i’m honestly devastated that i came back here because of these circumstances but i will forever be grateful that i have this tumblr because i can return to so many of my favorite memories with a click of a button.
evidently i always thought you were the greatest human ever. rest in peace andre ❤️
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I loveeeed 'Sober' Thank you, it really is a beautiful fic I agree ♥️ is it weird that it has made me sad?!
About my favorite fic of yours hmm can't decide right now I still have few left to read and don't wanna give any judgement before reading all of 'em. But what I know is that all of the fics I have already read are too good, and I have enjoyed every bit. Some I have read twice or even thrice. They make me feel better!
Aww you're such a sweetheart! You're making me blush so much this morning 🥰🥰
You've read some more than twice?? Ahhhhhh 🥰🥰🥰 I'd love to hear which you like the best. I always wonder what people like and don't like.
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If you were dropped back in time and found yourself at an early Cavern performance of the Beatles, what songs would you request? Which Beatle would you try to hook up with and what methods would you use?
HMMMMMM.
Play Searching, Paul. Play Searching. I would like to see them do When I’m 64. I’m also keen for some of the more rocky stuff, to see, especially Paul, really go for it.
Look, there's no situation where I'm not making a play to have sex with John Lennon. It's going to be bad. He’s probably so gross then. But, I'm doing it anyway.
I think it’s important we consider how we might go about getting all of them. For fun! So:
John: I think it's going to be hanging about and acting somewhat aloof. I'm already blond, so that helps. I reckon if you manage to take the piss out of him, but then show some kindness he’d be following you around like a lost puppy. I’m not weird enough to get him any other ways, sadly.
Paul: Just... stand still near him long enough, should probably do it?
George: Tell him that he's the best gutarist, and also, Paul's not even very attractive.
Ringo: I think I would try and make some jokes, perhaps hang around and see if I can ask for a lift somewhere. Ringo just seems so normal, that really it would be a matter of a normal amount of flirting.
What do people think???
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You matter. Seeing your notifications make me v happy 💙
i appreciate you a whole lot :( <3
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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".
Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"
And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".
Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.
At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.
So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!
Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!
Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!
Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.
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brain fluff rot. cause red hair sulky baby cheol is on my brain.
you were working at home because its a saturday. so while you and cheol is at home. he decided to be clingy while you do your project at your computer. he would pout tho when you stop petting his hair. (so beware!)
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i love your brain so much, how do you always come up with the fluffiest and cutest ideas ever 🫠
okay, so finally the day has come - you and cheol are both at home, at the same time, together. he has a day off, doesn't need to worry about anything (except for if he should get up at 4 or 5 pm or maybe stay in bed for the whole day), and he has a whole day for you and kkuma with no schedules.
except you decide to be a responsible adult and do some work which is so??? hello, he's right there, half naked in bed, all warm, bulky and cuddly, and you still prefer to work on your project instead of cuddle him in your bed. this is unacceptable, and cheol does not tolerate this behaviour.
you don't have to be looking at him to know he's pouting, with his lower lip jutted out adorably (do i have to mention his big sparkly eyes, begging you to come back to bed?). and oh my god, why are you so stubborn? he's been looking at you like that for the past hour and you still don't pay him even an ounce of attention. and choi seungcheol, general leader of seventeen, age 29 needs attention. a lot of attention.
at this point his hands are itching to touch you, like he's practically screaming "PLEASE HOLD MY HAND, BABY". eventually, he somehow succeeded in persuading you to come to bed with your laptop, mumbling something about it being more comfortable than your chair (even though he himself bought that chair, the most expensive one, to make sure it would be very very very comfortable and good for your back).
the second he covers you with the blanket his head is on your chest, and arms are tightly wrapped around you (he won't let you get away for the next couple of hours) (the rest of the day probably), and as a cherry on top he places your hand on his head clearly signalising he wants his head pats.
and you do just that, a bit amused with you boyfriends neediness. nonetheless, you keep patting his head, and running your fingers through his red hair strands that have already began fading, and stroking his cheek, and running your thumb over his hand that is resting on your tummy. all that to make up for the audacity to leave him alone in bed.
dare to stop petting his hair, though, and you're met with a very very whiny choi seungcheol, who starts talking in pout how you have betrayed him, and that you don't love him anymore.
this man just wants to be babied, i don't care if he's a hard dom or whatever - CHOI SEUNGCHEOL IS A SULKY BABY.
EXHIBITS OF POUTY RED HAIRED CHEOLLIE:
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