#pre op enby

[evelynn-writes-nsft]

oh no, she's too big to fit in my pussy? their favourite strap is too long for me? her cock's too thick? the head's too big to get between my teeth? she wants to try a toy we know is too large for certain acts to be possible?

i'm definitely not drooling at the thought of all the ways we could work with or around things like that ^_^

what a shame, oh woe. they'll just have to settle for fucking my soft thighs while i sit on their lap and whisper encouragement and praise and bite their neck. or for enjoying my hands or a fleshlight or wand i'm holding. or getting to watch me kneel and letting her fuck my breasts and kissing the tip when it's close enough because "darling you're so big~~~".

that totally wouldn't be amazing for them, would it? 💝

deeefinitely not going to make someone feel like a god, hmm?

#i feel like some pre-op and early-post-op trans women get too anxious about depth and width and potential partners. #because there are a tonne of insanely hot and intimate ways to please your partner even if penetration is impossible! #this one also goes out to my oomfies who have chronic pain and sometimes have difficulty opening our mouths enough on a lot of days <3 #and to any people with natal vaginas who can relate to anxieties about pain and depth and tightness too. this isn't unique to transfems. #so here's some positivity about that! love y'all. don't encourage those anxiety/dysphoria spirals when they start. you're perfect. #our worth to someone else isn't defined by whether or not that person can penetrate us- #-and if anyone treats you like it is then they don't deserve you! #nsft textpost #trans nsft #sapphic nsft #lesbian nsft #enbylw #enby nsft #genuine #queer nsft

[sapphicslut777]

honestlyyyyy the more time that passes,, the more and more i consider getting on HRT :3 likeeeee maybe i’ll just be a lil gel boy and microdose that shit.. that pretty much takes away every fear i have about the process.. but! we’ll see how i feel after my surgery

#trans thoughts of the day #trans #hrt #t gel #non-binary #enby #agender #gender fluid #into the ether #mine #gay thoughts #top surgery #pre op

[asiancatboy]

i love to joke i'm just a cute little tiny baby boy w my friends & mutuals but the second anyone outside of that circle jumps in or says anything remotely infantilising my asian senses tingle

#it's the one thing i still have trouble navigating. wanting to be free and silly and childish + hypervigilance against uwufication bc ppl #can't be normal abt asian men or trans ppl #i don't want to be Seen As A Man bc i'm not really a man but i definitely don't want to be seen as the watered down Asian Guy nor do i want #to be the little smol bean enbie ykwim #and so i think that leaves me in a weird position where i'm wondering if i'm overcompensating specific levels of masculinity to counter how #i feel treated or percieved #esp as a pre-hrt/op transmasc who would be mistaken for a girl if i dressed even remotely ''androgynous'' #these aren't really thoughts that eat away at me btw they're just there and i'm thinking aloud #but i'm pretty interested to know how my thoughts are going to change when i finally medically transition and also how i'm going to find #experimenting with things then like. lots to think about lots to be excited about #7

[ickbarr]

pride parade fit

#it me #irl pics #irl picture #irl picture of me #edgy #edgy aesthetic #bastard #bastardcore #ftm #trans masc #enby #pre op ftm #pride month #queer #trans

[bluubun]

HELP ME PAIR HER UP!!

Would you like to help an aspiring doctor in college get into a long term committed relationship? you're in luck! because I thought it would be fun to try and get a variety of possible bachelors or bachelorettes for my sim, Marceline Wolfsbane. Rules, Guidelines and other shenanigans:

Marceline is a bookworm, cat lover and gloomy

Sims can be any of these occults: Plantsim, Vampire, Alien, Werewolf, Mermaid.

Must be young adult

I will make small adjustments to said sims to be suited in my sim style, drastic changes will not be made (unless proportions drastically differ from my style)

Can be of any gender identity!! give them backstory, cis? MTF FTM trans or enby? are they pre-op? post op? plans to medically transition? I have the mods for all the storytelling!

Races should be based upon sims worlds / their inspiration !! I have language barriers mod :>

Aspiring celebrities only, none already famous

Maxis match CC Only, if im on the fence abt a cc being too close to alpha, it will be changed!

I believe thats all aa hope its not too much =v= please be sure to @ me if you make a sim and include their tray files, preferably a private download ! i really wanna try to make a long-term sim family :> Not all sims will be used within the dating pool but i will try to include all sims within my world regardless !

Have fun !!

#ts4 #the sims 4 #sims 4 #ts4 gameplay #ts4 legacy #ts4 wolfsbane0827

[abalidoth]

Controversial trans take: I'm generally a "more terms to describe our experiences are good" kinda enby, but I'm genuinely glad that the term "non-op" has been largely disappearing.

Like, honestly pre- and post-op are not my favorites either but at least they describe people whose transitions involve bottom surgery as a major milestone and component. Still think cis people use 'em more often than they should, but what's new.

But while dividing the group of "people who want bottom surgery" into pre- and post- is fine, dividing the group "all trans people" into "normal" and "not interested in bottom surgery" makes me pretty grouchy.

And lest you think this is just me being bitter about my own circumstances, I feel the same way about terms like non-HRT; I just see things phrased that way a lot more rarely. HRT and surgery and voice training etc etc etc are TOOLS, everyone needs to find their own mix, don't refer to people in a way that others them just because they don't use a particular tool.

#tesserants #discourse

[tizzypizza]

im not sure if posting about this is necessary, but for full transparency i wanted to say that i got rid of the little disclaimer under the trans blahaj post because after a user pointed it out i realized damn that does sour it a bit doesn’t it.

i do want to reiterate it here though for folks who may be coming in from that post— and this is just me recapping what i was basically saying— while i do love transmasc/enby shiver, it isn’t my main headcanon for them so you probably won’t be seeing much of that depiction on my profile. i wanted to clarify this to explain the lack of continuity in pronouns and depiction, given i have only ever used she/her for the character/sometimes have drawn them in an overtly feminine way. i don’t want to run the risk of making trans folk who find comfort in trans depictions of shiver uncomfortable by suddenly going back to posting them with, say, an unoperated chest after having just drawn them with top scars, so i wanted to flag people down. i do still love trans shiver (especially androgynous enby shiver), but it’s like a neighboring headcanon for me if that makes sense.

all of that being said, however, you are obviously free to interpret the shiver i draw as enby or transmasc if you’d like! i have both enby and transmasc mutuals who use she/her and MANY (most?) of them are non/pre-op. i just wanted to clarify my depiction of her if that makes sense. again i’m not even sure if this is necessary or if i even worded this right, but i felt like just getting rid of that disclaimer without any warning was weird. if i fucked something up feel free to flag me down!

#tiz talks

[anythingbyadriannelenker]

i have been tryin g to articulate this thought in real life for like 6 months now and no one seems to fully get it but if anyone has my back it’s the little lgbts in my phone.

lesbianism is not simply a sexuality. it is a state of being. let me explain— i would say most lesbians were not genuinely attracted (at least not in a sexual sense) to any woman prior to like age 9 HOWEVER most lesbians would not deny that they were a young lesbian at that age. there are also just some generational traits of lesbianism that go beyond being attracted to woman as a woman. for example, i and nearly every gen z lesbian i know had a repressed crush on katana in atla at like age 7, had some sort of fandom/special interest that defined their pre-teen years, and now uses making playlists as a love language. similarly, my mother is a lesbian. it doesn’t matter that she is married to my father, everything else about her screams gen x lesbian. any knowledgeable lesbian would come to that conclusion within 10 minutes of talking to her. in conclusion, lesbianism is an identity that goes beyond sexuality.

now that brings me to the gender point— lesbianism also defies gender. identifying as a woman is not a precursor for being a lesbian. if one wishes to identify as male or genderqueer but also as lesbian, one identity does not cancel out the other. if a enby person wishes to be a lesbian, a lesbian they will be. hell, if a cis male really really wishes to be a lesbian (like really), a lesbian they will be. if anyone wishes to be a lesbian, and they commit their entire being to being a lesbian, a lesbian they will be.

now you may be wondering “what, op, is your point??” my point is— remember that one time you looked at someone or met someone and though “i know they’re not a homosexual female and i acknowledge that as true, however, your honor, that is a lesbian.” you were right. that is, in fact, a lesbian.

for example— i committed myself to watching every thing elijah wood has ever been in around 6 months ago. through this exploration of the elijah wood filmography, i started to notice that every character he plays just screams lesbian. frodo baggins? lesbian. wirt from otgw? lesbian. todd brotzman? lesbian. the guy who eats speghetti off some girls tits? LESBIAN. the list goes on. now in my research on the man himself, i noticed that this phenomenon was not exclusive to fictional characters. i watched recent interviews, old teenage interviews, viewed photo shoots on pinterest, read wikipedia and news articles, and with each one i was further convinced he is a lesbian.

i would like to say that i recognize that he is a straight cis male. however, he is also a lesbian. i can give evidence and i have, but i believe this is unnecessary. as with my mother, i believe any knowledgeable lesbian can and will come to the same conclusion.

tl;dr— lesbianism is an identity that goes beyond sexuality or gender. with this premise, i present: elijah wood is a lesbian.

#btw i’m not that serious #however #i feel i must publish a manifesto for all those who are yet to be converted #so please understand i don’t want to offend anyone and everything stated is all silliness and giggles #elijah wood #todd brotzman #frodo baggins #over the garden wall #otgw #wirt #lotr #lord of the rings #lesbian #lgbt #lgbt+ #this is just for me #my post #elijah posting #brainrot posting

[topsurgerycountdown]

92 days till top surgery pre-op appointment:

I met another trans masc enby with the exact same dead name as me yesterday at pride. I bought them a pizza and we danced together at the queer club we ended up at.

Pride is so powerful yall, Happy Pride!

#transmasc #trans #trans community #trans masc #nonbinary #trans joy #ftm #countdown #nonbinary pride #pride month #pride #queer pride

[dead-dog-dont-eat]

hi hi hi! :) srry 2 be a bother but I am a HUGE ben 10 fan as well & couldn't help but notice that you had a whole theme going on rn (lol)

anyway, for starters, but do you have hcs on any of the aliens from the show (specifically POC and/or LGBTQ+)? Don't wanna pressure u obviously - but I think that ur cool (in an autism way) and I just wanna hear your hcs.

OMG, anon, this is so sweet of you to say 😭😭😭????? Also, ty for acknowledging my account theme of my wife (lol) tbh, I have been bored lately and I WAS about to post some text wanting to talk to someone about some random-ass questions or headcanons about ben 10, and you've beaten me to it :D

Also, to answer your question...yes, I have headcanons to both POC (and non-POC) and queer headcanons!!

(Also, funny enough, but I have seen @/redisloser show THEIR version of hcs for the aliens--so I might as well show mine)

-XLR8 is of Asian descendant (specifically Korean, Thai, and Vietnamese), and he is gay, non-monogamous, and reciprosexual.

-Bullfrag is of Italian-American heritage (so white) and is from Boston and Philadelphia, and is bisexual; Attea is also from Italian heritage and is from Boston but is mostly New Jerseyian, she is a nonbinary lesbian.

-NRG and Diamondhead are also white, both of them are Russian (NRG canonically is, lol), but Diamondhead is also a mix of Czech, German, and has Alaskan blood in him and is from Arkansas--while NRG is a second-generation Russian immigrant; Diamondhead is gay, demiace, and demiboy while for NRG....eh, I'm still questioning, but is definitely queer in some way.

-All of Ben's Anur Transyl aliens canonically have European heritage in them--as it was proven in OV on Anur Transyl how the theme of the planet is mostly based on Europe. Not to mention Snare-Oh + any other Thep Khufans are also Egyptian. Though, I headcanon that Anur Transyl continents are different based on the European country they were inspired from. Plus I love how diverse and multicultural the planet is. Whampire--from his accent--is (canonically from the wiki) Romanian and gay/queer; Snare-Oh and Frankenstrike are both gay/queer with Snare-Oh being acespec and cupiosexual. Ghostfreak and Blitzwolfer are both queer-coded as well but just not decided on gender/sexuality (yet).

-Four Arms is of Spanish heritage (mostly from Mexico, Venezuela, and Argentina) and is a bisexual demiboy; Looma Red Wind is the same but is more indigenous-mexico + has Mayan background in her blood, she is a pre-op top surgery transmasc lesbian.

-Ripjaws is Afro-Polynesian, part Hawaiian and Filipino, and is mostly Samoan; he is polyam, greyromantic/alloaro, a trans-enby (ftm), and gay.

-Swampfire is mixed POC--he is Melanesian, Indian, Afro-Hawaiian + Afro-Japanese, and is also part white (Irish + Dutch and Baltic); he is gay and demisexual.

-Heatblast, Grey Matter, and Cannonbolt are white: Heatblast is Coloradorian + Northeastern white, Grey Matter is from Baltimore + Northern states and is also a bit British, and Cannonbolt is mostly from the Western side of America; Heatblast is achillean/MLM and queer, both Cannonbolt and Grey Matter are aroace and Bolt is also pan.

-Stinkfly is agender and aroace as well; he is Northeastern white like Heatblast.

-Wildmutt is just, well, an alien dog so he doesn't have any concept of gender/sexuality--BUT, if he were an ACTUAL dog, then he would be a mixed breed of a Sheepdog (mostly), along with a bit of Airdale/Whippet Bull Terrier mix, Great Dane and some Cane Corso too (<- inspired off of my partner's HUGE ass black-colored dog, Buddha, who is also a Cane Corso lmao).

-Feedback is mostly African-American with bits of Japanese and Filipino (Blasian); and he is gay.

-Big Chill is Afro-Jewish, Afro-Asian, and Afro-Hawaiian, Icelandic, and Norse; they are canonically nonbinary, trans/ftm, on the aroace spectrum, and gay.

-Both Rath and Humungousaur are mostly white but with some POC--Rath is of Ukrainian, Irish, and Polish background with some Indian and Brazilian heritage and is from New Jersey + Philadelphia, and Humungousaur is from the Caribbean Islands with some Bulgaria, Slovakia, and Canada and is from Texas + Florida; both are gay.

-Wildvine is also African-American like Feedback, but he is also Afro-Latine, some Nigerian and a bit of Creole--he has a half older brother (my OC, Wallfire) who is Blasian because his late Pyronite mother is Asian (they both have the same dad); Wildvine is a transmasc ftm enby who is also gay--his brother is also gay but cis.

-Viktor is canonically German, and his human appearance in the Original Series is white, plus of his accent. Crüjo is Black like his voice actor in Omniverse--Bumper Robinson--and he is from Boston like Bullfrag. Kuphulu would be Black-adjacent, Egyptian, Afro-Asian, and also Jewish in heritage/background; all three of them are in a polycule with each other: Viktor is cis and gay, Crüjo is a libramasculine and gay, and Kuphulu is polyam, a trans-enby, gay and also on the aroace spectrum.

-Pax is multiracial: he is Black + European from his father and Spanish + Native-American from his mother; he is aroace, cupiosexual, and gay.

-And lastly, from my favorite out of the bunch: Psyphon. He is both French and Swedish (so mainly white as well) and he is multilingual in both languages; he is nonbinary, gay and also on the aroace spectrum.

Ty so much for asking me this! I had a lot of fun typing; please forgive me if I skipped/missed most of the aliens from other shows as well but these are ones that I mostly focus on (lol).

#ben 10 #ben 10 series #headcanons #my headcanons

[cutmytitsintopieces]

All my love goes out to the trans boys and enbys who provide tips for recovery.

Especially this video:

You can find the PT and the exercises that were mentioned here. You do have to provide an email-address to get the link, though.

The exercises are grouped into stages that correspond with your surgery steps: pre-OP, immediate post-OP and 8 weeks post-OP. If you don't have access to a personal physio therapist or get any post-rehabilitation support, this will be a valuable resource.

This said, they mostly focus on mobility and light strength training at home, which is the core of recovery. Building on the PTs program further, I would also recommend a pre-OP workout routine to specifically build up a lot of tissue and obviate the inevitable post-surgery atrophy of the surrounding muscles.

Preferably training with weights, but I intend to post a list with an easy and appropriate routine anyway.

Until then, please look at the program if needed or share their work, free resources for physical health regarding these specific topics are very rare to come by!

#top surgery #breast reduction #top surgery recovery #tips #physical therapy #cirque physio #dorian gay

[the-rainbow-lesbian]

I just saw that anon talking about forcing herself to be into trans women and thought I'd share too. It's a bit of a long story but I'll try to shorten it as much as I can.

I came out as lesbian maybe two years ago after identifying as bi (and even asexual) for years.

I lost all of my friends.

I was maybe 23 and I lost all of my friends and I was lonely and heartbroken. So, as a relatively young lesbian who just came out and who was desperate to belong somewhere, I was a prime target for diy conversion therapy. I joined a lesbian group.

Filled with trans women and bisexuals. Pre-op. But I wanted to be inclusive. Trans women were women, right? So I also talked about how much I loved trans women. I went on a date with someone in that group who I thought was butch. Nope! Non-binary male. I forced myself to be into male non-binary people. And I just...

He was so clearly male in behaviour too it was awful! I decided I didn't want to date male enbies, but of course that made me transphobic so I shut my mouth. They talked about changing the group to not just be for lesbians, and I felt like it was no longer a safe space.

There was even a transbian chatting me up sexually twice and when I got annoyed the second time because I said I am not interested in casual sex, he somehow twisted it around as if I communicated wrong and that he was Autistic.

It got to the point where I now am struggling whether I'm even a lesbian. Because of months of pushing myself to be attracted to males.

I see people talking about how no real lesbian would ever fall for the "genital preferences are transphobic" line, but I think people really underestimate how lonely it can be for young lesbians, and how we can get roped into something because we want to be "inclusive" and good.

I know there are weirdos on here who think they can decide who is and isn’t a lesbian but I am here to tell you if you are born a lesbian nothing can change that, conversion therapy never works and what you went through is really heartbreaking. like I am in my late twenties and when I came to the US I was already aware the LGBT spaces were no longer a safe space for lesbians so I avoided them and the few lesbian events I went to made sure to let everyone know they’re inclusive of men so I just stopped going. I can understand how young lesbians can fall victim to this because it’s your real life but when this started it was online discourse to me. we really need to find a way to make sure lesbians have somewhere to go to keep them save from male predators.

although this website was made by political lesbians it shows that you are not alone, some testimonies here are from lesbians who experienced predation from men in the queer movement, it can be triggering so proceed with caution: x