#I have parental problems obviously

[rwsdarw]

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#miraculous lb #miraculous fanart #mlb #miraculous ladybug #miraculoustalesofladybugandcatnoir #adrien agreste #chat noir #gabriel agreste #I guess he’s there?? #hawkmoth #I have parental problems obviously #does this make sense #very short comic #this abt the one episode where um #the one where they reveal identities and Adrien’s bald?? #i cannot remember

[simcardiac-arrested]

what’s up lately with all these snobbish posts about how found family isnt This it’s That and found families don’t have dads or siblings or anyrhing Stop Pushing Your Nuclear Agenda

#? Like ? okay..? #it’s really weird to me because no one seemed to have a problem with it Ever and now for the past week or two it’s just post after post #about how EVERYONE on earth has gotten found family wrong #Which like sure i agree. sometimes people misinterpret found family and try to shove characters into boxes they shouldnmt be in #and sure found family isn’t just parent children siblings whatever #but like .? It can be. and it often is with characters #there’s no …. actual issue with that #sure people shouldn’t try to force a nuclear family structure onto characters that obviously don’t fit it #but like idk it’s not the endof the world. Tho i agree there should be more found family which is less defined and s just about strong bonds #crammerposting #like i’ve said before people should just be put in jail for being annoying online #i hate when i can agree with the sentiment of a post but it’s worded in such a snobbish condescended way that it’s like Eww ptooey #stop acting strange about fictional found family There are actual problems worth caring about on this green earth

[awetistic-things]

can neurotypical people from neurotypical households stop commenting on the way my very neurodivergent household is run? thanks :)

#so fucking annoying #“omg ur being so rude #“have some respect for ur parents #“stop throwing tantrums u act like such a brat #“why won’t u just stop misbehaving so much #“why must u exist in such a way that i can’t understand so i obviously think there’s something wrong with u #leave me alone and mind ur business #ty :) #autism #autistic #actually autistic #asd #autism spectrum disorder #autistic things #on the spectrum #autistic problems #autism problems #neurodivergent #neurodivergency #neurodiverse #neurodiversity

[ameliafuckinjones]

The thought of Amelia/Alfred declaring independence and then being immediately thrust into parenthood appeals to me. Imagine if you will shortly after the Revolution the emergence of State Personifications coming about with each admission to the Union (Delaware was the first one). Whether they appear miraculously or are birthed via (unwilling) parthenogenesis (which I prefer) the bottom line is that suddenly America has all these kids to take care of, all of who grow up just as fast as America did. Regardless of how they came to be or how fast they grow, America loves them with his/her whole being and creates a system in which they are always protected and accounted for by the larger government. America promises to be there for them the way England never was.

Then fast forward to the Civil War, and America is waging a bloody war against half of her/his children that see hundreds of thousands of their people dead. Brother against brother, father against son, cousin against cousin. And each secession feels like a small death because they are part of America just as much as America is a part of them, practically inseparable, or at least America thought so. To add even more complexity, not all of America's children were white or white-passing. America being neglected because s/he was to far away or denied certain rights for not being British enough was bad on its own, but imagine your parent not being able to claim you or fully protect you or give you basic human rights without public/social/political backlash because your skin is darker and you're legal property in half the country. Or imagine having powerful politicians who want to keep people who look like your children in bondage and you have to compromise with them to keep the Union whole, knowing the opinions they would have if they even knew you had children who were black (some of them do know and make sure their opinions are known). Or your other children starting a war to selfishly keep this system in place at the expense of their black siblings. The relationship between America and his/her children, with America acting as both the federal government that protects the states as well as the greater whole that represents the Union and the states as the children, each an extension of America, an integral part of America's being, pushing back against the sometimes overbearing hovering of their parent, impeding on states rights (whether they believe America is in the right or not) and protecting others and sometimes America will helplessly throw his/her hands in the air and say "fine, ill let YOU decide on this issue because I am not a dictator, despite what some of you like to think, but if you fuck up im stepping in" because America doesn't want to make the same mistakes England made in the past but then America has to deal with the negative consequences of her/his children's actions when they do something unbelievably stupid while trying not to seem like a fire-breathing tyrant. Which, they end up thinking anyway, regardless if America wasn't entirely in the wrong about butting in and taking hold of the situation before it escalated. The negative reaction only serves to make America step away AGAIN so as to not seem completely authoritarian in their eyes. It's a never-ending cycle. Not to mention the complex relationships the states have with each other, especially the southern states among themselves and the southern vs northern states rivalry.

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also whenever America takes his/her eyes off the states for 1mili second to see what the rest of the world is up to (hopefully not another world war) while usually being like 'back off, geeze! 🤬' America's children immediately switch to 'how come you're not paying attention to ME instead 🥺 you always focus on the world instead of ME 😢'

#i have a lot of thoughts about the states #hetalia #aph america #aph states #hetalia civil war #i can only imagine Thanksgiving at the Jones family estate 😭 #also America having a family outside Arthur and Matt is really makes sense to me #why else would America be so absorbed with itself if not because of its over dramatic children known as the states??? #not even England and Canada and the entire world can draw America's attention away from them #and if for a moment America steps away to bang a few heads together America immediately steps right back to hover over its children #like an overprotective mama eagle #and America totally doesn't have favorites!!! (its New York California Louisiana Florida the Man and Texas the Problem Child in that order) #the other states obviously know the main favs are NY CA FL and TX but they're always surprised when they realize its also Louisiana #and that's because Louisiana reminds America of France with its unique and charming American Franco hybrid culture #also as the years go by America begins to understand a few things about England a LOT more #still feels s/he does the parenting thing better (debatable but not entirely unfounded)

[laugtherhyena]

3:23AM, time to post Hatamori fankid and retreat back into my hiding hole

#this is what i was referring to in my last post #sometimes ideas will just pop into my head and i will be unable to resist the urge #i missed sprite editing. it had been a while since i last made a person's sprite #anyways her name is Akira and I haven't decided if it's Akira Tomori or Akira Hatano yet #i like both of their surnames a bunch #thinking of her from a scenario where Ayame and Kizuna survive the kg and get together a while afterwards #Akira is adopted. obviously. Her biological parents died in the tragedy she was adopted at around 4-6 years old #doesn't remember how her bio parents where because she was like? 1-2 years old when they died? #being with them in whatever happened that led to their deaths she may have some form of memory problem from the accident(?) #Akira is pretty forgetful and slow on the uptakes. but it's nothing too worrisome #she doesn't actually care that she can't remember her bio parents because the family she has now is much more important to her #she takes more after Kizuna especially in tems of personality (tho definitely not as bad as she used to be in Dra if you know what i mean) #put them in a room together and they will gossip and talk about random shit for hours #she loves Ayame too! they just don't talk a much? Akira used to follow her everywhere when she was a kid but now that she grew up #Ayame being the awkward-ish person she is struggles a bit on how to talk/interact with her #they work out together sometimes and Ayame will always volunteer to listen to Akira play some new song she's writing #and give her opinions on it #as you can see she is a musician. aspiring rockstar specifically #this came to her as a way to vent about the tragedy and all that mess sorta #may ramble more some other time i am getting sleepy #dra #danganronpa another #fankid #hatamori #sprite edit #edit #hyena scribbles #Akira Tomori Hatano

[haru-with-mdzs]

Reblog this post and state your favourite mdzs character + reasons in the tags

#mdzs #mo dao zu shi #grandmaster of demonic cultivation #for me #it's obviously jiang cheng #i love the depth he has to his character #jiang cheng who was fucking mad at wei wuxian because wei wuxian didn't want to share his problems with him #jiang cheng who was the youngest in the family with absolutely no experience with children raising jin ling #jiang cheng who was barely twenty when he rebuilt lotus pier #jiang cheng who really lived up to his parents' expectations in the end #i just love him so much #i get that some people don't like him because he wasn't willing to help the wens #he's a sect leader with responsibilities #he would have supported his brother if he wasn't one #he's my comfort character and everytime i read book 5 where he breaks down in guanyin temple i just cry so much #will be adding more in the future because this is about jiang cheng and this much isn't enough

[iloveyouitisruiningmylife]

spending my whole life trying and trying and trying and trying to be good enough for people who don't give a fuck about me

#im so tired living seems pointless why am i doing this what is the reason #the firm i work at is going thru a merger so it's releasing all the interns except 2 #i went into her office and said that id like to stay here bc my dad said so bc i got in cause he was friends with the head #and she said ill think about it based on performance ive not decided yet #and this other guy he went in to tell her that cool he'll leave and she told him that she was hoping that he'd stay #he literally does nothing but play games on his phone he doesn't work at all #i have no idea what he has that i don't #but just. im stuck like this forever right never ever good enough for people i like or care about #not for parents they have a diff fav child not for ex gf not for bestie who has a boyfriend much better at loving her than me #not for that one guy who rejected me in interview bc i don't read the newspaper and didn't know the date of the finance act #im so fucking sick of this i never even wanted to this fuckinh course and obviously even my best isn't enough and ofc im not good enough #for anyone in this field and ill just struggle and struggle and struggle all my life just to earn some fucking money so i can live away #from my sociopathic parents #and the worst part is that i can't stop feeling like maybe it IS me yk maybe i am the problem maybe im not trying hard enough #but how else am i supposed to handle this i prioritize my studies and lose all my friends i prioritise my friends and fail in d #exams #and the trauma keeps on coming every fucking day bc sociopathic parents but i jsut push it down and say not rn i will cry at night anx then #never cry #i wish someone would just tell me that idk you're wrong you're not made for this you really do have some mental illness and you're really #trying your best and do something that's easy and that you love doing #oh god this is now a ventpost #mes

[goldkirk]

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#I am struggling so hard to pinpoint where the lines are in discussions of situations like the franke and hildebrandt behaviors #because like ok #people keep being so outraged and angry and baffled that they viewed the kids as #deliberately willful and disobedient #and then transitioned into believing them to be infected with evil and or influenced or possessed by demons or under satanic influence #and that’s where everyone is like HOW COULD THEY THINK THIS HOW COULD THEY TELL THEM THAT HOW COULD THEY ETC ETC #and that’s where everyone loses me #like yeah. of course it’s wrong. of course it’s damaging and shitty. but like. what in the world is everyone so shocked and upset by #about that concept (not the physical abuse it caused obviously) #how are you shocked. how are you shocked? it’s just the logical conclusion of believing children have disobedient evil wills #like if you assume evil you’re only going to escalate from there. OBVIOUSLY #I don’t understand how it’s different #where do things cross these lines? no one explains that to me #normal life as usual while tons of kids including me spend years or decades believing we’re evil and under stubborn satanic influence #but in one of the rare situations where it rises to public awareness suddenly everyone is shitting bricks over it #I want those kids drowned in love forever and I wish it never happened to them and their situation #was definitely so so so extreme and severe and I am so glad R was so brave and desperate and got them out #but like. how is everyone so shocked #this is standard. this is common. there’s a huge subculture of people doing and believing this shit #like why is it different just because this case is so visible #so like how is it so hard for people to grasp that this is a widespread issue #I don’t understand #of COURSE it’s wrong to do to someone but like #so many parents and adults do so many of the things these two did just less #fewer hours. less intensely. not in a desert. not with handcuffs and shit. etc. #where’s the line legally? where’s the line culturally? #like how am I supposed to grasp that it’s not a problem until it’s at some level that #I know it’s all Bad but I mean in terms of when the populace starts to mass-care

[lil-darhk]

I'm gonna jump on another gay show train that I just binge watched

✨Young Royals✨

#i have a problem #If my parents knew what I watch i would be homeless #👍 #My favorite ♾️ gay boyzzzz #And their just adorable #All of them are #Obviously #I'm on the golden retriever x black cats train too #young royals #prince wilhelm #wilhelm x simon #wilhelm young royals

[transgressionagainstthegods]

Realizing you were heavily abused as a child when you convinced yourself "it's not that bad/ it could be worse" has fucking hands

#i see how good or decent parents treat their kids now #why the fuck were you so god damn mean to me #im glad you didn't do it with my younger sibling #but what the fuck is wrong with you? how could you turn a creative happy child into one who was too ashamed to even breath half the time? #too ashamed to make noise? too ashamed to show emotion? too ashamed to explain any problems i have? #congrats you shaped a child who tried to only speak when spoken to and hid every emotion possible like a disgusting little secret #but sure go ahead and scream at me and call me stupid and lazy and rude #bc there's no way you had TWO kids w autism and its not like i fucking begged to be told what i did wrong so i wouldn't do it again #no obviously it was my fault #fuck #tw abuse #abuse #child abuse #child neglect #myp0

[phoenixyfriend]

I think I may need to lower my standards orz

#the three things I'm going to have to think about compromising on: pay. location. industry. #the problem is that the best-paying industry in NYC is obviously finance. And that means private equity and hedge funds. #which are patently evil #so like. I don't want to work in that industry #but my skillset won't get a living wage (for NYC) in other industries #so I have to either bite the bullet and work on LI (I'd really rather not) work for an evil industry (GOD no) or #get a wage low enough that I'll have to continue living with my parents indefinitely and commute four or five hours a day #personal #vent post #job hunting

[seraphim-soulmate]

how much mold is considered a mold problem in your bedroom also can mold make your heart rate fucked up thanks. Aoh also the wall which has the mold literally falls apart if I touch it so. Not really sure how to get rid of it also I assume there's more mold on the other side of the wall??? idk I think every couple of months I discover mold somewhere and panic and then clean it and forget about it.

#personal #these arent genuine i can just use google but theres more mold in my room and im gonna start going apeshit #apartments are incredibly expensive. colivings scare the shit out of me after being targeted by a roommate for years. #some1 pls buy me an apartment ❤️😊 #wish i could just accept that rent and expenses is going to cost over half of what im making but jesus christ. #i still have medical bills to pay and food to eat and help services i need #moving back in with either of my parents is gonna put me in a depressive spiral. #most houses in my country have a mold problem anyways bcs humidity ! so like aaahgh #the options for moving are all unaffordable so i might as well get something unaffordable that is less likely to have a mold problem. #housing is such a Big Scary for me that im having suicidal ideation over finding an apartment #bcs uh obviously being homeless is not good. and no one wants a disabled tenant! #i dont even know what level of support i need either

[plumbogs]

bella and mortimer weren't super young parents to begin with to me. i feel like they both had careers and did crazy young rich people shit for a while. popping bottles on yachts and travelling around to explore the world. amassing a collection of Oddities. and finally had cassandra at like 30 at the earliest. bella's gotta be like mid 40s at the youngest. you can even go with 'she had some work done, she does botox' to get away with Looking younger and i guess i'd be able to follow that logic but it is still the coward's way out. let her be old!!!

#let bella be old... let brandi be trashy... these are my DEMANDS #fixation with young couple nuclear families i am biting you #i know that's like. partially the point of the game but. #my multi generational households... my older parents... people that never get married or have kids at all... #plumbog headcanon #the goths are well traveled to me. except alexander because he was born after they Really settled down #also seems like the kind of kid who bit people if they tried to remove him from the comfort of the house too long anyways #which probably created that problem. 'why didnt i get to go on adventures as a toddler' because you screamed for 12 hours straight #cassandra was fine with vacations as long as she could go on a haunted tour wherever they went #which obviously bella and morty were already planning on doing

[emma-radfemcanu]

This is 100% Bitter Eldest Daughter speaking but god my parents really spent all 21 years of my sister's life pandering to her and are only now surprised pikachu face about the whole thing (disclaimer- we are actually very close, this is a criticism of them rather than her)

Growing up she was one of those kids who did a million and one hobbies (dance, swimming, karate as well as school clubs) and genuinely for the majority of our childhoods our family's entire schedule revolved around her- she did stuff both days of the weekend so we could rarely do things all together, we could only go on holiday when the dance school was on break etc etc

And I really do believe that this is why she can be so inconsiderate- she's almost always late, if she doesn't want to do things she won't say until it's too late for you to make other plans, and so on. I don't think it's malicious, more that she's just so used to having people run around after her fixing her mess that it genuinely doesn't occur to her that you need to be considerate of other people and their time...

She's home from uni at the moment and is meant to be going back in the next few days, and has she made any actual plans? No. The trains are screwed up at the moment and it's entirely possible/likely that my parents are going to have to spend New Year's Day doing a 5-6 hour round trip to take her back- and yet she is still refusing to commit to a plan

My mum is super frustrated (understandably) but this is really a situation of her and my dad's own making- funnily enough I never pulled this kind of shit and yet my dad essentially treats me as an inconvenience anyway 🙄 I am definitely not the only eldest sibling who feels like this lol

There's more to it than her being unorganised but this is the way it shows the most, and it happens so often... seriously the amount of times my mum has been like 'we need to leave at 12, we will go with or without you' and never once has she actually done it, there's always an extra hour magically found from somewhere. They're so afraid of upsetting her (i.e. making her aware of her own behaviour and how it impacts others) but my feelings are seemingly fair game

#this sounds mean it's not really meant to #it's just frustration the last couple of days have been rough #but my parents do completely enable this shit and then act like me getting annoyed is the bigger problem #grow up you are 21 years old and training to be a doctor ffs #interestingly one of my closest friends is an only child and is very similar (obviously not all only children) #i guess it's to do with being the priority all the time

[thetimelordbatgirl]

Ngl 'The Fright Before Christmas!' is definitely landing on my least favorite episodes of Danny Phantom.

#like not even for danny reasons #i can understand why the dude doesnt like christmas #we literally told how his aprents have ruined all christmas' so far #but like the way danny is made out to be the problem and stuff like #the problem is right there??? his parents??? #plus ghost writer obviously but like #thats expected #villain of the episode basically

[troublcmakcrs]

//wraps thomas tucker up in my arms. thank you for being normal

#misc :: ( ooc ) #//I AM IGNORING THOMAS IN THE GAMES #//I DON'T SEE HIM #//character assassination 💔 #//i love thomas soooo much tho #//emotionally constipated conservative republican man who is doING HIS GODDAMN BEST #//he obviously cares about his children #//and is there for them when it counts #//even if it takes him a second to open up #//he's one of the best parents in sp tbh #//he is a lil bit Manly Man but very loving and certainly not abusive by any means #//i feel like the sp fandom is unduely mean to a lot of parents in the show #//like the tweaks fucking deserve all the shit they get #//but a lot of people will call parents abusive when they're just... kind of strict #//ok children should have rules; idk what to tell you #//i can feeeeel thomas getting shit through the cosmos just for being a conservative redneck #//he's actually so good #//yes craig does inherent some of his problems with addressing emotions #//but for the most part craig's family is SO good to him and i will not hear any tucker slander