#stop shaming people

[liesandnights]

Stop shaming people for being passionate about the things that they love. Stop mocking people for having unusual interests. Like, honestly, I’m so tired of feeling embarrassed for being "too much". If being too much means having deep interests that fill my life with romanticism and excitement, then let me be!! I’d much rather listen to anyone ranting about their latest obsession with 16th century swords than have a boring ordinary conversation with those who shame passionate people.

#passion and purpose #stop shaming people #interests #romanticism #excitement #little joy of life #passionate #literature #art #love #poetsandwriters #poetry #rant post #dark academia #music #romanticising life #be your true self #be kind #vintage aesthetic #writers on tumblr #life quotes #txt post #chaotic academism #explore page

[art-ro-vert]

Legally Jason and Dick are related. They were both adopted by Bruce Wayne. Under laws concerning incest any romantic or sexual relationship between them is considered incest. This applies to anyone who is legally a child of Bruce Wayne. How are you 23 years old and you don't know how adoption works? You don't get to completely disrespect the concept just because you wanna fantasize about two brothers fucking. Dying doesn't erase someone's adoption. Just because you wanna ship it doesn't mean you can just erase the moral implications of enjoying incest to make yourself feel better. Jaydick deserves the hatred it gets. All incestuous ships do.

Well, the main problem with incest is that if close family members have a child, it will inherit not variable pack of genes. Which limits the child’s chance of survival and might be a cause of genetic dysfunctions.

But that does not apply to Jaydick really, even if legally they are related. So what is the real harm in shipping it?

Why would you shame people for shipping fictional characters anyways? How does it hurt anyone? Or do you think we go around and encourage incest? Most people don’t even mention that they ship anything away of Tumblr.

There are so many ships that are worse that Jaydick in many ways. Will you just shame everyone for their weird choice of ships?

Why hate? You can just block Jaydick tag on Tumlr and you won’t see it… As I am saying, people who ship Jaydick do not go around and support incest, nor do they ship Jaydick for the incest factor… they majority just head cannon them as the people with the same mentor, not brothers.

#jaydick #let people like what they like #stop shaming people #believe me they are already ashamed enough

[soulinkpoetry]

Some people choose to understand a situation and not rush to assumptions, shaming and judgement. It’s a choice and that’s where people differ.

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#understanding #stop shaming people #constantly judging #soulinkpoetry #poetry #thoughts #feelings #she writes #poets on tumblr

[diaryofawalkingzombie]

#stop shaming people #kink positive #bdsmmemes #babygirl kink #discipline

[lemonpixycat]

Me: OH A good post I agree with, I'll rebl- Somewhere In the post or in a reblog: shames and guilt trips people for not reblogging the post/ ME: Okay I'm not going to reblog it after all, actually!

#stop trying to guilt trip people #stop shaming people

[livin-life675]

Heaven is not a punch card.

I’m not really religious, but I recently had an interaction with the church due to a family event. And it made me think.

It feels like we are told by the church and those who believe in heaven that if we want to get in, if we don’t want to suffer for the rest of eternity, we have to preform good deeds, be good people by our actions, and those “good actions” are defined by the church. There is a set checklist, or punch card you have to fill out in order to go to heaven. And that’s just stupid to me.

I agree you should be a good person, but no one beach of church, organization, congregation, or social group should dictate what that is and what it means to you.

A church might ask me to shun my neighbor because they live a life of “sin”, (such as being LGBTQIA+), but that isn’t right. While they might agree that shunning someone is a “good action” I and a lot of people may not. The belief that there is a certain set of actions that you must take in order to be a good person deserving of heaven is ridiculous.

You should always strive to be the the best person you can, to put out and receive positive actions, to strive to better the lives of people, genuinely, and what is best for them, by their decisions.

That should be the “requirement” to go to heaven, to not be tortured for the rest of time. Not some set of checklist or card punch.

Just be a good human being, that is all the world asks of you.

#religion #discussion #needs to be said #stop shaming people #heaven #talk of death

[bowtiecrusinggg]

How sorry is one persons life that they need to belittle a women on line! If you don’t like what your seeing why do you need to let it be known? Move the fuck on, women on here are trying to express them selves and a lot are gaining back their self-consciousness. It’s sad to see that some one needs to demoralize any female for expressing there sexual side, have you stopped to think that maybe past partners belittled them or shammed them and have some sort of trauma? And by you talking shit about the body they were blessed with is trigging ? Oh that’s right now you fucking didn’t! Why because your a piece of shit who needs to hide behind a screen and key board! If your a man say it with out hiding mc coward ass fucks!!

#body positive #stop shaming people #growing up #thicc girls #move on

[libra-stellium]

It’s so weird the things you can grow up being scolded for and being shamed about and they literally don’t make any sense!

I have so much shame around cleaning bc my fam had so many rules for cleaning that I swear they were making up new ones every time so I had just stopped trying and my bedroom got really messy naturally and I always got yelled at for dishes.

For my fam you have to clean some things every day and everything on the weekends like wake up early and get started kinda thing and that is not me bruh if I’m doing chores that I don’t like doing during the day it feels like my free time is being stolen from me!!

Then I get stuck and I don’t end up cleaning anything bc I couldn’t bring myself to do it during the day and I wouldn’t do it at night either bc that was another rule like it’s too late to clean past a certain time! Again makes no sense if you think about it lol

I moved to my solo apt in 2019 and you would think they’d be congratulating me when I moved in but nope!! They were like “I hope you don’t ruin it by not cleaning like you’re supposed to!” And “hope you can keep it clean!” And “just bc you have more space doesn’t mean you need to be more dirty!” Like ??? Insane behavior Fr

Is my apt messy? Absolutely lol I’m a messy person I like mess bc I do multiple projects at the same time!

Is it clean?? Absolutely! And I’ve been trying to unlearn cleaning shame 🤣 you see the bathroom sink is dirty? Just grab a wipe and that’s it! It doesn’t have to be a whole bathroom clean!

Tonight at 9pm I felt like opening my freezer and taking everything out to throw out old forgotten things and wipe the shelves and that’s exactly what I did and now it’s done! I don’t feel like my daylight hours were stolen and I can just shower and go to sleep. 😌

#stop shaming people

[agentkikirogers]

I'm really sensitive but I'm very easily irritatible and defensive too.

Hemologist: Living the American dream?

Me: I guess.

H: It can either be a dream or a nightmare.

Me: mine leans more towards nightmare

H: do you have water, food and a house

M: yeah..

H: then you--

M: I get it but I have been through hell. More so my body has been though too much. Diseases. Not being able to walk. Chemo twice.

H:Yeah you're too young to have gone through that.

THEN WHY SAY THIS AND MAKE ME FEEL LIKE SHIT?

I'll never thank the doctor (she's dead now) who said multiple times I didn't need a meningitis shot then did damage control getting a therapist to tell me that the shot was 50/50.

I will never thank the teachers and classmates (including so called friends) and family members who treated me awful and gaslighted me.

Ill never thank the virus that caused my legs to be amputated. Nor will i think the countless other health issues ive had seen then. The chemo treatments... The pills and steroids that made me gain over 200lbs. Etcetera

Gratitude isn't a horrible thing. It can be a great thing but saying it to someone who clearly isn't ok? Do you say it to happy people or healthy folks? We need medicine to live, therapy for our mental health. We don't need gratitude shaming.

Personally speaking it doesn't make me feel better. It makes me feel worse. Guilty. I feel like people are telling me that I have no right to be upset, devastated, mad, constantly depressed. Comparing me to others makes me feel worthless and stupid. I feel bummed out that there are people out there who have no basic items or worse conditions/health.

Think before you speak.

#graditute shaming #stop shaming people #shaming #disabled #disability problems #mental heath issues #mental health #mine #toxic positivity

[gay-otlc]

Actually I think we should talk about how incredibly fucked up it is for sapphic women to say shit like "I'm no better than a straight man 😔" when attracted to a woman in a way that isn't 100% pure and wholesome, or act like men's attraction to women is inherently dirty, predatory, or objectifying.

#like i mostly get impacted from this as a straight trans man #and the way people- even my friends- have acted like my attraction to women is now morally worse since i came out as trans #but this also affects like. bi/mspec men? it's shitty to shame them for their attraction to women! #and even cishet men. acting like objectification or predatory behavior is just inherent to male attraction to women #let's shitty men off the hook because 'they can't help it' or whatever #or victim blames anyone abused by a cishet man because 'what did you expect from being in a relationship with him' #yeah so like. sapphics stop saying this challenge #transhet #anti-transmasculinity #again i'm tagging because that's my personal experience with that sentiment but it has a ton of other issues too #antimasculism

[ruporas]

invisible scars (referenced previous talk here)

[ID: A colourless, digital Trigun comic of Vash and Wolfwood talking about Wolfwood's scars. They're both laying in bed and topless. Vash lays on top of Wolfwood, playing with the rosary around his neck. Then, Vash kisses a spot on Wolfwood's chest. Wolfwood asks, "What are you doing?" Vash smiles sadly, "You got shot here. In the last town we visited. You didn't even bother moving."

Vash props himself up over Wolfwood, who frowns slightly. Wolfwood is quiet for a moment before he says, "You remember that, huh?" Vash grabs Wolfwood's left wrist and brings it to his face. "And here." He kisses another spot there. "When you helped free the hostages from that robber..." Wolfwood dismissively says, looking away, "Was a lucky shot." Vash huffs, “Don’t brag. Jeez.”

Half of Wolfwood's expression is shown, eyes returning to Vash who is now sitting up, continuing to say, "And..." Vash goes on and kiss Wolfwood's right palm. "You got cut here, even though that girl was aiming at me." A moment from the past flashes, of Wolfwood grabbing a knife aimed at Vash, his hand bleeding.

At present, Vash moves down and puts another kiss on Wolfwood's right shoulder. "And here, from watching my back." Another memory flashes of Wolfwood and Vash back to back. Vash looks back as Wolfwood grins while holding Punisher, bleeding from multiple gunshots in his shoulder.

"And," Vash combs up Wolfwood's hair to reveal his forehead, "Here." A final memory shows Wolfwood with a regeneration vial in his mouth while getting shot on his temple. The next panel is framed in blood with Vash at the center, eyes wide and stunned in horror. The next panel is a closed up shot of Wolfwood's eye, locked on Vash's face.

Back to present, Vash’s head is bowed down as Wolfwood raises a hand to his nape and says, “Spikey.”

Wolfwood looks serious and frowns as he says, "We talked about this. Those were my decisions. They're not there anymore. Forget about them." Vash looks very sad before he smiles ruefully and says, "I still see them. All the time." He leans down so they touch foreheads. Wolfwood’s sorrowful expression can be seen as Vash says, "You protect so much. I could never forget what you've done to me. And many others..."

In the last image, they're drawn more cartoonishly. Wolfwood sweats and asks, "You don't actually remember every wound, right?" Vash points at a spot on his chest. "Kuroneko left a scratch here 7 times." Wolfwood, startled, says, "Why the hell are you keeping count—" End ID]

Credits for ID here and here

#vashwood #vash the stampede #nicholas d wolfwood #trigun #trigun maximum #another scars comic for one of the vw week days!!!! frankly i think about their scars WAY too often . most notably wolfwood's because #it really symbolizes a lot for him imo bc for vash it's a history of all the people that's ever harmed him betrayed him and the trust he has #given to humanity despite it all. its a beautiful reflection of his character and then u look at ww and presumably #since we dont really see him half naked Ever (shame) and i mean. i guess technically its a hc -- i assume he wouldn't have any scars bc #of the regen potions (which is why he doesnt have his t scars btw the regen pot took them away :pensive:) #in a way its like washing his hands of blood. giving him the body of someone who might never been involved in a fight never held a gun #but he knows thats not true yet he cant really do anything about it anyway bc he's still just human. if he stops taking the regen pots #he can't press forward. so its just a rinse and repeat and growing accustomed to whats inflicted on him because he knows it'll go away at #the end of the day. he's human but he's also not he's far beyond what could be considered a normal human but he still just is. #mortal but also not immortal. idk. i overthink about it a lot GMSKGMDK frankly i dont think it matters THAT much in the context of trimax #but it means a lot to me somehow. also thinking about how no matter how many times ww kills he's never numb to the sensation of it. maybe #the adrenaline gets to him for the beginning half but ive been rereading like.. vol 3? and that entire fight for ww #u can slowly see him spiral as he keeps on going on. anyway anyway. i love ww #ruporas art

[diurnalvl]

seven years ago, they used to be friends. almost.

1 / 2 / ?

#diurna draws #vox #alastor #staticradio #radiostatic #radiosilence #onewaybroadcast #hazbin hotel vox #hazbin hotel alastor #hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel fanart #gosh i love doing more complex shading to make fake screencaps it's so satisfying. #sorry for using my personal vox design this is purely self indulgent. hey maybe vox only starts wearing bowties after this #anyways part two is going to be uploaded in a bit my doves <3 #vox made his way through the trapdoor that's why he's initially on his knees #...not any other reason... #he's so danger unaware to alastor going haywire #thing is i feel that during their friendship vox was long used to alastor hurting other people in front of him that it just... #doesn't occur to him that alastor would've ever hurt him in that way. #shame #because it never occured to alastor that vox would cross that line and ruin their friendship. #alastor is somehow desperately angry and desperately sad #and angrier still that vox gets to make him feel that way. #suddenly #alastor feels a pearl of absolute hatred form inside of him #he's never felt so strongly about something in his entire afterlife #if only my shitty little aces could communicate and stop being insane for one second. sigh.

[soulinkpoetry]

Some people make you regret ever confiding in them. A “ Friend” never shames you about past mistakes you confided in them. Period.

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#things you’ll regret #confiding #stop shaming people #soulinkpoetry #poetry #she writes #thoughts #feelings #words I can’t forget #poets on tumblr

[katabay]

original thief series basso & garrett :)

ngl, it's about quality over quantity for me. an npc can have a total of three minutes of screen time, but if they have a cool name, they can live rent free in my head and I'll spend several hours trying to decipher drawable features from a blurry screenshot of pixels

there is a vague hint of a story here, and that's because every time I try to play thi4f, I get incredibly frustrated with how Not Fun the game play is. like, is the story good? well. but it has a PLAGUE. that should've given it instant 'I'll replay this once a year' status in my heart, but the game play sucks so bad that I've never finished it. I can't believe Not Fun gameplay beat out my obsession with narrative plagues.

anyway, the idea is basically if the original era had a game with a plague centric narrative and some other stuff I liked out of thi4f thrown into a narrative blender, with a heavy dash of horror thrown in because some parts of the thief games were scarier to me than entire dedicated horror genre games.

⭐ places I’m at! bsky / pixiv / pillowfort /cohost / cara.app

#if i had a laptop and the skillset i would attempt a story mod because the thief modders who create whole mission stories #are GENIUS and also somewhat terrifying. love them! xoxox #anyway im actually kind of obsessed with parts of thi4f but its also like. not at that sweet spot of almost good enough to be fun #to talk about. which. for the record. has not stopped me from talking about it at length to people #the city itself actually fucking fascinates me. its almost alive and im SO mad that not a single part of that game is actually terrifying #it should be gnarlier and instead it feels a bit like it doesn't quite want to be trapped in the story it has to tell? #but between the level that has the bodies on the meathooks #and the scene with the bodies hanging from the rafters or whatever that was and garrett living in a clock tower #because the game is very much ALMOST about changing times and authoritarian violence and capitalism #(like. by virtue of how the story sort of spins out i think it misses it's mark on a lot of stuff here #in the sense that i dont feel like it actually wants to tell that story. it wants to. go in a different direction. or at least walk on top #of those themes instead of through it) #ANYWAY between all of those things. it does kind of live in my head rent free. they did create a compelling setting #SHAME THEY DIDNT WANT TO ACTUALLY EAT ANY OF IT #unrelated but i would've given thi4f a 10/10 if they kept garrett's fucking nail polish from the concept art. cowards. unforgivable #thief the dark project #i still have no idea how to tag the game series as a whole RIP #sorry for the dedicated dark project fans. if you know what the general series tag is. please let me know #garrett thief #basso thief

[pageofheartdj]

As an autistic sex repulsed romance aversed aroace person I have something to say

I LOVE ROMANCE AND SMUT

NOTHING IS BETTER THAN FICTIONAL KISSING OF MY BLORBOS

HAIL HIGH RATING WORKS CREATED BY ASEXUALS

#'poor ace people need to be protected from all the nasty shippers' #GET OUT OF HERE #BEING ASEXUAL HAS *NOTHING* TO DO WITH WHAT FICTION YOU LOVE #STOP USING AROACE FOLK IN ORDER TO SHAME SHIPPERS #WE AREN'T YOUR TOOL #WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT AND WE LOVE DIFFERENT THINGS WE ARE NOT FUCKING MONOLITH #VENT #aroace #asexual #aromantic #aegosexual #aegoromantic

[six-of-cringe]

Something that is sad but also that I hugely appreciate about CK is that by the end, most of the systems that harmed the crows are still in place, but their relationships with themselves have grown and changed. I find this particularly interesting in the cases of Jesper and Wylan (shocking I know). Their identities still put them in danger of being exploited or harmed - Grisha indentures are still the norm in Kerch, and the auction scene made it very clear that if the Council knew Wylan's illiteracy was true, they would treat him much the same as his father did due to the culture surrounding productivity and ability. This might seem disheartening, but the hope lies in the shift in how these characters see themselves and their role in the world. By the end of the book, Jesper and Wylan are beginning to put away their internalized shame surrounding their identities. They may still have to hide who they are from the world to survive, but they're no longer hiding it from themselves - their true selves are no longer this crushing burden they have to turn away from to function. A general theme of the series is how, in accepting who they are and what has happened to them on a personal level, the crows place themselves in positions to make change on a systemic level - Inej and her ship, Nina and her mission, Kaz and his Barrel empire, Wylan and Jesper with their political, high-society empire. None of them are all the way there yet by the end - they're still healing, and both the loss of Matthias and the weight of those oppressive systems are going to weigh on them for a long time - but we get to see the very beginnings of that process. I'm going to bite someone.

#that being said. they need so much therapy. that sort of deeply internalized shame doesn't go away after a heist or two #it is kinda heartening u know bc i get real down about how immovable systems seem #and even after something good happens in that regard on an individual level it doesn't seem to get any better #it's ok. what is change but a bunch of people doing better together #this is why i dont want soc3. this is a great stopping point thematically and in that respect i dont need or want to see more #let them exist in this place in my mind. on the brink of things getting better #anyway jan van eck die one million billion times #jesper fahey #wylan van eck #inej ghafa #nina zenik #kaz brekker #matthias helvar #six of crows #soc #tgt #soc meta #OUGHAHGAHGOUAGH