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#Acespec Positivity
lgbtqtext · 17 days
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Aspec people who use the label “queer”, you’re so important. I’m glad you exist.
Aspec people who would use the label but feel they can’t because of aphobia, I’m so sorry. I wish you safety and peace.
Aspec people in general, I hope you’re having a good day. You deserve a community that accepts you.
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chaos-in-one · 1 year
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From your local ace and arospec gay + trans person: ily cis & straight aspecs and I hope y’all have a wonderful day, you get used as a scapegoat and get caught up in so much lgbtq+ discourse and just know you’re always welcome here <3
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lgbtq-userboxes · 17 days
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mspeclesboy · 2 years
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what is up gamers. shoutout to acespec people who do still feel sexual attraction sometimes. fuck i know what's going on with my orientation but i know i'm sure as hell not allosexual. whether you only experience it once in a million years or your sexual orientation changes sometimes or you only experience it under certain circumstances or any other reason you might id as acespec while experiencing sexual attraction. this ones for you
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liomdog · 1 year
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anyway. arospecs that feel a pull to aromantic terms despite having a weird definitely-kind-of-allo experience with romance 🤝 me, an acespec that feels a pull to asexual terms despite having a weird definitely-kind-of-allo experience with sexuality. we are cool and swag actually and our experience on the borders of attraction types is a unique insight into sexuality and romanticism
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Love to queer aspecs!
The word "queer" encompasses all of my contradictions, all of my strangeness, and all of my questions in a warm kind hug. It says that I'm proud of my contradictions, and I'm okay with being strange. To me, queer means happiness and certainty in the face of ambiguity. I don't need to be sure of every single aspect of myself, I shift and I change. I'm always queer.
As aspecs, we may contradict. We're definitely seen as strange, and give ourselves and others plenty of questions. We don't need to have an answer to every question to call ourselves aspec. We don't need to be clear of confusion. We can exist happily in the weirdness of the aromantic and asexual spectrums.
To aspecs who identify with the word "queer", you're amazing 💚💜
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oddball-queer · 2 years
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major fucks to ppl who are asexual in a bisexual way, ppl who are omniromantic in an aromantic way, and just generally ppl who are aspec in an mspec way and ppl who are mspec in an aspec way
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bizarreaizen · 1 year
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someone: hey can you give me some relationship advice?
me who's aroace: communicate.
someone: I tried but it didn't-
me: break up.
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calamitydarcy · 6 days
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shoutout to acespec and/or arospec people who still feel some amount of sexual/romantic attraction btw. shoutout to everyone who isn't fully aro/ace and isn't fully allo. shoutout to the aspecs who feel like they don't fully fit in aro/ace communities or allo communities because of it. i love you all i am baking you cookies
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acexualien · 4 months
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Are you also a proud citizen like me? 😎
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Sex-favorable acespecs, you’re great. I’m glad you exist.
Kinky acespecs, you’re wonderful! I hope you’re having a good day.
Your relationship with sex and desire is your own. You shouldn’t have to explain it to anyone. If you use an acespec label, you have a place in the acespec and queer communities, and I’m honored to share them with you.
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if I see one more “straight people on the aromantic and/or asexual spectrum don’t count” I will personally light shit on fire
If you’re heterosexual and aromantic, you’re valid. If you’re asexual and heteroromantic, fuck yeah, you’re valid too. You belong here, in LGBTQIA+ spaces, and I love and accept you here. You belong at the pride parade, you belong in the LGBTQIA+ clubs at your school or university, and you belong in the LGBTQIA+ community.
We love you. You belong. anyone who says otherwise can go fuck themselves.
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uncannyalien · 21 days
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Happy International Asexuality Day to my fellow aces!!
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vamprcha · 21 days
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it's international asexuality day! remember to celebrate by giving ur local asexual 100$ and listening to the m o s t graphic sex joke that you'd never expect from them 💜
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emo-sunshine42 · 1 year
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Reminder that it's not your fault if someone gets a crush on you. It's not your fault that they like you like that. Especially if you don't like them back, are aromantic, asexual, or any other reason- even if you don't have a reason!
You aren't in the wrong for not liking them back
I promise
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