#mourning a friend

[neymiiie]

I just want to see him again.

#persona 3 #persona #fanart #p3 #yukari takeba #artists on tumblr #p3fes #persona 3 the answer #the answer spoilers #<- tags I never thought I would use in the year 2024 #me when the 17 year old going through extreme trauma mourning the death of her best friend/boyfriend isnt making rational decisions #currently getting ready to fight the war on yukari in the answer on the side of yukari in the answer #I am not ready to go through this scene again but with good english voice acting #even with the honestly really bad voice acting in fes I still tear up when she says that line #anyway free my girl she did all of that but she deserves better anyway #me: I should try to practice drawing hands in a fun way like while drawing my fave characters! #also me: draws yukari having a breakdown

[lemonandpie]

Jason had a favorite perch when he was Robin. It was just a statue behind the library, with a wing you could sit under when it was raining, but Dick never paid attention to it and Tim never even knew about it, so it became his place, a symbol of his Robin. 

He didn’t think anyone noticed until he came back and found that the statue had been turned into a shrine to the dead Robin by the local kids

#Jason Todd #It quickly grew out of being just for Robin and became a place for all the kids to mourn all the people who went missing or died #now people write notes to Robin asking him to look after their friends and family members in the afterlife

[odder-outlet]

man yall take this gummigoo shit seriously huh

#everyone mourning gummigoos death meanwhile theres me giggling at my friends reaction #my art #my art lol #the amazing digital circus #tadc #gummigoo

[warandpeas]

R.I.P.

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#costume #dog #Dog Funeral #dogs #friend #funeral #halloween #Halloween costume #mourn #mourning #Rabies #Rex

[3lostyears]

until i recently read posts on here about how there is an inherent queerness to the doctor and rose's relationship in how it's unspoken and filled with yearning that i'd never really considered that element, despite knowing for ages that RTD is gay but. man. it's just reframed a lot of the series for me, like the idea that you have this lonely man who's just watched his people die and is self-destructive and misanthropic and traumatised and he can love again and he wants to but it has so many risks.

but especially S3 and how it adds even more weight to the doctor's grieving widower status. how he tells martha that he and rose were together but martha refers to rose as a friend to tallulah; the fact that he can only say they were together once she is gone; how the only other person that both can feel how he feels but also understands the depth of his feelings is jack, a queer man himself. and I've been thinking to myself lately oh, it's ok, the doctor and rose probably accidentally got married on at least one planet or something but also the point is that there was no official title that could convey to people the extent that they meant to each other, that the doctor can really only tell donna that rose was his friend even though it is so wholly inadequate and she comes to see that by the end of the episode (and martha too of course). how people who saw the doctor and rose together assumed they were a couple, like on krop tor, but once there's no more physical evidence of the relationship it becomes more vague (and simultaneously clearer).

anyway something about how christopher eccleston said he based his portrayal of nine on RTD and something about RTD saying that his husband is "in every good man i write now" and how the doctor and ruby seeing each other in the club mimics his first meeting with his husband aka the one moment he would use a time machine to go back to hmmm

#doctor who is fundamentally about grief and then i watch rtd era 1 and it's about grief like :0 oh my godddd #sidenote grieving widower ten needs its own tag on ao3 #it's about the grief and the loss and the mourning and the loneliness #also this is not martha slander there are a million reasons to refer to rose as a friend #both real world and canonical and she was never directly told anything #but him not actually telling her what happened to rose and their exact relationship is kinda the point #doctor who #timepetals #meta #also yes rtd's husband was alive when he wrote end of time but. ten seeing rose at his end but their beginning... #yay queer readings of dw nay rtd as a person btw #dw meta

[ruporas]

chapter 90 vash

#vash the stampede #trigun #trigun maximum #trimax spoilers #trigun spoilers #i forget how the blacklist stuff works on tumblr again... uncertain whether it matters or not for it to be in the caption itself #anyway my mind was reflecting again on the later chapters of trigun :lying down: i'm not sure how to collect my thoughts #but i think all the time about vash's “if i shoot him now she'll die” line in ch 15 #and considering vash haven't had long at all to grieve after ch 64... aughh... augh.... mourning both of them in ch 91 #vash's emotional state after 64 is really so. It's devastating watching him bc he's still being all smiley around his friends and allies #but when he's alone - charging the bullets and during those first two battles - he's just so quiet #and all of that kept emotion just breaks like a dam in 90... all of that to say.. legato is really incredible dgmks #ruporas art

[teethflavoured]

the grimace shake bit on twitter is kinda funny

#my friend said that the effort i put into this makes it read like #the one painting of ivan the terrible mourning his son #i cantahdhs #teethdraws #splatoon #splatoon 3 #splatoon 2 #splatoon octo expansion #dedf1sh #splatoon dedf1sh #dedf1sh splatoon #ignore how this is the first time I've drawn her alive and it's for a bit #ahato mizuta #mizuta ahato #splatoon fanart #splatoon fandom #splatoon art

[lemonlimestar]

fools rush in

#tim drake #kon el #timkon #bart (as in bug art) #normal about them 👍 #this turned out a bit corny but WHATEVER #gay people can never mourn normally it’s always gotta be 99 cloning attempts #tim 🫱🏼‍🫲🏽 cass <- coping sooo good when their best friend dies #dc #dc comics #robin #superboy

[lexfoster]

one sided spankoschitz is real to me

#pete spankoffski #richie lipschitz #nerdy prudes must die #spankoschitz #starkid #hatchetfield #jon matteson #joey richter #mine #listen...... being a gay teen means being in gay love with your (straight) best friend #we allllll go through it richie ain't special #also will never forgive the langs for depriving us of pete mourning richie #THE NERVE !!!!

[eggwishing]

check out how hard i can cry

#davesprite #homestuck #god. Godd #give him a fucking friend #all he has is salamanders. fuckkkkk!!! #just little toddlerbrained salamanders #i dont think any character has made me feel so piercingly mournful except for maybe jinx arcane

[suntails]

fallen

#KICKS OPEN THE DOOR. HIIIIIII IM BAAAAAACK. TWIRLS MY HAIR AND STARES UNBLINKINGLY AT U #okay so long story short i need to speedrun if i wanna draw ANY lore art this time #bc i go to NY w no computer for 2 weeks on thurs and i wont have nrainrot anymore after. so i need to draw FAST things #so yea. she um. she. died. sniffles. ngl i thought she was already dead from the prev update so this STUNG #the fuckign GRIEF the way lilia collapses down in mourning her loss. she falls to the humans. i am SICK it HURTS #silver was so devastated in 7.5 without even seeing the death firsthand and being like 'how could i ever be loved' #lilia looking at malleus. the future of the kingdom. the treasure of his two closest friends (loves?) #and is like 'how can i ever love him enough' and proceeds to spend A FIFTH OF HIS LIFE SEARCHING FOR A SOLUTION #dealing w prejudice from humans. kicked out of the army Disgraced. all while mourning. he keeps going out of LOVE #twst #twisted wonderland #lilia vanrouge #malleus draconia #hes an egg he counts #ch 7 spoilers #so yea blah blah blah im not as eloquent as u geniuses i will just draw a silly little dramatic art to capture my misery and move forward #suntails

[pigdemonart]

Just a barbie and her two kens

i miss them, but soon I will hold them physically. In book form.

Because the book has officially been ordered!! 🎊 🎉 🎊 🐷🎉 🎊 🎉 I’ll update again as soon as I get more confirmed.

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#submas #nimbasa trio #ingo #emmet #elesa #pokemon black and white #pokemon bw #my art #can ya believe it took a year of mourning for me to draw warden ingo (in a non funny way where hes the size of a peanut or holding a knife) #i love my friends ingo emmet elesa

[tainted-scholar]

I don't understand the argument of "It would be annoying to listen to Mario's classic voice for an entire film". Like, Mickey Mouse, Goofy, Donald Duck, Daffy Duck, Spongebob, the entire cast of the Muppets, and many, many more characters with over the top/cartoony voices have used said voices for the entirety of feature films or even entire TV shows. Why is Mario any different?

#I've watched scenes of Mickey Mouse mourn his fallen friends in Kingdom Hearts #It would not be hard to watch a silly Illumination film with Mario's classic voice #mario #mario movie

[marzipanandminutiae]

I was just looking into the notion that widowers only had to mourn for 1 year after their wives' deaths, during the Victorian era, while widows had to mourn for two. because I've heard that a lot, but it seems to jive more with the Pop History version of the era where mourning existed because Imposing Rules On People Is Fun and All Marriages Were For Money than with the real version, inhabited by real people who idealized love matches and theoretically practiced formal mourning to show that they were going through something and needed gentle treatment

what I've gathered from a brief search for period sources seems to be:

one source from 1839 mentioned the "widows = 2 years; widowers = 1 year" thing

every other source I read (about 7, from various points in the era) implied or stated that the minimum normal period of mourning for widows and widowers was the same

That's a small sample size, but I still think it's significant

men's clothing could often be harder to visibly alter to reflect mourning, relying heavily on things like black cufflinks and collar studs that could be trickier to notice at first glance than. you know. a bonnet with a black veil over someone's face

a lot of sources talking about mourning clothes were fashion magazines aimed at women, and thus would be more likely to talk about women's mourning attire than men's

so my takeaway is that while some people at some parts of this 60-year period felt it acceptable for widowers to mourn for half the period of widows, many others at other times expected any bereaved spouse regardless of gender. obviously, in a highly misogynistic society, women's adherence to ettiquette could be much more scrutinized than men's; a widower who married six months after his wife's death would be looked askance at, but probably not subject to as much censure as a widow who did the same. and obviously, things don't go according to plan and the formal mourning system could of course backfire- forcing a woman into months of social seclusion for an abusive husband, for example

but.

the overall goal was to convey "handle with care" to the outside world. for many people, widowers were expected to need as much care as widows- and therefore to mourn for the same length of time

#victorian #victorian mourning #history #social history #a friend in my costumer circle said she wished she'd had a better way to signal her bereavement when her father died (she was 17) #because nowadays there really isn't a way to convey the same 'handle with care' message #so she really saw the utility of codified mourning signals

[itsnotmourn]

how time flies by

#just thinking about irl times; how friends went LMAOO EW KIDS and how one of them is dead set on having/adopting one #it’s fond memories! looking back #[ the art of mourning ] #spooky month #spooky month fanart #spooky month lila #spooky month jaune #spooky month ross

[arthursfuckinghat]

The worst part about playing rdr2 again is knowing who's going to die, how they're going to die, when they're going to die, and not be able to do a single thing about it

#sorry I'm just thinking about lenny and sean a lot #they're so full of life #sean is always cheering people up and talking about whatever nonsense he talks about #he fills the silence #lenny is always chirpy and keeping himself busy with reading but is always happy to talk #kieran too #he was always nice even when everyone was cruel to him or picking on him #he did chores and helped with the horses and did whatever he was told #and was grateful for it #nobody fucking noticed when he disappeared apart from mary beth #nobody got to mourn sean #but lenny and hosea both got what they wanted #they were buried with friends #I miss them so much its why I'm still on chapter two because everything's okay for now #micah is still in jail everyone's happy #its hard #rdr2 #red dead redemption 2 #mick squeaks #arthur morgan #lenny summers #sean macguire #kieran duffy #molly saying “I love you dutch” and getting a “thank you dear” in return makes my blood boil #oh molly