#Any other tags I need to add?

[non-beanary-freak]

So I usually don't make posts like this but I'm really feeling pretty rough rn.

My dysphoria has been pretty manageable for the past couple of years despite my circumstances (not out to anyone I live with, no hormones, no clothes I like).

Turns out! That's not cutting it anymore! Turns out I actually have to do things to feel better (evil).

With that being said, I'm having difficulties figuring out how I should view my body. Like on the one hand if I was my agab I'd be very happy with it. But since I'm not I have a lot of issues with it.

I also am having a hard time reckoning with the fact that I may never look quite like I want to. But is that okay? Is my idea of what I want to look like all too rooted in cisheteronormative ideas of beauty? Too rooted in fatphobia? Too rooted in whiteness?

Basically, I just want to feel happy in my body, but I'm having difficulties differentiating between valid gender dysphoria and societal standards of what looks good.

Any advice my siblings in transgender?

#trans #transgender #dysphoria vent #gender #gender dysphoria #trans help #any other tags i need to add?

[pollsnatural]

#yeah it's a weird poll #but i have an explanation #i don't know enough about directors and executive producers to make a separate poll about them #but i needed to add robert singer somewhere #and i know that if i add another actors it'll just be 85% j2m and 15% everyone else #so if you want to rewatch the show with any other actor choose 'other' and write your option in the tags #polls #spn #supernatural #spn actors #jensen ackles #jared padalecki #misha collins

[mattodore]

playing with dionte's hair bc i'm procrastinating

#river dipping #dionte duval #lykos #ts4 #i do really love how dionte and nicholas kinda have a b4b (bald for bald) thing going on.... but that first hair........ #he looks so good... the urge to keep it is gonna make me develop a twitch under my eye... #i love the shadows the locs add btw like i personally loveee when hair creators add shading #like the DRAMAAA it adds!!! #also don't look too closely at him here bc i actually haven't updated him yet hence no proper edit of him (tho i probably won't change much #i'm really just supposed to be cleaning out the hundreds!! of duplicate households in my library dkhjnkfgh i just. get so distracted #i also have to fix mattodore's households bc i think i accidentally deleted the updated version of them at 20... #like there are multiple other saves?? but they're all with matthias's old chin??? like literally WHERE did the updated version go #so i need to clean out my library from the top down and fix their sims #i really messed my sleep schedule up the day before yesterday when i was working on those edits of delphi btw #but i did enjoy rewatching secretary and watching charade while staying up all night to do them <3 #also listened to the first two chapters of freedom is a constant struggle! editing may take me forever but i do do other things as i do it #...........talking a lot in these tags bc i'm seriously procrastinating jdkhnf i do NOT ! want to clean through my library it's a mess #OH. ALSO GOOD MORNING I FORGOT TO SAY THAT ‼️ #seeing this again two days later and seeing the amount of notes....... y'all weren't meant to reblog this kjhdkfjhndkjgnh #now i'm like damn... is there any reason to make his intro edit like i did for ria and delphi 😭😭😭😭😭

[tazmiilly]

#tw bodily harm #jic #gravity falls #ford pines #fiddleford mcgucket #its a crude drawing but lmk if i need to add any other tags #i didng count fords fingers here thank god theyre right #tw self harm

[avadaniels]

Hawk and Tim + dominance and submission (part 5) Fellow Travelers (2023)

#fellow travelers #hawkins fuller #tim laughlin #matt bomer #jonathan bailey #hawk x tim #tim x hawk #impact play cw #fellowtravelersedit #hawktimdomsub #* #as always if this needs any other tags just tell me and i'll add them #bratty tim...scream i love him #i am normal about possessive doms i swear. #i actually made a really lovely coloring for this scene #however there's a very specific and very strange reason why i made it b&w instead. but. anyways

[the-kipsabian]

wrestling fic writers!!

i have decided to be the change i wanna see, so lets do a nice little thing for each other, as a community full of incredible and talented writers. yes this is writer specific only, but thats cause thats where the main problem of people not interacting with creative works lies in this fandom as far as i can tell and have seen people talking about it especially in the last couple of months

if you read this, please add links to your written works. it can be just a single fic youre really proud of, your writing blog, your writing tag, your ao3 account, anything where your works can be found

and if you leave your link here, PLEASE check out someone else that has left their works, and interact with them. leave them a comment, even just a kudos, REBLOG their fic, etc. interacting is the keyword i want to emphasize here, along with building a sort of a masterpost of where to find people writing in this fandom

and if you are not a writer, youre still highly encouraged to interact with this post and share it and show love to the writers in this fandom, obviously!! i think that should go without saying, but adding it in anyways

a bit more about my vision and resources and such under the read more, but thats the gist of it. happy linking and please be kind and supportive to each other!! 💜

nobody is too big or too small to add their things on this list. if you write and post anything in this fandom whatsoever, be it fics or drabbles or headcanons, any companies or any kind of ships or reader inserts or any content whatsoever no matter how 'dead dove dont eat' or hell even if its just meta, we welcome all here and nobody can say that one thing is less valid than another. just please tag your content accordingly, especially if theres content warnings, and feel free to mention what you write, who you write, any info you wish to leave that would help people before they click on your links. but even so, that should not and hopefully will not deter people from interacting, no matter what it is. someones trash is another ones treasure, i promise you

and unless the amount gets really overwhelming, im personally going to be checking out everyone that leaves something here. unless it squeaks me out, but even then, i'll spread the word. and i just wish as many people as possible will do the same, and not just use this as a potential board to only get eyes on their stuff. ofc thats also the point, but you should give as much, if not more, than you get. we need to be kind and supportive of one another (besides, from personal experience, if you show love to someone else, they are more likely to do it back than without you taking the first step, so... pay it forward)

as for resources, heres a few links that should be helpful in leaving comments and feedback. of course everyone does their own thing and no comment is too big or too small to leave, but for those who need them. if you have anything you'd like added to this list, dont hesitate to get in touch or drop it in the post yourself!!

101 comment starters

ao3 floating comment box

kudos html

dont know how to comment? easy solutions

a quick hot guide to commenting (by yours truly)

an overall guide to appreciating fanfic writers

and just in general.. leave people comments. leave them asks about their projects. just go over and gush about their work. i know it sounds embarrassing but writers love nothing more than to hear that someone likes what they are doing. if you find a fic that hasnt been updated in forever, comment on it. it might just be the spark the author needs to continue. while kudos and likes are nice, and just as valuable to some, its definitely in the words the people leave for them that matter the most. im not saying this to put pressure on anyone, its just how it is, and i feel like unless people are writers themselves, and even then sometimes, thats just hard to grasp, especially if the writer is a smaller and less popular one who doesnt get a lot of traffic in the first place

i think thats all. just be nice and considered to everyone, reblog peoples works, this post with others add ons and so forth. and if i find anyone talking shit here or at other writers for something they share, you'll be blocked and im probably taking your kneecaps. be fucking nice. we are all struggling here and we need to stick together

happy sharing and commenting 💜💜

#wrestling fanfiction #wrestling fic #aew fanfic #aew fanfiction #wwe fanfiction #wwe fanfic #i hope this make some sort of coherent sense #despite being a writer im really bad at words lmao #i also dont know what to tag this with without clogging main tags so im going to trust moots to get this going first #just. this is a topic im passionate about. i love writing i love writers and having seen the wrestling fandom as of late really struggling #with this. we need to do something. even a little bit helps. actually get people leaving feedback and commenting again #supporting each other. we can do this together #dont let dreams be dreams lets fucking do this #just be nice and help each other out #im gonna stop now before i get overly emotional. if theres any questions let me know tho i think i got the main parts pretty clear here #again moots. im trusting you to get this started. im not gonna add my own shit here immediately this isnt about me #this is about the community as a whole #i also hope nobody is afraid of adding themselves here. you are all valid and worth the attention no matter what #just remember to also give if you leave something here. look at the previous links. look in the notes to find more people #okay thats it i need to make dinner now #lets just be kind and support one another. promise me that 💜 #night is an absolute mess on main

[sp-ud]

Twitter has really rotted how people view serious and complex situations holy shit.

Fuck you mean "lack of awareness". Even before Niki finally made a tweet about it it's. Pretty fucking obvious that she likely was also a victim of his to an extent too. Especially after other people, some of which even weren't as close as Niki and the other 2 mentioned in their second tweet, also spoke up about their past bad experiences with him.

"Need to speak up" yeah they all probably should eventually but I don't think it's that fucking shocking that they haven't immediately said anything? They all knew him beyond his content, either he hide this from them well or manipulated them too. Or a combination.

And depending on how much they already knew or experienced, either this is an extreme shock to them because of how close they were to him or they're realizing that he wasn't just like that to them or that believing something like "oh that's just how he is!" Wasn't a healthy mindset.

Anyways what I'm getting at is there's a whole laundry list of reasons it's not that fucking weird for it to take a while for people who were closer to him to say anything about it.

Also saying "I take back the Niki thing. So glad her and tubbo have spoken up <3" when this is literally Niki's tweet

Is wild. How do you read that tweet and your emotions coming away from it are "oh so glad she's finally spoken up about it!" Like bro. She's literally talking about how thinking about all this is causing her to physically shake. What the fuck are you "<3"ing at. Have some self awareness.

#reblogs r off because im just complaining abt this one dumbass and this shouldnt be spread around and take away from actually supporting #shelby and the others #wilbur soot #< and this is for anyone whos filtered out his name #spud rambles #if u think i need to add any tw tags just send me an ask

[crowlore]

man. been thinkin bout this sleeping arrangement

do you think the twins slept in rem's bed the entire year or only after tesla

#i hesitate to call this a bed because we don't really see the whole thing. the only other angle makes it look like a duvet on the floor 😭 #look. i've just been thinking about their family a lot #rem loved her boys a lot obviously. it's clear #she wasn't prepared to be a mother but she wanted to be one for them #and she made mistakes like any mother does. the difference being she didn't get the time to make up for it. she had one year #i'll be honest i've been rambling in the tags hoping i'd hit the point where i could tag them all without it showing up in the search #because i need to maintain my personal tagging system. archival reasons #but i don't have much else to add here #not right now anyway lol #trigun #rem saverem #vash the stampede #millions knives

[aquared]

where did this small victorian london orphan boy find wifi

#i threw the ‘ no irises ‘ stylization right iut the window really quickly oops #sorry he just looked way better with them here #ill have to update the other guys later #there are like 2 things i need to fix on this sprite but ill do that later #i think he came out rlly good #aquared homestuck au where the midnight crew are the kids and there are some other guys too i think #homestuck #homestuck fantroll #not tagging the felt because its just him #crowbar 07 #i dont have any extra comments to make back here #is it obvious what i plan on doing with him though #oh ! also there are two extra versions of this with 2 different palettes ill add those in a reblog though

[degreesofkei]

school play rewired my brain (2)

#sydney x kylar #i'll add tags in case anyone needs to find/filter #degrees of lewdity #kylar the loner #sydney the faithful #THEY MAKE ME ILL OKAY #you are NOT telling me you never held hands or better smooch your childhood friend when yall taught each other to take care of yourselves #bro #m!kylar #gn!sydney #yeah m!kylar is such a twink any ship with him is yaoi to me or something idk gender doesn't matter #also i want viewers to guess

[chrisrin]

Scar visits The Entity.

#hermitcraft #hermitcraft fanart #grian #gtws #mcyt #chris doodles #oh boy my first ever horror art #i have never posted this type of art before #here we go time for the TAG DUMP! #please let me know if i need to add any other tags #tw blood #tw gore #tw body horror #tw trypophobia #tw scopophobia #tw eye contact #the entity is an absolute monstrosity and i love it SOOO much #hope grian makes it Freakier

[antevault]

please? 🥺

transcript under cut:

Etho: I kinda assumed you meant, like, take one of the memes and convince people it’s your task, kind of thing?

Martyn: …No, okay—

Etho: —I don’t know if that’s quite what you meant…

Martyn: No, I don’t think it was. I was—

Etho: [emphatically] Oh no.

Martyn: Okay, wait wait wait wait wait—

Etho: Would you say that’s a good task, though?

Martyn: …

Martyn: [indecisive] Uhh… Eee…. Oouughh….

Etho: [small, desperate] Please?

Martyn: You know what? Go on. Yeah, go on. You can have it.

Etho: YEAH!

Martyn: Go on. Go on!

Etho: I love you, Martyn! You’re the best!

#secret life #trafficblr #from martyn’s secret life episode 4 at about 19 minutes! #ethoslab #inthelittlewood #martyn inthelittlewood #martyn itlw #secret life session 4 spoilers #secret life 4 spoilers #lmk if i need to add any other spoiler tags! #i dont do fandom anymore but this moment deserves to be highlighted so i’m releasing it to the world

[quarks-pussy]

[Images description: Twelve pictures of Star Trek actors. The phrase "thank you for being both amazing actors and amazing people" is written across most of the images one word at a time, except for the two images in the middle. The middle images are of William Shatner, reading "not you!" and Robert Beltran, reading "or you for that matter". The actors in the other images are George Takei, René Auberjonois, DeForest Kelley, Gates McFadden, Wil Wheaton, Kate Mulgrew, Patrick Stewart, Siddig El Fadil (aka Alexander Siddig), Nichelle Nichols and Leonard Nimoy. End image description.]

Non exhaustive list of course. Many more such cases, in fact feel free to add

(insp)

#i considered putting sid's full name in the image description but i felt that might complicate things for screen reader users #but just so it's in the post i'll put it in the tags #siddig el tahir el fadil el siddig abdurrahman mohammed ahmed abdel karim el mahdi #yes i did copy paste it my memory is shit. i can't even remember my own full name... #(i gave myself like five different middle names at one point because if i'm already changing my name for trans reasons i might as well have #fun with it right but eventually i stopped using them because i literally kept forgetting my own name and had to look it up) #(i still have the note btw and since it seems i won't legally be using that last name anyway (nor any of the middle names) feel free to ask #anyway #star trek #not star trek #(schrödinger's post lol) #oh!!! i forgot one version of sid's name!! here goes #صدّيق الطاهر الفاضل الصدّيق عبدالرحمن محمد أحمد عبدالكريم المهدي #to be fair there's nothing in that tag (right now) but i guess i'm a completionist. or something #the others are ofc already findable because of the image description #oh and just fyi if you wanna add others do feel free to add new trek actors. i didn't include any here essentially because as soon as i inc #include one of them people are gonna complain i didn't include more of them. plus i ran out of space. sorry tawny #oh and to that one anon: i WILL still answer but i needed a break lol #original posts fresh from quark's pussy

[m-for-now]

I love it so so so so much when a character is like the Smart One in the group, who is always the one who remembers the details, analyzes every piece of informationen, makes the plans and is always the first one to understand or notice something. And then I love it when that same character is so incredibly oblivious to one thing. (Especially people being nice in any way.)

#Like #“yes. i already have an idea on how to do this #we just need to take care of x y and z and so on“ #and then they look like a deer in the headlights at someone doing something nice #“hey. we can do that thing you don't like doing” #“you had a long day. you rest and i'll do that for you” #“you haven't done that thing you always do yet. everything alright?” #and they just #○.○ #because they are logical and can pick up on patterns and are smart and they notice things #and they're not mean about it at all but it's just a #“you noticed?” #“you *Cared*?!” #i have a soft spot for characters who still need to learn they're lovable #and it's always so nice when they actually get it #found family is the best trope #i take no criticism #leo valdez #nico di angelo #neil josten #andrew minyard #so many others gosh #heroes of olympus #riordanverse #pjo #pjo hoo toa #all for the game #all for the gay #aftg #i can't add any more tags?!?! but there's more-

[u5an5]

Am I the only one that every time I get myself into new fandom I just sigh, knowing fully well that I just got next 20+ x reader, y/n, x Oc!whateverthefuck or just any form of self insert tags to blacklist?

#as aegosexual its specific kind of hell #“i dont have problem with smut (for me other forms of fics too but its just preferences) as long as IM not part of it” is #quite literally a definition. im physically incapable of reading those without having imagining that instead of y/n there #is ANY character that appears in lore its based on and feel the urge to put it into google docs and “correct” it just so im actually able t #enjoy it. not that selfinsert is anything fundamentally bad. i just treat it sort of like kink that i don't understand #i dont want to understand and DEFINITELY don't want to see it #tldr: i need to blacklist way more fnaf movie related tags than i ever wanted to #and finding them all is harder than you think #last time i had to add TEN SEPARATE TAGS #for ONE person #aegosexual #ace struggles #banning y/n from appearing in post itself doesn't work that well cause day/night exists #acespec #I JUST WROTE 'aego'... in tags and got THREE SEPARATE PROPOSITIONS of self insert #WHY

[starswallowingsea]

"I can't just post into the void on tumblr like I can on twitter" you can it's called making an untagged text post

#shay speaks #or having a dedicated original posts tag like me and not using any other tags #ugh i need to shower and eat and then go grocery shopping. #editing this to add #twitter #<- just for the general twitter refugees on here #ive never used twitter seriously a day in my life #but anyway.