to the anon who just sent me an ask, i will never answer that question BUT!!!!!
if you are very concerned, i try to tag all my ships and trigger warnings and content warnings as best as i can :)
so, as a message to everyone who follow me: curate your own dashboard experience please.
tumblr's blacklist system is pretty effective, and xkit also has good ones. i'm also trying to look into a piece of code that i can put in my desktop theme that spoilers tags in my custom theme!
im more lax on twitter because i care a little bit less on there, but i provide enough care and action to my posts on here for my followers to be able to curate your own experiences.
i will not change what i would like to post whenever i feel like it, as long as you understand how to blacklist and block things. that includes me!
WHEN DID I BREAK 500 FOLLOWERS ON MY ASK BLOG??? IM AT 511???????? GUYS PLEASE I FEEL SO BAD IVE BEEN GONE FOR MONTHS BC IVE BEEN LACKING THAT SPECIFIC ART ENERGY IM SORRYYYYYY
trust me. i WANNA make more panels. i have a few sketched out, i just Have No Energy Ever, or i just use it on something else. it hurts to draw rn but that wont stop me from trying to
The thing you have to know about Caius is that he's a con artist.
He will regularly blame stuff on Roman just for shits and giggles. He'll just say Kendall invited him into Waystar events when he doesn't know anybody else there. When he does, he blames it on Greg.
The system was not made for him, so he made one that was.
Everyone: "Unova had a bunch of references to it recently and we had gen 4 games not long ago, next mainline game is gonna be in Unova!"
Also Everyone: "Gen 2 would be up for a new game soon after Let's Go did Kanto, and the whole Pokemon Present was FILLED with Johto related stuff. Next game will be Johto!"
he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.
except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?
at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.
except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.
about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.
he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.