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selfhealingmoments · 3 months

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#facts #mental health #be yourself #self improvement #self reflection #new beginnings #letting go #self help #positivity #inspirational quotes #new life #toxic friends #toxic relationship #toxic people #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissim #malignant narcissism

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clusterrune · 11 months

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Narc Supply

a list of things that could be a narc supply! things pw npd find give them a narc high.

explaining a narc supply - masterpost - compliment generator

Personalized Praise

compliments that are personal to the person theyre directed towards

compliments that include facts or interests

compliments that are more than just the generic "i like (your appearance)"

praises about a persons skillset, created content, something they put even the slightest effort into

praises for help of any kind

complimenting something theyre good at and/or passionate about

praises for being knowledgeable about a topic

these can be very different depending on the person, some like the usual "good job im proud of you" and some prefer very high title praises like "youre a god/royal!"

Attachment / Emotional Feedback

some gain a high when they get certain reactions out of people

hate asks, love confessions

when someone has some sort of feelings towards them it helps them feel wanted and/or at the center of someones focus/attention

some prefer positive over negative feedback, some see negative feedback like hate mail as a sign they've reached popularity of some sort, some are neutral.

some narcs find people gaining an attachment to them as a supply

Break The Record

some narcs see reaching a goal as a supply

this can be reaching a new high score on a came

beating their own records

or beating other people's scores

getting ahead in a competition, even if it wasnt a competition to begin with, beating that goal they set can give them a high

Comforted

some might look for comfort media

listening to music or watching something they find comfort in

art or fanart they find comforting

comfort characters

all can help recover from a crash in a soothing way.

Perceive Me

people telling them how theyre perceived as an individual

especially if its in detail and can contain praise

knowing how one is perceived either by strangers or those theyre close with, can be someones supply

a narc supply can be anything, ranging from anonymous hate to being told someone's proud of you, to being given a little affection and even something akin to being worshiped or feared and it can be more than one of these at a time.

feel free to share any resources, tips or anything that works for you that i have not yet listed!

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npders · 8 months

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believing in narcissistic abuse is ableist and hurtful as hell because it demonizes a personality disorder caused by trauma.

#tw ableism #narcawareness #npd #npd safe #cluster b #narcissim #narcissism #narcissist #narcissistic personality disorder #npdawareness #personality disorders #narcissistic abuse #actually narcissistic #narcissistic #narc abuse

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redteaupabove · 15 days

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I’ve been a lot more aware of the demonization of mental disorders, particularly NPD, lately because of some blogs on here and holy shit

People do not view narcissists as people. They view them as evil monsters. Like I just searched up narcissist on Pinterest and like

Holy shit

How can you hate someone based off something they can’t control this much, then not realize what your doing. I think the saddest part is that a lot of this comes from queer communities. Like we deal with type of hate all the time and here we are doing the exact same thing. Dehumanizing and hating based off misinformation and fear.

#npd safe #npd #neurodivergent #ableism #narcissim #i think the sad thing is most people do instantly think of abusive or evil when they hear narcissist

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ouidepressoespresso · 1 year

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and when I cut all contact, I hope you realize what you’ve done.

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chaos-in-one · 1 year

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People with npd: Hey can we not be treated like abusers just for our disorder and be treated like actual human beings instead of monsters?

'Narc abuse' mfs: Is this an excuse to trauma dump on a complete stranger who is most likely a trauma survivor already?

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evawritesstuff · 3 months

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Padme and Anakin remind me of many straight couples who are extremely pathological: the narcissist and the enabler. Always together, in heaven forever. More often than not, they appear to be the traditional stereotype of an ideal couple. They are both young, handsome, smart, promising, loyal to each other, trying to build together their careers, their own family. The enabler ignores red flags, sometimes unconsciously, other times consciously. In a patriarchal society due to sociopolitical reasons, the enabler is more often than not the woman.

Till the day the enabler steps up. Then they meet the narcissist's fury. The one who promised him literally the galaxy minutes ago.

Chaos ensures. The divorce is ugly, catastrophic from all aspects. They both fail to be parents to their children. Padme because of sadness ( sometimes the enabler can't have the consequences leading to self destruction) and Anakin because of his raging obsession for power. It's undoubtedly true that both loved their kids. Padme would want nothing more than to raise her children and Anakin showed us in the movies his love for them. Yes, some narcissists can love their kids, especially the ones that score higher on the bpd spectrum than narcissism. In my opinion, this became clear as he grew older and thus, dropped the intensity of the narcissism magnified by his youth.

Many young people find the couple romantic and beautiful. As a young person myself ( 22), I completely understand the lure. But as a person that has experienced this in my own home, I fail at sympathising with the ship itself.

Obi wan loved them both. He tried to be there for both. He took care of their kids. His own life took the backseat. He was a person who saw taking care of others mistakes as a moral duty towards the great good. He was also attached to them. If not so attached, things wouldn't have gotten so far. But in the end, he raised his sleeves and tried to fix whatever was left to fix. It literally reminds me of Jesus who asked his Father why he should sacrifice himself, then did it because that's what he considered to be right. Obi wan's empathy works like that.

He sent Luke to face his father. To kill * Darth Vader*. Not Anakin Skywalker. Obi wan still believed that there was at least a piece of Anakin left in there. He doubted that for years but after decades of meditation accompanied by the wisdom of an old man, he knew this to be possible. But he could come to light only by his pure innocent love for his son, not from his love tainted with shades of hate and passion for Padme and Obi wan.

And that's why Padme and Anakin grow to love Obi wan with a deep sense of respect that they never had for each other. But it was too late for them. Both understood Obi wans value right before dying, when they saw a man caring for their kids, for themselves as well. But Obi wan forgave.

#star wars meta #star wars canon #star wars analysis #star wars #obi wan kenobi #padme amidala #anakin skywalker #luke skywalker #leia Skywalker #space jesus #obi wan and anakin #obi wan and padme #anakin and padme #anakin padme #jedi #bordeline #narcissim

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kosmic-apothecary · 5 days

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Don’t Zionists ever get tired of their own bullshit? This one admits the people who want to see Palestine be free of occupation and apartheid are good people then repeats the ludicrous lie that they all want her dead. it’s honestly hilarious how insane they are 😆

“I can’t trust anyone anymore” Yeah, you can’t trust because at any moment some great person you’ve been friends with all your life could turn out to be one of those brave principled people who stands up for the most oppressed people on earth who are going through a LITERAL GENOCIDE. You poor thing, @jewishspite! How will you ever get through this?

#histrionics #narcissim #narcissists #delusional #pity party #israel #jumblr #am yisrael chai #jewblr #antisemitism #we will outlive them #hamas #oct 7 #israeli apartheid #israeli occupation #israeli settlements

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nothing0fnothing · 3 months

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narcissistic abuse isn't real any more than "depressive abuse" is real. a mental disorder doesn't give someone a special unique way to abuse others. all abuse is just abuse

Narcissism is not a mental disorder. You're thinking of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. It takes like, 2 minutes on Google to learn the difference. Why should anybody prioritise your opinion over the opinions of thousands of licenced professionals if you can't even do that?

#narcissistic abuse #raised by narcissists #narcissistic abuse is real #narcissistic abuse is not real #narcissim #narcissism is not a disability #narcissism is not npd

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wyzechyld · 1 year

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