#non sam asexuality

[kittycathat]

"the A in LGBTQIA is for Ally, and nothing else" no thank you sir how about you die

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#/hj #aromantic #lgbtq #asexual #agender #aroace #triple a #non sam aro #lgbtqia #queer #aro #please dont tear each other apart in comments

[unrestrainedbalderdash]

Giving every aroallo, just aro, and non-asexual aromantic person a respectful nod, hug, high five, handshake, or smile

#looking through the aromantic tag and yeah. you deserve better. #aromantic #aro #aspec #arospec #aroallo #just aro #non-sam aro #edit: don't tag this as asexual or aroace. you are missing the point.

[magnus-rhymes-with-swagness]

i get that many aroaces experience their aromanticism and asexuality as connected in some way, but it's still important to acknowledge that "aroace" and "aro/ace" are not umbrella terms for the entire aspec community. as somebody whose aromanticism and allosexuality are inextricably intertwined and can't be fully separated from one another, you don't see me using "aroallo" for all aspecs - that clearly wouldn't be an accurate reflection of the whole community! "aspec" is a good term that includes all of us - please consider using it when referring to the general community.

#aspec #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace #aroallo #alloaro #alloace #aceallo #non-sam aro #non-sam ace #i wasn't going to tag this as anything other than aspec but you know what i think i will #i feel like sometimes people forget that their specific experiences aren't universal #and end up trying to apply them to everyone which of course only serves to exclude people #this isn't aimed at any one person or incident or anything it's just a trend i detest #PLEASE make an effort to include those in your own community. #my words

[schadenfreudich]

When and why did people start using aroace when they actually mean aspec? Why take a perfectly inclusive term and make it less inclusive? And then force all non-aro aces and non-ace aros into the label of aroace and just fucking ignore them? Not to mention all other aspecs that aren't romantic or sexual. Because so many people seem to forget that exists. And not all of those are aro and/or ace.

#you know what? i am going to tag this #aromantic #asexual #aspec #like. i'm aro and apl but i'm not ace #there are non-sam aros #if you do that. please don't #i'm being polite. this is me being nice #-lutz

[aro-absol]

Seriously, why did the allos have to come up with this weird euphemism?

[ID in ALT]

#not really aroallo - I'm non-SAM but absolutely with you on this one #aro #aromantic #aromantic meme #aroallo #asexual #asexual meme #aro meme #alloace

[klavierpanda]

A reminder that 1) asexuality and aromanticism are spectra, there isn't an allo/a binary, and 2) the repulsed/favourible spectrum isn't reserved for the use of aspec people. It is possible to be allosexual and be sex averse or alloromantic and romance repulsed. "Attraction doesn't necessarily mean action" also applies to allos and I wish that was more widely accepted because it would save a lot of allos a lot of hassle. I just didn't expect to have to point either of these put to the aspec community

#this is in response to a dumb 'chart of aspec experiences' that didn't account for either of these #vent #aro #ace #arospec #acespec #aromantic #asexual #aspec #like according to that chart because I'm not ace I'd probably have to use the allosexual square when I'm not allo either #this is also what gets me about the aspec community sometimes. they forget that non-sam aros exist too #panda's post

[demonic-shadowlucifer]

hi not so friendly reminder that this blog is inclusive of aros and aces. yes, even cishet aros and aces. I really hate how I have to make a post like this. cishet aros and aces are still queer *because* being aro or ace (or aroace) is queer. queer is not the same thing as "not cishet". and if you think otherwise get off my blog and never come back until you've unlearned your aphobia.

thanks. (OP is a minor. Don't be weird)

#asexual #aromantic #yes this is in reply to that one poll (in which i will *not* be reposting for obvious reasons) #aspec #non sam aro #non sam ace #split attraction model #anti-exclusionist #EDIT 2: it's been a while so reblogs are on again!

[atoast]

idk if you already did this but Non-SAM Asexual??

Great request :]

This is another addition to these

Non-SAM ace, similarly to Non-SAM aro, does not use the Split Attraction Model. They are simply and only Asexual. They are also amazing and wonderful.

I originally made these for valentines day. is it too late to say happy valentines day for these now? Nah. Happy valentines day :]

#non-SAM ace #asexual #art #aspec #valentines day

[arofulboyfriend]

obviously you should respect the original tags on any post you reblog, like if you reblog an aroallo's post don't tag it as asexual because that's rude and erasing OPs identity (unless they say it's okay of course), but if someone makes their own post and tags it as aromantic but it's talking about sex instead of romance, that's not mistagging, and you should believe them when they say that their relationship with sex is a part of their romantic orientation, because it probably is.

not all aspecs use the SAM nor are they required to pretend to do so for your comfort. believe aspecs when they say their experiences are tied to their identity, even if it isn't the same identity you would use, I'm begging you.

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #aromantic asexual #actually aroace #non sam aro #non sam ace #actually aromantic #actually asexual #arospec #aspec #acespec #aroacespec #seren yaps #decided fuck it to make my own post #getting really tired of people telling other aspecs theyre wrong about their identities #yes obviously sex and romance arent INHERENTLY tied #but for many people they are #just trust people to know how they want to tag their own posts maybe??

[soong-type-notinuse]

happy ace week to

aro aces

zed aces

non-sam aces

oriented aces

acemids

caedsexuals

acehets

trans aces

genderqueer aces

intersex aces

ace bipoc

fat aces

virgin aces

disabled aces

old aces

ace teens

ace sex-workers

aces who love sex

aces who hate sex

nonlibidoist aces

libidoist aces

ays

#ace week #ace #acespec #asexual #asexuality #asexual pride #ace pride #aspec #ay #aroace #zedace #alloace #non sam ace #oriented ace #caedsexual #demisexual #ace positivity #asexual positivity #asexual awareness week #queer #lgbt #lgbtq #mogai #cupiosexual #apothisexual #aceflux

[redysetdare]

I keep seeing posts where people are saying "Valentines doesn't effect asexuals!" "romantic relationships have nothing to do with asexuality!" And while i understand the point they are making is to stop conflating Aromanticism with Asexuality, it is still extremely annoying to find people don't understand the nuance that comes with asexualities connection to romance - because it DOES have a connection to it. It DOES have problems in relation to romance. To say it doesn't is ignoring a huge set is experiences that ace people face.

One of the most common experiences for asexuals is the struggle to be in romantic relationships because they are asexual. a lot of romantic relationships expect you to have sex. if you're someone who doesn't have sex then unfortunately that causes a lot of people to lose interest in you romantically as well.

There's also non-sam aces, and let me tell you it's so very strange to hear someone bring up non-sam aros but then ignore the existence of non-sam aces in order to prove some point of it somehow being ace peoples fault that aro and ace are viewed as the same. Some non-sam aces do not date either. they are still ace and they can still face similar problems to aromantic people because of that. they are still effected my amatonormativity.

Aces DO have connection to romance. Asexual DID have a reason to trend on valentines day along with Aro and Aroace. Asexuality is effected my romance and amatonormativity. Sop acting like it isn't. stop acting like aros and aces have absolutely nothing in common. We can work together and have similar experiences and still be seen as separate identities. there is overlap. stop treating this as black and white where one identity can only be effected by one kind of problem. It's naive at best and down right hateful at worse.

#text #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aspec #i might get hate for this one but as an aroace who for a while was a non-sam ace (before i found out about aro) #romance DOES effect aces #not in the same way that it effects aros but #treating aces as if they can never know or understand amatonormativity and have never faced similar issues? idk it's ignorant to me #some of the way ppl in the aro community talk about asexuality and aroace identities is just...idk frustrating #i understand the frustration on their end but also i need you all to not fall down the rabbit hole of becoming acephobic #and blaming ace people for all the problems that allos caused #and understand there is nuance to identities and just because someone is asexual alloromantic #doesn't mean they aren't effected by amatonormativity or that they have no issues related to romance at all #asexual and Aromantic are not the same thing but also stop acting like they have no overlap at all period #we used to help each other man. stop throwing some of us under the bus to try and make a point #romantic expectations are not an aro only problem

[kittycathat]

lets stop assuming "power couples" is romantic, because me and my bestie can and will destroy you in kahoot

#aromantic #aroace #asexual #non sam aro #lgbtqia #dating #trying to be funny #lol #joke #lgbtq #queer #aro #ace #aspec

[rolaplayor101]

not me saving every panel with Laius and Izutsumi being aro and or ace 🫣

#Laios My Beloved Its Ok You Can Say You Werent Marrying For Love #Laios Touden #Izutsumi #Laios Dungeon Meshi #Dungeon Meshi #Delicious In Dungeon #aromantic #Non Sam Aro #Aro #Ace #asexual #asexuality #Manga Panel #Aspec #AroacE #Laios And Jughead and Saiki 🤝 Only Being Interested In Food #Laius Touden

[pizzaronipasta]

It kinda sucks that, while aces who don't use the split attraction model can just say "I'm ace" and be mostly understood, aros in that position have to clarify that they're non-SAM aro or else they'll get called aroace.

#aro #aromantic #aromanticism #ace #asexual #split attraction model #non sam aro #aroace #lgbtqia+

[aiizaph]

Blocked the ace tag not because I’m acephobic, but because I’m a non-SAM aro and I’m tired of scrolling the aromantic tag only to see asexual stuff tagged as aro, posts about asexuality being “tied” to aromanticism, and aromantic posts being derailed with asexuality.

#aro #aromantic #non sam aro #constantly thinking about how bad it’d look if someone saw I had the tag blocked #I’m not acephobic! I’m just tired of having my identity erased by them! #the day asexuals/aroaces are normal about us non-ace aros is the day I can die in peace

[klavierpanda]

Allosexuality and asexuality do not form a binary. In fact both form spectra of their own that mix and a person's relationship to them can be quite complicated. Moreover, it is possible to completely be neither and I'm tired of people making people choose.

I am non-sam aro, I am just aro, and my sexual attraction is so heavily influenced by my aroness that it doesn't make sense to me to label it separately. From what I have read of other non-sam aros' experiences, this isn't even uncommon.

All of this also applies to alloromanticism and aromanticism too.

Destroy the idea that there is an allo/a binary.

#aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #asexuality #aromanticism #arospec #acespec #aspec #queer #non-sam aro #non-sam ace #panda's post