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lapetitebabydoll · 9 months

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Like leave her alone already just let her live omg

#mine #leave lana alone #stop fat shaming

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theblasianwitch · 2 years

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So I went on a binge research of plus size Asian models and Yumi Nu is THE FIRST to make it in Sport Illistrated. Still happy for her

I found two others so far and if anyone wants to share any others I'd love to know.

Minami Gessel

She's apparently been featured as part of the model selections for Rihanna's savage collection but has done more.

Bishamber Das

The first plus size Asian model for the United Kingdom, specifically Britain

For the record, I was fully aware of the Piggy Dolls and still hate all the backlash they got because Asia just can't handle plus size talented women. I still stand by my statement that Yumi Nu making Hong Kong Vogue is immense progress because while the west is more accepting of these curvy ladies, the east is no where close and the stigma still exists in Asian American families to this day.

#plus size appreciation #plus size #plus size model #yumi nu #minami gessel #bishamber das #representation matters #asian models #art reference #art ref #stop fat shaming

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zodiacemma · 2 years

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shout out to the people who mod harvey without a mustache and make him skinnier, elliot to remove his big nose and replace it with a smaller one, and Maru to lighten up her skin

because y’all deserve the biggest of FUCK YOUs imaginable

#sdv #stardew valley #sdv harvey #sdv elliott #sdv maru #honestly fuck those people #stop fat shaming #stop body hair shaming #stop nose shaming #and just stop being racist

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plentyoffandoms · 2 years

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The people complaining about the way how Eddie Kingston looks can not do what he does.

They can not go out there and put their body on the line day in and day out like he does.

So what if he has a belly?

The man puts on some of the best shows out there and many of these people complaining about him need to realise that.

Also many of these toxic wrestling fans need to back off on wrestlers that they deem too skinny as well. Like shit, they are still doing shit that you, yourself can not do.

What the hell do they want?

Guys jacked up on steroids like they were back in the day and then complain that these guys are using?

Being a wrestling fan is tough man.

#aew #all elite wrestling #eddie kingston #stop fat shaming #stop skinny slamming #damn

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glupie-memy · 3 months

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#stop fat shaming

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ganondoodle · 7 months

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i dont like making art tutorials, not just bc my way of drawing and my knowledge about it changes daily but mostly bc i know saying sth wrong can do quite a bit of damage too, even if it was well meant its been many years by now but i once saw an art tutorial that said characters CANNOT have a certain body shape bc its unnatural (false) and will inevitably make them look bloated/pregnant and its put fear in my head that still lingers in my mind whenever i draw fat characters even tho i know better by now

#ganondoodles talks #art talk #random #might just be a me problem #and no its obviously NOT stopping me from drawing fat characters #but i could never truly forget it and i still ask myself is this -correct tm- or am i making this character look like sth i dont want #it was widely shared too if i remember right #and im not trying to shame that artist that made it #but still #my little brain unfortunately took it by heart and its never truly gonna go away #............also tutorials take a long time to make look good and i never have the energy for it

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jerzwriter · 20 days

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Body Positivity:

TW: body shaming, fatphobia, skinnyphobia, eating disorders, and the like.

I'm so fucking angry and triggered right now, and I need to vent. I was at what was supposed to be a fun family event, and because I didn't want to completely blow up, I stepped outside. But I am SO PISSED that I need to get this out. While trauma dumping on a toxic website is probably not the best idea, I literally have to vent, or I'm going to explode, and I REALLY HOPE someone will read this and learn something.

I think the body positivity movement has been great—and I wish we had something like it when I was growing up because, trust, it was non-existent. But, like many things, it's great on the surface, but a certain segment has morphed it into something that is as destructive and hateful as the behaviors/actions that led to the need for such a movement.

Some background, so you understand my perspective. I've struggled with my weight my whole life. I've been everything from a size 6 to a size 22. I'm very tall, and when I was at my thinnest (mostly because I was starving myself), people came up to me constantly to tell me how amazing I looked. I'm talking friends, family, co-workers, people at the club, and strangers on the street. I was literally dangerously underweight. My family doctor, who had treated me most of my life, was begging me to get help.

I wound up getting help for what turned out to be an eating disorder and moved past that as much as I could. Since that time, my weight has fluctuated from average, to "a few extra pounds", to very overweight. While I am usually OK with myself and try to be positive about my body, it can be hard. I don't like the way I look right now, and I’m ashamed to say that because I don’t feel that way about others. Beauty is not a number or a size, and I know that, but I am my own harshest critic. It doesn’t help to have the voices of many people, people who were supposed to love me, in my head constantly at these times.

“Do you think you should wear that?”

“Oh, that dress is so becoming on you!” (Meaning: it hides some of your fat!)

Or my favorite, coming home in an outfit that I felt so good about that I thought I looked adorable in, just to have my mother (and later my husband) say something like:

"Perhaps you should retire that until you lose some weight." or "You actually went out in that?"

(PS - I am divorced and barely speak to my mother)... I'm doing so much better, but I know I'll never be 100% comfortable, and, as with most things, the voices seep in when I'm at my lowest. So I GET IT. I get it big time.

But - on to today.

We have a wedding taking place later this week, so the family has descended like the buzzing locusts they are. The ten women in the bridal party, of all shapes and sizes, are at my house for a get-together, and they began complaining about how ugly the dresses are. (They really aren't the nicest dresses.)

The eight anti-dressers were commiserating when one, we'll call her Obnoixous Bridesmaid (OB), loudly announced that another bridesmaid had to shut up and leave the conversation because she's thin (we'll call her Thin Bridesmaid—TB), and therefore has no business being there. I should point out that TB's contribution to the conversation was the dresses were cheaply made and "is so damn shiny" and, for the record, OB is not thin but not overweight.

So another bridesmaid, who is extremely close with TB, jumped in to defend OB, going on and on about how much she "hates" TB for complaining when "everything" looks good on her. TB looked like she was going to burst into tears but stayed silent. It morphed into four grown-ass women bullying TB, so I stepped in and told them all to shut the fuck up. Minutes later, TB left the room, and I found her in the bathroom in tears, saying she wanted to go home and skip the rest of the events - up to and including the wedding.

I went back to the room where the 4 were still mocking TB, and I told them I was appalled by their behavior and they could shut the fuck up and apologize, or they could leave my house. I was told I should understand because I'm a "big girl," too, and therefore should be on "their" side.

Are we fucking kidding me here?

I should point out that 3 of the 4 asshole bridesmaids are well aware that TB has dealt with a serious eating disorder that stems from being body shamed by grown-ass men in her family when she was a mere child. She's dealt with outright abuse and trauma, and they know how bad it's been. She doesn't walk around mocking other's bodies or bragging about how "good" she looks; in fact, she struggles to feel positive about her looks at all.

Body positivity should be about everyone loving their body, no matter its shape and size, and never subjecting ANYONE else to shame because of theirs. When the fuck did it became "fat chicks have to stick together and fuck them skinny bitches."

I'm so on fire I had to step away before I ended up on the evening news. On a micro-level, I'm disgusted with these people, and this has put a total damper on the wedding events this week.

But on a macro level, I have seen this time and time again. Yeah, our society is fucking horrible when it comes to how it treats fat people, especially fat women, and that should change. But it's as fucking wrong to be skinnyphobic as it is to be fatphobic. Perhaps, ESPECIALLY AS FUCKING WOMEN, we should be uplifting and supportive of one another. PERIOD. Don't we see that the obsession to be thin and eating disorders stem from the same fucking toxic place that shames fat people? That's where it is BORN.

I'm so sick of seeing this trend in everything. Every movement I'm involved with is dealing with this... YES, be proud of YOU, ESPECIALLY if you're in a marginalized or maligned group. YES! DO IT! I've got your back in every way! But don't fucking turn it into an us vs. them... even with people you supposedly love! Don't become the fucking monster you profess to hate.

Is asking for human decency really too much? I'm literally shaking.

We really, really have to do better than this.

#elsa rants #body positivity #fat shaming #skinny shaming #STOP THE FUCKING BULLSHIT #tw: eating disorders #tw: fatphobia #tw: skinnyphobia #delete later

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mobiblackout · 5 months

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Body shaming in wrestling and IWC is unfortunately way too normalized, it's absolutely repulsing

#people are way to comfortable coming at riho and adam for their smaller figures #also i dont support MJF fat shaming casually on tv #now Logan Paul with KO #like stfu hes very sexy and appealing like he was one of my first wrestling crushes #and Otis on nxt with whatever that segment was #just STOP #wwe #aew

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batwynn · 5 months

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Why are 90% of the horoscopes that I see (against my will) formulated like this???

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mikereads · 13 days

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Okay so I wasn’t looking for spoilers but the fact that none of you warned be about that certain scene with Eddie and Marisol shame on you. Like yes I was aware of the bts pic of her in a robe and the doubling down on him being straight was a high possibility but none of you mentioned it actually happened

#eddie diaz #buddie #911 abc #anti Eddie/Marisol #like it’s so awkward #and it’s funny in a way cause Buck and Tommy are so amazing #and the chemistry feels so right and perfect along with the writing and than we have whatever the fuck this is anyway #EW!!!!!!! 🤮#can Eddie just be single forever pls like at this point I don’t care as long as I never have to see that again #anyway yeah #shame on you buddie fandom a jump scare warning would have been nice #we are doing that before I moved it 🤮🤮🤮🤮 like I get you have straight sex #literally stop enough enough enough- fat Amy vibes literally like shut the fuck il #up and Eddie oh Eddie the nester you are why babe #I know this was going to happen double down and stuff but really guys you are in your 30s calm tf down or something like do that shit off #screen so I don’t have to see it and can pretend it doesn’t happen thank you

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melodiousmyra · 2 months

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My opinions on why I stop watching and reading rent a girlfriend and talking about self and body image

As you can observe on what I encircle, not only Kazuya only likes cute girls but also boys in the background in both anime and manga are always in every episode commented on the four main girls on having cute appearances, sexy body, etc.

This really pissed me off cause men prefer this kind of girls because of the outside and doesn't care about the inside of them. In reality, however, lots of men keep cheating on women who are not that attractive at all and fat shaming them as evidence in this one fanfic I found in wattpad (side note: this is not about rent a girlfriend):

And honestly, it really makes me rage because of this kind of behavior and look at these pictures I screenshot on why this series is excruciating:

1. Those boys in the background are refering to Chizuru

2. They comment on Sumi

3. These boys are eyeing on both Chizuru and Ruka ( and I am the girl in the background)

4. This manga panel makes me barf (plus they look on her boobs and legs and an older man too?! EWWWWWWW!)

5. You get my point 😑😑😑

And goes on and on and on. I can't like list them all cause this is going to be sooooo long.

The pictures I put is the reason why I don't like this anime anymore. The boys conpletely just care about the appearances and it is unfair and to make it worst, they just call Kazuya an unfitted boyfriend because of his appearance?!, HUH?!

I have never been this dissapointed in my life and I think I can wish that this anime is done.

The girls watching this anime are going to experience self image and body image issues which is I am going to talk about next

Self image is an “internal dictionary” that describes the characteristics of the self, including such things as intelligent, beautiful, ugly, talented, selfish, and kind while body image is a combination of the thoughts and feelings that you have about your body.

Btw this is the diagram before girls witnessed the boys crushing on cute and sexy girls in public:

And this is the diagram on girls after they witness the boys crushing on cute and sexy girls in public:

Studies show that negative thinking and feelings is that once people start to focus on shortcomings or problems in one area or one situation, it becomes very easy to only see problems in many other areas or situations. Negative thinking has a way of leading to more negative thinking.

When I saw the boys in the series focus on the four main girls, specifically Chizuru, I can't help but think on how girls watching this would be jealous cause she attracts lots and lots of men and going to think about their own appearances on how they look. Plus, the biggest is their characteristic. While boys care about their appearance on the outside and don't care about the inside

This series isn't the only one that has kinds of boys in the background crushing on cute girls. I did saw some reaction posts from that one episode of Yugioh Gx that the male students of duel academy (also Syrus) cheering on DMG cause she's cute and criticizing Jaden for letting her lose and the reaction of it is fantastic. I really like how he criticize the fans of their obssesion with her and also telling to shut up about it. But DMG told the boys that she IS having fun, even when she is about to lose. This undestand the boys and I'm glad at that.

Also, there is one horrible thing that girls have to do to get attention from the boys, Photoshop. Because of their insecurities, girls decided to picture themselves and photoshop into cute and sexy girls

One example is that one episode of south park in season 17 entitled " The Hobbit". The plot goes around Wendy Testaburger photoshopping Lisa Burger to spread the word about self and body image but unfortunately, it did not go well. Lisa is widely popular with the boys thanks to the photshopped photo and really angers Wendy cause she just did that for a good cause and many classmates and her friends called her a "jelly" (short term of jealous). Soon, the cheerleaders began photoshopping also and this angers Wendy more cause she wants them to accept their true self and I can't blame her. She did try to go to the news to explain on banning photoshop but the news anchors keeps saying that she is quote "Jelly". Kanye West tells her a story about the magic of photoshop and Wendy apologizes for her actions. In the end, Wendy photoshop herself while she's crying and I am shocked and saddened. Look at that tear she shred:

Honestly, the ending is awful. They literally make poor Wendy stop spreading the awareness of self and body image. She is just doing that for the good of the society and it really pissed me. I really wish Wendy could someday spread the word of self and body image in the future

Rent a girlfriend has really gotten disgusting and despicable over the chapters. We have Kazuya's pervertness, the girls fighting for Kazuya and mostly, the boys in the background crushing on Chizuru, Mami, Ruka and Sumi and calling Kazuya an ugly boyfriend

In conclusion, I can say that this shoujo anime is the worst. I stopped watching this anime in season 2 and decided to sell the only manga I have in the future for my college fees. If you are going to watch a shoujo anime, you can either watch this or not, its your opinion. When I saw videos on why this series is so bad, I can't blame them. So I hope I don't get hate and if you are a fan of this anime, I won't budge or judge you.

#hikari talks serious issues #kanojo okarishimasu #self image #body image #women's rights #girls are cute and beautiful the way they look #stop commenting on cute girls and fat shaming unattracting girl #south park #mental health #essay post #yugioh gx #gx

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undead-potatoes · 4 months

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If I have to see one more post with 5000 comments going "aaah I LOVE chubby/fat [character name] 😍😍😍" and it's just another picture of a skinny man w/o visible abs or a woman with giant tits I'm gonna become the fucking Joker

#Sunny Life #hey hello this is especially about Ga/le #fandom loves to draw him skinnier than the average irl man and then go on and on and on about how hot fat men are like????#my guy if you saw an actually fat man you'd fucking hurl #like there's nothing wrong with liking bodies like that but we have to stop calling anyone w/o rock hard abs ''chubby''#ESPECIALLY when people who are actually fat or chubby are constantly getting shamed for their bodies

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nikitaxlee · 9 months

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People need to stop fat-shaming idols.

TW: MENTIONS OF SU!CID@, ED'S. AND SH

I was recently on Twitter going through some articles and I found a comment talking about Changbin from Stray Kids weight. It immediately made my heart drop because these idols have gone through vigorous training and constantly sacrifice so much for their fans. I noticed Changbin constantly gets these comments from people calling him a pig and misunderstanding his Skzoo. He's human along with other idols and can see what you post. Other people can see and it can affect others seeing that even someone with muscles is being fat shamed because he doesn't have the ideal body type for netizens. It can affect others by showing even people with nice bodies are being put to shame and that they have to do more to make themselves more attractive. Idols have commited suicide, had eating disorders, and Self-Harmed. This is not the kind of community we should be exposing to younger kpop fans and those who want to be a kpop trainee. We should be showing all the hard work, time, effort, and discipline that goes into being a idol. We need to normalize sticking up to fat-shamers in a mature way instead of cussing them out and insults. Report accounts who openly say off-putting things about idols. It's completely fine to not like kpop or be vocal about why you don't like it but please make sure you keep it respectful. Most Kpop idols are in their 20's and the trainees are even younger. It is still such a vulnerable time for their self esteem and confidence. I know this message may not reach far and it may spark controversy but I am so sick of people saying these kinds of comments to idols as well as everyday people. You are not special, You are not superior, you are just showing your emotional immaturity and your inability to be on the internet and have a digital footprint. To those who read this message fully and support it, I want thank you.

-Nikita☮

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#stray kids #stop fat shaming in kpop #kpop #nct dream #nct 127 #nct #bang chan #changbin #seungmin #lee felix #lee minho #han jisung #jeongin #hyunjin

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news4dzhozhar · 1 month

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