#thats not okay

[rohirric-hunter]

Okay google, how to tell your coworkers who are talking about alzheimer's and dementia patients in an extremely disrespectful way that they need to shut the fuck up

#they dont THINK theyre being disrespectful #but they are #and ugh #i might go to my supervisor about it #describing their behavior as 'childish' is just awful #and while its fine to be scared of it. putting peoples struggles on blast to strangers they dont know #as examples of what you dont want to become #thats not okay #what is wrong with these people #theyre all just. so much more focused on how this effects them than anything else #obviously YOU are the person most negatively affected by your friend losing her memory #because youre the main character #shut the fuck up

[pixelchills]

How do you prevent people from creating 18+doll drops?

I can't. Other than just stating I do not understand why would you need to make p&rn with them.

Personally I find it disrespectful and disgusting. They're my personal comfort buddies in small doll bodies, I do not wish to see any sort of nsfw material of them. They're not sexual beings. They do not have sexual needs.

If you do 18+ art or posts about them, prepare to get blocked with all of my accs, you've lost the priviledge to see any of my art after crossing such a big boundary. Why would anyone wanna make p&rn of them?

Genyinely makes me upset.

But as I said I can't "prevent" that. I'm completely fine with using the OG Sun and Moon or my Animutant boys in that sort of art. But why would anyone wanna see babydoll shaped comforting little sweethearts doing sexual activities. Just. No.

Yes, they are adults, but their relationships will end with platonic or romantic love. They're sex-repulsed asexuals if I really need to label them. They only desire romantic and/or platonic love, not sexual at all.

Just begging people to understand and respect that :(

#asks #dolldrops #i've literally cried myself to sleep after people have asked me when will i draw the dolldrops doing the dirty #stop it #thats not okay

[neurodivergentmrchubs]

I have a question for everyone with disabilities (I am not sure how that comes across, but I just have a question), okay so, I am thinking about making a comic and/or mini cartoon show.

One of the main characters has a locomotor disability (I am fairly sure that is what it is called, but please correct me if I'm wrong, about anything), I'm not quite sure from what exactly yet, but I wanted to make sure to have everything planned out for this.

I have autism and ADHD, and I want this cartoon to represent not just my struggles, but others too. Unfortunately, I am unable to share someone else's experience, as I only know my own.

I don't want to represent any community incorrectly, or offensively. I can't do this without help from others. I don't want to look it up and get information from 'people with a loved one who has a disability.' They don't understand, and while it's not always their fault, I still want an accurate point of view.

I hope that those who find this will contact me with their experiences, good and bad. But, I do understand that not everyone feels comfortable sharing their experience, and I respect that.

I don't want specific people with specific disabilities and/or disorders. I would like everyone's. Whether you have a visible or invisible disability. Whether you need extra help in your day-to-day life or not.

I am aware that my fellow neurodivergent folks are often overshadowed by those with ADHD and autism, I don't want that to happen in my cartoon. It shouldn't have to happen at all, actually. I would like all of your experiences, if you would like to share them, as well.

I would also like your experiences with ableism, if you are comfortable with that. It's fine if you aren't though. I have my experiences, but mine are different from yours and I would like to know yours if you are okay with that.

I get that not many people will see this. And if they do, an even smaller number will actually do this. But I thought it was worth a try, and I apologize if this is too long.

Summary: I would like those with all kinds disabilities and disorders, if they are okay with it, to share their experiences with said disability or disorder, both good and bad. I would like to learn about them, and hopefully help teach others about them as well.

I thank you for your time

#disabilties #disorders #i would like help #i don't want to do it incorrectly or offensively #actually neurodiverse #autistic culture #trying to make a cartoon/comic #actuallyadhd #adhd #please help #physical disability #invisible disability #sensory processing disorder #tell me about anything and everything you would be comfortable in sharing with me #thank you for your time #i hope you all have a lovely day #differently abled #ableism happens more than it should #thats not okay #but people need to know about it #thank you people #sorry if this is weird #sorry if I'm being rude #its not my intention

[inkskinned]

what is with men being mad any time a woman raises her voice where did that even come from. someone posted a video of a small electrical explosion, and the top comment was of course the woman screams. the second comment is women try not to scream challenge, level impossible. i had to go back and watch the video again. there is, somewhat fainty, a little gasp emitted off-camera, more of a yelp than a scream. it is mostly lost in the crack of the explosion. afterwards, you hear her voice, shaken, say, are you okay?

i am helping one of my friends train her voice pitch lower, because she wants to be taken seriously at work. she and i do each other's nails and talk about gender roles; and how - due to our appearance - neither of us have ever been able to be "hysterical" in public. we both appear young and sweet and feminine. she is cisgender, and cannot use her natural voice in her profession because people keep saying she appears to be "vapid". we both try to figure out if our purposeful voice lowering is technically sexist. is it promoting something when you are a victim to it?

a storm almost sends a pole through a car window. in the dashcam, you can hear the woman passenger say her partner's name twice, crying out in alarm. she sounds terrified. in the comments, she is lambasted for her lack of calm. how is that even fucking helping?

in high school, i taught myself to have a lower voice. i had been recorded when i was genuinely (and righteously) upset; and i hated how my voice sounded on the phone speakers when it was played back. i was defending my mom, and my voice cracked with emotion. it meant i was no longer winning the argument: i was just shrieking about it.

girls meet each other after a long summer and let out a little joyful scream. this usually stops around 12-14, because people will not tolerate this display of affection (as it has the effect of being passingly annoying). something about the fact that little girls can't ever even be annoying. we are trained to examine each part of our lives (even joy) for anything that could make us upsetting and disgusting. they act like teenage girls are breaking into houses and shrieking you awake at 3 in the morning. speaking as a public school educator: trust me, it's not that bad, you can just roll your eyes and move on. it does not compare to the ways boys end up being annoying: slurs in graffiti, purposefully mocking your body, following you after you said no. you know, just boy things.

there's another video of a man who is not allowed to yell in the house, so he snaps his fingers when he's excited about soccer. the comments are full of angry men, talking about how their brother is unfairly caged. let him express himself and this is terrible to do to someone. eventually the couple has to address it in a second video: they are married with a newborn baby. he was trying not to wake the infant up. there is no comment on the fact women are not allowed to yell indoors. or the fact that it could have been really alarming or triggering for his wife. sometimes i wonder if straight men even like women, if they even enjoy being in relationships with them.

for the longest time, i hated roller coasters because it always felt inappropriate and uncomfortable for me to scream. one of my friends called me on it, said it was unusual i'm so unwilling. i had to go to my therapist about it. i don't like to scream because i was not raised in a safe situation, and raising my voice would have brought unsafe attention towards me. even when i am supposed to scream, it feels shameful, guilty. i was not treated kindly, so i lack a basic form of self-protection. this is not a natural response. it is not good that in a situation of high adrenaline - i shut up about it.

something very bad is happening, i think. in between all the beauty standards and the stuff i've already discussed - this one feels new and cruel in a way i can't quite express. yes, it's scary and silencing. but there's something about how direct it is - that so many men agree with the sentiment that women should never yell, even in an emergency - it feels different.

is the word shriek gendered automatically? how about shrill or screech? in self defense class, one of the first things they tell you is to yell, as loud and as shrilly as you can. they say it will feel rude. most women will not do this. you need to practice overcoming the social pressure and just scream.

most women do not cry out, even when it's bad. we do not report it. we walk faster. we do not make a scene. what would be the point of doing anything else? no matter what we do, we don't get taken seriously. it is a joke to them. an instagram caption punchline. we have to present ourselves as silent, beautiful, captivating - "valuable."

a woman is outside watching her kids when someone throws a firecracker at them. she screams and runs towards her children. in the comments, grown men flock together in the thousands: god. women are so annoying.

#warm up #writeblr #this one has bothered me for a bit #any time a woman does something even passingly annoying we treat it like a fucking crime #hey man. women are allowed to be annoying. everyone forever is allowed to be passingly annoying #as long as they aren't hurting anyone/thing #like u wanna know something? i find it super annoying that men don't wear seatbelts #why arent there thousands of comments on driving videos thats just like : men try not to die in a car crash challenge #''this briefly annoyed me''. okay??????? AND????????????????? go get ur self a cookie and calm down about it #ur not entitled to control other ppl's experiences and emotions just so u can maintain ur own peace #if being briefly annoyed ruins ur whole day! you! need! therapy!!!! #men try not to become immediately angry about nothing challenge: level impossible #ps author is nonbinary. we didn't even get into the gender presentation thing #the fact men think it's SEXY that my voice is on the lower end....

[dillyt]

Great news for uninsured adults in the USA who want a COVID-19 booster! It now appears that ALL CVS locations are now active participants in the Bridge Access Program. The Bridge Access Program gives out free Covid-19 vaccinations to 18+ adults who otherwise can't afford one, so if you have a CVS near you, please go get one! For others who don't have a CVS near them, please go to vaccines.gov, click on "Find Covid-19 vaccines", fill out which vaccines you prefer (you can mix different vaccines if you have to so i reccomend just marking all of them for the age groups you need), and when the next page loads mark the "Bridge Access Program Participant" option to see only locations that are Bridge Access Program participants. Hopefully, other places that aren't CVS will start participating soon, so just check back every so often to see if there are any updates. The CDC Bridge Access Program website also has more details on what locations will be participating, but only CVS is appearing as an active participant on the vaccines.gov location finder at the moment.

#covid19 #covid #coronavirus #vaccines #covid vaccine #bridge access program #CDC #signal boost #please share #coronavirus vaccine #covid19 vaccine #covid 19 vaccine #novavax #moderna #pfizer #also interesting side note but i havent been able to find any vaccine other than novavax near me #perhaps this is just a regional thing or maybe novavax is cheaper to make so those are the most common? #anyway thats why i made sure to tell people its okay to mix up because im going to have to bc i got moderna every other time lol #mayyybe other vaccines will become available in the future??? but ive had close family catch covid left and right so im not waiting #also does anyone know why the bridge program only bridges access to 18 or older individuals? #like i knew the gov didnt care about children but god damn lmao

[jewishwizard]

Hey uhh @/nativenews has been posting antisemitic shit and platforming sketchy tweeters can we maybe stop rbing from them

#they post shit like antisemitic conspiracies and #shit that basically boils down to 'its okay to hatecrime jews on hanukkah cuz thats what they get for a state using jewish imagery to kill' #and then afterwards post a bunch of randomized 'good jews' content to cover for it #like no guys i didnt post antisemitic shit haha look i like THESE jews #yeah thats antisemitic bro

[golden-bubblebee]

Isn't it insane that I have been awake for a whole 30 minutes and somehow I have already seen 5-6ads

#ads #advertisment #why so many #thats not okay

[tortoisesforhire]

I need to ramble and just...put some thoughts down.

I think I finally understand all the ways he disappointed me. I know he would say that I'm a liar because I am a lesbian and I didn't figure that out until five years in so that must mean I was lying about being attracted to him, as if it could ever be that simple. He would say I'm cruel cause I have hurt him and his pain is more important than mine. He would say how dare I take the cat without consulting him but he's my cat, we got him together but I paid for him, I took him to the vet and it is my name on the paperwork. Whatever. All of that, that's just details after the fact.

I could say he's repressed, which is true, but that's not it. I could say he was manipulative and borderline financially abusive, which is also true but I don't think a conscious choice on his part. At least I hope not. But what really hurt me what really bothered me and is the burning ember of my rage in retrospect..he never respected me. I am so tired of being disrespected.

I don't mean in the boomer way, I don't crave authority. He treated me like a child, he talked to me like I was a child. Every time I tried to connect, tried to resolve emotional issues or bring something up he would regard me with an air of indulgence, the true adult in the relationship pandering to my immaturity. Even after the break up "Im not going to take care of you anymore" as though I need a caregiver, instead of a partner.

It would hurt less if he were the only one. If it was just him, just his behavior, a one off that can be attributed to his own fucked up insecurity and repressed emotions. But it's not. He's not the only one. Every day I am professionally ignored, belittled and talked down to. Romantically over and over again my partners have treated me as though I am incapable, stupid, childish, silly and young. Not good enough. Do you know how infuriating it is to be treated like you're not good enough when you didn't even know you were supposed to be proving something?

I just don't understand why? What is it about me that reads as incompetent and in need of some kind of babysitter? I'm twenty eight years old, I have traveled to five different countries on my own. I have survived sexual assault, mental, emotional and physical abuse. I have been desperate and starving, I have rebuilt myself from the ground up and I did it, all of it, by myself. I am a professional, I have a career and I am damn fucking good at it.

So I don't understand where this impression comes from? Is it because I'm short? Because I look younger than I am? Because I am anxious or easy going by turns? Should I have firmer boundaries? Is it some kind of autistic vibe I put out that marks me as 'Other'?

Just because I am anxious doesn't mean I am incapable. Just because I am autistic doesn't mean I am stupid. Just because I have a ADHD doesn't mean I can't get shit done. Whatever the reason is I am done. It's bullshit and I'm done.

You want to know the truth? I am, mostly, a lesbian. I don't find men attractive generally speaking. But I was with him for five years, I loved him, I was attracted to him. He was my exception. But how can I find someone attractive when they do not respect me enough to treat me like an equal? Like a partner? Instead of a fucking dependent.

It's not worth it to say any of this to him because he wouldn't understand. I'm not kidding about the emotional repression, it's like trying to explain calculus to a toddler. Which reminds me, not that he'll ever read this but by the way; I am not a 'social worker' I'm a crisis mental health counselor, and that is not a lesser job just because it isn't physically demanding you puffed up self important misogynistic prick. Go to therapy. Get help, for the love of god. I really do hope you get better.

#and lars #i know you were spying on me #i know you have lurked on my blog before #i dont know what you did to my phone but I'm pretty fucking certain you hacked it somehow and were reading my shit #thats not normal #thats not okay #you need help

[starfleetsxvulcan]

What tragic death would you suffer?

--- 🖖

The Prophetic Hero:

...you die saving the world, as you were always supposed to. peace comes only with your blood. the world will remember you for centuries. they will write poems, create art, and film movies all about you. no one will remember what you were before your death. maybe you don't even know it either. you have spent so long saving the world time after time that there is nothing left of you except the heroism. you die never knowing love.

#since death seems to be a current subject here- #die never knowing love...OW #thats not OKAY #Keep The Transmissions Clear! (dash comm) #Vulcans Do Not Bluff (musings)

[saintforan]

Oh no, he's turning him into bread!

#art #artists on tumblr #digital art #digital illustration #poppy playtime #poppy playtime 3 #poppy playtime chapter 3 #catnap #dogday #smiling critters #i really need to know how animators do this #i nearly died on this like 2 second gif 😫 #but thats okay tho i learnt how to do something new

[justarandomart]

That's fair

a little comic based on this post by @existencebringsonlypain

#deltarune #dr #kris dreemurr #susie deltarune #kris deltarune #comic #deltarune comic #deltarune fanart #this post got stuck in my head so i had to draw something based on it i hope thats okay #NRart

[sleepis4theweak]

Apparently when my younger brother was just born my mom found him napping with his blanket fully covering him, and she pulled back the sheet (worried he couldn't breathe or something) to find him fully awake staring at her. It scared the shit out of her and she still talks about it to this day lmao

#also in case anyone was wondering about raph and leo having swapped blankets: #I imagine that Raph stole Leo's blanket before nap time so Leo just took Raphs #Then Raph stole Leo's blanket again lol #also Mikey's baby blanket is inspired by mine <3 #<3 <3 <3 #tmnt #tmnt mikey #tmnt raph #tmnt donnie #tmnt leo #tmnt 2012 #raph 2012 #leo 2012 #mikey 2012 #donnie 2012 #tmnt splinter #master splinter #I actually hate drawing splinter he was so hard to draw #this is not as funny as it was in my head but thats okay #sleepy art

[rusticfurnace]

biker ghost from my reckless chains au teehee

#cod mw2 #simon riley #simon ghost riley #call of duty mw2 #biker dudes from tiktok been giving me brainrots lately #also scheduled post cause i will be busy in a couple of days #okay thats it byeeeee

[thatscribblingrat]

dishes time is popworld time stay out of the fucking galley

#one piece #opla #op sanji #op zoro #roronoa zoro #blackleg sanji #dishes time is ho time okay thats just how it is #comics #zosan

[verflares]

(click for higher quality!) draconified link concept ive been chipping away at this past week ..... here's my funny little compendium concept for him:

"A heroic spirit has taken the form of this bestial dragon. Unlike it's kin, this creature exhibits an extremely aggressive disposition. It appears highly territorial, and will relentlessly chase down those who disturb its skywide patrols - of which it seems to be endlessly searching for either a long-time vassal or foe. Unfortunately, it seems the spirit within has long since forgotten exactly who it was looking for…"

#now. how on earth do i begin to tag this. um. #link #loz #totk #totk spoilers #light dragon #dragon link #loz au #totk roleswap au #there . i'll add more if they come to me LOL #um i can talk about some of my insps i guess?? might make another post too #so mostly i just dont really like turning him into 'light dragon but male' and giving him slightly darker colours or something like that #this also obviously isnt exactly like the botw dragons either though and its a bit more of a mix of other creature concepts i enjoy #since everyone agrees he'd have a farosh horn i wanted to make him a kirin/unicorn :) which is why his tail looks like that #aside from the obvious eastern dragon insps and what ive picked and chosen from the botw dragons #and obviously this looks a lot like wolf link. thats on purpose #i wanted to give him some fierce deity design refs too but because this is so dark/earthy they didnt look very fitting #but honestly you could do a whole fierce deity dragon design on its own i think #okay lots of tags but IVE THOUGHT ABOUT THIS FOR A WHILE. okay. let me have this. #my art

[lilybug-02]

Pain is a great motivator…

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—Full Series—

Meanwhile Toriel:

(Loud noises don't wake her up usually.)

Artist note: I’m so proud of this :))) I know it’s a lot of dialogue and reading, but dialogue is grueling work for me. I’m glad with the art and for the amount of pages I made in such a relatively short time span -w- page 5 was super fun to work on. A lot of blood, sweat, and hours here... :) The backgrounds were a big bore tbh, but I finished them! Yippie!

#CHARA WTF DO YOU MEAN “COMPUTER”???? #lol i hope you guys dont hate me for what im doing in the next update. #IS THAT A MAC OS??? #Yes......owo'' #Kris and the Gang are LITTLE now. I've pixelated them and turned them into little game characters! #FINALLY!! #I never thought I would be going so far in the story to explain WHY Kris pulls out their SOUL and opens Darkfountains even when they killed #Berdly in Chapter 2. Pain can make people do horrible things. #Uhhhhhhhhh anyways. :3 I hope you liked it! I made this post a little too long for my liking and didnt get it out when i wanted too- #but thats okay! As long as people enjoy it :) #bread #art #deltarune chara timeline #deltarune chara timeline comic #seriously though #long post #man am I glad I switched over to the limited color palet! It helps me feel alot more relaxed uwu #This is....way over 16 hours of work q-q #chara #asriel #susie #kris #asriel dreemurr #kris dreemurr #kris deltarune #susie deltarune #deltarune #comic #my art