is bullying, abusing and chasing aromantic and asexual people out of the community actually helping anyone? is it helping trans people get binders or breastforms, or find surgeons, or connect with other trans people? is it helping mspec people figure out that being attracted to multiple genders is normal and okay? is it helping lesbians and gays find each other? is it helping intersex people learn more about their conditions?
it's not. it's not helping anyone else get the resources, support and help they need. all it's doing is denying a huge chunk of the community their right to have the same things we have and want. it's not helping a single soul. it's not making it easier for anyone else to get what they need by removing these groups of people, because as queers, we all have different needs. we are here to help each other. the point of community is to help.
if you refuse to help one or two specific types of members of your own community, you are prejudiced and you are the one being disruptive to the unity and functionality of the queer community. you are the one causing problems- not the aromantics, asexuals and other aspectrum people.
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Absolutely need the homies to know i offer up affection at anytime no need to ask and i love pda. Like yes please stand in my personal space and grab my hand while we're walking down the street. Lay your head on my shoulder when we're sitting next to each other and come up for a hug whenever you want
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if this is true then its correlation not causation but its still interesting! i was talking with a friend who mentioned most aspecs they know are creative.
if you are still in school but intend on entering a creative field, count that as yes. up to you what you consider creative
please reblog for a larger sample size!
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New moths/butterflies. I took a break after my computer went nuts and deleted a bunch of work but my spirit has rejuvenated.
Usual disclaimer If you use them for anything please give design credit (and also @ me because I would like to see). Intended for personal use only.
In this batch:
Queerplatonic, Aroflux, Angled Aroace
Aceflux, Cupiosexual, Frayromantic
Cupioromantic, Aegoromantic, Grey Romantic
Fraysexual, Aegosexual, Grey Ace
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Do people know there's a difference between:
an aro spec character being "cured" of their aromanticism by their "one true love" by the end of the narrative
And:
An aro spec character who finds one of the few people they happen to click with in an amorous (but not necessarily romantic) way by the end of the narrative
Does anyone understand that aromanticism is a SPECTRUM and that someone writing an aro character finding someone they want to be in a relationship with might be doing so for reasons other than 'curing' them?
And the same thing for ace spec characters! And, you know, actual people.
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Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week Day 02: Dragon 🐉
WOOO our favorite mythical creature with the favorite Sans! He's just petting the aro dragon 💚💚💚💚
So now let's talk about Grey romantic! Grey romantic is in which a person feel romantic attraction but not often, now they can also feel platonic, aesthetic, queerplatonic, sensual and sexual attraction.
Credits: @comyet
Materials: Soft pastel crayons, acrylic paint and HB-2 pencil
See you today heh since it's 2:35 am where I am at
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Happy Ace day, my siblings in acedom.
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Gray-aromantic + bodies of water for the anon!!
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HAPPY AROMANTIC WEEK !!!!♠️💚
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My LGBT+ headcanons for Doctor Who, Torchwood and Sarah Jane’s Adventures:
• The doctor - panace and genderfluid
• The master/missy - Viramoric and genderfluid
• Clara - bisexual (hinted)
• Nardol - non binary and aroace
• Jack - omnisexual (canon)
• Ianto - bisexual (canon) and non binary
• Toshiko - bisexual (canon)
• Owen - pansexual greyromantic
• Rory - bisexual non binary
• Luke - Gay (canon)
• Clyde - Pansexual
• Bill - lesbian (canon)
• Madame Vastra - lesbian (canonically sapphic)
• Jenny - lesbian (canonically sapphic)
• Yaz - sapphic (canon)
• River - pansexual (canonically sapphic)
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i did a thing
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I love being aromatic autistic! I want to kiss my friends!!!
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Yeah, I’m making even more.
There’ll be bigger versions eventually but my computer went crazy and I lost a few hours of work on those so.....here’s just little ones first at least.
Mini gridded pride moth/butterfly pixel art part 13. If you use them for anything please give design credit (and also @ me because I would like to see). Intended for personal use only.
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