#he/him lesbian safe

[arcticflowerz]

Alt Aurora Borealis Lesbian/Northern Lights Lesbian Flag

I decided to make an alternate flag to the original Aurora Borealis Lesbian flag made/coined by @ferretwlw, I do not dislike the original flag. I made an alt version of the flag just cuz I wanted a flag that matched the flag of the Aurora Australis Vincian/Gay/etc term I coined. This flag is only meant to be an alternate flag, this is NOT meant to be a replacement for the original.

Flag by: @arcticflowerz

Do not repost my flags or the things I coin with out credit.

#alternative flag #my flags #not a replacement flag #mogai safe #aurora lesbian #lesbianism #lesbian pride #lesboy safe #mspec lesbian safe #lesboy #mspec lesbian #he/him lesbian #he/him lesbian safe #nb lesbian #nb lesbian safe #all lesbians #flag #pride flag #pride flags

[violottie]

since my old blog got nuked, i gotta make this post again because yall refuse to be anything but ignorant

lesbian sexuality ≠ heterosexual men's sexuality

lesbian attraction to women ≠ men's attraction to women

trans men cannot be lesbians, because they are men. if you think so, youre a transphobe as well as a lesbophobe.

lesbian attraction is not perverse, predatory, dehumanising to or sexualising of women's bodies

men have never and will never be included in lesbian sexuality and attraction under any circumstance

(and if your mind immediately goes to trans women and transfems when reading the above, congrats, youre a transphobe)

butch, femme, stud and stone are lesbian only identities

similarly, dyke is a slur that literally means lesbian. if youre not a lesbian, you're not a, nor can you 'reclaim', dyke.

butches and studs ≠ men or man-lite

butch ≠ masculine

femme ≠ feminine

transmasc ≠ trans man, therefore transmasc lesbians are a thing and trans men cannot ever be lesbians

trans women and transfems have been & will always be included in lesbian attraction, sexuality and community

trans lesbians & transfems can be butch

he/him lesbians ≠ (trans)masc, butch, stud lesbians

black lesbians ≠ automatically masc, butch, stud or tops

"bi lesbians" or "mspec lesbians" do not exist.

the split attraction model is for aromanticism and asexuality only. if you identify as such, youre just a bisexual who doesnt wanna unpack your internalised biphobia so resort to lesbophobia to cope with your self loathing caused by harmful stereotypes about your sexuality, which is bisexual. if you claim they do exist, you're both lesbophobic and biphobic

thank you for coming to my TedTalk. im sure you didnt listen to a word i said.

#lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtq community #important #lesbophobia #lesbian #lesbianism #lesbian pride #butch lesbian #femme lesbian #stud lesbian #trans lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #transmasc lesbian #transfem lesbian #he/him lesbian #lesbian community #lesbian safe #lesbian culture #anti bi lesbian #anti mspec lesbian #dyke #dyke pride

[muppetcube]

Nobody is required to explain their personal relationship with their identity with you. I, however, will talk nonstop if given the chance and will give you a wildly different answer every time

#my relationship with myself and my identity and the world around me is constantly changing and evolving. if you asked me to explain my #identity this morning i would've given you a different answer than i'd give you if you asked me right now #because throughout the day i considered myself differently and had the chance to think more on it #identity doesn't have to be a rigid blade you carry to keep yourself safe. identity can be something as simple as a flowy shirt you like or #a cup you're drinking your favorite beverage out of. on the other hand #identity IS rigid for some people. and that's also okay. but we're talking about genderfuck folks and all the cool shit they're doin #i lost the plot writing these notes ik air drying in my bathroom after my shower (this too is gender) #queer #lgbt #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #queer community #lesbian #he/him lesbian #neopronouns #butch lesbian #genderqueer #gender nonconforming #genderfuck #trans #transgender #uhh. #inane identity ramblings #new gender tag

[beware-of-eels]

One day I’ll sit down and finish my list of izzy’s injuries but for now you get bruises and scars as i see fit n gfdms k

character practice pt. 2

#total drama #tdi #total drama island #td izzy #td eva #td noah #i think izzy comes across too cute in an aww way in this but oh well #team escope #anywhays sorry to every character that i give some kind of undercut im just a simple lesbian #also izzys wearing a compression top under her tank bc i said so #id say binder specifically but girl is too active for anything with extreme compression to be safe imo #also struggled to make noah look as like #dorky as i wanted to but oh well #i will not EVER be drawing him in his monstrocity of layers sorry fresh i would rather die #noah will just have to be cold IMSORRY #anyways this is just Wide Awake Girl and her two perpetually exhausted friends #evas probably getting plenty of sleep but her face just looks like that #noah sleeps so much but so inconsistantly and hes dying on the outside sorry to him #anyway enough of that #my art

[lesbian-flagzz]

I wanted to make a all inclusive/alternate Lesbian flag

Introducing, the Dusk Lesbian flag!

Small explainations of the stripes and Hex codes under cut

(If you are a exclusionist/terf/lesbian seperatist/any form of gatekeeper or bigot this flag is not for you)

Lesbian Attraction: This stripe is meant to represent all ways someone may experience lesbian attraction. Romantic, sexual, queerplatonic, sensual, polyamorious and any other I didn’t mention

Sexuality: A stripe centering around lesbian sexuality

Femmes/Pride: Representing femmes and pride of being a lesbian

Community/Inclusion of all Lesbians: This stripe represents the community and unconditional inclusion of every lesbian, everyone who is a lesbian is welcomed with open arms

Trans/Nonbinary/Futch Lesbians: Centering trans/nonbinary lesbians, highlighting trans lesbians, nonbinary lesbians (no matter the gender alignment or if they are multigender or genderfluid) and futches (someone who is both butch and femme/a mix of butch and femme)

Diversity/History: This stripe is representing the many diverse ways of how you can be a lesbian (nonbinary lesbian, aspec lesbian,mspec lesbian, he/him, they/them lesbians, butch/futch/femme lesbians and many more) and the vast history of lesbians

Masc Lesbians/Butches: This stripe stands for masculine lesbians (he/him lesbians, any lesbian who may identify as a boy/masc in some way) and butches

#lesbian #sapphic #qlw #wlw #nonbinary lesbian #he/him lesbian #nblw #mspec lesbian #queer #lgbt+ #safe for anyone #lesbian flag

[aholotte]

happy international lesbian day to aspec lesbians trans lesbians nonbinary lesbians intersex lesbians mspec lesbians lesboys straight lesbians bigender lesbians he/him lesbians butches femmes studs dykes et al! we are so kewl

#mspec lesbian #mspec lesbian safe #lesboy #he/him lesbian #aspec lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #trans lesbian #straightbian #queerhet #butch #femme #stud #dyke #intersex lesbian #bigender lesbian

[lairofsirenium]

𝔐𝔶 𝔱𝔞𝔨𝔢 𝔬𝔫 𝔞𝔫 𝔞𝔲𝔱𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔦𝔠 𝔩𝔢𝔰𝔟𝔦𝔞𝔫 𝔣𝔩𝔞𝔤

My take on an autistic lesbian flag

[ID: two different versions of a rectangular flag with seven horizontal stripes. The left version has a black infinity symbol on it, which is a commonly used symbol for autistic people. The stripes, from top to bottom: dark red, red, pastel yellow, white, pastel yellow, turquoise-ish blue, dark turquoise-ish blue. All the colors, aside from the yellow and white, are dulled. End ID]

I wanted to make an autistic lesbian flag, as I kept coming across flags made by exclusionists (and didn't really connect with the ones that weren't made by exclusionists).

This flag was made to include all autistic lesbians, therefore it is for anybody who identifies as a lesbian for any reason: lesboys, gaybians, mspec lesbians, straightbians, he/him lesbians, etc are allowed in this flag as long as they're autistic. If you're not okay with that, go cry to your exclusionist friends, snowflake :3

Edit: Oh also self diagnosed are allowed to use the flag as well because the validity of your autisticness should not be measured by what an allistic person says on a piece of paper. <3

#autism #actually autistic #autistic #autistic lesbian #lesbian #mspec lesbian safe #pro mspec lesbian #gaybian #straightbian #lesboy #he/him lesbian #lesbian flag

[sirenium]

[ID: a banner that's a pale magenta color, with a cropped he/him lesbian flag in the left corner. Black text sits beside the cropped flag, saying 'this blog is a safespace for he/him lesbians' end ID]

[ID: a bluish, slightly darker shade of lavender, with black text reading 'this blog is a safespace for she/her gays'. A cropped she/her gay flag can be seen on the left side of the text. End ID]

I tried my hand at making banner things, lol. Feel free to use if for some reason you like these janky ass banners that took about five minutes each. /lh

credit is appreciated but not necessarily needed, as these were made for fun.

#this blog is a safe space #for #she/her gay #he/him lesbian #queer people #anyone can use whatever pronouns they feel most represented by #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqiia+ #lgbt pride #pronoun nonconforming #exclus please kindly fuck off if you see this #You're wasting everyone's time by interacting cuz I block exclusionists on sight #I do not fuck with y'all your hatred and ignorance gives me a headache

[sbd-laytall]

I can't believe this show is trying to get me to believe that Lana isn't a lesbian with comphet when they literally keep showing her looking at Chloe like the other girl is the most precious thing she has ever seen. Literal heart eyes.

Smallville | 2.01 | "Vortex"

#I love Clark for being the chaotic kind (bisexual) giant that he is but there is no way that Lana has feelings for him when she's so gay #obviously this is just my opinion #but she's such a lesbian with comphet to me #LANA LANG IS A LESBIAN OKAY 👭 #she was with Whitney because he 'made her feel safe' and I may only be on season two but I just don't buy that Lana has feelings for Clark #she just has so much more chemistry and genuine moments with Chloe #chlana #lana lang #chloe sullivan #smallville #pics are mine #my post

[florallylly]

sorry queen but a cheater is a cheater is a cheater and that's not a label i easily let go of

#obviously extenuating circumstances #but i don't mean i was traumatized and repressing my feelings blah blah staying with the safe choice #so u were an asshole. #so u obviously don't care enough about the person ur dating to stop for a second and actually think about the consequences of ur actions #and the fact that she didn't even acknowledge what she did #and just happily ended up with her man and her ex APOLOGIZED? #pick up ur head king ur crown is falling #and yes this is a major reason why i refuse to even support ronance #like it's my personal opinion and i'm not stopping people from shipping who they like #but i also want to get my thoughts out there scream into the void or whatever #as a lesbian from a small town i'll tell u i would certainly not date a girl who cheated on my best friend #so don't pull that argument on me #it just feels evil to me #like can't steve have ONE thing like ONE person in his corner #why make him constantly apologize and have to give way when he's done like. nothing wrong #first of all he was reclaiming queer duh #and he was right to be pissed #i get that it's two attractive girls and one is canonically gay #but ur reaching

[arcticflowerz]

Indigenous Lesbian

A flag for people who are Indigenous/Aboriginal/Native and a Lesbian.

Feel free to switch out Indigenous for Aboriginal or Native in the name of the flag.

Flag by: @arcticflowerz

Do not repost my flags/the things I coin with out credit.

This flag was made by an actual Inuk. DO NOT USE THIS FLAG IF YOUR TRANSRACE/TRANSINDIGENOUS! THIS FLAG IS EXCLUSIVE TO BODILY INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. By “bodily indigenous” I do not mean you have to be “indigenous passing” to use this flag. You can still use this flag if your white passing or not. By “bodily indigenous” I’m referring to having indigenous blood and indigenous relatives in your family tree. For those who don’t know what transrace is, it’s a transID label that means “you were born one race but BELIEVE you should have been born another race instead.” Transindigenous is just the indigenous version where “You BELIEVE you should be indigenous but aren’t”. I DO NOT SUPPORT TRANSRACE/TRANSINDIGENOUS, AS SUCH, THEY CANNOT USE THIS FLAG.

Here’s are the links to the Indigenous Vincian/Gay, Indigenous Varian, Indigenous Fluidian, and Indigenous Enbian versions I made.

#actually indigenous #actually inuk #actually lesbian #actually native #my flags #mogai safe #lgbt safe space #aboriginal #indigenous #native american #native #métis #first nations #inuit #inuk #flag coining #he/him lesbian #transfem lesbian #enby lesbian #mspec lesbian #lesbian pride #lesbianism #lesbian #new flag #pride flags #flag #pride flag #lgbtq flags #anti transrace #anti trace

[many-gay-magpies]

question for skyblr: is tsadi using he/him, like, a canonized thing, or is it just one of those popular fan hcs? because if it's the latter i have a proposition.

(inspired by the he/him teth post with the same format)

#i have the proposition even if he/him tsadi IS canon. because i am and always will be of the belief that all sky spirits' gender is left up #-to fan interpretation. #anyways. in this scenario i think she would sound like melody gardot #sky tsadi #also in my course of searching for a tsadi pic to use for this post i stumbled across someone ELSE's lesbian tsadi post #so safe to say i am not alone in this! #sky cotl #sky: children of the light #magpie in the sky

[tomwambsgans]

tom's straightguysona was constructed by looking to the emphasis of exclusive heterosexuality without necessarily macho masculinity in 40s-modern middle america as well as academia, particularly the excusable effeminacy granted to men in the upper classes due to it simply being a mark of man being civilized, which is perfectly fine so long as you openly lament the loss of true masculinity. and greg's straightguysona was constructed by listening to weezer in middle and high school

#tom wambsgans #greg hirsch #tomgreg #do NOT take this as an admonishment of weezer either they're def one of my fav bands #i just think that greg has lowkey weezer masculinity whenever he does attempt to perform it #like i imagine him languishing over pink triangle in hs as an excuse for having no gf #like 'oh what a tragedy every girl i like is a lesbian' #and then later he realizes that he was purposefully having crushes on unattainable girls bc it was safe #anyway back to tom. i've been reading this book called Gay New York and it's gay history from 1890 to 1940 #and it's got a lot of insights on how homosexuality and gender were constructed specifically through class #and how that intersects #fun example is that middle class men - as opposed to working and high class men - are the least likely to tolerate homosexuality #BUT middle class men who ARE gay are more likely than working and high class gays to be versatile #like both in the sense of top and bottom and also in just accepting both the masculine and feminine in yourself rather than going hard in #either direction #mine #gay tom #gay greg

[jelfish-aether]

NEW DISGRUNTLED OLD MAN ALERT

#flight rising #saw him. scried him with capsule. fell in love. #immediately got so many lore ideas #i’m thinking he came from a mostly guardian-based clan and came along to the outpost #and is so concerned for the political structure that he kind of just settles down there by accident #and the entire clan becomes his charge because he’s just. so worried. so worried for everyone in it #pyxis (leader) still holds the title of clan leader but everyone gets wither for help instead #she’s relieved (she’s a grieving disaster lesbian. i feel so bad for her) #wither is a grandpa that understands nothing tahts going on and just wants everyone to be safe and happy #and polaris (tries to usurp pyxis) is the bane of his existence #in a ‘what is with this sassy lost child’ way

[genderstarbucks]

Is there a hesbian4hesbian flag? For he/him lesbians attracted to hesbians

Shegay4shegay + Hesbian4hesbian!!

Shegay4shegay is a term for someone who's a she/her gay and prefers to date/be in relationships with other she/her gay individuals.

Hesbian4hesbian is a term for someone who's a he/him lesbian and prefers to date/be in relationships with other he/him lesbian individuals.

#xenogender #xenogenders #mogai #pro mogai #xenogender coining #xenogender community #mogai safe #mogai terms #mogai friendly #she/her gay #shegay #he/him lesbian #hesbian