#it's so important to me

[imma-triple-a-battery]

this is the only thing i have been thinking about

and you know what?

i am going to die

#his smile #it's so important to me #i don't think i can recover from this #jdjxbschhsbd #i have so many feelings about this #i cant even #bakugou fans do be eating well #bakugou katsuki #bnha #bnha spoilers #bnha manga spoilers #bnha manga coloring #bnha 405 #mha #mha spoilers #mha manga spoilers #mha manga coloring #mha 405

[charles-leclerc-official]

As a fandom we really need to implement the tag "Max's A+ flirting"

#lestappen #it's so important to me

[tadaxii-i]

I see so much autistic Regulus in ffs but it's always used as a quirky character trait and never really as a disorder with actual consequences. Yes to stimming, but also yes to meltdowns. Yes to apathy, but also yes to sensory hypersensitivity. Yes to special interests, but also yes to crying at every single inconvenience. Yes to rambling, but also yes to processing issues. Yes to difficult communication, but also yes to constant and uninterrupted speaking to himself when he's alone. Yes to saying he's autistic, but also yes to showing it.

#autistic regulus black #autism #autistic representation #it's so important to me #because i'm autistic and a reggie kinnie #the fact that I had to research what was autism and what was adhd because i have both 🧍🏼‍♀️ #but yes it's very important #regulus black #marauders #jegulus #marauders headcanon #autistic characters #:p

[dootznbootz]

It is so fucking special when kitty cats start curling up and rolling and being silly when you talk to them 🥹

#floof #cats #catblr #like you'll sing to them and then they slow blink and roll around??? ;~; #it's so important to me #Mad rambles

[priapussdick]

me when in jdramas sharing food is portrayed as a love language and at the table during a meal, where there are loud laughters and happy people who are eating together which is just a basic process of all living things, characters realise that they've finally found a place they belong to:

#bro #it's so important to me #kimi to nara koi wo shite mite mo #if it's with you #watching ep3

[snarky-magpie]

A new chapter of PS. is up and only 2 more to go (+an epilogue)! I'm lowkey (okay maybe not so lowkey) looking forward to be finished with this fic. I'm not cut out for these long-term projects. All of you out there writing those 300+K word fics - mad respect. I could never do that.

Remus: After I got over my hang-ups, your friendship became one of the things I value most in my life. So I assumed Sirius would have more sense in his stupid head than risk losing you over a temper tantrum. 

James: Aw, Remus. 

James: You’re gonna make me cry. 

Remus: Somebody needs to appreciate you, Jamie. You do so much for everyone all the time. It actually works against you. Your goodness is so ever-present that it’s easy to take it for granted.

Remus: That’s what I value about Reg. I don’t think he does. Every time you smile at him, he gets this dopey expression.

Remus: The ‘I can’t believe James Potter likes me’ expression.

James: Does he, really?

Remus: Yup. Don’t tell him I gave away his little secret. He’d probably murder me in my sleep.

James: That’s likely.

James: I love him so much.

Remus: You two are a strangely unhinged couple, but like I said. It fits. Just curb his more bloodthirsty tendencies.

James: Don’t worry. He’s a softie on the inside. He only likes to act tough.

Remus: Won’t bet my life on it, thank you.

#james potter #jegulus #regulus black #starchaser #remus lupin #james poter remus lupin friendship #it's so important to me #they're so precious #ao3fic #the marauders

[mournersandfunerals]

Alice Oseman's Solitaire is a very important book and here's why:

A lot of the time when mental health is being depicted in fiction, it centres so much around the person struggling with it. Which, of course, makes sense. It's important to show what people go through when they suffer from mental illnesses, and it helps others in similar situations know that they're not alone in dealing with it. But it isn't very often you see something from the perspective of a friend or a relative and what they go through when someone they care about is struggling. Solitaire is a book that's so important for this specific reason.

Here, you have Tori. A teenage girl who spends 50% of her time worried about her brother, Charlie, and the other 50% of her time trying to convince herself that she isn't worried about him. She puts so much pressure on herself to keep everyone's heads above water that she doesn't realise that she, herself, is starting to drown. Their parents don't know how to handle everything that's going on with their son, so they act like everything is fine, relying on Tori to be the problem-free "normal" one. That's a lot of pressure to put on your 16/17 year old daughter. Tori takes on the responsibility of keeping her family happy and together, which ends up having the opposite effect and drives them further away from each other. So now you have two siblings that are so near but not within reaching distance when they need each other the most.

Which leads us on to the themes of guilt within the book. This is something that is so well executed and hard-hitting and absolutely crucial.

Tori is someone who feels a lot of guilt and regret when it comes to what Charlie is going through. She feels partially responsible for everything that happened to him. It's not her fault in the slightest, but when someone close to you is hurting and struggling, and you notice but don't do anything because you don't know how, it takes its toll. A lot of the pressure that Tori's under comes from the crippling guilt that she's trying to hold in. It manifests itself into something entirely different. She suffers with anxiety, she has negative thoughts, she hyperfixates entirely on solving the Solitaire mystery so she has something to do while her family is barely holding it together. She spirals.

And what's super interesting about this is how Charlie has a similar reaction at the end when he eventually comes to terms with the fact that his sister isn't okay, either. He mentions how he noticed but didn't do anything, and he feels awful about it. The Spring siblings have a remarkable way of avoiding what's right in front of them because who in the world would want to admit that their brother or sister is the opposite of okay?

And to add to this, I think we really need to note the importance of Michael Holden within this entire situation as well.

Michael is there for Tori consistently. He shows up when she doesn't even realise she needs him, he comes back whenever she pushes him away, and it's almost as though he's her only form of stability within the chaos. And that's exactly what she needs. She doesn't know how to handle what she's feeling about her family so she's pushed everyone else away. She needs someone.

Because it's so easy to ignore the state of your own mental health when someone you love is going through hell. So now we have Michael, a character who essentially says, "I'm here. Let me worry and look after you, while you unwittingly take on the weight of the world." Of course, Michael has problems of his own but if he and Tori can share their burdens between the two of them, maybe the weight of all of it won't feel so heavy.

Alice Oseman created something so underrated and special with Solitaire. It tackles things that can be difficult to talk about but need talking about. It reminds you that it's okay to not be okay. You shouldn't feel bad about feeling bad. And just because someone you love is struggling, it doesn't mean that you're entirely responsible for them. It doesn't mean that you're not allowed to grieve and be upset about it. And it doesn't mean that you're not allowed to struggle through your own issues either. But it does mean that you can find your own support system and let them pull you out of the metaphorical and, I guess in this instance, literal fire that's burning around you.

#this post is brought to you by yet another solitaire reread #it's so important to me #solitaire #solitaire alice oseman #alice oseman #tori spring #charlie spring #michael holden #sprolden #heartstopper #osemanverse #book ramblings #tw mental health

[me-sploh-rada-imas]

dopamin shuffles my beloved [x]

#joker out #nace jordan #jan peteh #jance #dopamin #it's so important to me

[pigeonwit]

hihi pidge - punch your lights out for the wip game pls :)

this is exciting for me cause i love 'punch your lights out' soooo much

it's an arcade au set in the 1990s (yes that's a bold choice for a gen z to make no i don't care) - jack is a cashier at medda's very run down arcade in their very sad small town. pretty much everyone's going out of business and with consoles drying up arcades, they're kind of just. counting their days until they close. so medda tells jack she's going to be opening up their roller rink again - to their town's local roller derby team. which jack is,,, not thrilled about; a men's roller derby team in a 90s small town is just a big neon sign that says 'UNSTABLE AND GAY', and jack's a chubby foster kid with ADHD who's picked on enough already, being around the local insane queers is not going to help. and then david jacobs comes into the arcade. david jacobs, the new kid, the immediate valedictorian, the perfect boy next door who everyone fucking adores. everyone except jack. because david jacobs is a smarmy pretentious asshole who hates him for no reason. so they have a standoff; whether davey's queer or not, jack's assuming he's not going to want people to know he runs around in legwarmers and glittery eyeshadow wrestling other men on a roller rink - but if jack were to tell someone, davey would get spot to immediately kick his ass into oblivion. it's a rock-and-a-hard-place situation. so they decide to deal with each other. and it's... fine.

(it is not fine. but we will get to that. eventually. someday.)

snippets under the cut for your convenience!!

It doesn’t help that Davey’s weird. Not Race weird or Crutchie weird or even Kath weird – weird in a way Jack can’t quite get. It’s like walking into the arcade rinses away his prim-and-proper schoolboy act completely, leaving behind something ancient and secret that Jack can’t stop looking at.

Right now, Davey is – in the most literal way possible – climbing Hotshot like a tree. He’s got his arms wrapped around his shoulder and has locked his knees around Hotshot’s waist, and is now clambering his way across his broad shoulders so that he can dangle like a scarf around his neck (Jack is discovering that Davey isn’t so much built like a regular person, but more of a cat, able to turn his body into a wet noodle at will). Hotshot, for his part, has barely moved a centimetre under Davey’s weight and is still engaged in his conversation with Spot. Even Davey’s taking part, laughing and chatting away, and the rest of them nod along and smile at whatever he’s saying as if he’s not got an arm and a leg wrapped around Hotshot’s neck. Jack doesn’t understand it at all.

[...]

“Davey.” Jack says blankly. “What are you doing.”

Davey keeps staring at the ceiling.

“Davey, you’re on the floor.”

And Davey should say something clever and biting and fucking annoying, like ‘oh, am I? Here I thought I was in Tahiti’ or – fuck, Jack doesn’t know, he’s not smart. But Davey just hums quietly and drifts the wheel on his heel back and forth, back and forth, and Jack tries not to be entranced by the raise of his knee, the flex of his thigh. Fucking Davey.

“It’s a good floor.” Davey says, far away. “Feels nice, being part of the floor.”

#davey is sooooo mentally ill in this one guys... #it's so important to me #newsies #pigeon scribbles #jack kelly #david jacobs #davey jacobs #javid #javey #piedoesnotequalpi #bunchawetnoodles

[zombiemackerel]

I have thought this for a very long time, I REALLY need to see Dazai have a breakdown

I'm talking scream sobbing, I need him to SNAP

#it's so important to me #i know it isn't in character but i need it #bsd #dazai #lillian's textposts

[beelzzzebub]

i will never be over the music in wolf 359

#this show is so #it's so important to me #boink #wolf 359

[hanjisunglover]

one of the best compliment that someone can say to me 😭😭😭😭😭 sobbing

#thanks y'all for the support on #forgive but never forget #it's so important to me

[bitd]

ihate rwby but if you're mean to me about rwby you just make me sad

#i hate it but it means the world to me. Um. soonish will be my 10yr anniversary of being into the show ... aah #it's so important to me

[monstermoviedean]

never forget triple-d natural. cas and dean seeing the country for no other reason than to see it. stopping wherever looks good (or where dean's favorite food bloggers say to). they make friends. they learn new things. they leave every place they stop a little better than they found it. and they're in love!

#it's so important to me #spn

[pencilofawesomeness]

I was looking through your HTRYDS tag and saw that you sometimes write Guili. Can I ask if you have any fics with them? I really like the way you write relationships in your fics, be either friendship or romantic, and since I adore them together I would love to see how you write them, if you don't mind giving me a few recs of your fics with them?

Hello! Yes, I have written Guili before. Can't say I've done it much, but that's mostly because I am constantly doing everything, lol. And even though I write them with some romance in mind, looking back, it's super ambiguous. Probably because Zhongli got the ace stick when I wasn't looking, lmao. (He's clueless and I love him.)

The very first thing I wrote for them explicitly (and my second Genshin fic) is a little drabble called Return to Dust. It's really funny to me because I'm not really wrong about anything (and my inserted headcanons are not disproven, per se) but I wrote this before it was confirmed that Zhongli was even Rex Lapis. 1.0 update babyyyy—

The other one I have is also sad, unfortunately. It was my take on Guizhong's death I did for a Whumptober. (Written way before we actually see that snippet of it in the Lantern Rite event, whoops.)

Those are technically the only two I have that involve both of them, actually. Most of it lives in my head. (And in my Guili playlist that outlines a fic in my head.) Although, I am rather fond of my Guizhong POV oneshot, which is mostly just Guizhong being mom.

There is a whole series of oneshots that I wanna do for the whole Guili Assembly (for instance those latter two and two others already exist and they are in the same timeline in my head) but I got soooo many wips that so far it's been relegated to whenever Whumptober comes along and I decide to pick on them, but in an interconnected way. One day, though. One day.... I am quite fond of the Guili Assembly family and the more I learn about them, the better it gets.

#genshin impact #ask #anon #guili #zhongli #guizhong #look the treasure lost treasure found quest gave me brainrot #and it only gets worse the more I learn #these two were nerds and I want them to be a nerd power couple #like they look like they were #it's so important to me #even though I don't really write gushy romance lol #honestly they feel like a qpp whenever I see those Canon Glimpses #or maybe demiromantic #but as an aroace myself the qpps are so important to me #get that found family partnerhood #but yeah anyway I don't really have much anon but that can very well change

[thegcng-arch]

"no ... i don't-" i let out a heavy sigh and raise my hand, pinching the bridge of my nose. fuck's sake, we're really talking about this? "my dick doesn't have a curve in it. i just ... make it feel like it does. all in the hips."

open starter ft. roy.

#usfw tw #open starter / roy. #the demons won #love that this is canon #it's so important to me