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genderstarbucks · 9 days

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Aromantic | Asexual | Aroace

Greyromantic | Greysexual | Greyaroace

Aroflux | Aceflux | Aroaceflux

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#aromantic #asexual #aroace #greyromantic #greyaromantic #grayromantic #grayaromantic #greysexual #greyasexual #graysexual #grayasexual #greyaroace #greyrose #grayaroace #grayrose #aroflux #aceflux #aroaceflux #needs id

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aroaceconfessions · 9 months

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What the fuck even is sexual attraction. Like what am i even trying to parce here. Has the one singular event of ‘wow i might be attracted to this person actually’ ive experienced been genuine sexual attraction or am i just being emotionally attached to my close friends again. Like how many times do i have to think that about this person before it starts tipping into probably being true

I understand that human experience does not fit into neatly divided boxes and i get that its a good thing but it would be soooo much fucking easier if i could just read a checklist and get told if im ace or gray or demi or whatever the fuck is going on with this whole mess

Its been literal years. The entirety of figuring out where i am in regards of gender and romantic shit took mere months, and its been over three FUCKING years. Simply is not fair

The worst part is im not comfortable with just slapping an ‘acespec’ on there and going, no, because i dont care about the actual label, i just want to understand how my own fucking emotions work >:/

Catch me desperately clinging to ‘non-sam aro’ like a lifeline so i dont have to figure out how my sexuality works ever

Submitted June 18, 2023

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beyond-mogai-pride-flags · 6 months

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Gray Stripe Asexual Pride Flag

Gray Stripe Asexual: acespec individuals represented by the grey stripe in the asexual flag.

This may overlap with greysexuality or mesi asexuality.

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transenbyconfessions · 11 months

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My friend, who I was working with last week, is really lovely, but absolutely hopeless with pronouns. Because we've known each other so long he struggles to see me as anything but male and he seemed surprised that most people now see me as a woman. Though he always gets my name right, he constantly referred to me as 'he' last time we worked together — much to our customers' confusion, because most of them instinctively referred to me as 'she'! One customer who I had met a few times before didn't even recognise me and thought I was a cis woman! Massive gender euphoria.

Submitted May 12, 2023

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aro-acethetic · 9 months

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Grayaroace + plants for the anon!!

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#grayaroace #aroace #grayaromantic #graysexual #gray aromantic #gray asexual #grayromantic #grayasexual #gray romantic #grey aromantic #grey romantic #greysexual #greyromantic #grey asexual #moodboard #mod lily

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queer-mood-and-stimboards · 1 year

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Greysexual stars moodboard!

(Click for better quality)

(Sources under cut)

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boywithbear · 2 years

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Already back with another coining since I need a neurosexuality to best describe myself and I'm coining it's romantic counterpart with it; cloudsexual and cloudromantic, based on cloudgender.

Cloudsexual is an acespec identity where you don't know if you truly experience sexual attraction or not due to depersonalization/derealization.

Cloudromantic is an arospec identity where you don't know if you truly experience romantic attraction or not due to depersonalization/derealization.

Cloudsexual flag is based on asexual color (purple) and color I've seen associated with sexual attraction (red), since you don't know where you stand between the two.

Cloudromantic is the same concept but with aromantic color (green) and the color I've seen associated with romantic attraction (pink).

With cloudsexual having purple on bottom like the asexual flag, and cloudromantic with green on top like the aromantic flag.

These are not meant to be used as a label to stop people from working through recovery, but rather to help describe a current experience when no other words/terms really fit.

[Flag Descriptions: Flag on the left is the cloudsexual flag, it has 5 horizontal stripes with the top two being shades of red, a darker red then a lighter red, and the bottom two being shades of purple, a darker purple at the bottom and a lighter purple above it. The color in between is a lighter color that is a blend between red and purple. There is a lavender purple fluffy cloud in the center of the flag with a purple outline around it.

The flag on the right is the cloudromantic flag. It also has 5 horizontal stripes, the top two shades are green, the top being a darker green and then a lighter green, and the bottom two being shades of blush pink, darker at the bottom then lighter above it. The middle stripe is lighter than the rest and a blend between pink and green, leaning more towards pale green. There is a light green fluffy cloud in the center of the flag with a grass green outline around it.

End of flag descriptions.]

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so-far-frogs-and-oscar · 2 years

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seriously what's the word for whore but asexual

like whore for fictional characters, not real whore

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gulptblr · 11 months

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Pride Month Draw-a-thon Day #14!

Autism creature says pride rights are human rights! The pride flag in this doodle represents gray-asexuals!

Grey-a’s colors are so pretty! They make my little autistic brain go WOOOO!

#pride #pride month #pride 2023 #art #cartoon #lgbtq #lgbt #grayasexual #gray asexual #graysexual #graya #gray a #gulp

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arynecho · 2 years

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A-spec romance is superior, sorry, I don't make the rules

#aspec #asexual #aromantic #demisexual #demiromantic #grayasexual #grayromantic #romance #romance fiction #writing

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cottoncandy-icedcream · 2 years

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My journey with graysexuality

TW: mentions of sexual themes (not explicit)

The biggest turning point was when my best friend had her first kiss. She texted me about it and how she had made out with her then boyfriend and a knot formed in my stomach. I felt grossed out and a little bit scared. I had never felt like this when watching tv shows or reading books describing kissing, but this just freaked me out. What was really happening was I was so close to my friend that I got scared. If she was starting to explore physical relationships it made it feel like i might have to.

A few years later, i was chatting with some friends. I had already questioned demisexuality and asexuality but nothing felt right. But these friends were talking about horniness and I mentioned that I have never been horny, and they were a little shocked.

But i found myself attracted to people i hadn't met. Not sexually, but somewhat physically. Some days I could imagine kissing, some days frenching, some days even hand stuff. It just varied. One night i looked up graysexuality, read about it, and cried. It just felt right.

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neuroqueer-fanbee · 2 years

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Ace Headcanons for Ace Week pt. 2

Part two of my ace-spec headcanons from anime

My Hero Academia

Shouta Aizawa: Asexual

I know a lot of people thirst over him, but I don't think he'd appreciate it

Shouto Todoroki: Asexual

He just doesn't seem interested

Katsuki Bakugou: Demisexual

This one you can pry from my cold dead hands

Tenya Iida: Grayasexual

Off-topic but I keep forgetting his eyes are blue in the anime

Fumikage Tokoyami: Asexual

Lowkey comfort character tbh

Demon Slayer

Shinobu Kocho: Demisexual

Is it partly because of her colour scheme? Perhaps. Does it also make perfect sense in my head? Absolutely

Tomioka Giyuu: Grayasexual

Blue Exorcist

Shiemi Moriyama: Demisexual

This one makes too much sense to not be true tbh

Saiki K

Kusuo Saiki: Asexual

Like with Luffy, basically canon

#anime #manga #mha #bnha #boku no academia #my hero academia #blue exorcist #ao no exorcist #saiki k #demon slayer #kimetsu no yaiba #kny #headcanons #ace awareness #ace week #asexual awareness week #asexual #demisexual #grayasexual

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aroaceconfessions · 11 months

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I’m Arospec in a complicated way and acespec in an even more complicated way and I wish someday we could see more characters who aren’t just aroace, but on the spectrums in their own unique way, like so many of us are.

Submitted May 25, 2023

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good-sci · 1 year

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more and more people in my life turn out to be aromantic, even more on the aroace spectrum in general, and honestly that's the rep I love to see (aromanticism was something I struggled to understand greatly, turns out it was because I was on the spectrum myself in the end)

#Me #Mine #text post #Aro #Ace #Aroace #Lgbt #uni vs moi #Demiromantic #Greyromantic #Greyasexual #Greysexual #Greyace #Grayace #Grayromantic #Graysexual #Grayasexual #Demisexual

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howmuchlonger2be · 2 years

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I hate the moments where I start questioning if I'm actually grayace!

Like brain shut the f up!!!!

I always feel like an imposter...

#gray ace #grayace #grayasexual #graysexual #grey ace #grey asexual #greyasexual #imposter #vent

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bappledilk · 2 years

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My orientation/gender!

Moving on from some of the heavy topics that took place here yesterday… time to fully embrace who I am, and share it with the world! Here is a full list of my orientations and genders! I hope it can make someone else as happy as it makes me.

Omniromantic

“Omniromantic is an orientation defined as the romantic attraction to all genders, though gender often still plays a role in one's attraction. Some individuals who identify as omniromantic may have a preference to which gender they feel most attracted to. For others they may be equally attracted to all genders, but they may feel the act of being attracted to one gender feels different than the act of being attracted to another gender. They might also find certain traits only attractive in certain genders.”

I am omniromantic! It admittedly took me a long time to figure this one out. For a while, I thought I was bisexual, then demisexual/panromantic, now I’ve finally figured out who I really am. Greyasexual, and omniromantic! Out of all the multiple-gender-attraction labels… biromantic, panromantic, polyromantic, etc… I truly feel like this one describes me exactly. I am romantically attracted to all genders, however, I am not gender-blind and gender does play a pretty big role in my attraction. There are different things I like in each gender!

Greyasexual

“Gray-asexual,[21] also known as graysexual or gray-A,[21][22][23][24] is an asexual identity characterized as being "in between" asexual and allosexual; that is, being asexual while also able to experience, or have experienced previously, sexual attraction.[21] People who identify as gray-asexual may experience sexual attraction that is uncommon for the individual, may only be directed toward specific people,[25] occurs infrequently, at low intensity, or in an ambiguous way.[5][26] The term is often included in the asexual spectrum.[27]”

I am greyasexual! And it’s not too complicated either, I understand exactly where I fall on the ace spectrum. I am almost exactly like the demisexual label’s description, however, there are minor differences between me and that label. Because of those minor differences, I consider myself greyasexual instead. Sometimes I may introduce myself as “demisexual” to new people, to avoid any confusion, but I never use the demisexual pride flag to represent myself. This is my flag, this is me!

Non-binary

“Non-binary, sometimes written as nonbinary, is a term referring to individuals whose gender identity does not exclusively fall into the binary gender classification of only "man" or "woman." Those who are non-binary may identify with either masculinity or femininity in some capacity, both, or neither at all.[2] Although it is a gender identity on its own, it can also be used as an umbrella term to refer to many gender identities.[3] While non-binary is included in the transgender umbrella, not all non-binary people identify as transgender.[4]”

I am non-binary! This is what I introduce myself as to most people, so I don’t confuse the hell out of them with all the specifics, lol. If I had to put my gender on a “scale”… weighing what percentages I am, I’d say that I’m 30% feminine, 50% agender/xenogender, and 20% fluid. That may not be exact, of course… but it’s just an estimate of how I feel the vast majority of the time. Despite the percentages, I still get really dysphoric when someone uses very feminine phrases for me. As for my AFAB body, I go through phases of loving it, tolerating it, or hating it. Depends on the day.

Demifaer

“Demifaer is a gender which is partially static and partially fluid. The fluid part of the gender fluctuates between identities which are never fully male, however, they can be masculine, partially male, or male-aligned. The static part of the gender is undefined, and can be anything, so it varies from individual to individual.”

To pinpoint exactly where I fall on the non-binary spectrum, I’d say “demifaer” describes me the most accurately, out of everything I’ve found! As I stated before, 30% feminine, 50% agender/xenogender, and 20% fluid. This label kinda sums that up into a more simple term. As for percentages between my xenogenders, I feel them all equally and can’t put that on a scale personally. They’re ordered first identified > last identified.

Ageregender

“Ageregender is an umbrella term for those whose gender either entirely, partially, or temporarily changes when they regress. It can be used regardless of gender modality; however, it is exclusive for age regressors.”

I am ageregender! This means that my gender partially changes when I age regress! This is one of the reasons I’m 20% fluid. When I’m big, I’m more androgynous, but when I’m little, I’m more feminine! I heavily associate femininity with my childhood, so I think that’s why this happens? I actually don’t know, that’s just my theory about it for now.

Genderfluff

“Genderfluff, also known as fluffgender, is an aesthetigender that is light, soft and fluffy or related to fluffiness or fluffy things. It can make one feel warm and fuzzy inside. It could also mean having an attachment to pastel femininity, as well as fluffiness. Fluffiness includes fluffy pillows or plushies as well.”

I am genderfluff! Here’s where things get a little weird, at least for those who aren’t already really familiar with xenogenders. It’s hard to describe, but whenever I see something fluffy or soft, I’m just immediately like… “This is a part of me. This is a part of who I am.” and it’s the strangest feeling ever. It just feels like… it is my gender. I feel it the most with stuffed animals, but also soft/fluffy animals, blankets, clouds, and more. Animals include, but are not limited to… kittens, bunnies, puppies, sheep, and cows.

Milkibubblic

“Milkibubblic is an aesthetigender related to childishness, pastel blue and blowing bubbles in milk. It is a soft, sweet, gentle gender.”

I am milkibubblic! This relates to all kinds of milk, not just cow milk. Examples include but are not limited to chocolate milk, strawberry milk, vanilla milk, goat milk, sheep milk, coconut milk, cashew milk, almond milk, and oat milk. Not just that, but the bubbles too? This is definitely me, ever since I was 2 years old. My username is bappledilk for a reason, hehehe.

Genderwinged

“Genderwinged is a gender that feels like a pair of wings, always attached to one's body and behind them. This may be affected by phantom wings, but not always. Ways to describe this gender can be light, fluttery, feathered, inhuman and weighted.”

I am genderwinged! Well, at least I think I am, lol… Admittedly, I’m not as sure about this one as the others. I’ve been questioning it for a while, but I’m not necessarily sure? My wings are definitely a very important part of my identity, but does that include my gender too? I don’t 100% know yet. I’m trying this label out to see how I feel about it. Take this one with a grain of salt.

Genderplated

“Genderplated is a gender related to the scales (also known as plates) of various creatures, mythical or not. Examples include but are not limited to reptiles, dragons, and fish. This gender may feel soft, shiny, light, flexible, and strong. Someone who is genderplated may be otherkin, but it’s not a requirement.”

And finally, we have the gender I coined! I am genderplated! I was searching for a gender label related to reptiles, both real/mythical, and I didn’t feel fulfilled by anything I found. I found some that were almost right, but not exactly. After my lack of success in finding a label, I coined my own. Specifically, related to the scales on various creatures, including mythical reptiles such as dragons. It also includes fish! This one is probably the weirdest on this list, but it’s definitely me.

Disclaimer: All labels have wiki pages somewhere, as demonstrated by the various links… except for the last 2!

So, that’s all! That’s a part of my identity. I’m really scared to post this, as I’ve kept it a secret from the public for quite a while now… but I think it’s finally time I rip that bandaid off and put it out there, because hiding it for this long is honestly really tiring, haha… It seemed to work out with my otherkinity, so I’m hoping it will work out with my gender too. :’)

I hope you found it interesting or learned something that helped you! Thank you so much if you read all of this and goodbye!

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