#mum behavior

[grelleswife]

“You can’t defeat your undead twin on an empty stomach, young master.”

#kuro spoilers #kuroshitsuji spoilers #kuroshitsuji 212 #kuroshitsuji #o!ciel #sebastian michaelis #dadbastian #mombastian #trash demon probably still has war flashbacks from o!ciel tearing into that roast duck like a famished wolf #and wants to make sure the little beast is well-fed #mum behavior

[weewoomemes]

hen the official mum friend

credit to original owner: @thetangycheesemanwithaplan https://www.tumblr.com/thetangycheesemanwithaplan/746105771770675200/911-text-posts-pt219

#911 memes #911 abc #911 fox #911 season 7 #911 spoilers #hen wilson #chimney han #buck #evan buckley #eddie diaz #buck and eddie #buddie #118 firefam #station 118 #hen the mum friend #mother behavior #bobby nash #athena grant #athena nash #memes #funny

[aludraslytherin]

Jegulus and PandaLily raising Harry and Luna:

Ron: Hey mate, there's always a black cat following you, is that normal?

Harry: Hmh ? Oh yeah, that's Papa, he's just super protective and hates the idea of me being alone

Hermione: That red cat that's following you around all day, is it normal ?

Luna: Mhm, it's Mum, she is scared that something happens to me

#mum is Lily #Luna is Regulus and Pandora's child #but they are still siblings duh #james x regulus #regulus black #lily evans #pandora rosier #headcanon #hc #lily x pandora #papa is regulus #james wanted to be called papá but he lost a bet and has to be called Dad instead #that's wayyyyy to many tags lol #pandora is called maman #Harry is james and Lily's child #Lily and Regulus both being cats animagus #red cat behavior is so Lily #jegulus #pandalily #they have me in a chokehold I love them #starchaser #sunseeker #redpanda #ForbiddenFlower #boxflower #redbox #harry potter #luna black #luna lovegood #james potter

[mango-parfait]

I'm still missing my dog extra hard. But it makes me laugh when I think about how he never tried to run out of the house even once. First time he did, my mother gave him the death glare and dared him to leave- he never tried it ever again.

#asian behavior istg #because that was how she intimidated me and my sister into behaving #i miss u sm shiro #sometimes i think that i can smell you in my room when i wake up #and hear you walk in #mango rants #my mum literally went "if you think you can pay your own bills then you get out #she even pushed his butt out a little and he was running back home

[opens-up-4-nobody]

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#shout out to my nana for saying my dad spends money like water #my dad who struggles with the idea of spending money bc of obsessive compilation thoughts but is making an effort #bc whats the point of saving up all your life just to die. nana? my dad whose wife is literally dying of cancer and is beginning to circle #the drain so hes deciding he wants to start spending his retirement money now while shes still alive. u old witch. Jesus christ. my mum #isnt gonna live forever. shes getting her bladder removed in February i think. imo ill just b happy if she lives past the end of my 5year #program. like holy fuck. i mean. its not really nanas fault. she probably has 0cd and probably has 0cpd. but like this is y u wanna try to #get better. so you dont grow into a miserable old fuck whose family hates u bc ur awful and killing ur husband thru ur illness. just saying #as someone whose can see their own behaviors mirrored in her. this is y i cant go on like this lol #hopefully i hit my rock bottom last year. ugh. i just wish i could sleep. when im not super depressed i cant seem to get a normal amount of #sleep and im exhausted all afternoon. im awake at night and early in the morning. it makes me nauseous too. insomnia i guess #but ive always slept rather little. maybe it was compulsive and now im just old and cant take it #hate it. wish it would stop but at least i dont feel like dying anymore i guess. im guessing the meds r exacerbating thr sleep issues if not #causing it. ugh symptom management i guess #unrelated

[lact101]

God thinking about the dlc, it was so good but I've got so many unanswered questions

#genuinely thought brair was gonna be evil. i mean the way she was drawn in that one promotional art work. maybe it was just a red herring #also. i feel like arven should of at least known that brair was poking around his mums stuff. like it feels a little insensitive #but then again idk if brair was aware of sadas passing. or if she knew it happened in area 0 #though im pretty sure at one point kieran mentions she was looking through private stuff of sadas. #anyways idc if brairs not a villian. im just not fond of her #also what about that peach pokèmon found within the games files? wasnt it meant to be important to the lousy 3? #and kierans sudden change in behavior? #i have seen some people say that jts going to be a mythical mon. which is okay with me #anyways. i know it seems im complaining a lot . but the things i enjoy about the dlc vastly outwthe things that confused me #pokèmon #the indigo disk #pokemon dlc spoilers

[chaos-in-one]

The narc abuse truthers found my blog

Anyways I will never stop telling y'all to sit down and shut up because you're ableist dickheads and don't deserve a damn platform to spread ableist bullshit about my disorder

I do not care that x person in your life was a narcissist and abusive. Genuinely. I do not give a fuck about how they where an abusive narcissist or any of that shit. What happened was shitty but it is not a goddamned excuse to throw an entire group of suffering mentally ill people under the bus because they share a disorder with the one who hurt you. And it never fucking will be.

You all are entitled fucking pricks.

#npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic people #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissist #narcissistic personality traits #surviving narcissism #narcissticabuseawareness #narcissismawareness #narcissim #pathological narcissism #malignant narcissism #covert narcissism #narcissism awareness #narcissistic abuse #narcissistic behavior #narcissistic mum #narcissistic father #npd thoughts #npd mood #npd stigma #npd things

[neverevan]

the way i compartmentalise my own spelling should be studied

#i mean i use my usual british spelling when i'm just typing but for fics and gifs i use the american one #and now we're at the point where i sometimes use the american spelling for words like mum/mom or behaviour/behavior etc #when talking to my american friends #cuz i feel like it's easier even though it's literally the same smh #newbie stuff

[subconsciousmysteries]

now my mother and sister are crying that I'm having a baby cuz they think I'm gonna be scum like my mother and make ppl, let alone kids, who aren't his parents look after him when they don't want to. Lolno. I'm not like you freaks. I understand the concept of consent and boundaries unlike you.

#My sister will never see the light lol #She's brainwashed by mum to scapegoat me for mum's parentification of her #Classic n bitch #Can't wait for her to die (mum) #Lucky my sister is a 7 who quickly forgets conflicts and wants to joke around when she isn't triggered #My sister only sucks when mum is in the room abusing me (takes mum's side) or #When mum complains to her about what a terrible person with no empathy Sarah is because she disobeys me and hurts my feelings #Sis has golden child and enmeshment syndrome #And I don't feel sorry for anyone who is enmeshed one bit #Even tho their behavior towards you as a scapegoat can be bloody disgusting #I forgive my sister but never my mother #Psycho narcissistic bitch with anger problems

[thebusylilbee]

those who were around when I adopted my cat might remember that I had some issues dealing with her loud meowing at night... well there was some evolution in that area !

I'm gonna share this information because I think it could be very very useful for future cat owners who have to face the same issue as me, especially since most of the advice online basically implies that the problem comes from YOU, the cat owner, who must not be doing enough to distract your cat (and god knows my cat had more play time and toys than any pet cat I know) :

My cat completely stopped having any behavioral issues once I put her at my mum's place during the summer ! When we noticed that I decided to stay there for a while to make sure her issues weren't with me specifically, but no, she was a perfect little angel kitty all the way through even with me around ! So... turns out her behavioral issues didn't come from me not doing enough by her or anything of the sort, no, they came from MY PLACE !!! We've discussed the situation with the professionals I adopted her from and we think that because I live on the ground floor, in an area literally surrounded by stray cats that my cat can see walking around through the windows, and hear meowing literally right behind our walls at night, and most certainly smell everywhere as well, well.. she was basically trying to live her stray cat night life again by calling them at night ! And once she went at my mum's place, who lives pretty high up, with no other cats around, she just stopped completely ! Nothing else changed except the place where she lived !

So there you go, this is something I have never seen considered when I was doing research on my cat's behavioural issues ! If you live at ground level and there are cats around and everything else fails, then you might want to consider that your cat is a social one like mine and wants to join all the kitties it can hear, see and smell around ! Either try to get that cat a friend or move somewhere else !

#mine is currently staying at my mum's for several reasons (that being one of them but not the biggest one) #I visit her twice a week. I miss her but she is very happy there at least. It made me so sad to not understand why she was agitated here #Now I understand and I am saving money to get her a cat friend #cats #cat behavior #cat care #cat meowing at night #cat problems #bee tries to talk

[zzuuha]

✨ me not telling my parents absolutely anything about my uni life, even though we're currently living together ✨

#peak intj behavior if u ask me #they expressed their concerns about my academic career while we were having lunch and mum went like 'we don't ask u cause u r an adult' #'but u never share anything about your daily life with us' #i felt so sorry cause i know i don't really talk to my friends and family abt my life in detail but it's because it's just my life to me?? #nothing important i mean #guess i should be more proactive on the communication side 😅 #things to do in 2023: share more abt myself w/ the people i love #eh

[bluebellhairpin]

my dad's favorite thing to do is put on the formula 1 racing, and then falling asleep after answer my questions for the first half an hour.

#he displaying little guy behavior #this is the man my mum married omg #nemos thoughts #formula 1

[wetslug]

was trying to convert old camcorder recordings to a digital format n found this interesting ! probably one of earliest autism-associated behaviors (at ~13 months)... ritual involving flicking lower lip w faceclothes and then stacking under the chin and then going bananas over how great this shit is

#u could argue this is developmentally appropriate behavior for a 13 month old but im sorry i dont have any footage of me doing this until #i was 7 or 8 lmao #btw mum told me this was include all nearby faceclothes i just so happened to only have two at this moment #actuallyautistic #asd

[vermin-fangs]

If you separate people into 'good' and 'bad,' you will start sorting people into those boxes based on whatever paints you in the most positive light. And you will be wrong.

#txt #thinking about christianity and their weird black and white world system #mums watching a movie about some small town churches and i was thinking how cult like it all seemed #i was wondering where this behavior comes from #but naturally if you develop your entire view of the world around who is a sinner #and who is virtuous #who is deserving of some sort of salvation and who isnt #then you wind up with a lot of loons. #because you would want to think that you are good #so that must mean anyone who isnt doing what you are doing is bad #and then you take that mindset and add religious extremism to the mix.

[opens-up-4-nobody]

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#guess whos back in therapy bby 😎 #the lady i saw was nice. 1st appointments r always a lotta blah blah blah so much to cover #and im always like bleh whatever im not that bad but when u put it all down on paper it is sorta a lot lol #i got the comment. hm u seem to kno a lot abt the dsm. and like listen. i have been meticulously categorizing my problems for the last 4 #years. and i like to learn so ya kno. also said yea it sounds like u r having hypomanic episodes. #and asked if bipolar was a possibility and like if i was bipolar that would absolutely blow my god damn mind. im pretty sure its just pmdd #but whatever. im open to the possibility. mostly i wanna hear someone else perspective on this #i feel like im collaborating on a project. like gimmie ur notes i wanna see if were on the same track. bc im insane like that #i always feel bad when they apologize for asking invasive questions. like neh its fine. i got nothin to hide and i dont give a fuck #also i told a class of my peers that my distraction from research is drawing narut0 fan art. again bc i do not #give a single fuck. Professors response: hopefully we get to see it some day. bro. if u ask me i will show u. i do not care #i mean. probably nothing too weird but i feel like most of my stuff is safe to share. i just come off looking like a weeb i guess #but yea back in therapy bc my mum reminded me bc the ppl around me irl r also worried for my well-being based on my behavior lol #i mean its just bc i complain that im in like psychological pain a lot. so lots and lots of bitching abt my brain ^^ #the lady i saw did fall a lil bit into my trap. like what woulf ur life look like if u had everything under control? bc it seems like ur #here and ur starting a phd what more do u want? and im like mwahaha but u see i can do school #i can do school so good. i am the best at school and thats it. i am otherwise barely functional #so i can be successful on paper and dysfunctional when it comes to having a life :-] #but whatever. well see what she wants to follow up on next week bc i threw a lot at her #also went to my office for the 1st time. it is really nice to sit in a working lab and watch ppl interact. but also i do feel like im #dying if i try to sit in that room with 2 other ppl lol. so well see how it goes. i may find somewhere else to hide #unrelated

[artemis-moon101]

me an my sister have so many parallels to ccrime its scaring me. i learned nothing.

#i was explainjng to my mum how i push her away and be rude to her so she doesnt like me and cant be hurt by me #and then i Realized #or maybe i Realized first and then i said itbc my brain does that sometimes where i copy someone elses (even a characters) behavior #even if i know its bad (especially tbh) #it might be self destructive might be attention seeking who knows #probably both #its really Fucked Me Up bc i dont know what is actually Wrong with me and what i copied from someone else #but what i copied still effects me #and sometimes ill learn about a New Unhealthy Thing and start seeing signs of it in myself #and i have to play this little game where i have to guess if im copying it or if ive had it this whole time and i just noticed the symptoms #bc now i know that theyre symptoms of something #and also the mental disorders in my genes. #i cant really blame them on a specific event or person like most people can and it makes me doubt if i even feel this way or if im faking #if anybody can help me in anyway tbatd be really helpful thanks #just some advice on how to Be Normal about my Emotions could work #god i wish i could just stop feeling for a little bit #physically. emotionally. spiritually even #i just want a break