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caiiaxteiie · 2 years

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this one's for my arospec homies.

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aroacearchangel · 9 months

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finding another aro person in the wild is so !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i am not alone in this world !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#aro #aromantic #aromance #aspec #aspec community #aspec stuff #aromantism #arospec #aro spectrum #aroace #greyaro #grey aroace #grey aromantic #cupioaroace #cupioromantic #recipromantic

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sh1ny-r0ckruff · 7 months

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reminder

shout out to all Aroflux, Aegoromantic, Apothiromantic, Aromantic, Arospike, autoromantic,Bellusromantic, Caedromantic, Cupioromantics, Demiromantic, Fictoromantic, Frayromantic, Grayromantics,Lithromantic/Akoiromantics, Myrromantic, Quoiromantic, Recipromantic, Requisromantic + more people !!

u guys are so amazing and super valid /g /pos

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acerospectrum · 2 months

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happy aromantic awareness week to all aromantics and arospecs, to alloaros and aroaces, to aros who use microlabels, to aros who don't know where they fall in the spectrum, to trans aros, to nonbinary aros, to aros of color, to fat aros, to disabled and/or neurodivergent aros, to aros who discovered their identity when they were young, to aros who have recently learnt they are aro, to aros who are questioning, to partnering aros, to non-partnering aros, to aros in qprs, to loveless aros, to every single aromantic and arospec person, no matter where they fall in the umbrella.

we are strong, we exist, and we're not going anywhere

#aromantic #aro #arospec #aromantic spectrum #aro spectrum #alloaro #aroace #aegoromantic #aroflux #bellusromantic #cupioromantic #demiromantic #greyromantic #lithromantic #neuroromantic #recipromantic #aromantic pride #aromantic awareness week #aro awareness week

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creation-help · 5 months

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The more I engage with the aro community online, the more I feel that we just need.

More.

There's so many different flavors of aromantic and what that means for each person and it's sad to see infighting over what is and isn't valid representation and my advice to upcoming creators is to just.

More. Have more.

Aros who partner Aros who don't, Aros who like sex, aroaces, loveless Aros, loving Aros, Aros who focus on non romantic relationships instead Aros who focus on no relationships and find their own thing. All kinds. The microlabels too - did you even know of some of them? I bet you didn't. There's aromantic people who feel rom attraction only if it's reciprocated and vice versa! There's Aros who can't tell the difference between different types of attraction and so don't label anything. There's aros who only feel attracted after forming a deep bond. Who only rarely feel attraction. Or only under specific circumstances. There's so much variety in aromantic world. Have more representation. Just more.

I'd honestly say this for almost any type of minority rep (though there are nuances to approaching it). Bc when you have more, it's not so much pressure on getting it quote on quote "Right" at once and all your rep isn't riding on one character. Variety is always good. It avoids tokenization and coming across stereotypical

#representation #lgbt representation #queer representation #Aromantic #Aro #recipromantic #queerplatonic #Qpr #aromantic representation #aro representation #Mod talks

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floorsauce · 2 months

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Shout out to those who don't feel romantic or intimate attraction. Stay awesome frens =)

Also here's some aro/ace/aroace saucies

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our-arospec-experience · 1 month

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Welcome to our-arospec-experience!

this is a share your experience blog for arospec people. Well meaning allos are welcome to ask questions (actually anyone go to town asking questions because mod loves researching).

All arospec people are welcome!

A list of some arospec identities can be found here. Let me know if I should add any/I have made a mistake :)

No matter what you are, you are valid, and welcome here.

Tags to look out for:

our arospec experience, arospec experience, arospec ask

aphobia may be discussed, but will be tagged, as will romance, love, crushes, etc. please let me know if anything else needs to be tagged (or I forget).

for any questions relating to allos, I recommend @askanallo.

mod uses she/her/he/him

please keep asks relatively sfw, swearing always allowed.

I am not a professional.

Hate will not be tolerated.

:D share your experience!

@our-queer-experience, @our-aroace-experience, @our-queerplatonic-experience, @aromantic-diaries @aroace-confessions @aroaceconfessions @aromantic-official

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glitch-1983 · 10 months

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AROACE MANGA AROACE MANGA AROACE MANGA AROACE MANGA

AROACE SPEC PEOPLE LISTEN UP!! ITS AROACE POSITIVITY!!

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aceoffangirls · 1 year

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attraction is confusing, i now propose that if we can not tell if something is alterous, romantic, platonic, or queerplatonic we call it what the fuck is this or wtfit instead

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bloggingboutburgers · 6 months

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OC-tober day 19, and day 5 of using aromantic flag palettes.

Today's flag is the recipromantic flag – people who only experience romantic attraction after knowing the romantic attraction is reciprocated from the other person.

#recipromantic #akhtsoctober #oc tober #oc-tober #oc #my art #nonburger

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aroacearchangel · 10 months

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furiously googling “flowers with no romance meaning” because a. I love flower language and b. I love being aro and found exactly what I was looking for!!

image description under the cut

[id: A screenshot of a flower website stating: “Alstroemeria. Also called Peruvian lily, alstroemeria symbolizes the strong bond between two people that transcends romantic love. Send this elegant flower to a special friend to celebrate the strength and devotion of your friendship. Alstroemerias are tuberous perennials native to the cold, mountainous regions of South America. They are popular as cut flowers and also in the garden. Their delicate flowers come in many colors, and they bloom every summer and fall.” Above the text is a circular photo of the aforementioned orange and yellow flowers. Half of the petals on the flowers are speckled with dark brown lines. The flowers’ dark green leaves are long and thin.]

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neptune-scythe · 29 days

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what if all the Crows were aromantic

kaz: apothiromantic, or romance repulsed (I will project everything onto this poor boy until the day I die)

Jesper and Inej: Demiromantic, they only feel romantic attraction when an emotional bond has been created

wylan: quoiromantic, he does not know what romantic attraction is or if he's ever experienced it

Nina: autoromantic, she only experiences romantic attraction to herself

Matthias: recipromantic, he only feels romantic attraction if someone else reciprocates it

Kuwei: cupioromantic, he likes the idea of a romantic relationship and desires one, but he doesn't actually experience romantic attraction to anyone

that's all folks have a rest of your day

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yuumebow · 1 month

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just found out i am recipromantic after so much confusion over the years so i drew cici with the color pallette of the flag to celebrate

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aroacesafeplaceforall · 8 months

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Ok the fucking links won’t paste go to blog page or send me an ask and I’ll send it

#poll #polls #aromantic #aroace #aro #aro pride #desinoromantic #aroflux #aegoromantic #recipromantic #aromantic spectrum #aro spec #aro spectrum

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sipping-on-thoriumg · 1 year

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🟩⬜🟨 Aroallo Moodboard! 🟩⬜🟨

🟩 🟩 🟩 | ⬜ ⬜ ⬜ | 🟨 🟨 🟨

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kyanitedragon · 2 years

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Imagine, an Arospec Dating Sim

Where each of the love interests are a different arospec identity, and the game paths explore these identities by having the player navigate relationships with them

From the start of the game, the frayromantic is in the corner with a clear crush on you, but by the time you get around to introducing yourself and starting to bond, their crush is fading and their game path is platonic or queerplatonic

The lithromantic character's path begins as a romance, that changes to be queerplatonic by the end

In the aroflux character's path, their identity fluxes for each dating scene and your interactions in that scene reflects that - sometimes its a sappy romantic date, sometimes its a platonic hangout date

The player has a crush on the recipromantic, who's been pretty neutral on them up until now. When the player confesses, the recipromantic begins to feel attraction and so they agree to date

In the demiromantic path, you bond platonically with them for a while until the ability to romance them unlocks. (This path could also potentially be the "bonus path" of the game, only unlocking after you beat the game, making you bond with them in the background of other paths multiple times until you can unlock the romance option with them)

The greyromantic's path makes clear that you are one of their few, if not their only, crush in their lifetime, and the path shows them navigating these romantic feelings that they aren't used to

The cupioromantic path features a cute fluffy romance but without the romantic tension

The quoiromantic path features an unlabeled comitted relationship with them. They show confusion again and again over which label their feeings toward you may fall into, but in the entire path its not important to figure out nor invalidated. The relationship and interactions follow whatever feels most natural, not worrying about putting labels on them or following certain tropes.

(There's more arospec identities out there, but I can't think of any ideas for them, so if you have any feel free to add on!)

Edit: Additions from the notes!

In a reblog I added:

"If it went the “Demiromantic Path Is The Bonus Path” route, it’d be cool if that character had a Sans Undertale kind of deal. They remember you and their bonds with you from the previous paths. So despite seemingly just meeting them, they already bonded enough with you to fall in love.

(Which adds a new layer to your relationship with them. Be still my Ficto & Aego heart…)

Which makes me think…

It’d be super meta to have a Fictoromantic side character that in-series plays dating sims.

As for an Aegoromantic… Maybe a side character friend? The Shipper on Deck trope?

Also! Each character has to have the color scheme of their respective arospec pride flag. Maybe also wear their pins?

And absolutely have them use the terminology at some point in each of their paths."

@the-aromantic-dragon said: [Link]

#Bellusro: y'all have the option of doing stuff but platonically

@maryellencarter said: [Link]

I'd definitely suggest including a "baseline" aromantic path, either aroace or aroallo or both, or another variant. Something that stands out to me as a romance-repulsed partnered aro about all the identities suggested is that they all include romantic feelings at some point, even though not all the paths wind up at romantic relationships. Sure, it's a "dating" sim, but if you're explicitly doing QPPs as some of your endgame relationships, why not have at least one that doesn't include any romance on the path at all?

#arospec dating sim #<- check that tag for more additions #aromantic #arospec #demiromantic #lithromantic #frayromantic #recipromantic #greyromantic #grayromantic #aroflux #cupioromantic #quoiromantic #aro #mine

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