#i just don't understand

[madeforunkownpurpose]

U could be a girl. Like, if you wanted to be a cute girl, you could do it. Tbh be careful you're in a safe zone w/ regards to having a support system or being able to find a new one, worst comes to worst, but you'd be a great girl. Idk if you need dysphoria tbh, do you like the thought of being a cute girl? it's achievable

-- a man who transitioned the other way round w/ minimal history of dysphoria and is still happy w/ the choice (also idk I know gals who are also multigender, you don't have to be just a girl all the time if that's not your joy)

I think I'd be completely safe if I were to. I just don't know if I'd regret it or be wrong. I'm just nervous.

#tumblr #autism #adhd #trans? #transfem #trans #transgender #lgbtqplus #lgbtia #lgbt #lgbt pride #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #lesbians #bisexual #gay #i dont know #i dont fucking know #questioning #questions #i want answers #i just don't know #i just don't understand #confused #confusion

[pharawee]

Jin literally didn't even do anything this week (except for trying to de-escalate things in the present and being pissed with his friends in the past) and people are still singling him out and hating on him.

#jane watches stuff #yes i know this ep wasn't about jin #it's still the first thing i noticed after making the mistake of reading comments on mdl #my bad lmao #what about jin gets people so angry #i just don't understand #dead friend forever #but also i wonder if people would be just as quick to forgive top if they unlocked his sad backstory #because last week everyone still thought that he was the worst (except for jin obvsly)

[tamiisnthere]

It's strange to me why Altaïr's belt looks different in the AC1 promotional images, despite this variant of the belt was never in the game.

#assassin's creed #assassins creed #assassin #altaïr ibn-la'ahad #altaïr #altair #altair ibn la'ahad #belt #tamiisnthere's thought #shitpost #tell me if i'm wrong #And Ubisoft is still promoting Altaïr with this belt in merch #i just don't understand #My birthday is in two days and I'm sick *sigh*

[eepybubble]

i don't understand how people have a five step hair routine a ten step skincare routine a nail routine a skin routine time to shave their entire body and put makeup on everyday like girl aren't you tired

#if you like doing all that stuff good for you keep doing it #i just don't understand #how you have the time #and energy #borf barks

[raven--stag]

Soo uhhh has anyone figured out how to erase the bathroom scene from your memory?

#asking for a friend #btvs #i just don't understand #how the fuck am i supposed to put this behind me?? #and how buffy can forgive him (i assume she will) #or even let him near her #i hate this show #i hate that writers just keep doing shit that makes no sense just because they want viewers to hate spike and spuffy #as someone who started watching this show BECAUSE of spike and spuffy #who doesn’t really care about anything or anyone other than them #i am annoyed

[furious-blueberry0]

I hate it when a friendship between two men or one between two women can perfectly survive if one of them gets a partner, but then if it's a friendship between a man and a woman then one of them needs to go.

"the family and the spouse are more important" than way can a man spend an entire weekend alone with just his friends, and a woman with just her girl friends, with absolutely no repercussion, but the moment that someone like me tries to go out with a friend with a partner I should "step out" "give the two of them space" why do I become "a jealous clingy bitch" "a family ruiner" "a stealer of spouses"

Why are same sex friendships treated with the respect they deserve, why are the opposite sex one treated as garbage.

Why should I just leave them, why can't I just go out alone with them, why can't I continue to love them, why do I have to disappear and go "make my own life"

THEY ARE PART OF MY LIFE, why do I have to let them go because the spouse could "get jealous of us"?

Why is their love worth more than mine? Why is my love not worth enough? Why is it worthless?

WHY IS MY LOVE WORTHLESS

I HATE THIS I HATE THIS I HATE THIS I HATE THIS I HATE THIS I HATE THIS I HATE THIS I HATE THIS I HATE THIS I HATE THIS

#I just don't understand #asexuality #aromanticism

[sherlock-is-ace]

What is it with emails? Why can't people just read?! You have the message right there, if you scroll back up when replying, you can read it again. I don't think I've ever, in my entire life, have gotten an answer to all the questions I asked in an email...

I've tried bullet points, I tried bold font, I tried separating each question into a different paragraph. I don't know what else to do.

Is it an unspoken rule I know nothing about that you have to choose only one of the questions (or sometimes none of them) to reply to? They're not options for a fun little activity, they're actual concerns I have as someone who's going to work for you!

What the actual fuck is wrong with people?! Just fucking READ!

#i'm so so tired #the amount of times i've taken the time to reread an email to make sure i got all the info they asked for in there #only to get send another asking the same thing again BECAUSE THEY DON'T FUCKING READ! #i just don't understand #like i literally don't get what the mental process is #i get that we're all busy and our minds are somewhere else sometimes #but then don't reply to an email unless you can put in the fucking mental effort!! #it's part of the job!! #sometimes i'm not in the right state of mind to work and you know what i do? take a little break #I don't keep working fuck everything up and then make it your problem!! #i'm so angry today. excuse me ahgnshngjd #angel talks #personal

[the-cookie-of-doom]

i've been struggling with this paper all weekend, and it's bc it's depressing. I'm ending it with the history of the AIDS crisis and that i just. not an easy thing to get through.

#cookie speaks #it doesn't matter that it's not my history #it's still horrifying knowing what happened #and to be someone currently in the medical field #knowing how it failed my community #empathy is my greatest strength when it comes to nursing and i just #cannot fathom the way queer people were treated back then #how can you swear to take care of people #dedicate your life to it #then watch them die in alone and in agony #and somehow feel justified in making that decision #i just don't understand

[artistakai]

How can ppl hv fun arguing even if it's with bad ppl?? My head gets painful and hella stressed just from small disagreement

#txt #i just don't understand

[phantomoftheorpheum]

tumblr: here's the new update!!

me, without fail, every single time:

#i just don't understand #td #personal

[neroraven]

how many of you who claim to detest radical feminist theory have actually read it?

#honest question #I can't fathom actually reading radfem theory & arriving to the conclusion that it's anything but a call for women's liberation #I can't fathom going through the theory and not seeing how liberal tendencies in feminism annihilate its political power #I can't fathom hating women who agree with it #I just don't understand #unless ofc yall have never read a word of it #which I find more plausible #radfem #radical feminism #rad fem #m

[compo67]

y'all, i don't understand people who are mean about sam winchester

#sam winchester #i just don't understand #how can you be mean about sunshine???

[cowardlycowboys]

why so many club posts why everyone really into the idea of clubbing

#omg kiera no one cares #i have never been and i think they only exist in the city which I'm not going too #i have never been to a bar either #i just don't understand

[shrews-things]

Why is my scholarship over 20k forints less than last semester if my gpa was better, someone explain to me pls 😭😭

#I did super well!!! I had a gpa of 4.8 #and I had the same amount of classes than the semester before #I just don't understand #last semester it was enough that I could pay for all my therapy appointments for a month #I mean don't get me wrong I'm still glad I'm getting this much I just don't understand #also I was happy I didn't have to rely on mom as much when it was more #she works way too much as it is

[naomiknight-17]

Why did someone pay to put this on my dash. This is nothing. Why are you wasting your money like this

#i just don't understand #why do people blaze stuff that isn't communicating or advertising anything??? #why??? #mod post #blaze

[heretherebedork]

The idea that Nan thinks Phu runs because Nan is gay and Phu can't handle it is even more heartbreaking when you consider that Phu's best memory is from having no worries as a kid and how much that could be taken as 'before I knew you were gay' and my entire heart just breaks for Nan again and again. Loving someone who constantly runs and can't tell you anything and only helps you because your actual best friend tells him he's hurting you rather than him realizing it for himself and would rather ghost you for a decade than face the idea of just being your friend (no matter how many times you or other people prove that is true or how many people tell him he's special to you and that you have someone in your heart) is the worst love story you can imagine.

#the promise #the promise series #the promise the series #bl drama #bl series #thai bl #thai drama #thai series #thaibl #thai bl series #i just don't understand #why are we supposed to want Nan and Phu to get together?