#aceflux

[thechronicsloth]

The sunflower is the official symbol of hidden/invisible disabilities.

Since most of my sunflowers are buried under reblogs and other posts by now, I'm getting them all together on new posts, so you can find everything more easily. Especially now that Pride is around the corner.

Feel free to use these and share them. I just ask that you credit me.

The Asexual, Aromantic, Aroace, Aroflux, Aceflux, Aroaceflux, Aegoromantic (or Autochorisromantic), Aegosexual, Apothiromantic and Apothisexual Sunflowers! For chronically disabled people with an invisible condition who are proud to be in the community.

If you'd like to have it on pins, stickers, tote bags, clothes and other merch, this and other pride sunflowers are all available in my shop. You can find merch with these on through the following links:

Asexual Sunflower

Aromantic Sunflower

Aroace Sunflower

Aroflux Sunflower

Aceflux Sunflower

Aroaceflux Sunflower

Aegoromantic/Autochorisromantic Sunflower

Aegosexual Sunflower

Apothiromantic Sunflower

Apothisexual Sunflower

Let me know if you'd like a particular flag on a sunflower, or anything special for Pride 🏳️‍🌈

#pride #pride flags #pride month #lgbtq #lgbtq community #acespec #asexual spectrum #ace flag #apothisexual #apothiromantic #aegosexual #hidden disabilities #invisible disability #aegoromantic #aroace #aroaceflux #aceflux #aroflux #aromantic #queer #aroace flag #disabled artist #chronic disability #pride flag #lgbtq flags #sunflower #tcsloth #tcsloth pride #tcsloth pride sunflowers #tcsloth sunflowers

[zombie-jed]

Diversity win! The horniest person you know is on the asexual spectrum

#some of the smuttiest smut out there is written by an ace person #acespec #aegosexual #cupiosexual #demisexual #graysexual #aceflux #asexual #ace #jed post

[genderqueerdykes]

asexuality is not an inconvenience. it isn't a burden to change your conversation topics to avoid making a sex repulsed asexual feel uncomfortable or unsafe. it isn't about you if an asexual romantic or life partner does not want to have sex. it's none of your business if an asexual person has frequent sex, or makes money off of their body or sexuality. it's not an attempt to manipulate you when an asexual/aceflux person has fluctuating levels of sex favorability, neutrality and/or repulsion.

someone else's asexuality isn't about you, it is not inherently overstepping your boundaries. forcing the asexual person to cope or deal with things that make them uncomfortable or go against the way they want to live their lives is overstepping their boundaries, and people need to accept this.

#asexual #ace #lgbtqia #queer #lgbt #asexual spectrum #acespectrum #acespec #greyace #greysexual #grey asexual #demisexual #cupiosexual #aroace #aspec #aspectrum #our writing #aceflux

[yourfavisamilf]

Shoutout to all the milfs and milf lovers on the asexual spectrum!

~Your favorite aegosexual milf connoisseur

#inky speaks #asexual awareness week #asexual week #asexual spectrum #ace spectrum #acespec #asexual #aceflux #aegosexual #demisexual #cupiosexual #fraysexual #greyasexual #gray asexual #aroace #reciprosexual

[genderstarbucks]

Okay new rule

Only aspec people can ship aspec characters until you allos learn to behave

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #demiromantic #demisexual #demian #demirose #greyaromantic #greyasexual #greyrose #cupioromantic #cupiosexual #cupiorose #frayromantic #fraysexual #frayrose #lithoromantic #lithosexual #lithorose #reciproromantic #reciprosexual #reciprorose #aroflux #aceflux #aroaceflux #orchidromantic #orchidsexual #orchidrose #aegoromantic #aegosexual

[miitopia-cake]

I wish some aces would stop excluding other aces with complex sexual experiences. like I get why but you have to realize that being ace does not mean they don't enjoy sexual experiences and it's weird when you complain about allo people and boil it down to "people who have sexual experiences" and also shame people for their sex life and kinks as if your own community doesnt INCLUDE those people. because there are other aces out there who still masturbate, who feel sexually attracted to their own body, who barely experiences sexual attraction but still enjoys sex, who like consuming sexual media, who like sfw kink. being ace is so so much more complex than just "disliking sex". and also aromantic exclusionism in the same genre of posts is something i see a lot. especially aro allos. I hate hate hate seeing a community that SHOULD be inclusive boil down sexuality and exclude people.

#okay to reblog #if you reblog this post to argue or whatever though im killing you this is about my personal queer experiences not a discourse post #feel free to add your own experiences if youre aceflux demisexual whatever. i love you guys. #rambling #rant #messy writing sorry #but as an aroace myself i just felt like i had to get it out i guess #i always feel like im not ace enough but im not allo enough to be either #aroace #arospec #aromantic #asexual #acespec #ace #aceflux #aroflux #demiromantic #demisexual #lbgtqia #lbgtq #queer #text post #vent #queer community

[bizarreaizen]

religious conservatives: no sex before marriage !!

asexuals: okay

religious conservatives: wait no, not like that.

#asexual community #asexuality #asexual #actually asexual #asexual pride #asexual representation #asexual spectrum #acephobia #gray ace #ace stuff #ace pride #ace rep #ace representation #ace spec #ace spectrum #ace umbrella #aceflux #acephobia tw #acesexual #acespec #ace #pride #queer #religious conservatives #conservatives #religious #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #lgbtq+ community #lgbt community

[cheesemenace]

Hopefully I find someone to be in a QPR with in college... if not i'm moving off the grid and living like mother nature intended

#aroace #ace #aro #arospec #acespec #qpr #queer platonic relationship #asexuallity #asexual #aromantism #aromantic #aroflux #aceflux #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtqiia+

[cometmothman]

self indulging but:

Aroflux people are still Aromantic

Aceflux people are still Asexual

Aroaceflux people are still Aromantic and Asexual

Just because your asexuality and/or aromantisicim fluctuates doesn't mean you are "faking" or "lying." You are valid as HELL!!!!!!!

#aromantic #asexual #aroflux #aceflux #aroaceflux #post #queer #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtqia #<- the A isn't ally

[demi-romantics]

Feel free to tag your gender identity if you would like or if I forgot to list it!

#I learned from the last poll #added a ‘other’ option #asexual #demisexual #graysexual #acespec #ace #cupiosexual #fraysexual #apothisexual #aegosexual #lithsexual #aceflux

[the-anemoi]

hi hi hi happy asexual awareness week! especially to those who don't feel they fit quite right

as in. the demisexuals, the greysexuals, those who are questioning asexuality or those who identify as it but still feel unsure anyways. those who are sex positive or sex neutral. those who are sex-repulsed, or those who worry that they think they're not really ace, maybe just allo and sex-repulsed. those who think they'll grow out of it, and those who worry if they'll still identify as asexual later. those who experience intrusive thoughts, those who have other factors play into their identity, those who end up worrying about it because of these factors.

it's okay not to feel confident. it's okay to worry. just think of right now, this week. you're valid. this week is for you, too.

#little personal but. um. #also applies to aros too!!!!!!!! just focused on ace here because. im ace #asexual #asexual awareness #asexual awareness week #ace #graysexual #gray ace #demisexual #aceflux #aspec positivity #acespec #aspec #questioning aspec

[acespec-ed]

I made a couple of flow charts for the ace and aro spectrums! Not meant to be taken 100% factual- you know yourself better than a basic flowchart. They’re mainly just for fun, though they can also be a good start for anyone questioning!

(Free to use as long as you keep my url on them and aren’t making money off it!)

#asexual #aromantic #acespec #arospec #graysexual #grayromantic #acespike #arospike #aroflux #aceflux #demi #fray #lith #cupio #orchid #apothi #aego #gray #original posts

[twigstarpikachutroll22]

The thing about how when I tell people offline that I'm aroace they usually go "Oh, I didn't know that was a thing!" is like. It’s a good response, it’s good that the response I get generally isn’t outright aphobic, but it reminds me just how much they don't know. Like. The sheer range of the aro and ace spectrums and the experiences relating to attraction that I see people in those communities talk about, the amount of breaking down of attraction and relationships, the amount of discussion about ALLLLLLLLL the hecking nuance both of those can have, and like. So many people literally Do Not Know that even the words "aromantic" and "asexual" exist. And just "doesn't feel attraction" is the easiest and most basic thing here to understand. It’s the tip of the iceberg. It’s the tip of a really really freaking huge iceberg. And plenty of allos have a hard time wrapping their heads around even that, let alone all the many more identities and many many more kinds of experiences on these spectrums. So many people literally do not know that not feeling attraction the way they do is a thing. So many people, like, the VAST majority of the population, are entirely confined to this incredibly freaking limited ONE standard concept of how attraction and relationships can work that seems mandated for everycreature. So many people don't even know that anything outside of that exists. And SO MUCH outside of that can exist. It's some straight-up allegory of the cave junk.

#.txt #aromanticism #asexuality #aromantic #asexual #ace #aro #amatonormativity #compulsory sexuality #frayromantic #fraysexual #grayromantic #graysexual #demiromantic #demisexual #aroflux #aceflux #lithosexual #lithoromantic #queerplatonic #alterous attraction #alterous relationships #relationship anarchy #aegosexual #aegoromantic #recipromantic #reciprosexual #orchidsexual #orchidromantic #cupiosexual

[genderqueerdykes]

btw that "slippery slope" bullshit argument being used when talking about accepting asexual, aromantic & agender people into the queer community is the exact same logic that was applied to scare people out of accepting gay men in early 1900s america. it's a bad argument, you do not have to silence other queers so you can be heard. let us have a voice, too. thanks

#queer #lgbtq #lgbt #aromantic #asexual #agender #aspec #arospec #acespec #aro #ace #aspectrum #greyromantic #greysexual #demiromantic #demisexual #aceflux #aroflux #aroace #aromantic asexual #our writing

[enifo]

This is what I imagine when I see the tag acespec mafia

Also thank you to the people who aren't even asexual that came and help report all those bots, thank you for your service you are literally the best o7

#acespec mafia #asexual #enifo art #ace spectrum #fraysexual #demisexual #aceflux #greysexual #I wanted to add more but I ran out of room

[gray-ace-space]

has anyone else had to deal with the absolutely bonkers assumption that asexuality is antithetical to enjoying alcohol?? like. how are these two things connected. is it just infantilization, like i'm not supposed to like "adult" things? is it the belief that aces don't know how to "let go" or "have fun"? hi, i'm ace and i drink probably a bit too much! this is something people (allos) are often surprised by! my relationship with alcohol is not like, something i'm proud of, it's a potential issue in terms of my mental health, but it's still an authentic part of me. i don't tone it down, just like i don't tone down my asexuality, and i'm not planning to.

and now a survey bc i'm genuinely curious. (ace here includes every kind of acespec!)

rb for sample size

edit: the reasons for your not drinking (age, health issues) are not relevant here. if you don't drink, say you don't drink. if you haven't tried, say you haven't tried. whether you're underage or not is none of my business.

also if you quit drinking because it was a problem for you - you are very cool and strong! but also the "have struggled" option applies to you

#og post #poll #ace #gray ace #acespec #demi ace #aceflux #lgbtq+ #lgbtq #lgbt+ #lgbt #asexual #graysexual #gray asexual #demisexual #actually asexual #asexual experience #tw alcohol #tw alcoholism #tw drinking #tw alcohol abuse