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yourfavisamilf · 2 years
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Shoutout to all the milfs and milf lovers on the asexual spectrum!
~Your favorite aegosexual milf connoisseur
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genderstarbucks · 26 days
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Okay new rule
Only aspec people can ship aspec characters until you allos learn to behave
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genderqueerdykes · 23 days
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is bullying, abusing and chasing aromantic and asexual people out of the community actually helping anyone? is it helping trans people get binders or breastforms, or find surgeons, or connect with other trans people? is it helping mspec people figure out that being attracted to multiple genders is normal and okay? is it helping lesbians and gays find each other? is it helping intersex people learn more about their conditions?
it's not. it's not helping anyone else get the resources, support and help they need. all it's doing is denying a huge chunk of the community their right to have the same things we have and want. it's not helping a single soul. it's not making it easier for anyone else to get what they need by removing these groups of people, because as queers, we all have different needs. we are here to help each other. the point of community is to help.
if you refuse to help one or two specific types of members of your own community, you are prejudiced and you are the one being disruptive to the unity and functionality of the queer community. you are the one causing problems- not the aromantics, asexuals and other aspectrum people.
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goddammit-sam · 2 years
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genderimpala · 3 months
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y'all aroacespecs aren't gonna believe this
i was talking to my mother the other day about how to tell the difference between romantic and platonic attraction and she was like "well if you want to sleep with them that's romantic attraction" and i was like "???????? so you can't love someone romantically without wanting to sleep with them?"
and she was like "well no that's not what i'm saying" and it's like yeah that's EXACTLY what you're saying. you're saying the only difference between your best friend and your partner is that you want to sleep with your partner. what. there's no way.
and people hook up all the time with people they don't know so you're saying one can feel sexual attraction without romantic attraction but not vice versa????? sounds fake
i forget how strange people who aren't on the aro/ace specs are
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aroaceconfessions · 9 months
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What the fuck even is sexual attraction. Like what am i even trying to parce here. Has the one singular event of ‘wow i might be attracted to this person actually’ ive experienced been genuine sexual attraction or am i just being emotionally attached to my close friends again. Like how many times do i have to think that about this person before it starts tipping into probably being true
I understand that human experience does not fit into neatly divided boxes and i get that its a good thing but it would be soooo much fucking easier if i could just read a checklist and get told if im ace or gray or demi or whatever the fuck is going on with this whole mess
Its been literal years. The entirety of figuring out where i am in regards of gender and romantic shit took mere months, and its been over three FUCKING years. Simply is not fair
The worst part is im not comfortable with just slapping an ‘acespec’ on there and going, no, because i dont care about the actual label, i just want to understand how my own fucking emotions work >:/
Catch me desperately clinging to ‘non-sam aro’ like a lifeline so i dont have to figure out how my sexuality works ever
Submitted June 18, 2023
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dissectiontime · 1 year
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I hate it when they change aroace characters from their source material to the big screen and make them experience romantic or sexual attraction. Aroace people lose their representation when they do that.
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transenbyconfessions · 11 months
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My friend, who I was working with last week, is really lovely, but absolutely hopeless with pronouns. Because we've known each other so long he struggles to see me as anything but male and he seemed surprised that most people now see me as a woman. Though he always gets my name right, he constantly referred to me as 'he' last time we worked together — much to our customers' confusion, because most of them instinctively referred to me as 'she'! One customer who I had met a few times before didn't even recognise me and thought I was a cis woman! Massive gender euphoria.
Submitted May 12, 2023
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ryanyflags · 2 months
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Can you please make a combined flag for arospec & aceflux, then one for arospec and greyace? /gen /nf
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arospec aceflux, and greyace arospec combo flags :D
[pt: arospec aceflux, and arospec greyace combo flags]
The first one uses this arospec flag, and this aceflux flag. I basically just put all the stripes together, so the top 4 stripes are from arospec, bottom 4 are from aceflux, and the off white middle stripe is a combo of both of their lightest stripes. I also did some colour adjusting, so they'd flow together better.
The second just uses the same arospec flag as above, and the common greyace flag. I just replaced the bottom 2 greyace stripes with the green colours from arospec. The slightly yellow middle stripe is a combo of the white greyace and yellow arospec stripes. I think it's quite nice, I like the simplicity of the flag.
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kadenkilljoy · 1 year
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I made my own version of the grey aro and grey ace flags cause I don't like the original.
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I softened the colors to make it look more GREY and I'm happy with them. I think they're nice on the eyes :)
feel free to use, no credit needed
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insomniac-dormouse · 1 year
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Evenen more
✨🏳️‍🌈✨Flag birbs✨🏳️‍🌈✨
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Part 1
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Part 4
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genderstarbucks · 4 months
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Thermal Body Paintings Pride Wallpapers!! (Aspec)
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Aromantic | Asexual | Aroace
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Greyaromantic | Greyasexual | Greyaroace
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Demiromantic | Demisexual | Demian
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genderqueerdykes · 3 months
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being an asshole to aromantic, asexual, aplatonic, & other aspectrum people and denying that our identities are queer will not make you look more like a "legitimate" queer by proxy. punching down on other queers is not the way to go about legitimizing yourself to strangers. this doesn't make you look more legitimate- it literally just makes you an asshole.
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Greysexual stars moodboard!
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seriously what's the word for whore but asexual
like whore for fictional characters, not real whore
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gay-jewish-bucky · 1 year
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sometimes im like "maybe im not acespec" and then i look at some of the things yall say on my explore page and im like,
yeah no, im def not one of you
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