#Ay all I'm saying is

[localguy2]

I find it highly amusing how in situations where the ninja are separated/it's just the OG four, Kai and Zane immediately assume control/start spearheading the team because apparently no one else is sane enough or in the right mind to do so.

Your honour, they literally have one of the best dynamics in the show, with how they're probably the most protective people in the team. And it makes me mad how this is overlooked by the fandom and the show.

#ninjago #zane julien #kai smith #Seriously tho #Aside from Cole #They're probably the most competent to lead #In Hunted they're mainly the ones working on everything #Fixing the radio #Jay has lost his shit and Cole is pre occupied with taking care of Wu #In MotM they just #Kai becomes the fucking Chancellor and with Zane as his Vice/right hand man #And in crystalized they're the only ones that are serious about this stuff #They're tracking Lloyd while Jay is bored and while Cole is doing nothing #Ay all I'm saying is #We need to see more of them together #I wanna see these 2 bond more #I want the show to focus on the aspect of them being the most protective #And how they probably have a lot of things in common when it comes to protecting the other ninja and making sure they're alright #Hmmmm my brain is going off in the tags #Oh chemistry what you done to me #You cruel cruel subject... #Anyway how are yall doing?

[lesbiancolumbo]

It’s kind of funny that the adults who love YA and comic books and Disney and other media for kids also, apparently, want desperately to be taken seriously by other grown ups. (You know, treated like an adult.) Like ‘yes, I only read Harry Potter fanfic and watch cartoons, but damnit Barbara don’t you patronize me! I demand to be treated with the same respect as any other adult baby!’ (I’d say ‘have a drink and calm down’ but my bottle warmer is on the blink.) Does the defensiveness come from a place of insecurity or do they genuinely believe that other adults are lying when they claim to enjoy adult things? Like do they think all adults would secretly prefer to watch CocoMelon instead of HBO and play with Lego rather than have sex, but gosh darn it most grups just won’t admit it?

i think they just never grew out of the child mentality that adults are boring and lame unlike them, this fifteen year old moron, the coolest person they know (because they know like 20 people). they see adulthood as going to bed at 9 PM and having to work and do taxes and chores and watching war documentaries and reading nonfiction. it just smacks of arrested development to me, but i also like don't take that kind of adult seriously and i definitely don't put any stock in their opinions on books, films, etc., and will tell them so lol.

#asks #i'm not commenting on it as a whole but i find 'healing your inner child through indulging in all your childish whims' personally unhelpful #i heal my inner child by striving to have a fulfilling adult life free of all the fears and trauma responses that defined my childhood. #not by making kraft mac and cheese and nuggies for dinner every night #but by LEARNING how to cook. and clean. and take care of myself. and be responsible for myself. #but yknow. those things take time and effort. engaging with complex books for adults is HARD and why do hard things :( #also i never read why aye books as a kid because i was reading adult books from the age of 10 and i'm not gonna say that makes me better #but

[loismagic]

on tonight’s demily discourse, this would have been a perfect moment for a kiss :)))))

#Criminal Minds #Prentiss x Morgan #demily #I'm not here yet on my rewatch but I just saw a gif of Emily in this scene #and god she looks SO GORGEOUS #and Derek Morgan how could you not kiss herrrr #actually he would tbh #I blame the CM writers for not letting him #the way she smiles at him I want to fucking *** #she's so in love with him you can't convince me otherwise #and oh he already misses her #wtf wtf #cool cool cool cool #also the way she just tells him she loves him #I know it's probably supposed to be all ay they're bffs and partners but it's THEM #nah no way you say I love you and look at your ~partner this way and have it be pla*barfs*tonic #listen they're best friends first and lovers second (let's ignore what is canon for a sec even tho the writing is on the fucking WALL #and has been since season 2 #but it's most def not just platonic ok? #ok #hm I've been so wordy with demily lately #I see a fic or 10 in the future #actually surprised I haven't written them yet

[unproduciblesmackdown]

like hearing an autistic person talking abt realizing like "oh so friendships for some ppl don't involve always having to maintain a performance" and going damn right yeah and now "oh so friendships for some ppl involve their getting to expect that the other ppl will be interested in them and provide support" like huh go figure. more surprising like oh right i guess i always felt like interactions require maintaining a performance that can only go wrong (generally true; like there's no "well you're ruining things by keeping ppl from being the Real You so just Be Yourself" like a] masking isn't Real or done by Yourself or b] like if you unmask people like you now & ableism is over, b/c it was your fault for reacting to it in the first place) & thus also that i should be interested & provide support but not expect that in turn / the sense as well that you are/can only come up short and have things to make up for anyways while lucky whoever's even providing the time of day

then it's always an Exercise to go "oh right well beyond going [my god autistic character] the whole time, what Things re: winston billions was i still not quite seeing as as unusual / Not Good as they are. even for billions" like sure noticing he's holding on to the hopes of some kind of positive / actual relationship w/rian for like year 950 & this manifesting with the Determined Friendliness but zooming in like oh i guess that adamant amicability sure involves winston suppressing a negative reaction to negative treatment and yet still hoping for an improvement, which like, was always Possible but a) hinged on rian simply choosing to change how she regards/treats him (or someone intervening to change the situation) & b) apparently is not going to happen. thinking like yeah that's very Friendly of him. and knowing like man winston's sure still trying to keep this friendliness offer open for like two years. but also now more specifically going like Yeah and pretty fucked then that his baseline expectations don't include that Mutual Interest & Support (though someone being abusive is definitely interested just not in any good ways. and certainly not (actually) supportive)

#and then in immediate retrospect it's like I Mean I Knew It & even now to be saying it feels like i've effectively already said it #just more precise/specific Language available. & where even if it's like [restating this one idea] that's gonna say smthing new / a bit dif #winston billions #from the [immediately going HM HUH first time seeing his clips but taking months to be like He's Autistic(tm) Btw IMO] to now struggling to #say another Ay Word in discussing [he has a devoted workplace bully] as Abuse(tm) when plenty of what's abusive is considered ''normal'' or #correct or even Ideal while defining Abuse as xtreme outliers due to evil intentions & extraordinary situations (that you should avoid) #it's power structures & efforts to control & use/refuse people as things....plenty of ppl who can feel they're just acting Normal & Natural #while other ppl in entire groups Do have to perform which can only go wrong & be hurt / get that everyday trauma from their Normalcy. #those allistic social skills huh (again tldr invoking this concept just Is ableism....) #after a casual twenty plus years w/the gradual convergence of [figuring out i'm autistic] & [not blaming myself for being mistreated b/c #i'm autistic] does put a damper on expectations re: all interactions but it's like the way someone put it the other day #who hasn't said anything abt being autistic but that they don't think anyone's guaranteed any kinds of relationships/companionship incl #friendships (which i agree with; & it's not at all uncommon for ppl to be hard up for those out here. despite ppl treating socializing like #a meritocracy like hmm anyone doesn't have friends? sounds like that's on you not getting good / deserving that) & so he consciously #navigates how to like be genuinely satisfied w/a life that's just got him in it while being open to other ppl. thinking of how i've heard #abt Just That re: autistic ppl (but framed specifically re: dating; like might want a romantic relationship but ofc no one's guaranteed one #of those either (even if this too is definitely treated like in fact you Are guaranteed one & it is Again a meritocracy) And ofc there's #more barriers/hurdles for autistic ppl) & just going like yeah i've sure been always navigating that too while being open to ppl sure but #not feeling like i need that to change & sure asf not focusing on Putting Myself Out There lmao. i put myself out there by existing & by #saying things & by trying not to try to preemptively appease/appeal to anyone. seeing another quote today abt how they're nonverbal & this #results in being regarded as hostile like eugh been there enough; classic [putting myself out there] dramedy of terrors from back in the #day as a teen living on college figuratively sprinting around trying to figure it out; both the Autistacity & Abuse lol. & racking up more #of the latter for the former while i'm at it....nowadays like. certainly recent successes in [spontaneous alignments of being friends] had #to start w/like weeks into months of i'm not expecting someone else to have interest & in fact Am expecting; if nothing else; them to #realize w/e interest motivates them to talk w/me to be mistaken or w/e. as i'm struggling not to mask / beating back efforts to actively #appeal to anyone. being duly surprised when after months they still feel like talking to me. & even then just kind of entering another #phase of ''well but still'' lol like when interactions have largely felt like Buying Time at best #def on the same page as that guy like even [have friends] is not a Need. when i could go ''time to recharge socially'' & make it happen #what i like to do is go be in public '''''by myself'''' around ppl. truly the good shit. doing that kind of shit w/ppl has = nth wheeling. #now insert a short essay spinning off all this abt an approach to Language parallel to [concepts re Socializing] as tag thirty

[worldwithoutmiracles]

annual request that we course-correct and start saying "you can't eat your cake and have it too" so that the phrase actually makes sense

#all in favor say aye #text #I'm not a #grammar #prescriptivist #but this one kills me every time

[sunsetcowboy]

Oof, I'm trying not to be bummed out, but it's just not working.

#a bout this time last y ear (more like the b eginning of m ay) my h ealth took a turn for the worst #and i progressively got w orse over the next six m onths. #I'm trying to be h appy i s urvived but everytime i think a bout it i get sooo s ad. #it's hard not to it l iterally affected everything i did #living though it was a l onely experience but so is surviving it :( #i hope it's just w orse now cause im on my p eriod but oh boy #if i seem off. w eird. a nger or s ad. it's probably bc of this #but p hysically i'm doing a lot b etter i would never come on here and talk about it if i was still going through something like that #i don't want p eople to worry. I'm just saying i might seem off for a while that's all(bc i feel off ig) #rin posting💌 #pfft t rama imma right???? #a nyway i'm sure I'll get over it. in a y ear I'll have new things to w orry over #sorry for the s ad p ost do still think im h-

[jasontoddssuper]

People who ship Bakugou with Izuku and/or Shouto are the Batcest shippers of the bnha fandom

#no bakushitkus and todumbakus i am not saying your ships are in-cest i'm saying you ship abuse like batcest shippers do #y'all impliment even more homophobic tropes and add on misogyny to your ships like them too #oh and let's not forget that all the characters have actual GOOD ships that y'all shit on because y'all have an abuse f*tish el em ay oh #bakugou katsuki #izuku midoriya #todoroki shouto #dick grayson #jason todd #tim drake #cassandra cain #duke thomas #damian wayne #b*kudeku(deragotry) #t*dobaku(deragotry) #anti batcest #bnha geekery #batfam #teen titans #rhato #utrh #young justice #batgirl #orphan dc #black cat #batman and the signal #wfa #letters from summer #aizawa dont look

[d0rky-0utfits]

I uh

I’m kinda disappointed in the anons I’ve been getting lol

Ok look I'm not gonna point fingers at anyone or anything like that but I have a hunch that it might've been that one account that said Joe x Orel shippers should off themselves sending those anons

#ratposting #AY I JUST HAVE A HUNCH THAT'S ALL I'M SAYING

[princecupid]

so many oxenfree thoughts bouncing around in my brain currently

who wants to hear about my accidental college au!!!!!! or my headcanon about ren and clarissa being besties in elementary school !!!!!!!

#i feel crazy about this au it's all that ive been drawing recently #it started with me drawing older designs of them for funzies and then. i realized a few days later. it's just basically a college AY #its more than just that i promise #also ren & clarissa being besties means so much to me #just a lesbian and her weed smoking bestie #once lost signals comes out i'm sure i'll be brainrotting for parentage #BUT FOR NOW. im still so ill abt them #sighs #radio transmission #i spelled college AU wrong. i didn't mean to say college AY. sorry. wish you could edit tags for my dumbass who cant spell

[chrisbangs]

got home at 12 am after such a shit show of a day... 🤲 every day i wonder why i'm put here on this earth if only to suffer

#it's so i can love bang chan with all my stupid lil heart 🫂 i know i know #when life says die i say no i have more love for chan in my heart and cannot #i'm so drained el em ay oh! #my entire body feels like some drove over me repeatedly 🫶 #everything hurts and i haven't slept in 4 days right so 👍 very cool #15 more weeks of this 🗣️‼️ #anyway... #li.txt #dl

[redxriiot]

BNHA AU where post-War, Shigaraki and AFO have been successfully separated and Tomura survives it all abd is apprehended, and sent to a facility to be reformed. And his most frequent visitor is Mirio. Who has every intention to help him, make his time there easier, and overall just be a friend to him

#bnha manga spoilers #//I mean; TECHNICALLY? #//Considering Mirio is Tomura's No.1 advocate even after all the destruction and his friends near getting killed #//Now wasn't THAT a shocker #//Mans really saw signs of Tomura in through the AFO possession and was like 'Is anybody gonna help him?' and dID NOT WAIT FOR AN ANSWER #//I say facility for reform instead of prison bc you BET I can believe Mirio would advocate for this man #//And ask to be involved in his betterment. or at the very least; keep him company through his consequences #//Tomura finding him 100% irritating at first; not wanting any of his 'pity'; not TRUSTING him #//But Mirio is determined to show him he's genuinely there for him. genuinely WANTS to be friends and help him ay way he can #//Barring breaking him out or hurting anyone; anyways #//Well #//MAYBE bends a few rules to prank/get back at anyone mistreating Tomura #//Or to amuse him #//Sees about possibly bringing a gaming system in there to hang out with Tomura further along the line #//If not just games from nearby him while Tomura backseat games him and snarks whenever Mirio getsbhis ass kicked #//Idk; it's V self-indulgent #//But i love it #//So I'm putting the idea out there to be used if not by myself jehrb #plot ideas #//That possibility and pspspsp KIT I HAVE A NEW AU- #;mun has spoken #//I just really LOVE the idea of this hero and villain duo. they tickle my brain

[leatherbookmark]

my favourite thing abt tumblr mass-finding out about the origins of the “poor little meow meow” phrase is a couple of people in the tags, who listen to things like, i assume, punk or rap, going “oh so THIS is what people got so emotional over? wow they wouldn’t last a day over here” or “ah, this, yeah a couple of guys from our side did it too”. refreshing

#i feel like it would also benefit people to realize that like. the fact that kpop is FULL of random phrases and more and more groups promote #overseas to the point of having the hour of their comeback be convenient for the US rather than just korea... absolutely DOES NOT!!! #DOES NOT!!! mean they all speak perfect (or even reliably passable) english and are knowledgeable about the things english-speaking #internet cares about. every once in a while there's a new twt storm because some idol says or does something insensitive and hurtful to a #group of their fans and its like. well yeah it's a horrible feeling but i cannot overstate how many of these idols just Don't Know Shit #like. idk. black people. i'd say most kpop idols -- who are just some guys and not tumblr/twitter users -- associate black people with like #music artists. rappers. they're cool and they have those cool braids! i'm doing a rap song and i want to be cool like them! lemme put on #those braid extensions! yahoo! <-- everyone hated that. #this is not to say that koreans are wee little babies who shouldn't be held accountable or that they're all stupid #but even despite kpop's insane worldwide popularity i doubt any of those idols are getting worldwide-flavoured sensitivity training #they're all perfect at saying cloyingly sweet bullshit to their fans -- i will love you all for the rest of my life! bro WHO would believe #that it's so embarrassing just sing your fucking songs -- but that's it! hell the younger groups are even bad at knowing how to act in thei #OWN country; with older idols complaining that the newbies talk to them casually (not using the polite language like you should) or even #flat out ignore/don't saw hello or bow to them. twt people are like 'korea has the fastest internet in the world' aye and they use it for #games and teenage internet stuff; not educating themselves on things they know nothing about #the sermon was 100% unintelligible to myg and he just picked it because it had a Tone that must have fit the image of the song in his mind #it's like all those people getting 'chinese' tattoos that say stupid shit like pork belly or baka gaijin or a bunch of misspelled character #tilted by 90 degrees #like i myself didn't know about the cult leader until the sample drama. so #some kp/op fans are absolutely rabid though. especially on twt #shrimp thoughts

[bandzboy]

also now that i exposed my bias list is it a good time to say that i've been.... like a huge jaehyun and mark stan lately bc...? 🤸‍♂️

#i mean i did say when i posted jaehyun's bday gfx #but there's lore #at the end of last year i was obsessed with forever only and well #here we are #i was in denial but marie pushed me into valentineism and i'm weak so now yes here we ARE #also mark.. i've been a mark stan for the longest time but #dude during ay yo era i just became obsessed #i just loved 127's album SOOO much so now #i'm obsessed with these two men and 127 again and it's like #when i first started nct back in 2018 #but definitely different for SURE #but yes this is the lore idek if anyone will read this but #i need you all to catch up with the lore bc this happened when i was on hiatus kdfjgkd #tris.txt

[sweepingtree]

if i have to hear "AY YO!" from any of these kids one more time i'm going to lose it entirely

#everyone speaks in aave and calls it gen z speak!!!!!!!!!!! #whichever youtuber/meme/streamer of the month is responsible for this #i HATE YOU #they're saying 'ay yo' for every fucking thing #i play a video on class and it's kinda cool? 'AY YO!' #someone insults another kid in class (very cringe and unfunny 'burns' that don't even make sense)? 'AY YOOOO!' #someone says 'maam i saw john take her pencils'? 'AY YO IT WASN'T ME!' #i'm losing it #middle schoolers are smart and cool and funny BUT THEY'RE ALSO NOT #and you just fucking know this is something they've picked up from like being online all the time #nobody says 'ay yo' here #not to be a boomer but adult youtubers whose target audience is children deserve to get their nails ripped off #they're so fucking rude because they're learning from these american youtubers #and they don't realise americans in rl don't even fucking speak like that or behave like that #and that everything on the internet is EXAGGERATED AND NOT HOW NORMAL HUMAN BEINGS BEHAVE #normal people don't always try to one up each other in insults on a daily basis #NORMAL PEOPLE RESPECT THEMSELVES AND THEIR FRIENDS #personal #rant

[system-of-a-feather]

How the fuck does XIV practice the guitar for almost two hours straight the FUCK

-Riku

#let xiv play his guitar #free time #aye your turn play until you feel satisfied #oh imma play easy fun stuff #alter: riku #alter: xiv #guitar posting #Like Lucille has scheduled every other day until we get done with school and to make sure the body copes #and its always in the end of the day vaguely turning the night period #so i just go and I'm like #pulls back up here #checks the time #HOW #WE ARE ALL MUSICIANS BUT WE HAVE NEVER PRACTICES THIS LONG IN A ROW INDEPENDENTLY #AND IT WASN'T JUST it was all proper study #I mean I GUESS you could say the same about me and drawing but jesus christ.

[12ratsinagnomecostume]

Hey, as an able bodied person:

Fucking listen to disabled people

If they tell you they need an accommodation, listen to them. If they tell you that they feel uncomfortable with how you are treating them, listen to them. If they tell you they can't do something, listen to them.

And if you disagree with that person? Have a fucking conversation. You are better than that.

#i felt the need to say this since its disability acceptance week and its painfully obvious that the evnts being made in some places were not #made or approved of by disabled people #its just a little annoying #and I'm not even the peope they are targeting #then again they were never targeting diabled peope to begin with #it was always to make abled bodied people feel better about themselves #so as my gift to you all: just listen to them #go follow a disabled creator- watch a video about chronic illness from a credible source- do something #ay go support a charity if yiu can #domt ask me which ones but guess what? this is your oppertuinty to listen to disabled people on what charities are good #disability acceptance week #disability awareness #have as good of a day as you can<3