#please keep yourself safe

[dracolineinnit]

I wanted to make a post on here since I had someone in my dms asking for my thoughts on as they put it, the Wilbur soot 'allegations'

So, to start off with, It's not allegations, he did abuse shubble, and I think it is such a terrible thing for a human to do,

It's really important to stand with victims and not give the abusers a voice,

I think we should support Shelby and Wilbur soot is a terrible human being who made a community on lies on what he presented himself as online.

And their response was in support of him so I'm putting out these pieces of undeniable evidence and please everyone go watch Shelby's vod, support her and support other members of the community, I know this is upsetting to us as well,

He lied to everyone and Shelby is the one who deserves all the support but you're allowed to need personal support from those around you,

Wilbur soot was a man I looked up and adored,

Please watch shubbles vod,

There is quite a lot of undeniable evidence of witnesses stating they saw and some were also a victim of his actions

I stand with Shelby, she is articulate and brave and using the experience to give others advice about the signs

I understand really well it's hard to say he's a terrible person, he's been a very important and happy thing for me for the past year, but I don't believe there is any reason to support him after this.

He wasn't a good enough human to deserve the wonderful community he inspired.

Here is some of the evidence I have (Tumblr image limit), if you want to know more, feel free to message me, and please go and do some research and remember,

It's not about giving voice to abusers,

It's about standing with victims.

Even if the abuser was your hero.

Stand with Shelby. 💛

And all the other people he hurt, the ones I know of being Niki and rue, there may be others, please feel free to reblog and add more information, I want this to be informative to anyone who stumbles across looking for truth and evidence and would like to compile as much as possible.

Okay that's all, goodbye, I'll write a separate post on how I'll go about my art and writing with him.

#wilbur soot #wilbursoot #wilbur #fuck wilbur soot #shelby support #shelby grace #shubble #tw abuse #support victims #wilbur soot allegations #evidence #please keep yourself safe #and remember we are all a community and can help one another #everyone reading this have a good day and take care of yourself #you're allowed to be upset #sending love #💛 #mcyt #Youtube

[edirazirollyx]

We're all in the same fucked up world

Please

All of you

Keep yourself safe, please

#Genuine #Please keep yourself safe #art #edi speaks #edi art

[bisexualboysbroadcast]

HEAVY CONTENT WARNING FOR SELF HARM IN EPISODE 3 OF DINOSAUR LOVE

#dinosaur love #please keep yourself safe

[verashalurks]

why have things seemed to have gotten worse since last fall/winter? I really miss it and I hope everybody’s doing alright. I also haven’t really been talking to anybody on here lately like I used to, I should get on that..

#please keep yourself safe #I really want the best for myself and everybody too #I really miss it…

[triflesandparsnips]

Just saw someone ask for someone's irl age in their bio for "safety" or some shit and--

Friends, I'm telling you: this is the internet. There should be no expectation of access to your personal information.

Say nothing! Or if that doesn't work for you, fucking lie. Use a pseud! Say you live in a snail's shell off the coast of New Brunswick! Answer every info-gathering question asked of you with a different, less comprehensible answer! Tell anyone who says you've got to put your real age in your bio that you're 85, ta ever so, and they're very rude to bother you with this!

But your first step to internet safety is to say nothing.

Make it harder for bad actors to find you, manipulate you, or steal all your shit.

The good actors won't fucking ask.

#internet safety #please don't tell me SHIT about yourself in your bio unless you are CHOOSING a PUBLIC LIFE #and if you're choosing a public life CHRIST I HOPE YOU'RE KEEPING SAFE THERE TOO

[alowkeyclown]

sure i'll go with u to the haunted ruins wreathed in half memories from your traumatic childhood PLATONICALLY COMPLETELY AND TOTALLY PLATONICALLY OF COURSE IM SO CASUAL ALL OF THE TIME DON'T EVEN WORRY

#theres no tension here dont even worry yourself #thats just the poor oxygen flow in the deathtrap ive just followed you into #because im so cool and casual as previously mentioned #oh my god alice please #step away from the horrors #really manifesting jonny keeping her alive so he can say his shitty lil tumblr humour through her (/pos) #tmagp vague #the magnus protocol #tmagp #alice dyer #tmagp spoilers #feel like im being overly cautious with that tag but maybe not ? #better safe than sorry and that #shes so gay #ik sams a bloke but like thats the most lesbian behaviour ive ever witnessed

[bearotonin-international]

Apex predator, my ass. I’m going to pet the dog 🐻🐻‍❄️🐼

perhaps now is a good time for some responsible bear programming to remind everyone that as cute and cuddly as they may seem, bears are lethal apex predators and should absolutely be treated accordingly if ever encountered.

DO

NOT

PET

#Responsible Bear Programming #^^ that's our tag for bears doing what they naturally do #if you do not like seeing bears behave as they naturally do -- as apex predators -- then please filter this tag accordingly friends #we are actually not accepting any complaints or suggestions about our tagging system or the content we post at the present moment #or at any point in the foreseeable future #so please don't try to comment or suggest otherwise #informative rant over now commencing educational rant #DO NOT try to pet the lethal beasts #you will be mauled and or killed #and then the bear will be killed for attacking a person #if you like bears the best thing you can do is ensure that they are not habituated to humans and do not view us as a source of food #either through your trash or through your flesh #keep yourself your neighbors and the bears safe by keeping human-bear interactions as minimal as possible #okay the team's done ranting now #(we're having A Day) #(it has a lot to do with the squirrels breaking into the floor of HQ and eating through our electrical wiring) #ask

[merakiui]

the angst potential of “stuck in an endless dream” trope 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 but what if it was jade??? and what if it was specifically tmdg jade???

i think malleus may need to watch his back when the octatrio wake up and realize it’s all just a dream, no matter how powerful he is

IF IT WAS TMDG JADE...... ｡°(°.◜ᯅ◝°)°｡ Jade who receives a (real) confession from you. At first, he's not sure what to think. Are you practicing on him for your confession with Floyd? Surely this can't be genuine... it's too good to be true. But then the longer he stares in silence, blinking back at you as he prepares to play the part of Floyd, you insist it's meant for him. Why would you practice this confession when it's your true feelings? It's not for Floyd???? Where would he get such a silly idea? This is for Jade! You're in love with Jade! Not Floyd. It's never been Floyd. You only pretended so you could be closer to Jade. >w<

Maybe this happens before "Floyd" fucked you, so Jade's absolutely over the moon with happiness. Aaaaa he's so overjoyed. He's smiling so sweetly when he reciprocates, drawing you in for a tight embrace as he finally confesses all that has been locked away in his heart. <3 the two of you hurrying back to his room to kiss and fuck in every way, exchanging a dozen vows of love. He adores you so very much. Now there's no need to pretend or love from afar. Now he can be with you forever, and it's pure bliss.

Alas, how cruel the knife of reality is when it cuts through dreamy fantasy. </3 he almost doesn't want to leave because this dream is so much better than what awaits him outside. T^T

#twisted chit chat #malleus... if you feel a murderous presence from behind keep yourself safe #jade is not very pleased >:(

[trans-xianxian]

saw a post about how jiang cheng isn't selfish because he's done all of this stuff for his loved ones and it's like yeah. jiang cheng loves very deeply and that's. exactly why he's selfish. jiang cheng being selfish doesn't equal jiang cheng being heartless or unloving. his goals are to selfishly keep his loved ones, most notably wei wuxian, to himself at the expense of their own personal autonomy. when jiang cheng goes to the burial mounds and begs wei wuxian to give the wen remnants up and come home, he does it because he loves him, but he also does it because he's a selfish coward who puts his own wants for wei wuxians safety and companionship above wei wuxians personal wishes and the lives of the wens. these things are not mutually exclusive in fact they are intricately connected

#obviously wanting someone to be safe and together with you is not selfish on its own #but demanding they achieve that by abandoning their goals #instead of by finding a way to help them and keep them safe #is #and I don't blame jiang cheng for not being able to help #just like I don't blame lan wangji for the same thing #but jiang cheng IS selfish. deeply so. that doesn't mean he doesn't care for others #or that he never acts selflessly #I can think of many times he acts selflessly! and yet he is still selfish #jiang cheng stans please free yourself from the belief tgat he has to be perfect in order for you to love him he Does kind of suck #and thats good it adds flavor #ghost posts #text #jc #wwx #yunmeng bros

[iliveinprocrasti-nationn]

i try to spread information and stuff because that usually makes people more receptive to understanding how serious covid is, but a lot of being covid safe is being full of anger and frustration and hopelessness. for a lot of people, it’s not hard to wear a mask or not go places when they’re sick. so many people could still be taking precautions but just… won’t. and many of them (especially people close to me) are people who will talk about progressive policies and community care and allyship to marginalised communities but obviously won’t take the step to actually practice what they preach. i’m just tired of being told that i’m an acceptable sacrifice for people’s facade of normalcy

#‘i don’t see a lot of people masking anymore though’ a lot of us are stuck inside unless it’s completely necessary to go out. at this point #unless i’m getting food or going to class or going to a medical appointment i do not leave my room because so many people around me are sick #and it is not safe for me to risk covid #please. i’m begging people. wear a mask #there’s so many things people could do but at the top and the biggest and easiest way to keep yourself and others safe is to just mask up #coronavirus #y’all can reblog this if you want

[3amclothesmonster]

Me seeing my mutuals comment on pro-npd posts saying "___ is not a narcissists" or anti-npd things: ):

#GUYS PLEASE I HAVE POSSIBLE NPD DO NOT MAKE ME HATED BY MY OWN COMMUNITY (I also am cluster b) #Please. If you don't agree just keep it to yourself #cluster b safe #Please don't get a block cause of things you comment

[thebumblecee]

In an effort to try write something anything I’ve asked various people to give me a word. I’ll add the micro flashes here as they come out

1. Thigh

If handed a pen and a piece of paper TK could map out Carlos’s thighs from memory. Every curve of firm muscle, every dip of soft flesh, the scar he got riding his bike when he was twelve, the soft hair that dusts them. All of it is burned into TK’s living memory.

When he’s not with him he can see them so clearly in his mind's eye. He can picture the way they tense when he comes and trembles when he desperately needs to. His fingers ghost over phantom scratches he’s left behind on the outside of his husband’s thighs a few nights prior.

They’ll be there, under his uniform, standing raised against golden brown skin.

The inside of his thigh starting to purple in a delicate pattern of bruises from TK’s mouth that morning.

Fuck.

He knows them better than he knows his own. He’s traced his fingers along the veins when they’ve had lazy Sundays wherein Carlos lay on his stomach and read trusting TK to amuse himself, and he’s tasted the salty sweet sweat that peppers his skin when he’s been working out and TK dragged him to bed. He’s felt the power in them when Carlos fucks up into him. How they feel squeezing against his sides, trapping him in place, in a warm safety he’s never felt before.

Work is slow. The energy in the firehouse is low and there nothing to occupy TK’s thoughts away from his husband’s thighs.

It’s criminal they’re attached to the man who’s across the other side of the city.

2. Knife

TK knows that there is probably some deep seated, psychological, issue at play in his unconscious mind right now but he’s pushing it to the side to admire his husband’s knife work.

Well, more like drool over it.

He’s seen Carlos cook a thousand times but it feels like this is the first time he’s really seen it.

He’s finely chopping peppers as he talks idly about his day in that sweet, soothing, tone of voice that comes deep from inside of his chest. The kind that calms the voices in TK’s mind and ebbs away his anxiety like cold water in a stream.

TK isn’t listening to a word. He’s transfixed on the way he has the knife gripped in his hand, it’s secure but not too firm, there’s enough movement from the handle that it works as an extension of him. The blade flashes teasingly as it slices through the vegetable with ease. They rhythmic thumpthumpthump on the chopping board is syncopating with TK’s own heartbeat.

Why is he sweating?

The muscles in Carlos’ forearm flexes with every commanding chop of the knife and TK’s mouth goes dry.

“Babe?” The word floats towards him languidly before settling in his brain. He snaps his eyes up to Carlos’ concerned ones.

The concerned expression vanishes as quickly as it came and a smug tug on his lips appears instead, “you good?”

“Bed,” TK says, he misses suave and alluring by a mile and lands on croaky, “forget dinner let’s go to bed.”

Whether or not the knife stays in the kitchen is between them.

#cee speaks #will be unbetad and all done within 10 minutes #it’s get the words on the page #fast and messy #to be continued #if you see a mistake no you don’t #I’ll edit when the rest of the words come in/I wake up #sorry for the word please 🫴🏻 messages #if you don’t mind me adding ur name next to your word let me know and I’ll tag you #you have to keep yourself safe #me? writing? inconceivable!

[lifesshort-imshorter]

My Sunday PSA for ADHD:

I am *constantly* seeing people talk about accidentally doubling up on their meds because they can't remember already taking them - or skipping them altogether just in case they did take them.

Seriously, guys, please think about getting the timer caps for your pill bottles. This has been a lifesaver for me when I grab my bottle to take my meds, remember I need to do something, set it down, and then when I see the pill bottle again I can't remember if I even opened the damn thing. This has happened enough that I can't count the times, and even if I could I wouldn't tell you because really, brain? C'mon.

This thing tells you exactly how long it's been since you opened the bottle and helps to keep you on track. These come in multiple sizes to fit virtually any pill bottle you already have, but they also come with their own bottles (and labels!) on the off chance they don't - and you can find them online easy enough.

Best part is these things can work for multiple people for different reasons. Got a forgetful parent or grandparent and want to make sure they're safe with their meds? Great gift. Have a teen in the home but you smoke weed and want to keep an eye on it? Perfect nug jar. Just curious about how long your adhd meds last before productivity goes down? Perfect timer.

Have teen children and worried they're going to access your Vicodin from that dentist appointment? Have a high fever and can't remember how long it's been since you took your last Tylenol? On day three of a depression streak and can't remember doing anything but staring at the wall? Can't remember how long it's been since your last birth control pill? Great purchase.

Just keep them in an area you are frequently and stop worrying (I keep my adhd meds right next to my computer, and my morning meds next to the sink in the bathroom). Get rid of the am/pm pill containers that no one remembers to fill anyways. Trust me, it is worth it.

In case I've inspired anyone, these are the ones I have, but there are other brands and styles out there from different sites if you don't support Amazon.

Even if it's not for you, please share so that other people see.

#this has been a psa #please share #keep poison control off your call logs #take your pills #but safely #the more you know #please reblog #take care of yourself #take your meds #long post #sorry #spread the word #stay safe #oops im rambling #everybody look at my mental health problems #accidentally showing my card deck of issues #i was probably too honest #i swear I'm not an ad #seriously #adhd #adhd things #psa #adhd problems #adhd brain #neurodivergent #neurodivergency #neurodiverse stuff #mental health struggles #mental health #mental health support

[disneyprincessdxminatrix]

yes don’t put every single one of your triggers, traumas, and your full mental health history in your bio or carrd but also don’t put it in vent or rant channels on discord servers when you don’t really know the people there. that is not a safe thing to do.

#it’s different if it’s a small server with a couple of people you’ve known for a while and who you (think you) can trust #but why would you tell a server full of people you barely know how to trigger you in the easiest way #internet safety #online safety #discord stuff #my stuff #this goes especially to minors cause that’s the people I’ve seen share EVERYTHING about themselves a lot. also their face. kids. PLEASE! #please for the love of fuck try to stay safe! #venting is not bad but also you might not want to get too into details. keep it vague and keep yourself safe! #or talk to a single person you trust and not a server full of strangers

[flamccinno18]

I dreamt that I confessed to you and you rejected me but you were so nice about it xD idk why I dreamt that but eeehhh?

Hello! Hello!

What a rollercoaster of a dream you have there! I do not know who you are talking about, is it Walton, Walton "Wally" Darling? If so, here's a scenario of Walton rejecting another person (Yes, I don't have a name for another person. He likes Y/N) He's probably going look at the person, patting their shoulder. "It's lovely that you feel such things, but I may have to decline as of now. I'd still be delighted to be your friend though."

#I am honestly not sure of who you are pertaining to but that's nice! I'm sorry if me or like walton rejected you in the dream. #Please hydrate yourself well! There's people who would date you! #Keep safe dearie!

[spearxwind]

Something ive been thinking about recently re: music is like. I've been realizing how damaging some of the lyrics and mentality to them are. Especially for bring me the horizon actually. Ive been listening to them a bunch for a long time, but recently with the new songs even though they slap ive been noticing a lot of recurring bad feelings

I know it can be really cathartic to people to listen to music like that (I've personally coped very much with avalanche for example) and im the first one that listens to dayseeker which is certified agony music but something about it has actually started to ring alarm sounds in my brain, especially with all the latest bmth releases.

Im not smart enough to word this in a nuanced way but there is a line between the artist coping with their art form, people relating to the struggles, and then being trapped by the belief of "if i can relate to this then surely it must be true"

Though i think I might be becoming wary because a lot of what im hearing in the songs coincides with toxic mentalities of people ive dealt with before (ie. Agony induced 'its all my fault, everyone leaves, idk what's wrong with me' type stuff. Theyre common depression feelings but also have been used as weapons to keep themselves in the depression cycle. There's a more nuanced conversation to have about that that im not including here so take it as a general oversimplification). Very easy to relate to if you are in a depression cycle but very damaging if you sink too much into thinking like that, because it can actually perpetuate your bad feelings ad nauseum

#maybe i am biased for personal reasons though #but from the perspective of someone who is in their 'i am no longer mentally ill' arc #some of the mentality in ​the songs is actually very alarming. usually not a problem #but i know people sometimes make bands their whole personality #so please keep yourself safe and dont spiral and be aware that sometimes a song has a dogshit mentality to it #unrebloggable bc i dont want this to escape containment #thunderclap #musicposting