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aroaceconfessions · 9 months
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You know, sometimes I think that I am, in fact, broken. Because how come I long to be loved like those beautiful poetries and romances I read, like, desperately... At the same time that I'm unable to return it? I've searched for it on multiple people, but I give up when I realize how selfish I'm being when I couldn't feel something towards them. I just loved the idea of love and being loved, not them. Then the only things that I have left is art and the consolation that "at least I have my best friend, my family", but they're finding this type love themselves and building their families. I try to get comfort on the fact that "as a single person with no partner and kids I will have more freedom and money", but idk... Sometimes I just wish I had someone to hold me, to kiss my face and say beautiful words to me. And "AroAce" is far away from being a known expression in my country, imagine "queer platonic"... Sorry for the long self pity rant. I'm just incredible sad these days.
Submitted July 9, 2023
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decayanddesign · 2 years
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Yearning for romantic affection while being greyro sure is a Feeling
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so i’m pretty sure i’m grey-aro in some way, shape, or form…
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aroacearchangel · 6 months
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hey. do whatever you want btw. it’s your identity. kiss people for fun. enjoy sex. nobody’s stopping you. being aro and/or ace doesn’t mean you have to be repulsed by romantic or sexual activities if you don’t want to.
and also! things only mean what you meant them to mean. you can have platonic sex and platonically make out with your friends. it’s true. just be sure to communicate so that everyone involved understands and you’re good.
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theshadownarrator · 3 months
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We win
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ancient-reverie · 10 months
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am I grey-aromantic or is it just my Venus in Gemini? or is it the grey-aromantic alter?
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calamitydarcy · 4 days
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shoutout to acespec and/or arospec people who still feel some amount of sexual/romantic attraction btw. shoutout to everyone who isn't fully aro/ace and isn't fully allo. shoutout to the aspecs who feel like they don't fully fit in aro/ace communities or allo communities because of it. i love you all i am baking you cookies
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genderqueerdykes · 11 months
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aromantic and asexual people are not inherently "miserable" or "unhappier" than other people. we are not "missing out" on something- if we do not experience these feelings to begin with, we have nothing to "miss out" on. the only time that aromantic and asexual people are miserable is when we are forced into relationships or forced to believe we "need" to be in one to be complete. destroy this argument in your mind- aromantic and asexual people define our happiness. we are not inherently miserable, we are doing just fine
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someoneq · 2 months
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it's aro week!
happy aro-spec awareness week to all aro-specs including but not limited to:
aromantics
greyromantics
demiromantics
quoiromantics
frayromantics
cupioromantics
lithromantics/akoiromantics
recipromantics
apothiromantics
caedromantics
amicusromantics
vallisromantics
apexromantics
arospikes
arofluxes
alicoromantics/agnoromantics
platoniromantics
nebularomantics
aegoromantics
bellusromantics
idemromantics
requisromantics
non-sam aros and arospecs
non-partnering aros
aros in romantic relationship
aros in queerplatonic or alterous relationships
aplatonic aros
loveless aros
lovequeer aros
lovepunk aros
aroaces/acearos
aroallos/alloaros
aromids
romance repulsed aros
romance ambivalent aros
romance favourable aros
triple/quadruple a batteries (arospec acespec aplspec agenderspec)
anyone questioning if they are arospec or where they fit on it
anyone else whose arospec identity I missed
happy aro week to all <2
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samsayswhatever · 4 months
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Shout out to the people who wake up a woman and go to bed a man. The the people who wear lipstick and have a beard. To the people whose gender is complicated. To the people who need a minute to think about it. To the people who don't really care. To the people who never stop thinking about it. To the people whose gender and sexuality are the same thing. To the people who like people in a way they can't explain. To the people who don't like anything. To the people with a thousand crushes. To the people who never had one.
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hello-im-queer · 8 months
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I was today's years old when I realized that people actually think that other people are attractive.
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PEOPLE JUST LOOK AT A BODY AND BE LIKE : 'whoa I wanna date, hot, sexy, kiss kiss' ?!?!?
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aroaceconfessions · 1 year
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(tw for very romantic discussions)
i asked my boyfriend if it bothered him when i talked about being arospec. we've been dating for about 5 years now, he's known i was arospec since before we started dating, as of rn i believe he identifies as 100% allo, and i fully intend on marrying him someday. so i worry that when i talk about being arospec - when i use aroace as a blanket term (because i'm 100% ace and somewhere on the greyro spectrum) or call my favourite characters arospec or whatever - i worry that he'll think it means i don't love him, that he'll think our relationship means less than it does.
i expressed this worry to him. he said "baby, i wouldn't care if one day you realised you were 100% aro. you'd still be my baby."
...have i mentioned i'm going to marry this man? because i'm going to marry this man. he knows exactly what to say to make me melt. i've never romantically loved another person so strongly in my entire life
Submitted March 31, 2023
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avenpt · 6 months
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However you identify, we appreciate you, and you are valid. Remember, the ace and aro umbrellas are wide enough to fit you. Whether you're aegosexual, fictoromantic, grey-ace, demiromantic, or any other number of identities...you are valid.
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batri-jopa · 1 year
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I love myself looking sexy for the sheer pleasure of it
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aroacearchangel · 8 months
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at any point in time i become so overwhelmed with adoration for my friends that I wanna kiss them but if it’s read as romantic i will feel violently ill
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theshadownarrator · 2 months
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