'white stripe through the middle' design, most made before the lipstick lesbian flag was in anybody's radar.)

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Me: anyway sorry for rambling I'm done now

Me two minutes later talking about my characters again:

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imagine you try to write but your inability to stay committed to one single wip just says  💖​🧚‍♂️​🌸no​🌸​🧚‍♂️​💖​

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all my friends talking about their ocs: *explaining the character’s backstory in detail* *showing their own art of the oc* *giving neatly organized facts*

me talking about my ocs: uhhh yeah, so this is kaztor sbelle. i named him kaztor sbelle because he’s a magician, and ‘kaztor sbelle’ sounds like ‘cast a spell’, and that’s what magicians do. also oakley, he bought a cursed amulet and now some cult is coming for his ass. this is blizzard, he’s just kind of an asshole in general. this is jinafire, i accidentally named him after a monster high character and he’s the deranged arsonist of the group but he’s chill about it. this is zircon, i absolutely hate him. this is-

#this is just an excuse to bully my ocs tbh #oc lore #oc meme #meme #oc #own characters #my ocs

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babygirl i got so much oc lore you wont care bout ;)

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I'm going to be blunt, this fandom has an issue with assuming that everyone who reads fanfiction is automatically female.

I don't care if it throws off your format or "looks bad". label your fics. specify the reader's gender at the top.

specify the reader's gender at the top of your fics.

there is nothing inherently wrong with writing fem reader. it's when you are deceiving people (even accidentally) into thinking your work is safe for them to read and then having to leave with a sense of not being welcome in the fandom. everyone deserves fics that make them feel good about themselves, and knowing which ones aren't for them is the first step.

if you can put warnings at the top of your fic you can certainly label reader's gender.

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me explaining the lore of my ocs for the sixth time: no but that’s the thing, oakley found the amulet in a store, thinking “oh neat, that looks sick” and bought it, but the guy that sold the amulet told him it was cursed. oakley didn’t believe in magic, said “miss me with that fantasy bullshit”, and still bought it. but as he put on the amulet, he was teleported into another dimension where magic is real! so now he has to figure out how to get home because a thief stole the amulet. things don’t go as planned, and then it turns out that a cult was tasked to kill him-

the other dude that mike crew shoved off a building at the same time, causing us to fall for the last twelve hours: hold on, hold on, start over, i’m not following.

me: alright, so-

#do i tag this as tma or oc stuff? #both. both is good. #the magnus archives #tma #mike crew #oc #ocs #oc lore #oc stuff #meme #this is just an excuse to infodump about my oc lore tbh