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Do you think scrambling around like a servant is going to make people like you more? So why try?

If anything, people pleasing makes people loose more respect for you and treat you as a doormat.

If you're a Nice Girl, realize that you can't please everyone and you are not obligated to save anyone. Instead, focus on pleasing the only person that can appreciate it, yourself. It is no longer your job to fix everything. So alleviate yourself from the strain.

Transitioning from the 'Nice Girl' to the 'Mean Girl' is not about becoming rude, it's about deciding to take no disrespect and being at peace with being the villain in others people's lives, especially when it comes to standing up for yourself and having boundaries.

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I am luxury. I never lower my values.

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Dark Feminine Tips ♠️- Allow yourself to be seen, heard and valued without shame.

Shame and embarrassment is a choice that can be reversed by changing your mindset. Rather than feeling ashamed for having needs and taking up space, tell yourself that you are more than deserving of the greatest things and experiences in life.

There’s certain people in life who attract anything they want because they believe they are deserving of it. They hold no shame when it comes to attaining their desires. So If someone else can have it, why can’t you too?

Be who you desire to be. Do what you love. Assert your needs. And always express yourself fearlessly.

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As the legend tells, never believe men’s words, watch their actions and you will know everything.

Men will swear up and down that they won’t participate in ‘simp’ behavior yet the moment they find the girl they adore, all that goes out the window and they become natural providers and protecters who will willingly dote on and adore their partner. It’s literally in a their nature to be providers and care for women. It makes no difference how much they reject it or disown it in speech, it is the natural role they’ll eventually take.

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Me in the mirror every day because self love is the best love!💓💓💓

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Things women should never feel ashamed of:

• Orgasms

• Receiving money

• Receiving compliments

• Pretty privilege

• Being smart

• Dressing up

• Menstrual cycles

• Emotions and being sensitive

• Expressing our sexuality

• Resting and relaxation

• Asserting our sexual needs

• Maintaining our standards

• Saying No

• Wanting or having children

• Choosing to be childfree

• Our body count

• Our nude body

• Wearing makeup or not wearing makeup

• Having boundaries and protecting ourselves

• Our spiritual practices

• Using witchcraft

• Being ambitious

• Going to college

• Being a housewife or stay at home mom

• Loving who and what we love

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Why are people still spooked by the term Witchcraft?

A Witch just means A Wise Woman and ‘Witchcraft’ means a wise woman who uses her craft and intuitive abilities to manifest her desired reality.

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Advice I'd Give to My Younger Self.

Be unapologetic about your presence. Never enter a room with your head lowered. Hold your head up like you are proud to be who you are. Take up space. Be bold in your actions. Let your voice be heard.

You don't have to be perfect. Get over perfectionism and the fear of being embarrassed. Learn to own all your flaws and insecurities and continue to do what you love.

What other people say mean nothing. Never loose sleep over anyone’s opinion of you. They are not God and they don't define you.

Believe in yourself. You can be successful just like those people you look up to. You have what it takes. Hone your skills and be great too.

Appreciate your unique gifts and qualities. Stop comparing yourself to others and changing yourself to fit in. Always stay true to yourself.

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Women need to embrace not having friends and moving independently. Having no friends doesn’t mean you lack anything, if anything it means you are at an advantage because you are the sole focus of your life and you’re not looking for approval from anyone.

Sometimes you need to walk alone and be confident alone without looking for anyone’s validation or permission.