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I'd rather rot in hell for the eternity instead of lowering my head for a god that allowed all of this
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child-of-hoarders · 23 days
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flowersbark · 3 months
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having a complicated relationship with sex/sexual things after sa is so weird because like . it'll be 1 am and ill be switching through apps and ill be thirsting over a character and then ill open tumblr and i remember everything bad shes ever done to me
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thecreep-andtheweirdo · 6 months
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hi guys
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asexualmisconduct · 6 months
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Cutting off his hands. So he will never touch anyone again
Gouging out his eyes. so he will never gaze upon another pure innocent child again
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roisinivy · 7 months
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"Your trauma made you stronger"
Actually my trauma nearly destroyed me.
It gave me nightmares and stole my voice,
it gave me destructive coping mechanisms
and made me feel deeply unloved.
It took my own strength to face my trauma
and tell it that it will not win
I was handed a terrible situation
that was not my fault and I learned
how to survive despite my trauma
— NG
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music-and-trauma · 5 months
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angelicwh0r3 · 6 months
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I wish I've never been touched without my consent, I feel like I've lost parts of myself that have been touched and I will never win them back
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pigeon-system-boys · 2 months
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Us, with hypersexuality: oh yeah we want sex so so bad
Us, with hypersexuality, when sex happends:
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jungkookieluvr · 2 years
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can’t escape the abuse even in my dreams i’m so fucking tired
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CW // SA
just a quick reminder to all the people dating someone who's experienced some kind of sexual trauma:
stop👏making👏it👏about👏you
if your partner gets triggered during sex, CONTROL YOURSELF.
I know that initially you might feel responsible, but for fuck's sake try to understand the fact that it's just TRAUMA being PROCESSED.
because the moment you start saying things like "omg what have I done" "I'm such a bad person" "I just r@ ped you" you are just making things WORSE.
not only because you are most likely making your partner panick even more and feeling more guilty than they already do, while at the same time not providing them with the care they deserve.
but also because they might not feel safe anymore to tell you no or to ask you to stop in the middle of it since they now fear your reaction.
so just comfort them, help them calm down and DONT.MAKE.IT.ABOUT.YOU.
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d4magedgoods · 10 months
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I am truly understanding that I must be compassionate to my younger self. I feel like because I'm still fairly young and because of how children like me were (and continue to be) adultified, I fail to understand that I spent most of my life as an actual child. I have had such a hard time understanding that but I am slowly acknowledging that.
Children are children. Children have the right to innocence, naivity, and safety. I had the right to all these things and if these rights were not granted to me then it cannot be my own fault.
What power does a child have in our world? None, not socially, legally, or mentally. So how can I be responsible for any of the abuse or mistreatment I have faced at the hands of adults or even other children?
How can I be angry at a child who was alone, scared, and exploited? I can't, it doesn't make sense nor is it fair to that child who l've grown from.
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thetouchofevil · 5 months
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thecreep-andtheweirdo · 7 months
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I feel like I’m a ticking time bomb that’s never going to go off
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flowersbark · 11 days
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other sa survivors, does anyone else hate the trend of people saying like 'im gonna touch you' as a .. joke ??
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wronggalaxy · 8 months
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We need to talk about the absolutely shitty way male presenting people are treated when raped, especially when it was a female presenting person who did it.
1) Most feminists need to shut up about how they "support male rape victims when men don't". If your support doesn't start until the rape happens, it's not support. If you only put support line cards in women's spaces, it's not support. If you always use she/her pronouns for victims and he/him for abusers, it's not support.
2) It's a lot harder for people presenting as men to come out about being assaulted because of the way they're sexualized, the lack of emotional support they receive, and the idea that all men are big and strong and aggressive.
3) All though female presenting people aren't taken nearly serious enough when raped, it's much easier for them to make it seem like their victim was the abuser than you think it is. Even when the victim is a child and the abuser an adult.
4) If a little girl starts sexualizing herself or others it's more likely people will recognize the signs of assault than if a little boy does.
And a billion other things to.
And BTW, I'm an AFAB female presenting genderqueer feminist who has been sexually assaulted by boys(my age and older), so don't even try and tell me it's just my gender or sex or political beliefs or lack of experience clouding my judgment. I know what I'm talking about.
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