#good faith safe

[tgirlmouse]

i don't feel nearly as ashamed or hesitant to talk about my queer tgirl attraction to men as my tguy brothers would feel talking about their attraction to women

obligatory "if you're a trans guy and your attraction to women is het, that's real and okay! your trans experience isn't a monolith and other trans people being different doesn't make you different or wrong"

like, think about it: hardly anyone bats an eye when a tgirl uses grindr or calls herself a faggot, but as soon as a man calls himself a lesbian, everyone gets on his ass. anything for an excuse to shit on lesbians, i guess. it makes me angry that nobody sees this hypocrisy or these ties back to the lesbian separatism that infected the community post-70s. it's not gone, it never went away

this isn't exactly profound news to anyone who gives a shit about lesbian history. just something i find interesting

#good faith safe #pro good faith #good faith #lesboy #mspec lesbian #mspec gay #lesgay #gaybian #bi lesbian #bi gay #pan lesbian #pan gay #textposting #mspec mono #contradictory labels #mogai #mspec lesbian safe

[lonicera-caprifolium]

a not at all secluded balcony ✨️

#good omens #ineffable husbands #aziraphale #crowley #aziracrow #full pic is on both twitter and patreon #it would probably be safe enough to post here? #but I have no faith in this site and don't want too many strikes against me

[r0semultiverse]

#using 'them' because obviously not all transfem folks (myself included) use she & her #add this one to one of my more super hot takes even if it's true #stop canceling trans women over stuff you absolutely get it up for #also making this because of recent events & no I won't elaborate even if you ask me to #and no I won't debate the ethics of adults playing pretend with you as that's silly; a waste of my time #and is also just not what this post is about; you'd think that'd be obvious but watch people not care anyway #feel free to send asks though It's up to me whether or not I want to answer them #this double standard is never done in good faith & is most assuredly transphobia 100% #marking this post as all of the things because I know the people on this site can't behave; I've seen it before #yes you should reblog this btw; this also happens on twitter & reddit I'm sure though I have no twitter #mine #op #fauxcest #sibcon #step mom #siscon #brocon #sibcest #trans memes #transgender memes #cw adult things #cw adult stuff #tagging all of these just to be safe

[bumblingbabooshka]

My name is [BRUTUS] and my name means [HEAVY] so with a [HEAVY] heart I'll guide this dagger Into the heart of my enemy

Something about having absolutely no choice in who you marry. About being literally forced by the law to spill blood - to accept this stranger as your husband over a man you truly care for or accept the fact that the man you love might die because you put him in danger. Something about risking becoming the wife of a man you've never even seen before a few minutes prior because you know anything would be better than putting your beloved in harm's way. Something about the trust inherent in that decision and in the way she speaks of it after. Truthfully, T'Pring doesn't know the captain and she doesn't know Spock. Either one of them could have taken her as their wife but she does know Stonn. She knows that Stonn will remain by her side no matter what. They made a plan together. They have an agreement which T'Pring believes will be upheld even though the plan changed with the arrival of Kirk. Stonn will always be there, always, and Stonn will be hers. Something about the language used around T'Pring: Ownership, subservience, non-personhood. T'Pring is an object that Spock can win. She cannot reject him, she has no say in the matter other than having Stonn 'claim' her instead. Even when Spock leaves after being very clearly rejected by T'Pring he says "Stonn, she is yours." as if despite her clear rejection he still owns her and is must formally 'give' her to Stonn. But the language T'Pring uses around Stonn is a break from that: "There was Stonn who wanted very much to be my consort, and I wanted him." Stonn who wanted very much to be HER consort and she WANTED him. The language here is very particular - It's not, for example: "Stonn wanted me to be his wife" - he is HERS. And she WANTS him. There's a mutual affection there and a strong trust - a trust which seems to be well founded since Stonn (though silent) stands by her side at the end of the episode. <- That might seem small but if Spock would reject her for 'daring to challenge' (again, the language is not 'because I don't want you' but more of an implied disgust at her having the AUDACITY to reject him) then it's not a stretch to assume that it'd be considered an insult in the TOS Vulcan society to NOT choose Stonn as her champion after a prior agreement. Anyway T'Pring was a woman in an impossible situation within a society which saw her as more of an object than a person and she wanted Stonn and Stonn wanted to be hers and she trusted that he would understand if she had to publicly pick someone else to ensure his life would be spared and he did understand.

#amok time #T'Pring i s....T'Pring she....-puts my head through a wall- #PLEASE read under the cut for my rambling about T'Pring in amok time pleasepleaseplease #tired of 'T'Pring is evil/a bitch' and VERY uninterested in 'T'Pring is a girlboss' #T'Pring is a person in a society which doesn't think she has the right to make her own choices who's in [love] with a man who [loves] her #back in what I'd like to think is implied to be a slightly subversive way in its mutual and fervent nature (whether the writers thought #this was a good or bad thing - who knows. We know better RIGHT??) #and yes I will stylize T'Pring's hair differently every single time I draw it HEHEHE #star trek tos #Spock #T'Pring #also of COURSE something something spock/kirk & stonn/t'pring parallels: To keep your beloved safe you have to force someone else to kill #theirs - not BC you hate him (you don't) but you don't love him either and why does HE get to have you even if you don't want him?? Why doe #he get to 'give' you to the person YOU chose?? It's not a hatred on a person level (which I wanted to portray with the 'brothers') portion #but a sort of societal embodying. #I will think about T'Pring not wanting to be 'the consort of a legend' every damn day !!! #They really could have laid it on thick in making her evil guys...T'Pau even makes a comment about Spock's 'vulcan blood is thin' #but all T'Pring says is that Spock is a legend and she doesn't want that for her life. She wants Stonn. #And you're gonna sit there and you're gonna tell her that she's wrong!??? Spock doesn't even want to be with her!! Why is she so hated!? #CAN WE FREE MY GIRL??? She did all that but it's being read in the worst faith possible!! #comix #bea art tag #star trek art #She literally says the word 'FREE'...she's TRAPPED!!!

[wizard-hubris]

So....genuine question from someone who doesn't really keep up with Starkid stuff apart from the YT musical releases: was Max Jaegerman supposed to be played by Jeff Blim? Because within the first five minutes of him being onstage the script, the melodies and tbh even the performance feel like a role Jeff would write for himself, looking at the previous musicals (not noted uncritically but also not unkindly), so I'm really surprised to see somebody else in the role. Did he get ill or was this casting always intended?

#nerdy prudes must die #starkid #npmd spoilers #(just to be safe) #the guy even slightly looks like an off-brand jeff #and his performance feels very 'here look at jeff blim's previous performances. we want you to emulate that' #again: not meant overly negatively so i'm sorry if anyone receives this negatively #i do have opinions about jeff's part writing that's from what i've seen very opposed to fandom's general opinions on that #but i don't want to get into that this is meant in good faith i promise

[sirenium]

Greetings and salutations to trans men who are lesbians. You aren't straight if you don't identify as such, and you're certainly not invalidating other experiences! There's no one way to experience being a trans man, nor is there a wrong way to express being a lesbian.

Hello and welcome to people who otherwise identify as lesboys for whatever reason! Are you multigender? Cool! butch who also considers themself a man? Tubular! Genderfluid? Rad! Man adjacent regardless of gender? Wicked! Keep being you!

Guten Tag, Guten Abend (good day, good evening) to gaybians! Don't let nobody tell you your identity is invalid. You're allowed to use all the labels that feel comfortable to you!

Make some noise for the people who use/identify with xenogenders! It's your gender, so do whatever you want with it! This includes those of us who are xenic adults, as well.

Can we get a warm welcome for endo systems? How about tulpas? You're not racist or ableist for having a different system origin! Mixed origin? Quoigenic? Any other type of origin? Y'all are rad, too. Keep being you.

Keep vibing, everyone I mentioned here, as well as those with any other good faith identities I missed!

#pro lesboy #pro mspec #pro gaybian #pro endo #pro tulpa #pro good faith identities in general #mspec positivity #endogenic safe #endo positivity #lgbtq #queer pride #queer positivity #anti exclusionist #male lesbian #multigender #multigender lesbian #genderfluid #genderfluid lesbian #multigender gay #genderfluid gay #transgender #trans #non binary #mogai #xenogender #xenogender pride #pro xenogender #xenogender positivity #lesboy #mspec lesbian

[vonehrenfest]

DCxDP: Dead guys stick together

(A Batman 138 fix-it)

After Bizarro becomes King of Hell he watches the mortal world and is distraught to find that his brother/best friend/sorta father-figure has been hurt very badly and is calling out for help.

Distraught, he goes to another lord of the netherworld who he's heard has access to a portal (and subjects a bit more compatible with the act of helping someone). He asks King Phantom would he please please help him protect his brother/friend, and if he does Bizarro will owe him a favor and leave his realm alone.

When the inferno had initially breached the Ghost Zone Danny had thought he was going to have to deal with f*cking Trigon again, but as it turns out that guy's been replaced and the new guy is pretty nice. After a brief cosmic battle and a clearing of misunderstandings, Danny agrees to Bizarro’s request.

While Gotham's vigilante civil war continues on its rooftops, Jason is in a cell. He is trembling, practically catatonic again, and losing his mind. He’s seeing the flaming figure of a knight on horseback appear from the shadowy far wall of his room, like some kind of fairytale nightmare version of Batman. It takes a while for Jason to realize he’s talking. 

“... part of the treaty between the King of Ghosts and King of Demons, Jason Todd: Prince of Demons has been granted special status and is henceforth a protected and honorary citizen of the Infinite Realms.” 

Nightmare-Bruce touches his flaming sword on Jason’s shoulder and the unearthly fire instantly engulfs him. Relief washes through Jason, and it’s so strong he nearly drops asleep.

Bruce is apologetic when everything’s over and he realizes the mistakes he’s made... but nothing really changes. (It is a relief to Bruce that no one died or was permanently injured, Jason's condition resolved itself somehow, and Bruce is normal now so really everything is fixed or at least it will be fixed.)

Just like when Jason first came back from the dead, Bruce's response makes him hurt deeper than the physical torture itself. Jason is the one who died but Bruce acts like the ghost. Singleminded, possessive, stuck in time and blind to it; bound to repeat the same cycles again and again. Jason is the ghost but he's died multiple times now, and maybe that's kind of like living and maybe that means he can move on. 

Dani and Bizarro become friends, and she gets Danny's friend Tucker to somehow set up a working Wi-Fi connection in hell so they can all play games together. (He’s not going to question it. Everything about Amity Park is abnormal. They helped him and they’re good to Bizarro, that’s all that matters.) 

Jason forges a fake identity for Dani. He might ask Babs to make a better one for her if she ever needs it but he doubts that's likely. He hasn’t had a living identity for years now after all, he’s an old hand at fake identities. Dani is delighted and starts attending school soon after. 

Danny has good friends, and as far as Jason can tell plenty of reliable mentors in the ghost world. You wouldn’t think it, but Jason’s less worried about Danny in his role as a little godling than in his civilian life. He’s got too much on his plate- too much power yet not enough to actually resolve his real issues. Not enough to protect himself where he’s vulnerable. 

The “Guys in White” that Danny likes to complain about are concerning. So is the fact that Danny’s lives with mad-scientist parents who are trying to hunt down his alternate identity. So is his ever grinding cold-war with the mayor of his town… And something else too that had been niggling at the back of Jason’s mind ever since he’d first gotten to talk to these kids. 

One day Danny’s sister, Jazz asks to talk to him. He’s an adult she says. That’s true he replies. He’s capable of protecting himself and other people, she says. Well, he has the training and experience for it, he agrees. If things go wrong, would Jason let Danny or Dani stay with him- just until she becomes a legal adult? She asks. Jason’s... not the sort of person who should be taking kids in. Danny saved his life though. He won’t say no. He says of course.

Jason knew it. Everything about Amity Park is abnormal.

The town doesn’t technically exist- there are no maps that include it and even satellite imaging is corrupted where Danny describes his hometown is supposed to be. There are no references to it on the internet that couldn’t be referring to a totally different Amity Park elsewhere, and judging by the problems they occasionally had on gaming nights and the odd offhand remarks Danny and his friends sometimes made, it was looking extremely likely that all communications between Amity Park and the outside were being heavily censored. Before Jason knew it he had started a full-on investigation on the GIW, Mayor Vlad Masters, former Mayor Montez, and Axion Labs.

Hope and fear lodges itself in Danny’s chest. Jason’s an adult and he’s actually going to help.

#Batman 138 #Context for anyone unfamiliar: #This is the issue wherein Bruce injects a device into Jason that releases fear toxin when his heart rate rises in order to make him docile #I was horrified so I wrote something like a fix-it scenario and then I got ahead of myself and wrote a whole thing. #comics Bruce is really different from the animated Bruce I grew up with :( #I just want Jason to be safe and not have to be alone #this arc can go straight into Danny Jason and babs/birds of prey bringing the anti ecto laws to the JL #one of the major problems Danny faces is that he has good friends and good ghost mentors but he doesn’t have any real world adults #he knows his parents will love him no matter what but it’s clear he doesn’t trust them #he prefers them not to know even though he has faith they’ll still live him #love him I mean #dpxdc #Jason Todd adopts Danny #danny adopts jason #Gotham Wars

[thepunkmuppet]

ok but the unspoken parallel of faith being attracted to angel to deflect from her obsession with buffy and lindsey being “in love” with darla to deflect from his obsession with angel is making me fucking INSANE

#to lindsey darla is like “safe” angel #aka she’s angel without the morals and without the penis #and to faith angel is just the default she would go to as someone who has had lots of sex with men #complicated deep feelings about a girl?? of course she would rather go for familiar and “normal” feelings about a guy! #they are both sUCH good ships it is unreal #fuffy #faith x buffy #lindsangel #lindsey x angel #angel x lindsey #buffy summers #faith lehane #lindsey mcdonald #btvs angel #btvs #buffy the vampire slayer #ats #angel the series #buffyverse #btvs meta #buffyverse meta

[tgirlmouse]

i'm gonna start asking turigirl deniers what they suggest i call myself

i'm a trans girl, and my attraction to men is queer in nature

so, what do you suggest i say if not "a girl who is gay for men"? you can't suggest anything that wouldn't invalidate my identity as a trans girl. am i a mistaken man or a straight girl?

i don't have the luxury or privilege of a heteronormative relationship. i never will. most cishet men will see me as a man transitioning into a girl; a woman who used to be a man. the current state society is in, that isn't going to change anytime soon. i cannot date them; i am not the straight girl of their dreams

you know she has a dick, right? she used to be a boy. dating her makes you gay.

what's the point, then? why would i choose to leave a community that has so warmly welcomed and embraced my uncracked egg self into a cold, unaccepting world, pining for men who will never want me and never see me as the girl they want? you thinking that me realising i'm a girl suddenly makes me want to abandon the gay community and find a straight boy to whisk me away is a ridiculous expectation and really speaks on how you view tfems and trans people as a whole. transness is not the walk in a park you think it is

exclu love to claim that me dating gay men is invalidating my gender, that they don't see me as a girl if they're attracted to me. gay men have embraced, validated and accepted my gender transition moreso than straight men ever fucking have or will. to most gay men i've met, i'm a trans girl. girlfag. a born-again woman. that's fucking awesome

to straight men, i'm a girl with a dick. used to be a man. tranny. still a man. a threat to their sexuality

so, are you going to misgender me or deny my tfem experience? take your pick. i'll wait

#i don't entirely use the label turigirl #but if the shoe fits. if the girl gay #pro good faith #lesboy #turigirl #good faith safe #bi lesbian #bi gay #lesgay #mspec mono #mspec lesbian

[geekynightowl1997]

Leverage and Leverage Redemption restores my faith in humanity- and I can't tell if that's sad or not.

#leverage #leverage redemption #listen #i work in a place where my faith in humanity gets crushed #but watching this show gives me hope for humanity #because the team is just #they are so good #and relatable #and safe #and it makes me feel warm #it doesn't matter if your high functioning #or if you are a terrible actress/actor but are good at acting #if your been called crazy #or if your not good at physical affection but still need affection #and if your still very unsure #leverage is home #and its intoxicating #and so much family #i feel like I'm apart of it #nate ford #sophie devereaux #eliot spencer #alec hardison #parker #breanna casey #harry wilson #team #family #found family #restored faith in humanity

[bilesproblems]

This month is Black History Month so I want to give a shout-out to all the Black mspec lesbians! Queer history wouldn't be what it is without black people, and the whitewashing of queerness is so disgusting when black queer people have been a huge part of our community and led many of the fights for our rights! And it's even more unfortunate when your own community, the lesbian community, turns on you and uses the terms (nonman and nonwoman) that were used to degender you and other black people as a way to prove your identities are not "real" or "valid." Black bi lesbians, Black pan lesbians, Black poly lesbians, Black omni lesbians, Black abro lesbians, and all Black lunians, you're amazing. You matter so much to this community. We wouldn't be the same without you.

#black history month #blacklivesmatter #black lives matter #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #mspec lesbian safe #bi lesbian safe #mspec lesbian positivity #bi lesbian positivity #I'm so sorry I didn't make this post earlier #black people will always be a part of our community #it's frankly disgusting that the lesbian community uses racist terms to argue against good faith identities #and even worse when they're using them when arguing against actual black people. that were degendered using those terms #blm #bhm

[sapphic-horror]

SAPPHILLEAN LESBOY

[PT: sapphillean lesboy]

— a lesboy who is a sapphillean; a sapphillean who is a lesboy

|| inspired by the lesboy flag & this sapphillean flag; image desc under the cut

Image Description — a rectangular flag with 7 horizontal stripes; (top to bottom) purplish red, pastel red, pale orange, white, mint green, pale blue, & light blue. The middle stripe (white) is the largest. The sapphillean symbol is in the center.

#lesboy #sapphillean #gaybian #lesgay #lesbian #trans man lesbian #lesbian boy #saphboy #sapphic achillean #saphillean #saphilean #sapphilean #sapphic #achilliean #gay #mogai #mogai safe #mogai flag #critinclus #radinclus #mspec safe #mspec lesboy #this flag is inclusive of all good faith identities #queer #— horror coining

[catsquishy]

Your daily reminder that mspec lesbians and gays are completely harmless and valid good faith identities and to stop getting all your information on the world and especially the LGBTQIA+ community on Tumblr :)

#bitter? maybe a bit #but really what im feeling is love for my fellow elgeebeetees #- siri #pawsitivity #discourse tw ? #positivity #mspec lesbian #mspec gay #this blog will always be a safe place for good faith lgbtqia+ and mogai identities #never forget that

[our-gay-experience]

are mspec gays allowed here? :o

of course!!! all queer identities are welcome here we love and support mspec gays!!!

#our gay experience #gay #queer #mlm #queer community #lgbtq+ #bi gay #pan gay #gaybian #mspec gay #mspec mono #mspec mono safe #pro good faith #contradictory labels #pro contradictory labels